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So it’s not that she did anything wrong actually? Just the usual misogyny takes. Just like I suspected

Exactly

Angelfrost:
The worst, and I dare say annoying, part is that he wouldn't be the only miserable one in the marriage.

The lady foisted on him will end up being miserable and deprived of true love, intimacy, and family connection.

The family will end up making two people and kids unborn miserable.

They want him to marry someone they handpicked for him so that he’ll be miserable.

Then while married he’ll be running games on the side because his heart is not in the marriage. People will really wish misery on you just so that you can fit into a box they designed for you.

The whole public statement is disgusting in and off itself

Men supporting men

You’re actually clinically insane 😱

Righteousness2:
..

Heart breaking but nobody cares. Millions are dead and displaced but no one cares.
No UN emergency meeting is called
Nobody is on the streets of London
Nobody is on the streets of melbourne
Nobody is on the streets of South Africa
Nobody is rioting and protesting in the universities in US, UK, Europe or wherever.
Nobody is shouting innocent civilians.

Because it has nothing with GOD ALMIGHTY Chosen nation and people, the Jews..
NO JEWS! NO NEWS!
This is Satanic Hypocrisy From the pit of Hell that your likes have donated yourselves to the devil to use. Emergency humanitarians

ONE Sure thing is ISRAEL is GOD'S Signet on the Face of the Earth.
IT is through ISRAEL that GOD deals with the Earth.
You Bless ISRAEL, You are Blessed.
You Curse ISRAEL, You are Cursed.
Choose wisely were you stand.

Double0h7:
I was hoping you’d comment on that part because it was irking me out but I didn’t have the knowledge to explain that he was reaching with that claim. Thank you for clarifying though ❤️

Yea I had to. And I did my best to be gentle with him because it seems he cares about the baby.
But it had to be said

Ps. You’re a stunnah! It’s nice to put a face to the legend 😁

Aww thank you ☺️

Smartdoctor:
How come she has the same signs of infection all over her and her baby sister was telling me that they've warned her not to breastfeed the child untill she gets treated. Not until the father later tested the child himself in the hospital's diagnostic centre

I don’t know man.

Skin infections can be transmissible. It doesn’t mean it’s an STD. They may just have a general lack of good hygiene in that house. If she doesn’t have HIV and your baby didn’t get HIV from her, then it’s not from the breast milk. It doesn’t mean you don’t have a case.

You do because she’s clearly not taking care of him well.
Just find another angle to go about proving your case. if you keep harping on her “whoring around”, a judge might just look at you a scorned ex spouse who’s not happy the ex is moving on.

Double0h7:
It’s fungal infection, people get fungal infections due to a number of different causes. I don’t think calling it sexually transmitted infection is correct unless they are saying that the child has been sexually abused. It could be due to the child’s environment, diet , malnutrition many other factors. Many children get fungal infections, ringworm, rashes, etc…

I know.

I just wanted him to clarify what type of STD we’re talking about before I jump to conclusions to tell him he’s wrong. I did have a feeling it might not be an STD unless some pervert was didling that baby. Thankfully it wasn’t so.

Smartdoctor:
Is jock itch and candidiasis

So it’s not an std.

You might still have a case as far as neglect but the baby doesn’t have HIV which is the STD transmissible by breast milk. So you can’t say he got an STD from her breast milk.

Even if she has gonorrhea, Syphilis, herpes, chlamydia etc. the baby can’t get it through breast milk.

I know you hate that she’s sleeping around but as distasteful as it is to do that while breastfeeding, there’s nothing anyone can do about that because she’s within her rights to do so.

Drop the STDs claim and find a way to prove your case of neglect then maybe a judge might listen to you. Good luck to you and that poor baby

That’s insane. What kind of STDs does the baby have?

Might also be a result of sexual abuse since the baby is left on their own without supervision.

Smartdoctor:
Good evening guys, please I need an urgent legal advisors in the forum to assist my cousin brother.
He had divorced and sent her wife back to the village for the past six months ago.
But the court asked him to be paying a certain amount of money monthly for the child's wellbeing which he has been doing.
But unfortunately the effect of the money has never been significant by looking at the physical appearance of the child.
He always sends relatives to check on the child of which several reports have reached him about how the boy is always been abandoned to be wandering about alone while the mother will be hanging out with friends.
What strucked him to his nerves was the recent report about the child been seriously sick and rumours that the mother now deals with several sexual partners while still breastfeeding the child....
He travelled from Abuja immediately to his hometown to retrieve the boy via court order but unfortunately the court denied him because the baby is believed to be too young at 1 year and 3 months old.
Now that the court had adjourned the case till 28th this month, he however decided to stay put in his hometown to treat the baby. The baby was taken to the hospital. the doctor took off his clothes and to our greatest suprise, the child's body looks so rough, rashes and boils all over her armpit down to his genital region.
Laboratory test was carried out and the report showed that the child have sexually transmitted infections. Fungi infection (,jock itch) and candidiasis.
All these evidences have been push to the judge phone and what we are afraid of, is the possibility of the judge cautioning her to take care of the child and allow her to continue taking the child's custody.
Can he take the child forcefully after having all these evidences against the mother?

MentalCase98:
Which kind quack journalism be this? Half of the story says she is coming with Harry, the other half says she is “ditching” him to come to Nigeria.

Hungry bloggers don start again.

So they can twist it into something she did wrong .

No be today.

Thankfully the wind has been blowing and the yansh of the trouble makers has consistently been exposed

The way they are always sensationalizing the simplest of situations. “Meghan Markle dumps” 🙄.

