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Health › Re: Fresh Cases Of Bird Flu In Kano, Lagos by cococandy(f): 8:50pm On Jan 15, 2015
Again? Na wa o
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 8:49pm On Jan 15, 2015
Herzumpther:
I'm getting better. I still feel very strong headache, chest/heart pain and I'm still running temperature. I've been unable to eat, I lost my appetite. I will be fine.
get well soon dear
Politics › Re: Agbaje’s Camp Tackles Fashola, Tinubu For Saying He's Too Old To Be Governor by cococandy(f): 7:55pm On Jan 15, 2015

Those who stole Nigerians blind under PDP; Atiku, Obasanjo, Baraje, Saraki, Wammako, Kwankwaso, Amaechi, Oyinlola, Segun Oni, Okorocha, Ngige, Adeleke, El Rufai, etc, are today the same people financing APC and calling for "CHANGE
The singular reason why I can never take APC seriously
Politics › Re: Agbaje’s Camp Tackles Fashola, Tinubu For Saying He's Too Old To Be Governor by cococandy(f): 7:49pm On Jan 15, 2015
Lol too old for governor but 73yr old not too old for the daunting task of presidency. Smh
Family › Re: He Wants A Divorce by cococandy(f): 7:26pm On Jan 15, 2015
She's not saying the truth then since he lawyer says he did it pro bono.
Which makes it all the more difficult for the man to get over it.
I wouldn't go back to the wife of I were him until she says the whole truth.
How will you be at peace with someone who you suspect set you up or worse was cheating with your enemy?
She needs to help him get to the root of the matter if she wants him to have peace of mind and for them to find a way forward if possible.
aisha2:
She said the guy asked to help with legal bills.



He has been out for a while, case dragged on for almost a year before the real culprits were uncovered. He is mentally fine, he was trying to help her move data to a new phone when he discovered the transfers from the guy to his wife, I think it was saved as back up or something
Family › Re: Should A Woman Help Her Fiancé To Pay Her Bride Price? by cococandy(f): 7:20pm On Jan 15, 2015
keenn:
Am a regular visitor of this forum and I do appreciate interesting comments. Quite a number of times have a appreciated comments only to discover it is from u (cococandy)
smiley
Family › Re: Men Plis Stop This Its Embarassing by cococandy(f): 7:20pm On Jan 15, 2015
pamcode:
stop being biased women do this more often than men, the female part is more digusting especially when they stand to do it gross *pukes*
shocked well i don't see women urinating by the roadside. If you do next time, call the person to order.
Agriculture › Re: Modern Cucumber Farming. My 1 Million Naira Experience *with Pictures* by cococandy(f): 3:48pm On Jan 15, 2015
Denn:
a licensed shot gun and 100 rounds will do the trick... decomposing bodies of monkeys is better than chicken manure IMHO
grin
Agriculture › Re: Modern Cucumber Farming. My 1 Million Naira Experience *with Pictures* by cococandy(f): 3:47pm On Jan 15, 2015
idumuose:
See how superstition is killing africans.He ended up closing his farms because of medieval and stewpiid beliefs.See how Monkeys ended his illustrious carrier.Anyway, I am following this thread with keen interest bro.
the thing ehn? Very very limiting to our progress I tell you.
Agriculture › Re: Modern Cucumber Farming. My 1 Million Naira Experience *with Pictures* by cococandy(f): 3:44pm On Jan 15, 2015
jasper7:
My oga I greet you. Good to have you here. Am not sure I'll have time for physical consultation. If I leave my farm for 2days, those workers will turn it to wildlife cheesy
grin grin grin

Funny guy.
Awesome thread anyway. You will go places
Family › Re: Men Plis Stop This Its Embarassing by cococandy(f): 2:56pm On Jan 15, 2015
bennyrazz:
I've stopped taking alcohol grin it landed me in the hospital once
thank God for your life
Family › Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by cococandy(f): 2:56pm On Jan 15, 2015
I agree
5minsmadness:
Yes.
I will go a step further to say I wouldn't just do it but have done it before.




The issue is in the word philandering. This tense indicates a continuing habit. If the wife philandered only once it is not enough to doom the relationship, nobody is perfect. But if it continues without any sign of stopping then there is a problem. It is a problem when it is a continuing habit.
Family › Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by cococandy(f): 1:53pm On Jan 15, 2015
5minsmadness:
Non we are not. The discussion spreads across all relationships.
would you in all honesty advice a man to forgive a philandering wife?

No long answer pls.just a yes or no sentence
Family › Re: Meet The Nigerian Woman Who Married At 43, Gave Birth At 60 ( Photo ) by cococandy(f): 1:50pm On Jan 15, 2015
Mmmmm. Oh well
Just one among myriads of my unanswered questions

All the same, thanks for giving your unreserved opinion
TV01:
...my pleasure m'lady.


