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BellaSwan: How does one cope emotionally with a CHEATING spouse? We need to tell ourselves the truth. Many people cheat.

carefreewannabe: I think that female infidelity has different causes. Knowing how not to get pregnant could be one of them. I am not sure if there is a rise in female infidelity though. Have you got any numbers? I have no clue.
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carefreewannabe: Ignore the infections because men are polygamous by nature.

beeevan: This is scary ooo, asking ones husband to go for HIV test out of no where will definitely kill something in that marriage if he is innocent(never cheated) , what really is the way forward

one could just include it as part of a regular bi annual check up. Not making it solely about the HIV test may help to distract that that is what it's about. Just convince him it's a family health awareness thing
Thank God for some companies that make sure they conduct tests every so often for their staff. All yours truly has to do is to demand the result upon release. Every woman has a right to know what she's opening her legs to receive. Even the husbands should be concerned too even if they trust their wives. All those manicure and pedicure and sharing needles in the hair salon can prove to be a risk if madam is the careless type. I don't even want to mention infidelity on the woman's part cos them dudes fit swear for me .




Snazzy I really don't understand how a woman who never cheated can keep a positive HIV result to herself, that means she has been making love to him knowing her positive status, things dey happen oo.

right? Or maybe she found an excuse to avoid love making. Hmm

Okijajuju1: [b]Lol...

Because you marry KFC husband, now we Pounded Yam Husbands no sabi wetin love be abi?



Anyways:: Lemme flip the script: OP, forgive me.

I thank my wife for spotting simple little me in a world full of giants and finding me worthy to give her all to in humble submission for the rest of her life.

I am not a perfect man, I have never been, but everytime she looks at me, I feel like I am the King of the whole world.

A strong woman who melts like butter in my arms. A woman whose love for me I have never had cause to doubt. A woman whom I believe would lay down her life for me. And this is why I promise to love her till it is impossible to do so. Thats why I strive everyday to be the Man of her dreams. To me, she is everything a REAL Woman should be and sometimes I wonder what I did in my previous life to have been met with such good fortune in this life.

I know that when our kids come, they would have one of the best Women in the world as their mother.


I will never give up working towards making sure I remain the best decision of her life.


I have been blessed because you love me.

#Thanks.. [/b]

Floodgater: Now dont you just love nl-this thread especially where ladies not only have equal right but also have their husbands answer their names eg Mr babygirlfl, Mr shaybebaby, Mr naijababe, Mr lydndaroyce, Mr lorreta u, Mr phema, Mr aisha2, Mr qdamcel, Mr Nkechi, Mr Patience Jonathan..... Oya ladies the floor is open, come and make your hubby answer your name.

hilary26: The moment they decided to return the two doctors home for treatment I knew they have always had the cure.
America is the home factory of every virus. Africa is the test field. What they do is to come as tourists and infect our animals or plants and then go home to wait for results.
It is just business, just like HIV, now the nations with the epidemic will start paying them for the drugs.
In 1984, Robert Gallo filed a patent for his new invention, HIV. Today they tell us the virus got to humans from monkeys because we share certain DNA details with them.
America had the cure for Ebola way back in the 1970s when they manufactured the virus.
For every virus made, they also make the antivirus. Just like in comouters. The software companies that sells anti virus softwares are those who introduce viruses so we may buy their antivirus.

benodic: I know this because I am a soul traveler. I have crossed the boundaries of life and death and have seen things for myself.

snazzylove: Good morning peeps, trust u guyz slept well.

I got a call early this mornig (just when I was about catching some sleep for d sleepless night my boy gave me ) from a friend I met at the clinic when I was going for ante-natal check up. It was a heartbreaking call, I couldn't hold the news alone but decides to come and share with my fellow familylanders and get some advice too.

According to her, she was diagnosed of HIV at the point of registering for antenatal early this year. The news threw her off balance cos from what she told me she has never cheated on the hubby, and this is her 2nd baby. The first baby was delivered 3yrs ago and she has no HIV then. When she got the news, she said she couldn't tell her hussy as she does not really have any explanation as to how she contracted it, and that hussy may never believe that she has never bin unfaithful, so she kept it to herself as she continued her antenatal.

