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SHOCK7: why did u change 'ur pro pic?

GodsDivinefavor: Am trying hard not to allow these affect me at work. That accounts for my delay on the thread.

Let me also appreciate everyone for the concern, advise and encouragement.

And for the mature contribution from young and old to serve as learnings for all.

And also add that "purging" myself have really relieved me and lift up my spirit, I pray for his grace to continue on these lane.

I really don't want to hold any grudge against my husband, and want my kids to grow loving him as a father no matter what.

My eldest child is 6+, 2 girls and a boy all of whom I want them to enjoy growing up in the presence of their father....sincerely his such a wonderful man only God knows what kind of test is these.

I just hope I make it through.

Seriously, if someone or a sooth sayer told me I will be these calm...hmmm
I know myself, I know the thoughts that have gone through my mind withing these period...

I choose NL cause its a faceless forum, confiding in friends migth have aggravate the episodes or maybe I might be behind bars now.

But in all, I am indebted to my mum who unfortunately died in the midst of all these and she made me promise not act funny.

My elder ones too intervened but really it is like dreaming and hoping it won't come to pass, have come to realise no one is strong until life shows you the other side. Most especially when you least expect it.

waxdude: Chaiiiiii..worst thread to visit wen Ur hungry cos ufit kpai fr d kind of chow u wil see here....@cococandy...small stil remain

freecocoa: I can't help but think that, the only reason a man would take a second wife is, because he is tired of the first wife and wants to replace her, more like he's missing something and feels another woman can give him that.


I can never be a 2nd wife or agree to a 2nd wife.

beeevan: Hmmmm, you don't wanna say i see, Coco seems to know, my inlaw will surely tell me .

4tunebest: Okay. Sooo some months ago I shared my knowlege on a particular thread on discussion about the nutritional value of Roselle tea (zobo). He was one of several people who viewed the thread although he didn't make any comment. He sent a PM, he is also interested in foods with high nutritional value & was looking towards starting a business in that line. However, I do not reply PMs but he seemed to be interested in business & not friendship & so, he gott my attention. We maintained a strictly professional relationship for some time. Along the line we discovered we had several things in common, we were passionate about same things, had thesame views about life, etc. He asked me to write a business plan for him, so we arranged to meet in person.....

50calibre: She hasn't entered yet? Oh I get it, a boy has hahaha Nice!!!

greatwaters: Maybe you should throw more light on your stand

greatwaters: Nice write-up but you're getting some things mixed up

I agree with you partly on this.


Now you're beginning to sound really gnomic, hard to understand. You want the Nigerians to lose their superstitions which are very much part of their culture, yet you want them to retain their languages. Thats impossible. Its like telling the Arabs to stop wearing their veil and gowns but to keep their language, Lol. My point is, Nigeria has been influenced by the west greatly during development and there's no way their languages would not be affected.



Here, i agree with you. Our leaders have always been our bane. I dont quite believe that we cant catch up though.

While it is true that translating books into their languages aided these countries' rennaissance, it is notable to note how difficult achieving the same feat on the African scene. First of all, the Arabs, Asians and Europeans have one major language in their countries which almost everyone understands, so translation is easy. Imagine doing that in Nigeria for example, which language would you translate into? Even if manage to translate into the three major languages, there's still a sizable population that do not understand any of those three languages. So you see how hard it is.

Good idea, but that would take quadruple the effort it took the Arabs, Asians et al. This is because everyone has to first become literate in the said languages, which to me is far fetched considering that it is discouraged in most basic schools.


If we want to achieve anything, lets encourage our own, though teaching science in our languages seems far from possible. We should not bundle off our promising scholars 2 America or the U.K, where their brains will be tapped 4 d benefit of those countries.

Stillfire: To think Northerners have been at the helm of affairs in Nigeria since I was born.
You are taking up arms to kill the Nigerian people that are suffering like you? You are not serious.
You say you took up arms to fight for better lives? So bombing innocent people at motor parks who have chosen to make lemonade out of the diseased lemons Nigeria throws at them is what you call fighting to better your life?
You say Zamfara...now that sounds familiar. Is that not the state that introduced Sharia into secular Nigeria? So you guys were suffering and Senator Yerima who was then governor was more interested in preserving a borrowed religion than your well being? You people are still not serious.
Your way of life is tied around a few being stupendously wealthy and the majority of the populace being subjected to stupendous poverty. In fact you are very very comfortable with this dynamic. This was the method your people used to rule and finish off Nigeria. And it ended up killing off the middle class. The middle class in the South ran away to other countries, that some have not been back in decades. However, Northern students that school abroad, never ever stay back, they go back to Nigeria because a lucrative job is waiting for them by a principality and powerful relative in Nigeria who is holding the country to ransom.

Please ring me up when you are done licking the bum bum of your leaders. When are you going to pelt eggs on Senator Yerima, his predecessors and successors for allowing your state to be in such deplorable conditions? Why can't you hold your governors to ransom instead of the whole country? Naa, according to the intelligence of the average Northerner, the unholy South is to blame, rubbish!

I will judge every damn nigerian, rich or poor. All have contributed to the rot called Nigeria.

letsdothis: Chillisauce do you know your daughter?
efemenaxy do you know your daughter?
Godmystrength do you know your daughter?
idowuogbo do you know your daughter?
dyt do you know your daughter?
kanwulia do you know your daughter?
egopersonified do you know your daughter?
kreamidiva do you know your daughter?
cococandy do you know your daughter?
chaircover do you know your daughter?

thandii1: Na coco carry me come o. Congrats' Op, lovely dress, but why you dey stiff body for hubby na . . God bless your union.

orbis: OK the ladies here say majority of naija men have small peewies. ...now let's take it to the next level. How big is your husband or boyfriend's peewies? Do they also fall into the majority or they are amongst the few blessed with mind boggling womb pockers

edwife: That is how i end up whenever there is a debate between the three of you.

I just love reading your long debate and sometimes get annoyed with the three of you .It is like watching three siblings going after each other and yet still love each other

edwife: pickabeau and cococandy or crackhaus and cococandy o lord

let me look for a comfortable position to sit and watch


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egift: Nice. Aba is grossly untapped. I had hoped the State Government would have done far more by now:
- Provide electricity
- Build the roads
- Provide Water
- Increase security
- Expand Housing development
- Provide capital to new and existing businesses to help the boost production.
- Build multipurpose factories where certain regular operations requiring heavy machines can be done.
- Setup Recycling plant within the state, etc.

edwife: I really feel for you,and will never advise anyone to stay in a loveless marriage.It ruins one and makes one lose self esteem.

alutacontinua: I totally believe and support gender roles.
I don't believe, however, that the roles make one superior to the other.
I also don't believe in being too stuck to the idea.
E.g. if I were to be in the house with my brother (doing nothing) and we have to put on the generator, I'll totally cross my legs and expect him to do it. However, if he were to be busy washing the car, it'll be stvpid to expect him to leave the car just to put on the generator when I ain't doing anything at the time.


KAPUT?

beeevan: He can't have enough of my exfoliating bee juice, dude is so obsessed with me .

pickabeau1: no need to twist ur mouth
If i am wrong.. let me know using facts

beeevan: That food for your plate no go belleful me if am hungry, this weight watch thing is really hard. Cococandy you should be very gingered oooo, the thought of his ripped muscles alone is enough to make you hit the Gym .


Telling someone to stop eating well heavy for my mouth sef, working out alone will do Jare.

pickabeau1: Why dont u take time out n confirm.. since u are the correct one

SAMBARRY: she sabi cook amala eforiro and bush meat o