₦airaland Forum

KnownUnknown:
Arrant stupidity and deep seated bigotry is the reason those people support him. A lot of Americans are fucking stupid and when you combine that with racism, you get a trump supporter.

Point blank period

OgaTheTop2:
Just lock him up and throw away the keys...

Someone that should have been in jail since. They are just dragging it out. It’s annoying ATP

armyofone:
I sabi waka

I like Vegas...those unending hills! A beautiful sight!

I’m thinking of flying to Vegas tomorrow.

What places do you recommend to eat at.

The fact Trump is not in prison has me befuddled

There’s no way he’ll still be walking free if he were a black man

When Nigerian govt can’t even guarantee farmers safety in their own land

You can’t arm up to protect yourself.
If you speak out against marauding herdsman you’re an IPOB terrorist.

Are you people living in reality or what?

nstore:
Japa! to your home town and start a farming business.. There's hunger in the land..

In the U.S., small farms are considered the backbone of the agricultural industry, with 97 percent of all U.S. farms being family-owned...

Many 'silent' farmers who are millionaires and billionaires out there.. Go do your research...

First of all Nigerian families need to drop high expectations and double standards they have when it comes to women.

The women expect it because they know the society they live in and some of them have even possibly contributed to those practices in their own families. Everyone just needs a brain reset simple

Acidosis:
The major problem is the fact that many women go into marriages expecting a wicked mother in law. So, way before the marriage even happens, many already built a defence system and resistance against a family or mother-in-law they don't know. Thus, preventing any form of positive energy or love to thrive.

Question is, if you think that your own family is lovely, why do you expect mine to be wicked? For many of you, only your mother is the best thing after sliced bread. Every other woman out there is a potential evil mother-in-law.

It is a societal menace we all need to kick against, first by preventing our daughters from seeing those useless Indian and Nigerian movies that paint mother-in-laws as wicked witches.

baby124:
When you asked your wife to marry you, did you pour all this out? Please do before proposing to any woman. When you want to marry, you say marry me! Not marry my family members. She’s there for you otherwise she would not be affiliated with your family.

Stranger indeed. Why not ask your mother and sister to give birth to your kids, cook and nurture your family to old age. If they try it, even you go japa as the kids will not be normal and the drama go make life tire you. Keep yarning and believing dust there.

But you forget his mom is a stranger to his family as well seeing as she wasn’t born from the same belly as his dad.

Oh wait! His grandma is a stranger too. Hmm . I wonder who makes up this proverbial family the wives are marrying into then since all the women are strangers

Or maybe the onus is on the family to welcome her seeing as she’s a stranger in a strange place? Isn’t it the responsibility of landowners to be friendly, accommodating, hospitable and kind to strangers who come into their territory. Stupid brainless people

Go and tell your mother she’s incapable of logical thinking.

VULCAN:
This is yet another clear reminder that very few woman are capable of logical thought.

A man emanates from his family.

Whatever he is before marriage, part of it emanates from the family where he came from.

The woman saw him relating with his family and such started decades before she came on the scene.

So a woman claiming she loves a man while hating his family is delusional.

When you try to reverse this- you obviously see how stupid that turns out to be.

A wife is a stranger that a man brings into a family. She may have a completely different orientation from that of the family. Whether for good or for bad is secondary.

The woman is just knowing the man and cannot claim she knew him longer than his parents or siblings.

So the onus is more on her to connect with the family she is marrying into just like it is the responsibility of the man to connect with his in-laws as he has come as a stranger.

So therefore your question doesn't make much sense as my love for my brother may not extend to his wife if as a stranger she refuses to integrate into her new extended family

Acidosis:
abi na 🤣🤣

don’t mind them

wethebest:
The day u chose to be a nurse or doctor, u took the same oath security personnels took to save lives in sweet and worse condition. No leave, no transfer. If to work as doctor and nurse abroad dey hungry u, Go sch dere and remain dere. U can't b getting cheap medical certification frm a country u re not willing to serve. They should make it 10 years sef.

Why didn’t you take the same oath?

