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pocohantas:
The aim is always to attack a set of women. So don’t even be carried a way thinking you are their chosen one, because you go collect last last .

Without fail. They’ll learn though.

Wasn’t one of them making a long thread the other day about how women are dependent like children and should be grateful because a man does them the favor of carrying that burden. How marriage is useless to men. it was long winded and very derogatory to women in general. If that’s the case why do they try to discourage us from being ambitious if it’s not a whole convoluted effort to make sure they are keeping us in a position that they can use to mock us?

I’m glad not all of them are that way though. Because there will be problems if they were.

Brian47:
This Wan na coded lipton

right

posty56:
what is the importance of the tea if there's no milk and sugar ?

I don’t know. It’s just nice.
Some of them have some health benefits too.
I do like milk (or some form of cream) and sugar as well. Just depends on how I’m feeling at the time

pocohantas:
Because he keeps getting banned.

Ah. I see. Too bad

MufasaLion:
It ain't spiritual. The nigga probably is suspecting the wife for infidelity and his subconscious mind is making him to believe so.

Y'all should stop being ignorant.

EOD

Pollock, veggies and tea

I don’t know why you even bother to change your account name when your atrocious grammar will always give you away.Do you count yourself among the highly educated men?

“Men are always in the mood for sex”. And that’s supposed to be a good thing?

kayperry:
Stop feigning dumb, there is something called exceptions, cos 100% only applies to battery maybe is mom is one of those exceptions buh that does not discredit the fact that woke women(mostly educated) make terrible wives more. between the class of semi literates and sophisticated ladies ... who dominate the evening newspaper population, its not a made up fallacy that most men tend to settle for semi literates (f) and let me break ur heart some more, most men find semi literate ladies more sexually satisfactory, if somebody son marry pocohantas today its just for arguement & debate purposes. naa to hire one betta female maid join for house, men are alway in the mood for sex not arguement/debate

Narcissistic to the T. If anything happens to them, he’s the first suspect because he’s getting out of hand

faithfull18:
Full stop and I am not a feminist, just an advocate of doing things rightly.

One can't oppose their views both offline and online again, you already earn the feminist tag.

I wear my tag with pride
I did earn that one and it’s true.

This child is black

faithfull18:
Lol, if you even study how Abraham and Sarah related sef. These people only pick some parts to suit their narrative.

Abraham didn't at any point relegate Sarah to the background.

Weren’t they the ones that had a child with their maid and then Sarah changed her mind after bros started favoring the maid’s son so she exiled them into the desert?

Oh and he almost killed his son too?
Too much drama.
Yea not my ideal couple.
And I don’t think they asked anyone to emulate their marriage. They were just living their lives according to their times and trying to make things work. yet these people will read one verse that says she called him lord and two thousand years later, they won’t let us rest because of it.

If they are going to be Abrahamic about their marriages, it better be all or nothing.

I side eyed his comment too.
His mom is over educated and he’s agreeing with the OP.
Meanwhile he admits that his mom is still a good wife despite her over education. Meaning that OP’s stance isn’t factual

I don’t understand these guys

baby124:
That your mum according to OP is over educated. OP said the woman cannot have more than BSC or she is a bad wife. Abi you are blind ni. Is a Parmacist not almost equivalent to a PhD? Your dad married his equal intellectually and you are here spewing rubbish. Shey if your mum was a housewife you will have the benefits you have today? When your father is not Falana. Decorated SAN indeed. From all this your write up I see how you did not figure out that your father is smarter than you! Your sisters education is secondary indeed. Yet she’s well educated, probably abroad. By OP’s standard that is a bad wife. It seems you missed the education in your family or the intelligence gene pool. Your mom is a boss babe, do you think she will be that and more if your dad was like you and OP with small, tiny egos?

Cousin9999 do you see what I was referring to?

Price will fall

Lmao

pocohantas:
Years ago they said they will move on to sex dolls. They even convinced themselves the price would fall and they can afford it. In 2022 the economy is biting harder and now they are convincing women to be less materialistic.

Even the redpiller that created that thread was engaged to a woman the last time he posted. Maybe e fit done marry by now.

Bunch of wizards.

