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Family › Re: Beat A Woman And Be Praised For It!! by cococandy(f): 11:44am On Sep 25, 2014
I'm not sure she knew.

What pic? My DP?
Ok. Later smiley
donpeey22: I am sure she knew about his gender change before the competition. BTW, lorrie , put back that you pic, u hia?
Family › Re: Beat A Woman And Be Praised For It!! by cococandy(f): 11:32am On Sep 25, 2014
Sadist angry
5minsmadness: Yes, and by another Woman nonetheless grin
Family › Re: Women Bread Winners In Delta State by cococandy(f): 11:24am On Sep 25, 2014
I see them carrying blocks. Chai embarassed
Family › Re: Beat A Woman And Be Praised For It!! by cococandy(f): 11:22am On Sep 25, 2014
Fun for you because a woman was beat up huh? angry

5minsmadness: The whole thing was fun to read but very very confusing sad angry wink cheesy grin grin embarassed smiley angry
Family › Re: Beat A Woman And Be Praised For It!! by cococandy(f): 11:19am On Sep 25, 2014
Following this line of thought,the man who married another man shouldn't be taken to court? If you had a wife for 10yrs and couldn't have a child all that while only to discover that it is because your wife is in DEED a co-husband, would you accept a ruling that states as long as the man had a sex change,it is accepctable for all intents and purposes?

You call them technicalities but they fact is that they should be taken into consideration.
They have the right to do what they want with their bodies but they do not have the right to mess with other people's lives.

I don't want to get in the way of anyone's plastic surgery but they shouldn't get in the way of my not wanting to fight with a man.

Those bodies may not want to deal with the backlash of angst from the million and one movements for gay,lesbian and transgender rights hence their okaying the fight.

crackhaus: Technicalities my dear, technicalities.

You already said whatever a person chooses to do with his/her body is her business, glad you think this way because that's what America believes as well.
The direct result of this however, is that for any person who undergoes a sex change/gender reassignment surgery, he/she becomes associated with the new gender for all intents and purposes ...and as such, also recognized legally under the law.
Whether she was born physically stronger or not is nothing but a mere technicality.

The body in charge of ethics responsible for the fight already knew about the sex change, they approved the fight.
But saying this Fox should be prosecuted for causing harm is unfounded, else we can as well say Mike Tyson should be prosecuted for biting off a piece of Holyfield's ear... grin
Family › Re: Feminism Redefined By Emma Watson by cococandy(f): 11:10am On Sep 25, 2014
Good point.

Just so you know anyway,I was having a debate with some folks about this ish sometime ago. Guess what?
I was called a clueless feminist.
A fake feminist. Because I didn't see man-hating to be part of what it stands for.
I guess for one to be a true feminist,one has to be willing to shoot any man at sight(according to NL definition)

Most women who don't support feminism isn't because they don't want equal rights for women,but because they are afraid of being called man-haters.

But folks like us who aren't afraid will stand by the first and true definition of it..

A feminist who says men shouldn't be oppressed in the cause of seeking equal rights for women will be mocked by feminist haters because it is not what they want to hear. They want every proclaimed feminist to be a man-hater so that their attacks on feminism can be justified.
craziebone: i agree. But since they are the only ones we hear and since the likes of you who call yourselves moderate/true feminists do not denounce them but make your existence known only when your movement is under attack from those who actually have a good arguement; and since the society is becoming more anti-men courtesy feminist bully, dont you think the movement would get the evil reputation it deserves?
Family › Re: Feminism Redefined By Emma Watson by cococandy(f): 11:02am On Sep 25, 2014
All the answers you seek is in the original post. wink
No debating with anyone today.


Even you @ craziebone
Emmalot121: Are you fighting for equal rights or equality.If its the later, it is tantamount to man hating.
"I will ascend above the heights of the clouds; I will be like the most High." sad
Family › Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by cococandy(f): 10:55am On Sep 25, 2014
No I don't think you read every post. You only get an sms alert when someone types something against your religion.

I didn't see the advice. I don't need to because I don't engage in religious bashing.

Bye wink
maclatunji: Hello madam, you give me too much credit. Do you really think I read each and every post on this thread? My advice to you is the same as the one I gave to the Muslim. I am sure you have read it.

Thank you.
Family › Re: Beat A Woman And Be Praised For It!! by cococandy(f): 10:51am On Sep 25, 2014
pickabeau1: Are u aware that gender is being perceived as different from sex in the West
One can be female inside but was born in a man;s body..
Yes. Gender a thing of the mind. Sex a thing of the body.
Be that as it may,
For someone who was born in 'the wrong body' for want of a better word,if they chose to have a sex change,wouldn't it be fair to at least inform those who'll be dealing with them in specific areas such as marriage or sports that they used to belong to a different sex?