Bunch of witless rable rousers

Do this all over the country. Enough is enough

NothingDoMe:
It's funny how some people will call him unprintable names but will celebrate when the same act is carried out under the guise of religion.

Or better yet if they live abroad, they’ll find a way to say the man must have been pushed to do it.

Because these insane Nigerian men we see committing acts of terror on their families here in the country can’t somehow be the same when they travel abroad. They must have been made to do it over there.

descarado:
Can you remember our last discussion on this sometime ago?

UK is very strict on this and your first Yr of medical school, a day is dedicated to make sure thie enters your ear wella.
I don't pity him at all. He knew what he signed for even as an immigrant dr.

Yep.
I remember

Honestly I kinda feel a bit sorry for him but definitely he knew better . For sure

Yes you’re not supposed to.
Patients are off limits. He knew better

Icezak:
So as a Dr now you can not admire even the beauty of woman or ask a fine girl out for a date simply because she is your patient,

Seriouslady:
Nigerian professionals in diaspora should be careful out there. Know your limits and be careful with the female gender. What is considered as nothing in Nigeria is a big deal out there. And their society protects them like hell. The penalty is too harsh though. He should go for appeal. A thriving career going down just like that. This is why you need Christ in your life. Jesus saves.

I don’t know about UK but in USA, there’s probably nothing an appeal will do for him.

This is one of the cardinal rules of medical care in America (at least). You don’t have sexual or inappropriate relationships with patients while they’re under your care or if they have been recently under your care. It implies that your medical authority over them might have influenced them to say yes when they might otherwise have said no. It’s a very big deal.

What a huge loss.
Is it easy to get a medical license?

And to just lose it for sex that he could have gotten from anyone else except his patient is baffling.

My heart is so heavy reading this

some woman is married to that dude and thinks she has a man.
It goes both ways

obiekunie01:
Stupid and dumb generation!

NOT LIKE HE BOUGHT THE HOUSE FOR YOU!
He rented it for you!
wait na make we see if him go renew am for you whn the rent expires!

Ezi ofia!


and one SIMPle guy go carry this one put for house one day and call her his wife!

I want some of the illegal drugs you’re smoking.


I strive to be this removed from reality

davien:
What do you mean by that? If you mean men by default hurt women then that's probably false, men keep the peace 24/7 in society . The problem is a lot of men are being raised feminine, myself included, most men today if not for interacting with other stable men would lash out at the smallest provocation, it's why you as a woman shouldn't try to test or tease men like a deer teasing a lion.

Will anyone do something about this? Can the nursing association do something about this or will everyone just witness this assault and go back to business as usual because it’s tradition?

davien:
You've killed your conscience and have no virtue then because a normal woman should not be used to slurs.

Why should I have a conscience when you guys pride yourselves in being ruthless monsters?

pocohantas:
Lmao. I love how you ignore their sexual slurs.
Hahahahaha

I’m a mature old lady now.

It’s only young girls that get offended by sexual slurs because they don’t understand yet that these dudes literally have nothing else they can say to them except some form of slut shaming or sexual slur. Nothing else!

Mecka:
its our nature to fúck around. Yours is stay in kitchen. I'm sure you sleep around while your boo is away

The math is not working in your favor

This one too wants a low body count woman. I know you’re a troll but it’s the guys consigning the useless post and telling you to continue that I’m more focused on. Because to them this behavior is totally normal and acceptable

When they tell you that you guys are illogical and lack intelligence this is what it means

And this is a basic equipment that all hospitals should have, even the remote areas.

No wonder they preach patriotism but run away to keep their children in countries where an illness than can be easily diagnosed with imaging won’t kill them.

Basic123:
Even the NATIONAL HOSPITAL,ABUJA own no dey work too.

Our government doesn't know how shameful some some news could be.

A whole NATIONAL HOSPITAL and the country premier teaching hospital UCH!

There are some news the FG shouldn't be allowed to happen talkless of leaking out

You want healthcare workers to stay in the country but can’t give them basic and necessary equipment to work with. Then blame them for misdiagnosing certain conditions

It’s most definitely not an easy thing.

Just for the sake of not giving TMI, I can’t say my experience giving birth on this forum because obviously there are people who will try to use it as topic for mockery at a later date.

And as I’m speaking now I have a friend going through a loss related to child birth. It’s really can be a life or death situation. Things can go wrong at any time. For someone to open wide his ignorant mouth to talk nonsense about it miffs me

Ishilove:
I lost both my grandmothers to the process in the early 60s and early 70s. My paternal grandmother even died with twins in the early 60s when my Pa was less than 10years, yet some people here are writing crap that giving birth is very easy. I hope they experience the pain of that kind of loss in their future so that they will remember the hateful comments they spewed on social media

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLH41ddT/

For people that have TikTok. Watch this and read the comments of those under the thread. Many already have hundreds of thousands in equity after owning for some years.

Don’t let anyone stuck in the financial mentality of the stone ages discourage you.

Coming125:
Very true. Very direct connection.

Correlation is not = causation

I’m so sorry for your loss my dear

Rivers definitely have one of the worst state governments in Nigeria ever

descarado:
They will rather steal the money to buy drink of 100m than use the money judiciously.
That road has been a death trap. Anytime accudent happens, it left dozens dead and millions destroyed. The place need flyover. Big one but no,Rivers politicians are busy sponsoring party and elections with hope they will become president to be tossed by the side as usual. The only people that gives them sense of direction, they were told to fight them. Look at that state.very terrible with nothing to show. Absolutely nothing. Why has the centre they loved so much not deem it fit to built befitting flyover at elemen junction.

It pisses me off cos I have once lost a relative when this happened one time. Many years down the line, still the same story.