₦airaland Forum

Frankiss44:
This is deeper than bringing politicians to beg or paying them off ... But the family is doing things the right way now.

You haven't heard the last of this case.

Ese's soul won't rest in peace until she gets her vengeance.

baby124:
It's obvious that something is fishy. It's possible his parents have gone to beg to treat it as a family issue or they have brought in some politicians to convince them to deal with it silently. I don't doubt the sources one bit. It's not coming from just one person but various sources who have their faces out there. It will be a very big pity and injustice for her parents to accept anything but the full wrath of the law on this guy if this story is true. Because at the end of the day, he will pay them off and go about claiming he is innocent. Another hungry girl will fall victim. Even if he did not use his hands to kill her, fact is he's known as a woman beater. So even if he is innocent, he can never absolve himself from the violence people have witnessed. Which whether he likes it or not may have contributed to her early death. This is why you don't go around beating people because some people, because of medical conditions are one blow away from death.

crackhouse:
..............and the dude in question will come out tomorrow to ask God why things are not moving well for him.

igbsam:
It's easier for men to move on than for you ladies. She herself is shameless as a woman to have junped into another man's bed just few months of her breakup.....isn't she remorseful ? Abeg no support bad thing biko. This small boy wey no get anything to offer other than his prick....he will soon dump her. Maybe she think she wants to get back at her husband, but we men no really send

anonimi:
Buhari sounds even MORE clueless with his N5,000 dash dash to 25 million unemployed Nigerians that equates to N1.5 trillion over 12 months . That is 1/3rd of our 2014 budget oh! Chai!!!
Does he want to make all Nigerians into almajiris and area boys ni, abi wetin

Unlike the Jonathan/Sambo federal administration that is implementing policies, reviving & expanding infrastructures to create a better environment for private investors who can create JOBS, JOBS and even more JOBS such that we can all earn our living in DIGNITY.

Why would any right thinking Nigerian choose to be made a beggar in order to live






Kai Buhari!!!
#liberate-Lagos

EnlightenedSoul:
That's a nice story, Coco. I like the mystery here too.

Life can be strange.

trite:
You are very correct. But as a woman, I advice people never to condone even a slap. It starts from there. Once a man slaps you, don't try fighting or holding his clothes. Just calm down and plan your probable exit.

aisha2:
Blood work
Blood pressure
Blood sugar
Brea-st and cervical cancer.

Forget age, age doesn't matter now oh, before they said cervical cancer was 35 years and above but now even 18 year olds present with it.

Don't be scared be motivated to take action and get in control of your life so nothing will spring up and shock you. For cervical cancer you can take the vaccine if you are negative

MarieSucre:
I can't help but chuckle when some people advise girls to stay away from wealthy men as if being wealthy is synonymous with wife beating. I once had a neighbour who was as poor as dirt, had more than half a dozen children. I mean he was so poor that his children would stay away from school for months at stretch.His eldest child only got transport fare(incomplete one at that) from him to go for higher education and the younger children would go to play in any neighbours house; a guise to get lunch. Yet he was the best of wife beaters. He loved the hobby so much that he extended it to the period of one of his wife's pregnancy. lucky she didn't lose the baby. A good man will be a good husband no matter how many zeros are attached to his salary.

oc2fish:
I refused to believe that the guy suddenly changed from a loving husband to a beater; why in Malaysia we have girls but no wife, hr is bold and decent enough to bring wife so I doubt the story of the loving guy beating the wife. The guy might fall out of luck in making money and the girl either increase nagging or threatening to become a 'RUNS GIRL'

Folks living in a foreign land like Malaysia put a lot of pressure on boys to pay bills 45 -60k per month feeding for two 100k per month. With regular taxi fare of 2 to 7k pet trip.

Not forgetting 600k and above required to renew stay if person is not an M.Sc or PhD student. All this put a lot of pressure on guys which can make them to become unnecessarily aggressive.

Rip to the dead.

lurther:
What happened this morning here in lagos at plamgrove heading towards onipanu was a real signal of what is actually ahead of us.
APC and PDP thugs shooting themselves in the full glare of people living in these area.

I just sit here reminiscing what our youths have turned into. Shooting themselves for peanuts given to them by politicians.

Can they use the peanuts given to them to build a house?

I just wonder why this politics thing have turn to the most deadliest and dreadest proffession in Nigeria.

They give you guns, sit back and watch you kill yourselves. Damn, Its high time we begin to change our orientation.

Caracta:
Lol. Don't mind me jor. Just confused.

MissMeiya:
Anyone who is wondering about the tone this thread has taken, should please read this one:
https://www.nairaland.com/2096586/husband-monster/

You will be equally disgusted by the hypocrisy of our people.


Here's one quote:

shinejackie:
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l was also pondering on this line of thought, the spiritual angle might also be a factor here......Oh Lord unto you we commit Dj.....show him mercy...

Caracta:
Una sure say no be spiritual + medical matter be this?

mutter:
Okay this is really OT
But quite honestly allot of people ask me how I do it and I just give them the same answer I will give you now-

One day at a time.

and not nine but eleven.

Frankiss44:
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aisha2:
I have no issue with the number of kids she has but she should realise that so many of us are mere mortals amd can't be on the same pedestal with her and it isn't a crime not to be so super

mutter:
My funny gist! Some of you must think I have a very vivid imagination!
I haven`t finished raising those boys. The last one is still in nursery, so A luta continua!- The struggle continues!

aisha2:
Mutter abeg not EVERY WOMAN IS YOU. My husband comes home much earlier but he has a key, he lets himself in, sometimes am awake sometimes am not, and he hasn't and won't hit me for that.

If we are to believe her he beat her and collect led her phone to post that, both of them need counseling its not all on her.

Anyway you are far too gone to seat back and reason with mere mortal wives. As a super woman who breas-t feed 9 kids for 2 years each, make fresh soup every day and do so many other super womanly things its hard to understand some of us are not so super