Take that man that married a fellow man for example. For 21yrs he lived with another man while thinking he was female.

In his words 'I feel I've been molested all my life'
Of course the court moved to dissolve the marriage.

While no one should stand in their way when they want to change their sex,they shouldn't decieve others

This is pure deception.
Family › Re: Beat A Woman And Be Praised For It!! by cococandy(f): 10:45am On Sep 25, 2014
Willingly because the woman may not have known her competitor used to be a man.
If she knew,would she have continued?
I doubt that.
That's why her willingness is not a guarantee here.
donpeey22: Lol. But 'he/she' did not just harm her. It was a competition which they both willingly got into.
Family › Re: Beat A Woman And Be Praised For It!! by cococandy(f): 10:43am On Sep 25, 2014
The fault lies with the board.
What law?
There's no law against trying to pass off as a woman I guess.
But deliberately ignoring the fact that you were born physically stronger while engaging in a combat with someone who's physically weaker than one should be against the law.

I bet they'll review trans sports guidelines and ethics after this incident.
crackhaus: What law are you referring to exactly?

That sport is recognized by 'law', the 'woman' you deliberately referred to as 'man' has already been granted permission to fight as a 'woman' by the same law.

So what harm was done that isn't usual for a sport like that between two people certified as equal competitors by whatever board is in charge?
Family › Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by cococandy(f): 9:00am On Sep 25, 2014
You won't see maclatunji when the religious bashing comes from his ilk.
undecided undecided
Someone say something albeit benign about his religion now and he'll come rushing with his sword of fire and bucket of brimstone.
Family › Re: Feminism Redefined By Emma Watson by cococandy(f): 8:48am On Sep 25, 2014
Well I've tried to point it out before that feminism isn't equal to man hating but was shouted down by insecure dudes and cowardly ladies.

She's not saying anything new that anyone with sense didn't know before. Way to go girl!
Family › Re: Beat A Woman And Be Praised For It!! by cococandy(f): 8:42am On Sep 25, 2014
In an interview with "Inside MMA," Fallon said that "I don’t believe that a transgender fighter should have to disclose her personal medical history to other female fighters before they fight. It’s simply for the reason the medical community and the scientific community have come to the consensus that post-operative transsexual fighters who have been on hormone-replacement therapy and testosterone suppression, when they’re going from male to female, haven’t been found to have any physiological advantages over other women.”
Does the hormone replacement therapy affect the natural bone density of men?

I just see folks who are so eager to pass of the whole trangender thing as extremely successful.
But truth is that it isn't.
Down to his very core,a man will always be a man.
Family › Re: Beat A Woman And Be Praised For It!! by cococandy(f): 8:38am On Sep 25, 2014
Donpeey anybody can do what they want with their bodies. Shikena
But harming others is against the law and that what this man here has done.
Family › Re: Mother Bakes Vaginas Cupcakes For Child And Bugs Out When Teacher Says 'No' by cococandy(f): 11:08pm On Sep 24, 2014
Law and order: special victims
Truckpusher: What are you watching? wink
I'm watching 'Stalingrad' cool
Family › Re: Mother Bakes Vaginas Cupcakes For Child And Bugs Out When Teacher Says 'No' by cococandy(f): 11:05pm On Sep 24, 2014
grin
April07: Loool.. You knowwit.. grin
Family › Re: Mother Bakes Vaginas Cupcakes For Child And Bugs Out When Teacher Says 'No' by cococandy(f): 11:03pm On Sep 24, 2014
With your Mr Ibu voice?
Na I'll pass.

Don't wanna sleep. I'm watching a very interesting movie
Truckpusher: Look who we got here ......

Cococandy couldn't sleep .
Poor child, come lemme sing you that lullaby. grin
Family › Re: Mother Bakes Vaginas Cupcakes For Child And Bugs Out When Teacher Says 'No' by cococandy(f): 10:59pm On Sep 24, 2014
Those two gay guys. Right? grin
April07: You two should get a room already... Urgh! undecided
Family › Re: Co-tenant Beats A Neighbor For Playing Loud Music by cococandy(f): 10:54pm On Sep 24, 2014
Hahaha.
He's the DJ on the beatz who got the BEATZ!
Family › Re: Mother Bakes Vaginas Cupcakes For Child And Bugs Out When Teacher Says 'No' by cococandy(f): 10:13pm On Sep 24, 2014
Quarrel with who?
He's not one of my enemies. cheesy
I don't even know the dude.
Truckpusher: Silkmoth33 and cococandy make una dey there dey quarrel like husband and wife Wey no get work.
Me I wan Carry my mama and papa go church
Me I know understand this kain church for night grin

E be like say baba Jesus wan hammer dem with miracles. cheesy
April07 I sight you o,I guess April 7th is your birthday tongue
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 10:03pm On Sep 24, 2014
That's the short coming it will have.

