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GenBuhari:
If I tell you that apart from her trying to get me kidnapped (which I know, had it succeeded, I stood a good chance of not surviving that incident, having resolved that I can never allow myself to be carried away), she also refused to help me get some funds when my money ran out in Nigeria , I struggled for a few months until I figured out how to release my money tied up in my financial investments.

The chances of rekindling anything would depend on her apologising and doing things to regain my trust and I have never recalled her to ever sincerely apologise or ever acknowledge any wrongdoing.

My friend, like you said life is too short, and at my age I understand that very well.

GenBuhari:
Have you not noticed my signature?

Barrister026:
I know This will come of but am tired and frustrated, am not a weakling but my greatest mistake was to marry someone who is huge and bigger in size and strength than me. am a lanky dude edging towards my 40s, any small quarrels we had at home she use her strength to overpower me.. flogging me with my belt I used on my trousers and pressing me to the ground...I have tried several times to make her cry when the altercation leads to fight..but I can't she always overpowers me..all the people in the community nw is aware of it.
I might hit her once, she hit me twice.
Just a little words, she start cursing me out loud.

She even boast out loud to neighbors that she will wound me nothing I will do. I feel suicidal because of this, my families are ashamed of me, mediating in our affairs. The way she disrespect me in front of everyone is alarming.
I Know this will lead to several abuses here online, no worries but I really need help on how to curtain this situation.

The little money I earn can't satisfy her or her needs, she keeps on comparing me with other men.

We have 2 kids together, have thought about divorcing her several times, but the mental effects this has gotten on me is painful.


The insults you think you have crafted for me won't have any effects, because am seen worst from neighbors who knew about this my situation. Advice on what to do will be much appreciated

GenBuhari:
It won't add up because your brain appears to be wired to only see things from the woman's point of view.
I cannot trust her not to decide get her and my children the C0VlD jabbed.
You have to be more specific in pinpointing what it is exactly that is not adding up or you.

Kobojunkie:
It is my favorite! It is light, yet full of taste.

pocohantas:
Oha…

Loverofpeace:
Good evening nairalanders I have a little challenge I am facing in my workplace at the moment and I am suspecting my boss to be responsible,I started working in this new company December last year it's a a real estate company,but the office were I work in particular we run a pos there too,so I when I come to work in the morning I first go to my bosses place to collect cash for customers withdrawal.


I am a type of person that barely misplace my money or phone,these two things are very important to me so I am very careful with them,but since I started working in this company it has being a different case,there is no week I don't loose up to 6000 from the pos money I will try all my best to trace the money with the machine transaction history but I will never trace how the money went ,and the most painful part is that I usually pay the depths with my salary so end of the month I usually go with half of my salary as a result of debt.
There are 3 reasons why I suspect my boss,no one the first month I started work a friend of mine told me that he doesn't like my boss,that he looks diabolic to him I laugh and told him to stop being too supersticous because I don't believe such things he told me his instincts don't disappoint him.
Secondly there was a day I borrowed money from my boss I told him I want to buy some stuff that I am broke at the moment ,since I have worked half of the month I need a little change from my salary I only requested 10k,after thinking hard for about 10 minutes he gave me the money,actually I wanted to use the money to pay a loan app I was owing so I payed 5k and kept the remaining 5k to get a t-shirt the following day ,I put the money inside my deep pocket and went to work in the morning even when I was on the road I check my pocket and the money was there,did you know immediately I got to my shop I swept the floor of my shop and tidied the whole place,as I was about to leave for the market to my surprise I deep my hand inside my pocket and the money was gone,I searched evety nook and cranny of the shop i didn't see the money,I just laughed and shook my head.

Thirdly, there are two workers my boss just employed because we have up to three branches in my area,one is a girl and one is a boy,the girl seem to like me dlso much she always like telling me how the work is going for her she usually tells me about every issue she has with my boss, did you know this girl has lost up to 20k in the pos money in just one month of work?..
One day I went to our head office to check our debt book because we always have a book we all money we borrowed from boss plus or shortages are recorded did you know this two new workers have lost more than their salaries,I went through the boys record I saw ,5k,3k,4k etc there is no day this guy doesn't loose money I usually blame myself for all my mistakes until I saw that I am not the only one.now the girl has stopped work.