Make I find the thread sef.

https://www.nairaland.com/4295146/which-gender-worst-affected-widespread#64277885

4 years later, they are still on woman matter. They better marry themselves as sex robot no work.

Ikillbrokehoes:
For breath or what

lol

Babe wey sabi book

pocohantas:
No snake does this.

This must be some folklore in your village.

Ovoviviparity is a thing, but definitely not the way you have described it. The egg is formed and hatched inside. Ain’t no snake laying eggs to swallow them again. No no!

The way I gasped

oldienavie:
I may not be able to lead a woman like you, but there are many women out there that I can still lead.
Those are the types I'd look out for....

this is perfect. Everyone for someone

oldienavie:
Men need marriage as much as women do.
But a good marriage and happy home has rules and formula that needs to be followed for the most part.
The bible and the Quran says, the man is the head of the home and the woman must respect her husband.
Infact, 1 Peter 3:6
just as Sarah obeyed Abraham and called him lord . And you are her children if you do what is right and refuse to give way to fear.

It is not me that wrote it, A man has a duty to make sure he marries someone that sees him as lord. If a man marries someone that considers the 2 of them to be equals in the marriage that is his own cup of tea.

If I were to meet someone like you, I will definitely not marry someone like you. There are many women that have no problem submitting to a man, that is the kind of woman a man must search for...

Yea. If I were to meet someone like you, I wouldn’t marry you either. But you don’t speak for all men because my husband doesn’t want me to call him lord or to do everything he said without questions, contribution or feedback. He DOESN’T give me instructions (lmao).

So when you people go about making rules for what men and women should do, make sure you add that you’re speaking for only yourself. Just yourself.

In future also remember that Abraham and Sarah are not everyone’s ideal couple. They might be yours but not mine. Keep that in mind when you make future points

Please show me where I insulted you.
This is an example of the gaslighting I was walking about. Where’s the aggression? Where’s the attack? Which specific words did I use to insult you or show aggression towards you?

I said something that was true. You didn’t like it. so instead of marinating on it and maybe changing your thought process, you have decided to tell a bold faced lie about me insulting you so that we can focus on my “bad attitude” while ignoring the real issue.

Maybe women are at Shiloh all the time because YOU GUYS sit around shaming single women, creating a culture that denigrates and devalues women if they are not married. Maybe they don’t need marriage as much as they need to be married. Have you thought about that? Apply some of that famous world class logic will you.

oldienavie:
You are being too aggresive, even if you disagree with me, you can pass your message accross without the unnecessary insults, you have written so much but failed to address any of the issues I raised.

Go to Shiloh, how many men do you see doing night vigil looking for wife ? It is the women that are running around begging for husbands, and we are here trying to analyse what makes it so that some women might find themselves in that position, you are attacking everyone...

oldienavie:
I quickly glanced through the thread and saw that a lot of women have become very embittered and almost made the thread unreadable with insults.
Yet this is an intelligent discussion, if only people would remove emotions and try to be objective and less emotional.

It’s funny how you guys often sit around to demean women, gaslight or belittle us and then expect us to respond to you with “objectivity” and “logic”.
I don’t see women telling you how much education you need in order to be submissive husbands.
You don’t see women sitting around plotting on how best to make you bend to our will.
It’s y’all. Always instigating. Poking sleeping bears.

If you’re not laying varying rules on how women ought to dress, you’re discussing how we need to behave to “keep you”.
You’re deciding how much education is too much for us. You’re deciding what parts of our lives we need to give over to you to control. You’re deciding how we should use our bodies because of course we are property. It’s always women this women that from y’all’s end. Yet all we are doing is just existing, not trying to control you guys.
Someone up there said wives are to be “corrected and instructed” by husbands because obviously we are automatically assuming the husband is without a doubt the smarter partner hence he needs to be handing out instructions (insert eye roll).

There’s not a single moment that goes by without the majority of you (and this is a well earned generalization) looking for how best to make women uncomfortable to soothe whatever ego issues you’re suffering from on that given day. But when you get the befitting response, then women are emotional.

If we were sitting around telling y’all what to do with your lives, your responses wouldn’t be very “logical” indeed.