Then I'd probably be physically teleporting between galaxies in a body even a gym-rat like me can only fantasise about. And probalby not driving some que-que German car angry!

A good one - as all hard ones are grin!

I can't say i've thought about it too much.Without researching further, I'm happy to say this much under advice; I believe the scripture suggests, that although Adam was created immortal, he was not yet "like God" or "God-like". I believe this was his ultimate destiny before sin. How that would have played out on reproduction, I can't say.


In terms of Adam doing what he did and us now being what we are - mere humans awaiting the full adoption and transformation of our bodies - the earth works, does it not? (did the mandate to go forth and multiply come before or after sin - or because of it?).
Family › Re: Men Plis Stop This Its Embarassing by cococandy(f): 1:50pm On Jan 15, 2015
mutter:
You got me there. But then I really teach my sons that women are equal to men.
Women are mothers of the nation and deserve the utmost respect.
great
Family › Re: Men Plis Stop This Its Embarassing by cococandy(f): 1:12pm On Jan 15, 2015
mutter:
Abeg call me the third time Cococandy cheesy

This really happened!!! For once I had to shut my mought and accept defeat.
ok I believe you. I believe you lipsrsealed

Even the part where you preach equality to your son and preach something else to us lipsrsealed
Christianity Etc › Re: 8 Men Of God, Different 2015 Revelations – What Do We Believe? by cococandy(f): 1:11pm On Jan 15, 2015
It has become trendy to see visions at the beginning of each new year. If you don't see anything at the beginning of the new year, the. You're not a true man of God.
You just gotta see something by fire by force cheesy
Family › Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by cococandy(f): 1:06pm On Jan 15, 2015
FrancisTony:
You are hilarious at emboldened.
I'm not sure you know the meaning of "faithful husband". grin grin
did you notice how wife was conveniently exchanged with girlfriend? grin
I thought we were talking about married people?
Family › Re: Men Plis Stop This Its Embarassing by cococandy(f): 1:03pm On Jan 15, 2015
@topic this is a dirty habit that had taken root and will continue to flourish unless a severe punishment is meted out for it.

If you like build one hundred toilets on each street,half of nigerian guys will still pee by the roadside. It is only punishment that can stop it.
Not that building toilets won't help. It will help but that alongside enforcing discipline is what will work completely.

If a man goes to jail for public indecent exposure,he will think twice about whipping out his p3nis on every street where even minors could be walking by.
Nonsense.
Family › Re: Men Plis Stop This Its Embarassing by cococandy(f): 12:59pm On Jan 15, 2015
bennyrazz:
during long hours journey, nothing as sweet as parking by the express to urinate especially when you"ve been drinking grin very relieving and sweet. You just feel at ease with yourself cheesy i can't blame any man that decides to urinate in public sha but it is wrong for a woman cuz she has to bend down and pull off everything.
don't drink and drive Benny
Family › Re: Men Plis Stop This Its Embarassing by cococandy(f): 12:59pm On Jan 15, 2015
mutter:
OT years back I was driving my son to his first communion classes and giving him a lecture on women being equal to men and that anything a man can do a woman can do. This was because he was in this;I am a boy stage.
Suddenly he said,"Mom, stop the car" He jumped out went to the side of the road and started peeing. He turned round while ppeingand said "Mom get down and pee, if you can do everything a man can do!"
I was like huh huh huh
wow. So you've added telling porkies to your many talents?
Mutter cheesy
Mutter

How many times did I call you?
Family › Re: Should A Woman Help Her Fiancé To Pay Her Bride Price? by cococandy(f): 12:56pm On Jan 15, 2015
ttmacoy:
Personally I think bride price should be abolished. It is archaic and puts down women by suggesting the man is buying them.

In my opinion a young man and woman get married to move forward together as one, not to impress the girls family with outrageous demands especially where he has to borrow for it. They then start their married life with debt just to please uncles and aunties in the village.

in this situation, if they are unable to bring down the bride price cost, then I see no reason why she cannot help him as they both know what they are working towards. I see it more as pride and mentality when people say they cannot allow. How then do you explain in India where it is the woman who pays bride or should I say groom price to the man? Does that mean the man paying is right in Nigeria and wrong in India? No it's just culture and mentality holding people in bondage.
i concur
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 12:55pm On Jan 15, 2015
^^^^^ lol.

I don't know where people get all these funny stuff from

Saw this one picture last night and couldn't stop laughing

Family › Re: Meet The Nigerian Woman Who Married At 43, Gave Birth At 60 ( Photo ) by cococandy(f): 12:48pm On Jan 15, 2015
TV01:
No, not in the sense you appear to be thinking.

