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chillisauce:
Nigeria is a jungle, y'all better learn the skills to survive, the earlier the better.

crackhaus: And I'm guessing your angle is that it can never be understandable, right?

crackhaus: I never prescribed 'hitting', I implied that a time may come when a person is pushed beyond his threshold...as for temporary separation, isn't that worse?
I'd rather go through the talk process than opt for 'temporary separation', walking away from a problem like this will hardly solve anything.

Chillisauce: What's going here?
Cococandy, who is annoying you on a public forum?

macof: In other words Abraham shouldn't be a role model in christianity

It's either that or Christianity is hypocritical

Nope, polygamy by definition makes women inferior. In agency, in need and in worth. It's a little sad that a woman would actually argue for it.

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Chillisauce: you and beeevan, leave the woman alone, she is married. Gadammit!

dont you have small small 200naira chikalas to pursue. ah ah.
This your stalking style, na so e dey take start, before you know na, you go send pm.

Truckpusher: I ain't going nowhere ,I'm firmly hooked on your tiits

tbaba1234: It applies to everyone.

Your statement is based on the assumption that all men get married to multiple wives because of a failure of the first.

ok. So most do because they found new love? Ok. The old love can stay or leave if she wants. Either way the man's gotta have what the man's gotta have


That is not true.

And when I say, make the best of an unpreferred situation, that leaves you with options.

the devil or the deep blue sea. That's all the choice it gives the woman. Not much to chose from.

Stay if you can accept it, leave if you can't. Either way, make yourself happy knowing that the situation is not preferred.

and all because the man couldn't care less about she wants. It's gotta be about him.

You see, polygamy was an absolute necessity in some societies in the past. In agrarian communities, big families provided labour needed for survival.

in the past. In the past. In the past. Key word. IN THE PAST!


In some societies, it offers practical solution to problems, for instance in black america 70% of children are born outside wedlock. This is mainly because the ratio of men to women is unfavourably skewed.

first of all,it isn't. But let me indulge you and agree that it. What do you make of polygamous men who marry younger single ladies?
If it was all for charity,why don't they marry up all the old hags in town?
All single older ladies should be lined up and picked off the streets by these very generous and benevolent men. Not so?
But newer wives are almost always younger than the first wife
We are not decieved.

Many black men are in jail.

Polygamy is much better than having baby-mamas all over the place whom you have no obligation to.

as above. In addition,there's no difference. A woman in polygamy isn't better than a baby mama. How so?
Baby mams get the same benefit they do. Occasional attention from the baby papa,then he's off to see his other women.
Tsk tsk. Too bad.
At least a baby mama has some peace. No wife to compete with or fear of diabolical manipulations to get favor from the man more.
The two are wrong.
But
If I'm to chose,I'll be a baby mama

Truckpusher: If I come back to that house and there is no well pounded yam or amala on the dinning table ,your own is finished .In fact if I lay my hands on you, TB Joshua himself Will say 'truly truly this is the son of man'

You wan chop garri this night sef? Na excess carbohydrate you dey find so.

To wack garri go sleep na error.
You be like who make man get pot belly lemme weep for your husband in advance

Truckpusher: Not really, I'm just trying to be sure here.

Singing.......* I know her ,I know her too well*

Truckpusher: I won't pen down my name on a public forum

If you gbadoo the name pm things as long as you're not a boy pretending to be a girl

Ehe! What's with it wrong if you toast me ? After all , y'all want some equal rights Abi?

Mization: (clears throat). Hi candy, Never knew u had a ring permanently placed on your finger. I was telling my friend @uzoexcel how intelligent u are. And abt d oil money, I'll mention u when its approved. Do have a great day.

omenka: Here.. #hands her an iron sponge.

Silkmoth33: that xdenga girl want kill me.

She just dey beg me to EFF am dis d koko morning. Nah hin I run leave am.


D girl no dey tire.

I see say u dey scope another probable sexcapade just now Nah hin I say make I wish more grease to those elbows. How far.

U go chop crayfish?

Truckpusher: Who told you my is Kunle?

Mization: . Her name is Cococandy bro. I've followed her here for a while. Trust me that girl has got brain just like u and very beautiful too .

Truckpusher: smh.
Why me ?I don't even have the balls to move weed around.
I hate being caged by the law ,honestly you do not understand how expensive freedom is until you loose it.
Have you been arrested before?

yeyenatu: Hehehehehe... hurt myself?! Looooonnnngggg thing!!!! I have my job and can independently care for my kids. I am not going to bring sadness into my life because a man finds his thing itching towards someone else. I didn't mean it in that contest. I meant that we are not perfect and always learning. Curiosity will make me want to know why. If it's just pure lust, why? What can be done?

if you're in love,it will hurt you honey. Badly.


No one just starts to develop lust in marriage. Come on!!!

it happens. Those men who cheat on their wives do so out of lust.(Or can you say they love all their girlfriends and buttycalls? It's lust. They only keep it away from their wives because their religion does not support it.so a man in a polygamous society doesn't have to hide his lust. He can just bring it home and rub it in the wife's face.

I'm not one to turn blind eye, i'm too keen not to notice a wandering dîck when I see one. So, I can remove him from the list of eligible bachelor's.

that could work

But my religion does allow it, and I know what I am into. Can only strive at being a good wife, not for him but because it makes life easier.

very well then





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omenka: Nah. I'm the lucky one. I remind myself daily, so I don't screw things up like I always do, that I don't deserve her. 23 with the mind of a 60. Human with the heart of an angel and the beauty of a marmaid (if they truly exist).

crackhaus: I usually step away to put some distance between myself and a woman whose mouth starts running.

The problem however with this method lies in the fact that one can only walk away so many times until they're in a situation where they can't.
What are we to do then?

Take the case of a kid:
You're watching a movie on TV, this kid keeps going to the TV set to tap his hand on the screen.
You have warned him severally never to do that...sometimes you raised your voice and frowned your face, it worked..the child stepped back.
Unfortunately, another day the child does the same thing...but this time around, as he taps the screen, he keeps looking back at you aware that you're only going to raise your voice and frown.
He already expects the usual reaction, and because of the frequency of it, he has gotten quite used to it...hence, raising your voice and frowning doesn't work anymore.
Now one day you have had enough, he repeats the same thing...but this time, instead of just frowning and raising your voice, you get up, walk towards him and place a light slap (sufficient enough to cause pain but not enough to cause injury) on his cheek...you tell him that you have warned him severally to desist and that the slap is meant to teach him obedience.
The boy is stunned!
He is both surprised and hurt, he cries and tries to get you to pet him...but you don't. Today you're willing to listen to his cries. If there's someone else in the house, the kid turns to them to get sympathy since you're not moved.

You have effectively associated tapping the TV screen to receiving a painful slap on the cheek...only a terribly stubborn child would repeat that stuff in your presence another day.

Sorry for the long post, I intended passing a point and I believe I have.
Some ladies are going to critic my post using the old line, "a full grown woman is not a child that should be slapped."
Well, throwing tantrums and insults around is more of a child's behaviour than it is an adults'.

Okay some may not critic it again cos I've said so, but they'll definitely think it..

Truckpusher: So you don't really care how a nigger gets paid as long as he's ready to make it rain on you,right?

Badt girl.

tbaba1234: In this life, we do not always get what we prefer , we sometimes have to make the best of what is.

That is the key to happiness.

damiso: Jenny and R231 you need to invest in this

Dreyl: I can see,some of the girls are jealous because the nigga have a pretty face and big butt than them.