Just leave women alone or find the one that suits your specific requirements.

Rice

nnenwa5:
Hahaha haha
Check the page, made some changes, compare and revert back to me. Setting this thing up is exhausting, I know how much $$ I don spend already, yet it's not near finished.

I’ll get back to you on it

You can do it. And it will pay off. I promise

Emmanuel224:
So there is this family that have been on the edge because of the inheritance left. The mother insist that she takes ratio 2-1, which means if she takes 2 plots the other children take 1 each. Is this supposed to be so? Is the mother supposed to have more rights than the children? Is this an acceptable ratio? Or it's unfair.

Pls I need voices on this.....FP if possible

It’s all hers and she can will it to them when she dies

nnenwa5:
As you don turn akata na, we will count you as a racist.
. Some nairalnders just love back and forth argument.

Yesterday someone said I must one of those women who believe women are the only ones meant to be raising the kids.

I went back pages and pages of my post to figure out what gave that impression and….Well let’s say I’ll just stay perplexed this 2022. It’s been wild

We just can’t exist in peace on this earth. Na wa. One man will just wake up one day and decide he wants what belongs to another man and they make it everyone’s problem because they have power.

Belafonte:
You're projecting. What I'm prescribing is within the bounds of a marriage. I'm not concerned with whatever any other woman does who isn't trying to marry me.

I never said OverEducated women make bad citizens, I said they make bad wives; that's a clear distinction if you ask me

Okay fair enough.

Cousin9999:
Yeah, I don't think I'm imagining it.

That’s indeed wonderful.

Go read your initial post and refer back to my first response to that. I think that’s what this conversation was initially about. I don’t know how it became a race thing.

Cousin9999:
You know what the difference is between human tr4fficking in Nigeria and west Asia? West Asians think sick, violent crimes are perfectly fine, and laws are designed to protect criminals. Depravity is written into the law. Who in Nigeria besides crazies defends ritual killing?

Despite “only the crazies” supporting it, it is still so prevalent here. After all our condemnation, we still do it daily. In large numbers. And if that was the only thing we had to worry about, it would even be tolerable. In Nigeria it’s perfectly legal for one to work for months without pay. Where in the world is that okay? Our laws protect criminals too. It doesn’t have to be either or. Just make sure you’re seeing the log in our eye before the speck in another’s eye. I’m not naive to Asians racism towards black people. But racism wasn’t even the initial point of this conversation. You just started deviating for no reason

I'm not sure why you believe so strongly in not "looking down" on them. Who are they to be beyond criticism or be so deserving of status? Why do you think Nigerians are not "allowed" to look down on anyone? Do you want to talk about how they see you? You sound like someone who's biracial, married to a nonblack, or nonblack.

I didn’t ask you not to look down on them. I told you that you excluded Nigeria from your list of violent countries as if violence isn’t something we deal with everyday.
The rest of this is your imagination working overtime.

I sound biracial now too

Me that’s always stomping on the behinds of racists and racist apologist folks? Wonders shall never end.
I don’t know where this conversation is headed now as you’ve obviously shifted the goal post to racism.
If your point is that Asians are racist to black peoples, I’m not arguing that. However I believe we were talking about violent societies and I simply told you not to exclude Nigeria from your criticisms.

It doesn’t have to turn into something that it is not

Belafonte:
You need to stop projecting. Noone is holding anyone down. Woman are still free to do as they please with their lives. The point you should take from this thread is that every choice has consequences.

Even if I were a misogynist,which I don't think I am, wouldn't that be good counterbalance to the horses of simps roaming the earth and corridors of power?

No one is holding anyone down?

I actually think that if you were to be in a position of power, yes you would hold women down.
Men like you have done and continue to do it.

Belafonte:
You sound really homophobic. Nevertheless, preaching why women should do isn't the same as hatred for women unless you think women shouldn't be corrected or instructed

homophobic?
I’ve actually been called a gay person on this forum because I defend LGBTQ rights. Y’all are just wild in your assumptions today
If a gay person is upfront about their preferences, I support and defend their rights to love who they love.
But hating women will get you nowhere.

About women being instructed and corrected. By whom?