So I thought it can be worn like a pad. Used and thrown away after a few times or once. depends on personal hygiene.
It would have to be inexpensive though for affordability.
So one can wear it on bad gas days and not be afraid to pollute the hall during an important business meeting or have to excuse oneself.

How's that? grin
I'm a genuis.
Lmao



damiso: grin grin your imagination na waya but how will it work naa will it need refills?
Family › Re: Mother Bakes Vaginas Cupcakes For Child And Bugs Out When Teacher Says 'No' by cococandy(f): 9:50pm On Sep 24, 2014
Idi small confused grin
Flatter?
Silkmoth33: sad don't flatter urself...
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 9:49pm On Sep 24, 2014
I won't lie I've though of something like this before.grin silly me

So it's possible it can be real
damiso: I am wondering if it is real and who thought of it grin found the pic on instagra.
Family › Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by cococandy(f): 9:48pm On Sep 24, 2014
Always smiley kiss
Truckpusher: ok.
I understand you perfectly.
Now, can we roll peace? cheesy
Family › Re: Mother Bakes Vaginas Cupcakes For Child And Bugs Out When Teacher Says 'No' by cococandy(f): 9:47pm On Sep 24, 2014
angry
Silkmoth33: grin PS I think coco likes u!
Family › Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by cococandy(f): 9:42pm On Sep 24, 2014
Believe what you will.

Yes ke. That play was over the border.
Truckpusher: *yimu*


Ehe! You ran away from the other thread,you ran because of what I said to you? smiley
Family › Re: * Wife Beating And Domestic Violence * by cococandy(f): 9:40pm On Sep 24, 2014
Happened to my BIL just last 2 weeks. Where he went to pay for a shoe. The guys just called police that my BIL and his friend were present on an earlier occasion when they went to place the order for the shoe that he came to pay for at the later date.
And that on that earlier date,someone's phone got missing in the shop.
Meanwhile the owner of the missing phone didn't even go to the police or file a complaint.
Didn't even tell his parents about it.
Can you imagine?

When his mom was contacted,she said the boy had gone back to school.
Evil police people. Greedy oafs. If not that they knew who my FIL was when his name was mentioned,they would have kept him in their cell.
But they released him after 2hrs while begging like almajiris for drink money.
We gave them 5k.
Hungry mugus
Chillisauce: They locked up my jobless neighbours brother once when he was going to look for a job. Police just arrived at the area, packaged every male around the vicinity on suspected robbery case. For two days they were looking for the poor guy .
He was later released after paying 15k. embarassed
Family › Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by cococandy(f): 9:35pm On Sep 24, 2014
There's happiness in marriage.
Trials and challenges doesn't mean that it is not a happy union.

If you believe so,then don't marry
Truckpusher: There has never been any happiness in marriage as you guys constantly fantasize.

It's all a mirage grin
You just keep chasing it until your time is up,but I guess that's what makes marriage interesting.........come my corner come see as my married hommies them Wey I know dey murmur like say dem force their hand to carry woman enter house. grin
Family › Re: * Wife Beating And Domestic Violence * by cococandy(f): 9:17pm On Sep 24, 2014
Seriously. Being a man in the wrong place at the wrong time in Nigeria can get you a prison sentence of 10yrs to life with no possibility of parole grin

Chillisauce: Im telling you. But seriously, the men suffer it the most. I can't even tell how many times a military man slaps a man jus because he tries to question him.
These are the things we should address. no! Feminism is our problem . Ladies even have an easy way out sef.
Family › Re: * Wife Beating And Domestic Violence * by cococandy(f): 9:16pm On Sep 24, 2014
smiley
crackhaus: Indeed @emboldened, I believe I can safely refer to that as a case of 'plausible deniability'. cool
Family › Re: Feminism Redefined By Emma Watson by cococandy(f): 9:14pm On Sep 24, 2014
The wig is a whole seperate person grin
edwife: Not now darling,

https://31.media.tumblr.com/bb6ba15751820c35884b4f398dd452b9/tumblr_mkr6xdUcwx1qlxyddo1_400.gif




Bye for now grin grin cool

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