₦airaland Forum

yeyenatu: He won't have reasons to. I don't judge. the instance I notice it, I would sit him down and not delude myself with 'he loves me too much'. Something someone is doing out there caught his attention, I will find out what it is and take it from there. If it can't be nipped, then we'd take the next step.

Even me don't like to share so I'm just gon' make him see reasons why I can't. If we can find a compromise, jolly good! If not, she can be a 'Mrs' outside my home. Simple!

Truckpusher: What's the matter with people and money these days? A brother can get love without money again?
Mondisweets sang all night and didn't ask for a dime how come you're monetizing it now.
Sing me a lullaby joor or you go one corner go krule.
Where do you expect a truckpusher to get money from?....smh

Truckpusher: And That's too much for you to handle?

6 yr old girl in my neighborhood told his dad about her boy friend in school and the boy is just 7 .My colleague couldn't believe his ears.He said it took him 10mins to reply her
You know these days kids are smarter than we use to think.

Truckpusher: what's wrong with a veejay styled cake?

Mondisweets:

omenka: Honestly. This is awesome!! I bet broke niggaz are the ones complaining about this. I intend to do even more for my fiancee. She's the best thing that's ever happened to me and no amount of spoiling is too much for her.

#endorsed 201%

Ceasar1: Innovative you say?

coogar: i wouldn't be more pleased if you can carry out this thought....

ayinba1: A lot of married men are; unless they are getting extra from outside the home. The average male has a higher drive than his wife. She does all the housework, deals with the kids and is exhausted.. He is Hot, she is not. Teeth gnashing begins. He can manage and become a very sad married man or do what most men do

jnrbayano: Sense filled write-up Coco

How can one be this self-centred? I still can't find the right words to qualify his actions after the unfortunate incident.

mcro1: Ordinarily being thousands of miles away from Nigeria (and in a land where commonsense is taken for granted) would have given me a consolation for escaping the abnormalities that have been a matter-of-course in my fatherland. Alsa, i still find myself peeping in on the country once in a while to see if any good news may come from that country. Nigeria has lost it from time immemorial. The possibility of the present generation finding 'it' deems by the day. Just imagine how some of the posters above stand logic on its head. How unfortunate. In the recording that i listened to, people were even laughing as if it was a kind of a merry gathering, as if it was not a matter that caused the untimely, unnecessary and avoidable death of over 80 people!! Habba!! 80 people and not 80 chicken!! But then, the most heinous crime will still find justification with some zombie-like remote-operated 'mumus' that unfortunately constitute the larger percentage of the Nigeria internet users.
I congratulate you Mr Nicholas Ibekwe. Truth be told, i don't have the bravery to do what you just did while I am still in that country. As you might have well known, you are on a collision course with the powers and principalities. My prayers will be on you and your family. May God spare your life and guide your family through this trying period. Maybe because of people like you, the gods may one day reverse their curses on that 'goddamned' country. As for Jonathan and Fashola, they are part of the establishment; nothing good can ever come out of them.
As for the 'gods of men', you may continue to fool your hypnotized zombie followers. But let it be known to you, that the Ibekwes of this world will never be fooled by your fakery. And one by one, your day of reckoning will be a fait accompli.

LaraiBoluwaji: Don't be naïve, missy. What's done is done.

What would you have him do, by the way? I am not against the journalist doing his job, neither am I against TB Joshua trying to cover it up. He is trying to do some damage control and I don't see what all the noise is for.

Its a dog-eat-dog world out there, and the sooner you realise it, the better it will be for you.

tpia: Inheritance wars in africa are usually deadly, wise people are careful when confronted with such.


Imo, polygamy is simply a very effective means of population and lineage control, its quite common for polygamous families to knock each other off by various ways and means over the years without too many eyebrows being raised.

LaraiBoluwaji: While I am not a member of synagogue, I will ask myself this question: if I were in tb joshua's shoes, what I would I do?

Answer: The exact same thing Joshua is doing.

Its as simple as that. That's why it is called DAMAGE CONTROL. The prophet is exploring any means possible to limit the damaging press.