That has always been a thing though

This is a baby

It’s like they are not even applying common sense anymore when looking for house helps

What’s can this child do for you? Like for real?

And to brutalize them when they act like the children that they are just shows these adults are just beyond stupid. How do you expect a child to act if not like a child?

Stop employing children

TOPCRUISE:
Some States in Nigeria do have a sex offenders list. Lagos State have. I don't know about if any of south Eastern states have for now. It's just that the list is most especially meant for male trespassers. Females are exempted from the list.

that’s interesting

TOPCRUISE:
If it is a male that did this he will be fished out of his hiding place and arrested and listed among the sex offender list. Why females that do this won't be included in sex offenders list is what I don't understand.

Does Nigeria have sex offenders list?

Because here in America male and female alike can go on the list by being inappropriate with kids or outright sexual harassment/assault

CHRISTFUCKER:
She did nothing wrong




She was just doing some inspection, most girls are way ward nowadays

You must be insane

My God. What kind of wickedness is this?

She doesn’t deserve to live.

You’re literally making his point. SMH

DivinegiftofGod:
How can you say 100 pounds is not like 100 naira? How can you compare 1600 Pounds to 1600 naira? Do you even know what you're saying?

Ok, since you want to compare cost of living, can 1600 naira afford you all those things you mentioned in Nigeria? Since you feel they are both of the same value.. if you earn 1600 in Nigeria it can't even feed you a day. But the Same 1600 pounds can afford you a lot both home and abroad and you'll still be able to save so what exactly is your point?

Are you oluchi’s husband by chance

IbeOkehie:
This is a big lie o! Any Igbo person can give you stories of ladies who LITERALLY sacrificed their entire life caring for siblings and parents. Many women who had good jobs or businesses and built houses for their families, put many siblings and nephews and nieces through university and in the process "forgot" to get married.

It's soooo common in Igboland. I'm sure it's the same among other African tribes but I can only speak on the one I'm sure of.

As to husbands well my life has been very significantly and positively impacted by my wife. I admit I'm lucky. Luck plays a big role in life, some say luck exists only where preparation and awareness meets relevant opportunity.

I generally don't like to discuss family issues because it can touch on deep sensitivities and insecurities. I wish I were more brave about it but I'm only human. I'm really curious as to how you developed this opinion.

Good Luck to Nigerians.

1stGenAmerican:
Oh, now I understand! While he retires, relaxes and collects the $300 from his hard working brother every month, he can take part in conversations about how people abroad work 3 jobs til death just to pay bills and tax. He only loves what his brother is willing to do for him, he doesn’t care about what his brother has to go through to earn it-he really doesn’t love him.
Thanks for the explanation, makes sense to me now.🤭

you forgot to add the popular part. That most Americans are living paycheck to paycheck and don’t have $1000 in their savings account. 🤐

1stGenAmerican:
If this guy managed to build himself a new house in Nigeria, why does he need his brother abroad to send him 300 pounds per month? His accomplishment proves he can take care of himself so why does he need his brother’s money?

It’s the $300 he used to build it. Now that it’s complete he hopes to retire on the $300 monthly allowance while his brother shovels snows to go clock in everyday to make sure he earns that $300 for him.

No one is above asking for help occasionally but to make it a requirement that must be fulfilled dutifully and consistently makes me wonder how much he really loves this his brother

DivinegiftofGod:
Jealousy. Meanwhile that 300 Pounds is like suya Money to him there that he sends you in month o.

All of them are like that. They feel you can do better with that amount here than them so they would rather see you suffer.

Wickedness

Are you okay?

What makes you think $100 is like #100?

That’s where you got it wrong.

DivinegiftofGod:
This is pure jeolousy. Envying your own family members is the height of witchcraft


It's not their fault that they live in a place where the 10 dollars you send can get them a luxury it can't afford you over there. If you look at it, you still spend the bulk of your money more than them because you send them chingum money that can't take you a week but spend thousands of what you send to them here for yourself. So how are they enjoying more than you?
Person go just dey begin calculate the small 100 dollars ( wey be like 100 naira to am) wey him dey send say e too much. Small prayers wey you for receive for sending a meager 100 dollars, you now lose it because of over calculations.

