₦airaland Forum

One thing is for sure, we are not the ones incessantly and relentlessly dogging on men on this forum.

Y’all have PhDs in that.

theredaddy:
why not show us the group of women that prioritize the wellbeing of Men here, according to fact Men are the most depress being on earth, and when it became a national discourse what did women do, were there any
moves that depict care & concern

If are men are not doing enough are women even doing at all, is it not just money money women care about

what is nutritious about your "SORRY" that makes you think any sane man will crave for coco sorry .. just smh

I’ve never met a group of men more hellbent on trivializing the wellbeing of the women they claim to love than these ones on NL.

That’s why my empathy cup for them runneth at zero. Before I feel sorry for anyone of them going through shege, I have to see their post history and make sure they are not part of the ones contributing to creating this toxic hellscape of what they are complaining that marriages have become.

pocohantas:
As it should. No need to argue with them. They can come up with whatever logic on how women in abusive marriages should react, but it won't change the increasing number of women that are prioritising their wellbeing over Mrs tag.

Marriage is enjoyable when both parties are out to please the other and I am always surprised at the effort they put into blackmailing women to ENDURE their excesses. I thought they don't benefit from marriage? Retards!

You people can tell yourselves any stupid thing you like to make you feel better about being legal layabouts. At the end of the day, the number of bastards you’re leaving in other men’s houses and the ones they are leaving in yours will humble you all.

Porksupplyib:
You see the origin of all these troubles is the idea of equity between the man and the woman. Nature/God didn't create it to be so. But through so called westernization and modernization you all have come to see it as a right agenda.
The rights of a man cannot and will never be same as that of a woman. Take that to the court if you like.

Rizzputin:
I totally agree with this.

Most women leave a man they love for cheating only to go with another man that will still cheat and they don't really like.

As long as your man (husband, bf etc) takes care of you then you shouldn't have much to be worried about.


P.S Men don't abuse this privilege. It's not an excuse to rub it in her face or to fùck the house maid or your spouse relatives

koladata:
Men were never designed to sleep with one woman for the rest of their lives. That's why there's a virginity seal on women at birth while there's no seal on men. Even in basic biology, men's sexual anatomy is completely different , the hormones and desires are referent. most of us have only come to accept this one man one woman thing because someone wrote it in the bible which i'm sure God didn't write that thing, he's not an author of confusion because that would have contradict his designs.

That’s why all of you are fathering each other’s kids because you’re polygamous in nature. It’s only natural for another man’s kids to be in your house because he’s practicing his god given right to sleep with as many women as possible including yours

He was fully yours. He cheats, but he was fully yours.


Definition of useless mental gymnastics if I ever saw one.

And why is there the assumption that she can’t provide for her kids?

Absolutely no consideration for the disadvantages it poses to those kids in the future being directly related to so many potential spouses. Some people’s depravity in unmatched

EPIJOE:
Hmmm for those who have been trapped by this so called beads have alot of stories to tell.

In as much as it's mostly for fashion, some ladies take advantage of it to jazz men.

It takes Grace to get out of it once charmed. Guys be careful and be warned.

Almost everything nowadays is spiritual. He who have spiritual talents would understand better.

The way some of you have been brainwashed into demonizing African culture is astonishing. But the funny thing is that the things you now consider African are borrowed from other western religions and cultures

Jakumo:
Waist beads drive me absolutely demented with wanton desire and unbridled animal lust. This lady merely mentioned that she wears beads around her trim waist and the next thing I found myself on my bended knees BEGGING like a hungry junkyard dog that she should PLEASE pose for my camera wearing those beads. On the condition that I look but don't touch, AND that her face is not shown online, my desperate prayer was graciously granted and the picture below is the result.

Lord have mercy. I nogo forget that day lai-lai

That’s a gorgeous woman

Analyst7:
No wahala if that’s what u want to prove, but the decree expected of a woman is being pure…are u a virgin
If you’re not then keep quiet

Sweetie “purity” is not for women alone. You hypocrites try to use your bibles to justify your obsession with policing women’s vaginal activities. If you want to be biblically accurate, you’re asked not to have sex before you marry your wife and afterwards make sure you stick to her alone.

But like I said, y’all know how to pick and choose what suits you at the moment. Notice how it’s to held in honor among all not just among women?

“Hebrews 13:4
Let marriage be held in honor among all , and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.”

Analyst7:
and what are u supposed to be doing

apparently not providing according to the royal decree’s of culture and religion?

Or do you guys pick and choose whatever suits you at the moment?

Providers whining about providing. As usual

I thought they said Nigerians abroad are all broke?

If unconditional love exists why does hell fire exist in Christian beliefs?

Kobojunkie:
See kweshion oo!!

serious question because how?

Are you okay? Like mentally?

dboY1123:
I lost my brother early last month and I have been unsettled and paranoid. He visited us a day before and he was healthy and hearty only for us to hear of his death the next day which was on Sunday.

He was admitted in the Hospital, on the bases that he was short of blood. He took 4/5 pants of blood and stayed 1/2 weeks before he was discharged and that only made him live for a month or so.

I want to know more about his death, exactly what happened. His wife is someone who didn't relate well with us (in laws) and she distanced my brother from us, while he objectively did as well.

This wife didn't visit my mum throughout her stay in the hospital for more than 3 months before my mum passed on a year ago. When I visited the hospital where my brother was rushed to being the same place he was admitted, they told me that he must have been bothered about somethings, and that the drugs he was given parts were hypertensive, that he stopped taking the drugs and all those excuses.

