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That’s extremely cheap in todays market. Where’s it? Redneck area?

GloriousGbola:
The dressing gives her away. Your skit makers idea of black dressing is ghetto fab. Can you see yourself as a professional who has worked in the US for over 15 years dressing like that?

🤭🤭

What a dvmb xtupid slowpoke you are

dublinkmy6:
My father hit my mother a couple of times (mum herself is a fighter from her youth) and they're still married for almost 40yrs now.

I've seen a man slap the hell out of his wife to reset her brain and he loves her to bits till date and are still married.

Hitting your woman to correct her erroneous mentality is same as correcting a child by spanking, and seeing how mentaly immature some Nigerian women can be at times, that brain resetting hit can be utterly necessary and can even save a marriage, it only depends on the circumstances.

Marriage is not a straight journey as I've come to understand it. At times the man has to take charge of situations and do the needful at times, and if that involves the occasional hit then so be it.

michlins:
700-800k ma'am

okay. Thank you. Appreciate your response

Probably to distract from the fat that they are subpar in the education they provide. Let them focus on policing female dressing rather than doing what a university is supposed to be doing. Misplaced priorities

michlins:
What's funny is that I was supposed to be at this particular location to deliver a job this morning.

My driver disappointed and I was very angry at him. It was later that the client called and told me not to come

how much for a gate like this? I’m checking something

Komu1048:
For me I have no skeleton in my cupboard. Police have demand to check my phone multiple times. I dey always hand them over to them, after searching they hand it over to me.

Nothing like legit hustle, many youth are into illegal dealings reason they r always afraid to be search

🙄🙄🙄

schoolboymatt:
I tire o.

if you know you have nothing to hide, give them the phone... unless of course you are guilty of what they are suspecting you to be.

This is just ignorant.

Do you know they can search your phone and accuse you of things you didn’t do based on their own ignorance? Some people have said they’ve had to explain money sent to them by their relatives abroad because police search their devices and assumed it was yahoo. Please stop acting like you don’t know what your police are capable of

flexyrule:
Three wrongs don't make it right.


1. Not allowing the police search your phone - Well, in this zoo we find ourselves in, It's better you hand over the phone peacefully to be searched, than be molested and make the news. Except if you have something you're hiding. Only a fool argues with a man holding a gun. Call me a coward, I gree, but oh please! We've fought wars that made no sense in the past and nothing ame out of it aside the scores.

2. F*ck the po-po - The po-po are always wrong! But it's a dog eat dog world. The earlier you realise this, the better. They'd screw you up and still get away with it.

3. Mind your f*cking business - I'd shut my windows and turn on my TV if this scene appeared in my backyard. Police are killers. The students who made this videos have probably involved themselves in the dog-eat-dog fight.

OfeAchi:
I'm talking to her to refrain from accepting roles that involves sex scenes. Maybe that would help our relationship. I hope I'm not being unreasonable.

Yes you’re being unreasonable. Let her go if you’re not comfortable with her job. Don’t try to force anyone to en the way you want them to be. You’ll only be disappointed

You knew she was an actress before you got in.
Well now is your chance to get out before the relationship is legalized by marriage.

Don’t marry someone hoping to change them.
This is her livelihood and she’s not going to walk away from it because of you.

ednut1:
This clearly looks staged.

sonnie10:
Pure fake .

I don’t know she sounds really distraught to me. If it’s staged she’s a good actor

Aaaaarghmed:
Too much lies, over 40years.how old she be.lie too much.

She might have gone there really young. Maybe she’s been there 40 years not that she’s been sending money for 40 years

He’s married?

Labadi69:
You can eat all this junk yet you no fit buy better water. Who drinks pure water in 2023? It’s even better to go and boil your own water than to be drinking this trash called pure water. See Yamayama coleslaw and fried orishirishi for your plate. And you dey wonder why your belle be like say you pregnant.

You better go and do cholesterol and blood pressure test immediately if you know wetin good for you. Nonsense

What is wrong with you?

OkoAnike:
Responsibilities and finance constraint remains the major key to been faithful,but if I have the type of money I wish to have, I will still remain faithful but marry more wifes... There are so many girls who wants to have a taste of what Anike is taking and I remember one girl openly telling my wife after trying to get to me without success.

Learn how to spell wives first:

And no there’s no faithfulness in marrying more wives. Did you have express permission from your first before marriage that she would be okay if you decide to step outside of your marriage to marry more spouses? How’s your definition of faithfulness twisted?

descarado:
I read that twice

people are weird man. I’m sure since they are married he won’t consider it rape.

Creamypie:
na wah oh. I will not and never blame the man and his son. ..any blame if at all, is y they spared the cheating wife/ mum hoe respectively

BadMus06:
The son is not to be blamed he is just ashamed of his mum's infidelity and had to support his father

FreeStuffsNG:
Anyone sleeping with a married man or married woman is playing with death. It always end very badly so repent today if you are in it
check my signature for free stuffs!

Fut9ure:
Imagine

Wetin women really want

Just imagine now you send your husband and son to prison because of a man way nor even reach your husband level....a refuge worker

Do you know the meaning of estranged?