It's this wicked mentality that is making many of you to be stingy. It's very bad. If they have the opportunity to be there like you, I'm sure they won't ask you for anything.

Keep your money. Those in naija go still shine and fresh pass una because we eat real natural organic food and get natural Vit D year round.
You guys wait. It's only a matter of time, we will soon have good govt and nobody will send you and your lonely lives abroad anymore.

Very stingy people.

caesymore:
Those 23, 22 year old girls that will toy with his heart, another mistake some of us make.

I'm walking down the aisle with my baby of 28 years very reasonable lady who knows what she wants. Don't marry a woman you have to be subscribing for her love.

Well let me not be a hypocrite because I got married early too. But on the men’s side, I feel like they have to understand they need to limit their expectations when marrying someone that young.

Let’s say You’re 35 or 38 when deciding to settle down. Some might even be older. And you want a 19-25 year old. Let say you’re lucky to find one, you get frustrated when she acts like a 22 year old. Or complain about providing because women nowadays are marrying to get rich 🙄. Make it make sense.

(Although I’m not excusing this girl’s family sha. They should terrible)


You really can’t eat your cake and have it back.

BTW congratulations. I’m happy for you

But those women are probably close to or over 30 years old at that point and that’s too old for y’all. Remember?

For him to be with a yabatech student, means she’s likely very young. I don’t know what he think a girl much younger than him would want with him except what she can gain. At least in most cases that’s the reality for them

caesymore:
Boom Dig_It!!!

You Dodged a bullet Man. Imagine having such a scam as your mother in-law. They go gaslight you taya, most of these girls and their family members can't afford the kind of life style they ask us for.

Ordinary phone she no get sef, my fellow Men una dey mad me. Why marry a liability there are many humble, professionals ladies out there with good jobs praying to God for a man like you to come their way.

A man is the price and a caring and considerate Man like you sound is the ultimate price, act and carry yourself that way, next thing you are gonna post here is a testimony.

joseph1832:
Now this will be you being sentimental.

In as much as I find the low budget idiot's post disgusting, it didn't break any rule. Being abysmally foolish by posting stupid and disgusting comments isn't against the rules in Nairaland.

And this is the part where we try to use the word sentimental or emotional to try to disregard a post that’s calling out harmful rhetoric. Minimizing it by describing it as foolish when in fact it’s downright dangerous

Do better please. This is 2024

VeryWickedMan:
Knowing females that's not her first time of being gang banged. She's only claiming rape because she got caught this time.

If I’m the owner of the forum or a MOD, there’s no reason why this poster will continue to post on this forum. Deleting the post and 2 days ban solves nothing

Dennisochampa:
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No one prays to be kidnapped....
I am just saying our government should discourage ransom payments by beefing up security.....
If there is no kidnap, will there be a need to pay ransom?

I agree prevention is the best option
Absolutely

But I’m saying if the kidnap does occur, that’s not the time to be saying don’t pay ransom knowing fully well that we are not the ones on the other side of the of the issue

If you get kidnapped, would you rather they kill you than someone pays to rescue you?

Please be sincere

Dennisochampa:
Reasons why terrorism and crime will not stop...
They kidnap today.... U pay 50m for release....
What do u think will happen tomorrow

It won't stop!!!!

Imagine for one day work.... U get 50m.....

What the government need to do is to improve surveillance and security......
Not to encourage ransom payments!!!

Of course

Certain types of personalities can only sympathize with a situation if it happens to them or their loved ones. In any other situation, you’re talking to the wind. Like pouring water on stone. It doesn’t penetrate

Nigeria will become a drug wasteland

Youth will be in the street like in Philly dazed and bent over . And to make it worse, there won’t even be a modicum of resources to even begin to help like we have in some drug ridden states in America

CHRISTFUCKER:
Every borders should be forking open and anyone and everyone should be free to go in and out

Customs should be scraped and replaced with minimal border security