I was informed by the nurses that my brother has been suffering from insomnia, he hardly sleeps in nights and if he does, it's just few hours. All these things, the wife didn't tell us anything.

Now, I want to take the fight to her. I need her to tell me exactly what transpired, how did it happen! She's been in 40 days mandatory sit-at-home stuff and I can't wait to sit her ass down and interrogate her.

Should I get her arrested for questioning by the police?

Modified

OloYeOfEgbE:
Do you have a boyfriend

no

OloYeOfEgbE:
It means you can accept me while your boyfriend is still alive..

not me specifically but someone else might accept you. If you want them and they + their current partners accept you, tell me what the issue is

All this garbage because someone married two men?

Did your male family members all marry dumber creatures?

Karlifate:
Women with daddy issues are not hard to spot

Men are far less practical than women. They marry poorer, weaker, dumber creatures that are less emotionally stable and more needy. Men marry down. Why would you marry down if you don‘t love who you‘re marrying? Why would you endure the burden of a woman if not for love?

Women will say "I don‘t want to be his mother" — meaning they don‘t want to love you like a mother would. How does a mother love her child? Sacrificially. So she doesn‘t want to be strong and responsible. She looks for strength. And what is strength to her? The idealised father.

OloYeOfEgbE:
I'm worried..

Warris all dis.?

why are you worried? how does it affect you?

The thing is women like this exist but y’all don’t want them. When get them, you don’t respect them. You want the “strong head” ones to bend to your will after which you will get bored and start looking for the next evil feminist to conquer. Restlessness dey worry you

Borrowed land?

Hathor5:
I know people who swore never to raise a hand against a woman because their fathers beat their moms but I haven't seen one being proud of it until today. This one is a case beyond help professional or not. The definition of a psycho.

True. It’s surprising how people can learn from something that happened to them or those around them while others just become the perpetrators of the thing that happened to them.

JasonScoolari:
Keep talking rubbish as usual and throwing insults like you do to your husband and the unfortunate man that birthed you.


After insulting people online, you will go about praying to Allah. Bloody Hypocrite of a girl.

What a dunce

JasonScoolari:
You're actually mistaking your parents for mine.

Too much of head slamming.

Between us it’s clear who was raised in a condition where beating wives and mothers is considered normal and a sign of family leadership. That’s why you can’t understand why anyone would have something to say against that. Your damaged parents raised a damaged man who goes online and advocates for more violence on the women in their family.

You should be embarrassed

JasonScoolari:
Still proving me right when I said you are hyperactive downstairs and inactive upstairs.

Maybe that's how you insult the unfortunate man that married you. Who knows.

I know your father dog-walked your mom in the streets that’s why you are okay with his comments and upset with me for rightfully insulting him.

Go and console your mom.

JasonScoolari:
Even from your write up, one can tell you're not okay upstairs, or better still, too hyperactive downstairs.

That guy made a reckless comment, you can condemn it without throwing insults just like you do to most people who had contrary opinions.

Stay civil

The audacity you have to expect a civil response to a post that suggests women should be beaten like children tells me you have dry cotton wool where your brain is supposed to be.

Here how about you formulate a civil response to this. “I think you and that guy are lowly animals that deserve to be chained up and trained like animals”. I mean since a civil response is the perfect thing to say to disrespectful comments I suggest you come up with something civil in response to that

JasonScoolari:
No need for insulting him over the reckless comment.
Shows how emotionally destabilized you are If you keep throwing insults

You’re the emotionally and intellectually destabilized one if you can’t see the connection between the violence y’all propagate on this forum and the real life effect it has on the safety of women around you.

Also I don’t know what me being married has to do with the conversation. I suppose being married means I have to become one of the desperados you see everywhere that stay mute in the face of BS in order to keep a MRS title.

JasonScoolari:
Damn!!! Is there something emotionally and mentally wrong with you? Is it so difficult to type without insulting someone?
You did same thing some minutes ago, look at you now? Allow people to air their opinion no matter how stupid it is. You're a married woman, and just coming out from the fasting period.

Kindly maintain some decorum.

It takes a special kind of hypocrite to talk about fasting and then turn a blind eye to posts that endorse violence against women.
Disgusting.

The ladies that are maintaining decorum while y’all actively call for women to be harmed are part of the reason men like you and that poster I quoted feel comfortable saying the things you say. Things that lead to the death of women.

Take your fasting bullshiet and shove it where the sun don’t shine

JasonScoolari:
Make a report to the police against the Bitter mother of 3, or better still, get a restraining order.

Then, he should show that widow his true intentions towards her by acting like a "Man" and not a scared Chihuahua.

And take care of his new family including the kids he had with the bitter 40 something years old woman.

She wasn’t bitter when he was mating with her and producing kids like a hornyy rat. Bunch of Xtupid ediots

JeffreyJunior:
That's Texas for you.

Between Texas and Obosi my hometown, I don't know which one dey expensive pass for real estate.

My colleague that relocated to Texas still mock me with his home till date though I return the mockery when their weather begin to dey see its yearly menstrual period as usual.

Carry the same house in that picture come SoCal now, the price go be for ndi ogwu ego only.

seriously .

Although I heard their property taxes no dey joke sha.

goslowgoslow:
Rosharon is not redneck area, it has all colors, so many Nigerian lives there. The people you called rednecks are just about I0 percent in that area. I live less than 30 min to the place.

nice