₦airaland Forum

TheFreshVanilla:
Most of your friends /families abroad first convert the money into naira before sending them. They still relate with you like you're both spending naira even if they are doing well over there.

ufotty2001:
I wanted to buy a land over here in Port Harcourt. I had up to 3.5m and I was expecting 2m from my business the following week. I call my brother in USA to help me with N1.5m he refused. So that I can add to the 3.5m to buy the land of NN5m.. Despite that I will pay him back in less than 5days.. he refused. This is blood brother oohh.. a professional nurse that had stayed in US for 25yrs..

StPete:
Your comment is the only reasonable comment I've seen so far. You just spoke my mind.

It is better you even send shoes, or other items than send a paltry $12. Is there any reasonable thing u can buy with $12 in the US apart from food and groceries?

enambobo:
12 dollars that is not even up to one hour wage for the least worker in the US. It’s more like biscuit money. Abeg e no try.

Timoleon:
Lol...this is worse than insult. It's better to not send anything than ring someone up after 16 years in the abroad just to send 12$.

Some people will say it's 'entitlement mentality'. But if I see you for road, you dey mind your business I come hala say I know say life hard, take 50 naira go find biscuit chop, before you die for our neck. You go reason better blow for mouth. After all, you no beg me for food or for money. Despite the fact that I just gave you my 'hard earned' money, you'd know in your heart of hearts that I just undermined you.

For 16years, bro has been managing to survive, How would you message him out of the blues to send him 12$. One carton of indomie.

texazzpete:
. Perhaps you’re speaking from experience and you and the guy have had sex before?

radautoworks:
Just a grilled shrimp salad with avocado and homemade dressing for hubby.

Acidosis:
Hmm

Oya, come talk your mind. 😋

Acidosis:
Well, the validity of the reason can be contested, but I expect a sensible man to do and know what's right..

Imagine a pregnant woman in her 37 weeks insisting she must travel by road to see her family in a faraway town in today's Nigeria? If you were the man, would you let her embark on that mission?

Going to see one's family seems like a right or moral adventure, but certain conditions may not permit that.

Puss360:
Lol... She is a woman not a property...
Going to visit her siblings doesn't need "Approval" from her husband... She only needs to let him be aware .. If the husband doesn't want her to go "That period", then he needs to come up with very valid reasons...
But he can't ban her from seeing her family...

The opinion of rest on that list is irrelevant

Acidosis:
It's simple. Do not collect bride price from a man you're not ready to submit to.

You can't eat from the devil and escape repercussions. No sensible man would restrain you from meeting your family. If that conversation ever comes up, then his reasons are probably valid .

obaidan:
Israel is depressed from the loss of that babe. He told Daddy Freeze himself that he nearly slid into depression but I think that's him trying to mask his weakness a little bit, HE IS ASOLUTELY SAD AND DEPRESSED from his situation with that babe. The part I do not understand is this, "HOW IS A MAN UNHAAPPY THAT GOD SAVED HIM FROM A USER that pretended to be a wife, HOW. Dude should be ecstatic there's no need to discuss child support. A man possibly in his late 30s, God has blessed you with a network of solid men, on whose wings you can soar, he should forget that leech and do genuine thanksgiving for God making things go this way. For the intention that girl and her family have towards him, his love for her is too excessive and unnecessary.

Yugoslavia247:
Teenagers and unmarried goats are commenting above me

When they married was it sms her papa and mama take give her hand in marriage.

She will never be able to stay in any mans house.

The friend she went to stay with will soon marry and leave her for street.

That bestie go turn strangers


Young single women or newly married women, don't take advise from older single women or divorced women. They don't have the moral to advice you because they can not even advice themselves into marriage or make right choices.

When you marry as a man or woman leave your single guys or gals or create that distance. You are now form two different worlds. Make friends with married people especially the happy ones.


If you support the wife

Can you allow your brother to marry her.

Will you be happy your brother wife decided to divorce for a flimsy excuse?

Don't be irrational

Say yes or No

Make you self judge yourself

pocohantas:
As you can see already, rather than admit virgins know sexual satisfaction, some are calling her a fake virgin. You can't understand them. Israel would soon blame her for his poor perfomance. I give it to them. Gaslighting is topnotch.

Ubdavis:
That she was a virgin doesn't mean she wouldn't want more sex afterwards. It happened to me

pocohantas:
They think they don't know sexual satisfaction. Tell me about "she has nothing to compare you with". When you try to educate them, they argue. They think they know the workings of a vagina than the bearers.

Tallesty1:
especially coming from someone who has strong opinions on traditional gender roles in marriages

Philip4564:
so what you're trying to say now is for the man to shoulder the responsibility 100%

Philip4564:
Like I'm very curious and willing to know the responsibility of the wife at home or let me just say where does she step in the bills at home. I mean which area is she suppose to be assisting the husband in the shouldering of the responsibility at home. I'll like the married folks here to enlighten us or give us an insight on the area where their wife cater for in the responsibility. I'm a young guy just getting into it and I'll like to know where my wife should be contributing to Thanks.

frugal:
Grilling chicken all day.

Konquest:
That's impressive... Keeping it real with urban gardening.

Tealcrestmedia:
There's a drone footage and videos of Isreal opening fire, direct fire on people converging to find something to eat after being starved for days by same Isreal. One thing I've noticed is that, for every atrocious act committed by the IDF, there's always a justification from their media. Those of you supporting this injustice should know that, Gaza is just another Libya, Iraq, Afghanistan, Laos, Syria, etc with a justification and it can happen to anyone and any nation and there will be justifications.

Angelfrost:
Sigh... While I still maintain my neutrality in this crisis, the truth must be told!

Israel has been reckless and heartless since this onslaught started.

The pieces of video evidence are unassailable and quite shocking, to say the least.

Using unarmed civilians as target practice is beyond war crimes!

TheWinterBird:
Coco, check out these non-ham hocks recipes:

https://smokinandgrillinwitab.com/gumbo-style-collard-greens/

https://www.thekitchn.com/gumbo-zherbes-recipe-23480954

https://iheartrecipes.com/gumbo-greens-recipe/

GboyegaD:
I don't but the harvest looks good.

radautoworks:
Use Turkey necks or wings instead of ham hocks

ObalendeCMS:
Interesting!

It also works for me but the fear of the V-people is the begining of wisdom & I don't like to wonk.

That part is where I miss my x; she literally pet me to sleep after a crippling orgasm.

pocohantas:
Reminds me of how a friend pointed out one of them supporting the woman. I told her he isn't supporting women. He is only defending his tribe. Remove the tribe and watch his reaction.

Logical indeed.

GloriousGbola:
The irony is that Nigerians are proudly homophobic and Puffy is accused of SA against males.

Their heads must be splitting

Apologists for gay rape