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Romance › Re: Dear Women, Men Don't Like You. by cococandy(f): 5:56am On Feb 26, 2022
Youngpo413:
If not for kids,most sane men won't get close to your gender.
so she’s right?
Family › Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by cococandy(f): 5:50am On Feb 26, 2022
Ladycewhy:
I created a thread about it ,omo come and see barking and spits everywhere grin grin grin cheesy.
Sadly it’s not just men: it’s women too. there’s a casual ingrained “anti-womanness” that we all have to unlearn. It starts from even before we are born
Family › Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by cococandy(f): 5:35am On Feb 26, 2022
Ladycewhy:
When I say men don't like women but only like their biological makeup ,they start foaming in the mouth.


Women just can't seem to catch a break from misogyny.
They actually say it themselves. They just don’t like when you say it to them
Family › Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by cococandy(f): 11:39pm On Feb 25, 2022
Acidosis:
That was simply a friendly advice. I believe you understand my point.

About my reaction to misogyny, well I try to address the issues I can in my little way.
You don’t need to advice me on how not to become a man hater. I’m 30+ years old. Not an impressionable child. I can’t be influenced inappropriately. I can however say the truth as I see it. And the truth is that most people are so desensitized to misogyny that it’s just “one of those things” to them.

I know I risk sounding like a broken record whenever I talk about it but I’m fine with that consequence as long as I keep people conscious and alert about it. Even if it’s one person at a time.

“Witchcraft” negativity and witch hunting is rooted in misogyny. Otherwise men would be equally accused like women.
Family › Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by cococandy(f): 10:02pm On Feb 25, 2022
Needadvice200:
There's no smoke without fire. I don't think those 5 thread are all normal. What do you think
Whatever their problems were, the wives weren’t witches. That’s it
Family › Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by cococandy(f): 10:01pm On Feb 25, 2022
Acidosis:
What happens to supporting humanity? I don't want you turning to a man-hater yunno.
You don’t want me turning into a man-hater?

Why don’t you achieve that by calling out misogyny when you see it?

What happened to supporting humanity? I believe women are part of the human race. You can’t support humanity by ignoring or even supporting anti woman beliefs.

The issue of witch hunting is anti woman by origin.
Read up more on it if you did not previously know this.
Family › Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by cococandy(f): 8:11pm On Feb 25, 2022
Acidosis:
Anything to support women and LGBT undecided wink
Wetin concern LGBT for this thread now?

And yes anything to support women from unjust accusations. It’s always the women that are witches

Family › Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by cococandy(f):
Esthered:
Why do prayer houses label women as the cause of their spouses problems?
It’s always women
There’s this underlying theme that women are evil in nature. It gets exploited by these conmen to create distrust in already shaky situation.

I don’t often see women being told that their husbands are spiritually responsible for whatever problem they’re facing. Instead it might be the mom or mom-in-law that gets accused.
Family › Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by cococandy(f): 8:04pm On Feb 25, 2022
Some long suffering good women who stay with and support broke men get accused of being behind the poverty. This might be the 5th thread on this forum I’ve seen where the man says someone saw a vision about his wife being responsible for his misfortunes.
It’s sad.
Crime › Re: Pregnant Housewife Fakes Kidnap, Buys House With Ransom From Facebook Lover by cococandy(f): 7:43pm On Feb 25, 2022
grin
iamyemiakins:
There are three different sets of people that you can't advise:

1. A woman in love
2. A man with money
3. An African woman that loves her pastor
lol at number 3
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia Vs Ukraine: President Putin Ready To Negotiate by cococandy(f): 7:06pm On Feb 25, 2022
A lot of things can be true at once so it doesn’t have to be either or.
Putin doesn’t need to invade Ukraine in order to maintain his own country’s sovereignty.
He’s a power hungry war mongering dictator.
The innocent people of Ukraine don’t need to be killed because he’s afraid of what America will do when in close proximity to them.
He might think he’s preemptively stopping a western “takeover” before it starts but that’s based on “what could happen”. Meanwhile he’s going to kill thousands of people just to achieve that. If he even does. It’s reckless, egocentric and maniacal.