Pls nairalanders,I am tired of working for people I want to quit start up my own biz but capital is the problem if I can get up to 100k between now till May I will start up my own biz ,can someone just help me with a good idea on how to make money online because I don't always lack data here in the office you contributions will be appreciated thanks .

GboyegaD:
Dinner:

Rice and banga.

AdorableSat:
Love this

pocohantas:
My puffpuff dey resemble parallelogram.
Nice one o, well shaped too.

sheycrown:
See golden balls o! My love for puff puff ehn.... pass me some biko

waistbead:
Asam,lf I no enjoy wetin I come gain gbayi! Life no get duplicate o!

How's la familia?

God bless you/yours

waistbead:
Singing! Wahala e no dey finish eh! make we dey try to enjoy!!

@adorablesat,where is you ugba oti ready Nne this is for ya.

amorprincesa:
Sunday rice with chicken head

pocohantas:
There is nothing hard about your question.

The answer is very simple, NO I WON’T.

Men are responsible for 99.9% of unrest in the world. So, I can’t think of any single reason I would risk my life to manage a situation they created.

Putin = Man
Zelensky = Man
Biden = Man

Till date I commend the women that came out under hot sun to protest against SARS. They really tried to make such sacrifices for men and Nigerian men in particular. I can’t expose my skin to such heat protesting for Nigerian men against SARS their fellow men.

I am afraid I would never do such. Last time I checked, 99.99% of armed robbers, ritualists, drug dealers and whatever are MEN.

The ones that robbed and killed people at Uromi are men!

Shekau = Man

Buhari = Man

So, men are not actually protecting women. They are simply keeping their fellow men at bay! If they all act responsibly, women would be able to roam about this earth without any fear of getting attacked or bombed by someone MAN.

You guys should get the memo that the bad ones amongst you are the problem, not women, not feminism. Call yourselves to order or go out there and fix the mess you created! Simpu!

pocohantas:
Appreciating their virtuous women doesn’t make them feel manly. Sad…

Magnoliaa:
Exactly! Just what you and Coco were talking about on some other thread. After such threads have finished burning to ashes, they've praised and patted their 'good women' on the backs, they move on to starting it all over again, having learnt nothing from the 'gentle' women and grouping them together with the rest of us.

''Give them an inch, they take a mile....' I don't have time to be diluting my feminism or energy for anybody. If you no (fit) understand; stay confused. It's from trying to understand 'your mind' that they start on chipping at it and eventually making you compliant, when they'll kukuma pour a gallon of water inside your belief since you were ready to spoonfeed it to them. You won't see it coming at all.

pocohantas:
Why are you perpetually worked up over a set of women that do not exist? Rather than creating threads over feminists, create threads appreciating YOUR WOMEN!!!!

Would I ever see the day this happens?

Ishilove:
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GloriousGbola:
this inspired my moniker

Acidosis:
Okay. Sorry, that wasn't my intention

Acidosis:
You and I know you have issues with anyone who opposes same-sex relationships but that's by the way.

And no, I do not agree that women have stinking orifice. The fact that I don't bother responding to certain posts is not a sign of validation.

GboyegaD:
Was there a will? If yes, every part should honor it. Otherwise, talk to her on how she can help establish someone else to reduce the dependency on her if the business can afford it.

Acidosis:
Your idea is that men should be allowed to knack men and women should be allowed to knack women. If we all follow this route, don't you think humans will cease to exists? If animals also follow this route, how would you get your proteins?

Zonefree:
I can't still fathom why a sane girl will avoid glorious gbola for a smelly orifice

Ladycewhy:
Let me collectively address the dogs that have been barking, settle down boys, calm your nerves, I see your spits and heard your loud incoherent noises. Funny how many of you nitwits have encouraged the anti women campaign but now want to turn around and feel some kind of way when women accept that they are not liked.

As for the assumptions on my relationship status and everything related to it, i am even shocked that by now I have not seen "evening newspaper" , . I mean ,I just have to be one bitter old lady no man wants to be saying the facts like this .


And dear women who have seen and gotten the message ,I know most of you don't want to comment and have to deal with rabid dogs in your mention, I see your shares ,I see your likes , stay safe out there lovelies .