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pickabeau1: Hahaha..pick wetin...i only observed the post making fun and mocking religious statements

Even rich people make those statements...

Funny woman..

beeevan: Mehnnnn...very tiring, it felt good when I kept it rolling for 2weeks but some how I got distracted. Chillisauce just 'gingered' my swagger, so am starting this night, no more excuses .

beeevan: i gave up even before I started , i discovered a new hobby instead, frying and storing different flavors and textures of chin chin . I will resume squats after munching the new batch I fried .


How did the bikini contest go or did you give up and started preparing versions of akwu stew instead ?


Hopefully my next hobby will be discovering the cure to the dreaded Ebola, if we don't save Naija, who will?

pickabeau1: You are spouting simplistic reasons which do not even address the issues at hand
A society like ours is transiting from one where children were seen as a farming resource and more kids were encouraged to one where child management and family planning is key.
It starts with education and enlightenment and organisations like Society for family health in conjunction with the ministry of health
Also better health care and immunisation means that kids live long unlike before when child mortality before the age of 2 was high.
What we need is a concerted effort by all to continually impress on men and women to ensure family planning.
Human rights groups and female oriented NGOs can help here
We cant solve the issue by making light of people's religious belief on children.

beeevan: For a woman not to trust her husband fully, there must have been a reason not to,breached trust maybe. Even women that knows something is amiss prefer to hide behind" i trust him", until he blatantly rubs it on their faces.

bukatyne: Nice onr

@OP:

Thank you God for giving me a non-Nigerian husband

The 1st Cor 13: 4-8 type

Taught me what love really means.

Everything you open your mouth to say you love me, I know it's true

I love you so much

Saraha1: God abeg no give me husband way go dey send me Errand oh.Abeg not with this bowleg oh.

pickabeau1: Are you saying those statements are not true..

I believe children are a blessing from God and blessed is he who has his quiver full of them

Calling such people ignorant.... Hmmmm

aisha2: https://www.nairaland.com/1350826/should-get-married-buy-range
dear NL members,
i need your advice.
i am in my late 20's got a good payin Job, unfortuntely/fortunately met a beautiful angel 5months ago ( twasnt planned). a few hours ago was almost tempted to ask her to marry me, but sum1 interrupted our blues.
so I'm back home, and contemplating my decision to settle down,
economically, it would involve
1. moving out of my rent free abode- accommodation (2yrs+ Agency) =1.9million naira
2. furnishing = 1million naira
3. wedding hall = 1million naira
4. entertainment of guest (traditional + white wedding) = 1million naira
5. Honeymoon tinz = 1million naira
grand total for settling down = 5.9million naira

alternatively
i cud just buy a tokunmbo Range Rover = 3.5million naira and use the change to be a "Bigs Boy"

i have the said money, so i aint sourcing, so pls by fellow NL members what should i Do, PROPOSE, marry, and settle down or buy a RANGE rOVER AND BE A bIGZ bOY. undecided

Hi everyone.
i need some serious advice urgently, my wife is a nurse she just got an offer for a new job, the salary for one month is enough to pay our houserent for the year. I am also working, but money from her side would improve our lifestyles- dats why i encouraged her not to resign.
the problem is my wife is super hot and i rushed into marrying cos i didnt want anyone to have her- i guard her seriously, but this new job is giving me nightmares -couldnt sleep throughout the night. she's still waiting for my approval, should i let her go or not?

p.s
she got a job to work as a nurse on an offshore platform- 3weeks on, one week off. and i've heard so much about those Hot engineers(and they also have lots of money to splash around), imagine my sweet angel alone with all those men. sad sad sad sad

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https://www.nairaland.com/977487/s.o.s-wifes-new-job

cutiesoglam: @ aisha. U r rite. I read abt d article too. V actually talked to him abt it b4. M even surprised wit his answer. Buh d tin until sunday comes,dt wen m gona believe him.cos he is very unpredictable .as u said we married dem n definitely knw der behaviour.. . I love him thou n I knw he loves me, buh I dnt trust him 100per. Abt mayb he is seeing som oda gal .buh m glad I talked it out!

Naetochukwu: Waiting peacock... Be fast so u can finish it off
Frustrated fella

Naetochukwu: Don't mind them, they have refused to work to help their husbands achieve Bigger goals, all they now do is come here to scatter marriages in the name of advice. Even the small thing called cocandy is an adviser on NL.
Someone not even living with her husband in Nigeria... Shioor

Chillisauce: One thing with you, You take too many posters here serious. I dont waste my energy again lecturing because most of the time their mind is made up. So I just come dump my own 'advice' too.

I can tell you, OP is still a teenager who should be in school preparing for his GCE.
What he didn't learn from school na for nairaland him wan learn am?

Chillisauce: Now we are getting somewhere. Keep spilling you will feel better.

Ebola is here on our doorstep, instead of you to carry your small brain begin find cure, you dey here dey make baseless accusations.

Oya o. Since you cannot provide any ref. But can insult. Make I kuku help you derail am. As nairaland now na jungle.

Naetochukwu: But they will come here denying it. I remebered before NL crashed Lorretta_u was advicing another lady to quit her marriage of about 5years... And the socalled adviser was barely 6months old in her own marriage. Is either they are preaching feminism or divorce.

Naetochukwu: Well joblessness runs in your veins anumpam...
I don't know the "communicate" thread you keep seeing but I just said what I see. Incase you don't have anything to do just move aside.

richyblink1: Don't tell me you are actually thinking of asking her to quit her job or something. Days are gone when women sacrifice their hard earned cert because of marriage or inferiority complex.

Or are you actually trying to tell us that you are one of those men who believe women are less of a human to a man. Until you understand that women equally have blood flowing through their veins, have younger ones, mother, father, and relatives to equally take care of, you will start seeing her as you see yourself.

Until we (men) start seeing our wife's as we see ourselves, treat them with respect, accord them certain privileges without sentiment of them being weaker vessels, our homes will keep being a war zone

The only thing I have to say about the Op is that its your type that will meet a doting and very caring man but you will despise him like a piece of sh1t only to settle for some stewpid man who doesn't respect you,

shizzle11: Arent you just very silly with this comment? how did my earlier comment relate with this baseless assumption of yours and talk about twisting her words?, and how different was my comment from most people who commented before or after me? Please to the left with your na-me-holy-pass attitude

Eyop: With God all things are possible...Ebola inclusive.

tpia1: do he and the op expect his former girlfriends to remain single?

chinolization: I don't give a damn! Am not looking for a woman because I am married to a beautiful princess from Nnewi! Nuff said!

Stop stalking married men!

cutiesoglam: d tin is if he likes he attend mine,n m ok wit it buh he is always. Against me coming to his church, if I want to go..... Dt is y m concerned.

chinolization: Na lie! Imo state is worst hit in terms of governance. Just take a look at average road in Imo state..

Presently Owerre is so dirty and horrible..

berem: stop wasting your time arguing with Chino. He's not the type of person you argue constructively with. Nut puru ya n'isi.