Lobotomy02:
Faithful men, are there still any left?

if there are no faithful men, who are they cheating with? Because they must be cheating with women, it means there are no faithful women as well

So he rapes his wife and he thinks somehow that’s better than cheating?

okoroemeka:
this is quite interesting what I observed,my fellow in-law confided to me that he has not cheated on his wife for almost 30 years of marriage which is very impressive but he further told me that he beats his wife anytime he wants to nack and she is not in the mood,his wife on the other hand who is my wife's elder sister also told her sister that she prefers her husband to cheat rather than to be beating and disturbing her all the time,now which is the better option?

Love how y’all’s hypocrisy and two facedness can’t let you reason

D.I.V.O.R.C.E
H.E.R!!!!!

I don’t know what’s complicated about it.
If it’s that miserable a marriage what’s the point?

Spectrum22:
SILENT PAINS OF A HUSBAND

Everybody is hung up on domestic abuse by men against women. Nobody spares a moment to find solutions to the equally devastating verbal abuse men suffer in the hands of their wives. It is worse because men can't discuss what their wives do to them for fear of scorn and derision. They suffer in silence. Timebomb.

Unfortunately, the Nigerian society has little or no support systems for this kind of situation. Little or no counselling services. It's been mostly left to the church to deal with. What happens when the man doesn't go to church? What happens when the woman doesn't believe in spiritual intervention? These women are raising daughters. Their daughters are hearing and seeing how they speak to and treat their husbands. What kind of wives will they grow up to become? Those that treat their husbands as kings or those that believe husbands are nothing but verbal punching bags?

We've all agreed and rightfully so that a man has no business hitting his wife. So how then do you stop a wife raining verbal missiles at you? Leave the house? Okay. But you'll return and it will continue. What next? Leave again? For how long?

Recently, I visited a senior friend, an important man in the society and while we were downstairs gisting, the voice of his wife could be heard upstairs. She was spewing unimaginable bile against the man. She called him all sorts of unprintable names. Impotent, wretched fool, miserable man that was nothing when she married him, etc. This is a well respected man. A father of 4 children. She tore at his very core and mocked everything society respected him for. She said he'd soon crash and she'll be there to laugh at him.

I was so uncomfortable as I beheld the man. He was shrunken before me. He was deflated . He tried to gamefully continue the gist to distract me but it was not working. The woman's vitriol was a ceaseless torrent. Uncomfortable silence ensued. I excused myself and left his house.

I was really sad.

You want to know the truth? This is what most men go through in their houses. They labour and toil and build respect but when they return home, the one who ought to speak to the king in them tears them to shreds and tries to deflate their self-esteem. When they are outside, they try to act cheerful and happy but back home, they are shrivelled because the person they live with makes it a point of duty to verbally assault them.

A sad story comes to mind. There was recently a Nigerian Ambassador who was recalled because his wife released a story to the press that he beat her. She also released pictures showing fresh injuries on her body ostensibly inflicted by the man.

In a dramatic twist, their children came out to debunk the stories and said their mother faked the injuries to embarrass their dad. Grown up children.

A particular sentence by the 1st son saddened me. He said it was as if their mum woke up every morning with one mission in life: how to make their dad miserable. They said they were witnesses to how their mum constantly harassed and abused their dad and wanted the whole world to know that their dad was not who their mum was painting him to be.

Yes, opinion shifted on the scandal but the damage had been done. The Ambassador was recalled and nobody heard from him again.

A family is currently at odds with the widow of their son and brother. The wife was constantly verbally assaulting him. Nobody wanted to visit them because each time they were around, it was always quarrel and the wife would call him unprintable names. Even in their presence. When they try to interfere, she will give them their own. The man died recently of heart-attack caused by high blood pressure. He was in his late 40s. The family insists his wife sent him to his early grave with her verbal torments.

What a terrible tragedy

100% sure you somehow believe you are better than the prostitutes

Indeed. All of them have real blood on their hands.

doggedfighter:
This is one of the ekperimas that became billionaires using the pains, blood, sweat and suffering of their people.


Leaving them abjectly poor and in penury.



Even money couldn't cover nor change their vile nature.


A disgrace !

BRATISLAVA:
@bolded is an indisputable fact, like distilled water being transparent.

As a good, obedient, submissive, role-playing, hard working, price-paying, yam-pounder deserving of low octave praise, what else to expect? It is always coincidentally "never my experience" and doesn't exist in pp fantasy world.

Sis I sha I wanted it to just be between us. When third parties start adding their opinions it puts fire to the flame. If you don’t mind. 🙏🏽

All these people always waiting for a chance to show their racism

In case you forgot.

I quoted efficiency to say yes I agreed with his post to say (paraphrasing) that people should only do that if they know that’s the same energy they expect from their spouses and he responded TO ME asking why ppl would even marry someone if that’s what they expect them to. And you jumped on his response TO ME to say how (paraphrasing) it’s a foolish question only asked by those who didn’t make the right choice in marriage.

Girl shut up you know what you were doing. And ion like that shimmying you do when you are called out on stuff like that. Next time keep your snides to yourself.