Adam was created for immortality. The entrance of sin and hence corruption gave rise to death. Life expectancy was in the high hundreds at that point - reducing over time - but by antidiluvian (post flood) times, life expectancy was pretty much what we'd consider within normal range now, if a little higher

Imagine humans with perfect genomes/DNA, in a perfectly balanced world. Huge, mad healthy...Do you not claim "Christian"? Have you not studied the scriptures??


TV
totally off topic. Unrelated and you can choose not answer.


I've always wondered. Since sin is the cause of mortality, what if man hadn't sinned? What if he upheld the simple rule God gave in the garden of Eden And lived with the immortality we are made to believe was his right from creation.

Where in all that did God take population expansion into consideration seeing as he gave us the mandate to go into the world and multiply.
Was the earth supposed to expand to meet the teeming population?

Or is it possible that the death which is our punishment for sin not the physical kind of death?

I think death is absolutely necessary and if human beings didn't die to make space for new ones,the human race would have imploded on itself,so I find it confusing that the bible says it is punishment for sin. A punishment he pronounced on Adam and eve when they sinned.

So if they didn't sin we would have just continued to grow in population over the millions of years with no death?
So I'm wondering again if the earth was supposed to grow with us.



#just thinking out aloud

What do you think?
Romance › Re: Pls, How Can A Rich, Young And Handsome Guy Find True Love? by cococandy(f): 11:53am On Jan 15, 2015
Gbam
DesperateGuy:
That's because he's looking in the wrong places. Has he ever thought of dating a lawyer (as an example)or at least a woman with reputable value? Am guessing d ansa is 'NO', cos he goes to clubs, chat wit d gals nd tk them home, and after having fun he's saying he wants to marry...if he sincerely wants to settle down, then he should see that God has lifted him and there's a woman he has kept for him. My advice is he should look in right places..go to distinguished places if you're looking for a distinguished lady who will love you responsibly for who you are instead of goin to night clubs.


FYI: hookers will like to get married someday; so they go to club too hoping say maga go pay.
Romance › Re: Pls, How Can A Rich, Young And Handsome Guy Find True Love? by cococandy(f): 11:51am On Jan 15, 2015
If he keeps sleeping around just because he can, he will keep attracting his likes.
He needs to discipline himself.
There are a million and one good girls out there but he will keep going after the fake ones because they suit his taste.
You're what you attract
Family › Re: Should A Woman Help Her Fiancé To Pay Her Bride Price? by cococandy(f): 10:17am On Jan 15, 2015
jorlons:
Babe na God go bless.....infact thinking wuh kill me even though I never come see ur parents buh now my mind don hold ground...
huh
Family › Re: Will A Cheat Always Be A Cheat? by cococandy(f): 10:16am On Jan 15, 2015
If you're sure of the person's sincere repentance, (assuming you've known him/her well enough to know when he/she's being sincere)
then a second chance is not out of place.

Facts to consider include how many times she/he did it, with how many people and frequency. Each relationship and its own unique situation. So the person in the relationship will be the one to use their discretion and decide whether it has gone beyond what they can overlook and forgive.

But continuous and unrepentant sleeping around especially when the offender tries to justify herself/himself
'He doesn't provide'
'I'm polygamous in nature'
'I lack attention'
Bla bla bla
Is not only not deserving of forgiveness but also deserves some punishment.
Family › Re: Kano Hisbah Stops Father From Giving Out 13yr-old Daughter In Marriage by cococandy(f): 10:07am On Jan 15, 2015
Great. It Is possible that all this our nairaland ranting gets to them. cheesy

Kudos to speaking up
Family › Re: Revive The Habit Of Self-sufficiency- For Every Nigerian Woman/girl by cococandy(f): 10:00am On Jan 15, 2015
Seen
standd:
Cococandy...this is the crux of my message. I know that women are hardworking and I also see SOME women around who do NOT have anything doing asides painting up and loitering around bars all day. I did not create the thread to rubbish anyone but truth be told, I feel bad when I see people who get used, abused and maltreated because they have made themselves leeches and they do not know that they can actually work to fend for themselves. My message is if you are a WOMAN and you are JOBLESS and can hardly take care of yourself without relying on others...Then you should get work to do.
I am NOT saying that ALL women are leeches. Maybe I did not pass the message across well but I sincerely hope that some will actually get something doing to better themselves.
Family › Re: Join Us In Thanking God For A Successful Wedding by cococandy(f): 4:10am On Jan 15, 2015
God bless your marriage
Family › Re: Revive The Habit Of Self-sufficiency- For Every Nigerian Woman/girl by cococandy(f): 4:03am On Jan 15, 2015
red101:
abi o.
Even in Nigeria, women are going places. If anything, women are more independent and self-sufficient today than in the past.
that's for sure. I know more hard working women than men. At least those I've ever seen

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