Turn of events. Last month, she said hussy was on leave so most times is always at home, then she noticed that he was on medication, when she asked him if he was ill, he said its just cold that he'll be fine. She oberved him for two weeks and noticed the commitment and dedication to the drugs, and more worrisome was the fact that he does not expose the drugs. So one night according to her, as hussy was asleep she ransacked d whole house and luckily for her she found d drugs, copied out d names, d next day she took it to a pharmacist to interprete for her. And her fear was confirmed. They are ARV drugs, hussy is HIV+.

The betrayal. She said she couldn't confront him with the discovery, she was too shocked and heartbroken that the man she loved and called her husband could hide such grievous thing from her. She was not satisfied, as she continued to ransack the house evryother day for more evidence, then she saw the test result. Hubby has bin HIV+ for close to two years and did not tell her. That was when she summoned courage to confront him with the test result. As usual, HE WAS SORRY, after the deed has bin done. He was actually cheating on wifey.

Now the reason why she called me this morning to tell me the above story is that she has bin booked for a CS next week to deliver her baby uninfected. And that after she had her baby that she will walk out of the marriage, acoording to her, she can no longer stand the presence of her hussy, as she hate him with double amount of energy she used in loving him.

Hmmmm... at the time we were discussing, my head was just blank as I was still too shocked and sad to believe that a man could have such a wicked heart. I just told her to calm down for now and concentrate on having her baby and taking care of her health first, that the marriage issue will come up at a later time, probably when she has fully recovered from the CS. She was sobbing uncontrollably, I couldn't even tell her to stop, I just allowed her to cry out her pains, maybe she will feel better.

What do u guyz think will be the best advice for her? Cos she's bent on walking out, not just because she was infected, but for the betrayal, infidelity, and lack of trust.

NOTE: she said she found some CDs in hussy's bag that he uses for short trips, and that she and hussy never used CDs when they make love cos according to her hussy says he doesn't like it.

EfemenaXY: Beeevan (you've got an extra 'e' in your name? ), Cococandy... that wig isn't such a bad idea for those ladies that'll eventually go bald. At least it's guaranteed to keep the head warm during the winter / cold seasons

FOLYKAZE: Thanks for the definition.

From what you have up there, I can conclude your definition do not best explain what spirit is OR you just dont know what it is.

Being Non human, does human not have a spirit? When we die, we give up spirit meaning we enbody it. So I can say that spirit is what makes us living human.

And/or are you specifically saying Spirit is a immortal creature living behind the wind?

benodic: There are other planes of existence apart from the physical plane which are on a higher vibration than the physical plane so our physical senses can not observe them. the plane closest to the physical plane in vibration is the astral plane and that is where many souls go to when they drop the physical body in death. souls also go there for brief visits during sleep, that is where most dream experiences take place. that is why you can see dead loved ones in your dreams.
so the spirit world as you may call it , is real. not a fairy tale.

twosquare: Coco my bournvita...why asking this question now? Have you forgotten quickly those meetings we usually have under the sea...?

shaybebaby: Unfortunately, because of you mr shaybebaby, I cannot suffer the idiocy some men spout on here. As long as there are men like you about, there is no excuse for some of the ?!@& on here.

beeevan: This third one nah dieoooo , i doubt if I can do that. I tried the one you described but from the pics, i got it wrong. I will try doing it correctly, thanks very much . Have you tried the one on the 3rd pic?

Apatheist: crickets

FOLYKAZE: Can you pls define what 'spirit' and 'world' is to you?

Lets have meaning to each of your word, this would help us understand what the compound is

beeevan: Wow, i just learnt something new, the one similar to lunges, i will try it, thanks .

pickabeau1: Good...do you know of tehn

pickabeau1: Hmmm..its not a weird angle..that's why I asked...


Ok...education and family planning would help

Since we are agreed no problem...

How is your family

When are you going to endow a scholarship too..https://www.nairaland.com/1842604/tehn-calling-all-school-leavers

beeevan: If it ached, then you got it right I guess,how many do you perform per section? I must resume this night, at least 10 squats, 10 lunges.