The leg you think you have in Christianity you don’t even have it. Full blown Pharisee. The type that Jesus would talk about if he were on earth today while dining with the “sinners” and unbelievers you’re judging from your holy throne.

Give it a rest.

bukatyne:
You have it backwards:

I had your time today. You quoted my first on a post that doesn’t concern you (except you are the OP).

I never said I would fish for your posts: I said I would call you out on anti-Christian posts (if I have the time or in the mood).

You are free to believe what you believe in. However, there is nothing like marriage equality in the Bible: it is a man & his wife; there is nothing like marital rape either.

I keep telling you: you can't do one leg in and one leg out. You can't seat on the fence. In this spiritual race, you are either for or against.

"If I don't like it, I can take it up with Jesus." What a Christianly way to speak. I am not a Muslim yet it wouldn't cross my mind to refer to Allah or Muhammad that way.

Stop forcing yourself to identify as a Christian. You are seriously struggling.

bukatyne:
Not my fault you can't understand a response to your own question.

You are a Christian? Fantastic. 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏

Get ready for me! I would call you out on clearly anti-Christian posts with Biblical references (when I have the time or I am in the mood).

This Heavenly race, we must run it together.

When we get to the new Jerusalem, I would use autotune to sing praises to Baba God so you can bake meatpies for me.

Don’t overestimate yourself. I’ve given you time today because you came to do that your “throwing stones and hiding hands” things that you’re so good at. It doesn’t mean I have the time to devote to you or to prove my level of holiness to you or anyone.

You don’t need to go fishing for my posts to show anti Christianity. I will summarize what you’ve termed anti Christian here for you to save you the time and effort

[b] Many Christians are horrendous hypocrites who can’t see how they oppress those who don’t believe in the same things they do. They talk large about persecution but somehow are suddenly blind when they see people of the same faith as they are persecuting others for not believing in the same things they do. Child sexual abuse, marital rape, misogyny and all kinds of family violence etc run rampant in many churches. Half the pastors are scam artists and the others are actually good people at heart who can’t see how some of the things they support perpetuate violence against women especially.

Yes I believe in marriage equality for everyone. I don’t think any government of any nation has the right to create national laws based on their religious beliefs because that opens the door for everyone to want to tailor the laws to suit their own personal religious beliefs. You can’t support that and cry against jihad or any other religious oppression from a different religion.
I could go on and on but that’s it in summary” [/b] .


If you don’t like, take it up with Jesus my dear.

bukatyne:
I am not the person who has started two pages because she jumped on a quote that doesn't concern her.

My pronoun is she/her.

You are addressing me in first person pronoun. I am not a legion of demons that is themselves/them.

It’s literally grammar nothing about gender. I believe you said have a master’s degree. Gosh

Saying so many things and saying nothing.

And yes I’m a Christian. If you’re not happy about it, take it up with the heavenly council next time you attend the holy people’s monthly meeting.

bukatyne:
If you are not sure, did my post before inferring.

Self righteousness? if your skin is crawling use Dettol or whatever antiseptic you have around you.

There is nothing to be ashamed of if you don't identify as a Christian. You try so hard to be identified as a Christian yet your posts doesn't sound remotely close. I am not assistant Jesus; there is no assistant Jesus Abeg, don’t put me inside trouble.



So you have not been clear since and you are assuming?

No ma, I do not 'support' strict gender roles (aka man provides, woman does the home management and chores). I don’t even think it is fair especially if the wife works. However, I would understand a couple who decides to do that if it works for them.

I believe a wife is in charge of home management which is different from doing chores.

If However there must be a hard line (only one person can play a role), then the husband provide and the wife stays at home.

bukatyne:
Just saw your last paragraph.

I am not vocal about the things 'Nigerian' Christian men do? I am not vocal about marital sanctity? I am sure you are clowning now.

https://www.nairaland.com/7138441/women-what-bring-table-men

https://www.nairaland.com/6391644/christianity-anti-modern-feminism-red-pill

https://www.nairaland.com/5405788/fatherhood

https://www.nairaland.com/5763457/christian-husband-like-christ

https://www.nairaland.com/5741247/does-he-want-does-he

https://www.nairaland.com/5014439/breeding-unsaved-christian-husband

https://www.nairaland.com/1869112/husbands-honor-wives-pav

https://www.nairaland.com/1178578/why-dont-christians-apply-bible

I have pasted about 8 of my topics out of which 6 is directly about roles of men (fathers & husbands) in a marriage especially Christian. Topics as far back as 2013 and as recent as 2020.

I am not looking for posts because they are too numerous.

You should have told me you were bored and wanted to whine me. I would have posted online ayo or ludo for us to play.

Stop projecting whatever fantasies you have in your head about me. I have a husband & family who loves me so much so I do not online validation and say what I need to say. I do not need anyone to see me as good or bad online; it doesn't add one kobo to my pocket. If people's perception about you on NL matters to you, goodluck to you.

I am the same person online & offline; my family members know my moniker. They know bukatyne is a very good girl that tolerates absolutely no nonsense FROM anyone even as God is helping me to be more tolerant.

Fantasies about you?

Hmm. Says the person who doesn’t know how to not center themselves in topics that are not about them personally.