I commend Nicholas for his stand, but I will not blame the prophet for subtly trying to influence the news reportage. I am in trouble, people have died in my church, in a building being built by me, so what will I do?
Answer: Try to calm the storm in anyway possible, and if that means handing out envelopes to newsmen so that they can paint me in better light in the papers then so be it. That's what is called PR strategy and it is what any rational being will do.

Those hypocrites who are here on this thread mouthing rubbish and displaying nauseating imbecility will probably do the same and more if they find themselves in tb joshua's predicament. Arrant nonsense.

I salute the journalist's courage, and I wish TB Joshua well.

Enoquin: It is when you are faced with going against a norm, that you truly understand that courage is more than a dictionary definition.

The corruption in this country stinks more than a 3 day million dead rats.

onirugbon1: Hehehehe Tridevil indeed. Obviously someone is messing with the audience. Fake news perhaps.

TV01: Really? The one who had any semblance of authority in the home or equity in the relationship grasped from her - cruelly and against her will -should now form "Lady at the Top"? And the new wife - who everything suggests will at least for now be more favoured - will just accede to that?


You can only be "the wife", if you are the only wife. Neither they or anyone following - which is still a possibility se? - have any stand. The battle is for favour, not authority.

Talking up situations and chest thumping does not change reality. Don't glorify what is wrong, aspire to what right.


TV

crackhaus: No, you thank your stars.
He's the one that gets forced out of the house and only gets court appointed or supervised visits to his children...



it is the lord's doing and it is marvelous in our sight.

Why exactly should he be thanking his stars as opposed to the Nigerian setting?
Oh you'll poison his meal or mess with his car brakes?

I didn't say that. That's the evil spirit in you speaking not my words
Let me shift before you possess me

Yeah right, and I thought pretty chics like yourself don't fight or loose sleep over a cheating spouse

it's not about beauty dear.when someone you love throws you under the bus like that,it's gotta hurt. BAD. So I will lose sleep and cry too.plenty plenty tears


You'll just jejely move on jor...are there no more men out there who are better looking and more refined to punish him with..

you're right. I'll move on.hard as it may be,it definitely beats trying to please someone who never cared about how you feel about his actions in the first place.or faking happiness with smiles at the other woman that doesn't get to your heart.
Sounds like prison to me.
#myopinion

adebisicutie: This is fact my dear, my sister recently threw her no good husband out of the house. She called the police, showed them her deed and that the house was in her name, packed the few things he bought inside the house like TV for him. When he came home the police asked him to go in for 10mins and pack his clothes and send a truck back for his gadgets and that was it. They walked him out of the house and he was never allowed to go back in. In Nigeria so yes it's no longer those days you'll throw a woman out at night except she dosen't contribute anything sha

bukatyne: Lol!

You are not serious

Tridevil

SHOCK7: Ok,howz 'ur day going?

crackhaus: Such boldness...not in Nigeria though.

Thank your stars for western marriage laws.

bellong: If I were a woman, I wouldn't mind putting him behind bars if he can't obey the law he swore to keep...

Any man that thinks he can't stay with one wife should stay clear of the registry. Traditional marriage will cover his excesses.

Which law is incompatible with human nature? Monogamy? Then polyandry should be legalized. There shouldn't be a law for the male and another for female.


The law was designed for relative sanity in the society.



Sure she does, it is her dillydallying I didn't understand...

Truckpusher: I wanna marry two women, same day, same time and sleep with both them same time whenever I want

I actiually met two girls that wants to get marrried to one guy but the problem is they are lesbians

cococandy could you please make yourself available?





Cococandy you're bad,I just spilled my wine allover my body just because I was trying to type trash here about you

Is this Karma?

ayinba1: Neither. Make and enforce sensible laws that are compatible with Human (or Man) nature.

Would you want the father of your kids to spend 21 years behind bars? For marrying another woman?

SHOCK7: I thought u're hiding from attention or 're u?

ayinba1: I am sure you have such laws in Nigeria. The moment the law begins to get properly enforced, the following will happen
1. Less men will desire to get married in courts
2. More married women will disappear or go missing
3. More kids will grow up with a single mother because daddy is in jail

Overall, it only massages the ego of the woman and most Nigerian women would still not go this route.