Tell those people whose infants and children will die because of this to “remove emotions”. It’s easy to be emotionless when it’s not affecting us directly.


smallsmall:
I am a practical person and on this issue, l am with Russia (not necessarily against USA).
With that out of the way, can you please tell us WHAT this your "common sense" says, about this issue and WHY

A lot of Nigerians are brainwashed by the MSM and ignorant of International Affairs because THEY DONT READ and even when they Read, Comprehension and the ability to make an INFORMED Opinion, is lacking in them. (My opinion_

If you can, l will be please to have a summary of how we got here and what you would have done, if you were the Russian President or what you expect him to do.
Just a critical analysis of the events, devoid of sentiments and emotion.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia Vs Ukraine: President Putin Ready To Negotiate by cococandy(f): 6:28pm On Feb 25, 2022
peppermint7:
May history never be kind to them
Nonsense
There are people whose whole identity revolves around being anti USA. Regardless of whatever the conversation is. So any thing that’s seemingly against US will have them euphoric.
US isn’t the heaven on earth it claims to be though . Far from it. But sometimes common sense should come before anything else
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia Vs Ukraine: President Putin Ready To Negotiate by cococandy(f): 6:23pm On Feb 25, 2022
Because they are xtupid fascists who admire dictators and grand standing.


peppermint7:
Btw What do Nigerians gain exactly from supporting this movement by Putin
Killing innocents people
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia Threatens Finland After They Declares Plan To Join NATO by cococandy(f): 6:20pm On Feb 25, 2022
We know the kind of people who align the Putin
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 1:45pm On Feb 25, 2022
amorprincesa:
It's been a long time since I made efo. That's what I want. Make I bring my pounded yam
There still some left for you wink
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:55pm On Feb 24, 2022
AdorableSat:
Pass me the Egusi please
Take one scoop only
Foreign Affairs › Re: 150 Russian Officials Condemn Putin's Invasion Of Ukraine In Open Letter by cococandy(f): 7:39pm On Feb 24, 2022
Russia is not at war with Ukraine. Putin is at war. Dumb megalomaniac
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:40pm On Feb 24, 2022
AdorableSat:
Eat it like this and step it down with water or juice or any fluid of your choice
It’s called kanya or garri mix
very interesting
Celebrities › Re: Adesua Etomi Celebrates Her 36th Birthday (Photo) by cococandy(f): 6:30pm On Feb 24, 2022
21.5 years grin
pocohantas:
Wow. Adesuwa is 36?
And she got married to Banky in 2017. Meaning she was 31yrs then.

Going by redpillers logic, she was unmarriageable and no high value male should marry a woman above 21.5yrs.

Thank God for reality o. Happy birthday to her.




Because our darling BankyW had a serious illness, I think skin cancer and that affected a lot. Abi you no watch interview where Banky use im mouth talk am and thanked Adesuwa for standing by him? Toor!



Heya, I love NL redpillers because if you twist it the right way, they would agree with you. Suddenly we are all in agreement that high value females would find worthy men whether in the morning, afternoon or evening.

Why then were they arguing with me when I said it HERE? grin

My sisters, please focus on the men that matter. kiss kiss kiss
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f):
AdorableSat:
Snacks
Garri, sugar and groundnuts all pounded together
I’ve never seen this before
Do you eat it as is? Or with something else?
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:15pm On Feb 24, 2022
Okra stew
Red stew
Egusi and
Spinach efo

Bring your carb of choice

Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia-ukraine Crisis: Putin Ready To Negotiate Directly With Ukraine's Leaders by cococandy(f): 6:00pm On Feb 24, 2022
pocohantas:
Nawa!! grin grin
Only women are emotional
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia-ukraine Crisis: Putin Ready To Negotiate Directly With Ukraine's Leaders by cococandy(f): 5:54pm On Feb 24, 2022
Hanibbal:
It will continue to astound you baby girl cause you cannot understand what is going on. smiley
Enlighten us oh wise one
Romance › Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by cococandy(f):
pocohantas:
In addition to that, they want us to join army and die at battlefronts for the problem they caused. We should also feel bad that they make up the higher percentage in prisons.

See the one Putin wants to put the whole world inside. By next week they would be asking us why women didn’t join NATO to help fight Russia. Heheheheehe

Someday this would make sense. Until then, cheers to male logic.
My sister
And then they’ll have the nerve to say women are emotional and make bad leaders.
Is it logic pulling Putin into this big Hemotional tantrum that’s going to cause thousands of lives now? How logical is it?
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia-ukraine Crisis: Putin Ready To Negotiate Directly With Ukraine's Leaders by cococandy(f): 4:48pm On Feb 24, 2022
Hanibbal:
This Putin knows the game. He is a GOAT..If you know you know. smiley
The way you people worship Hemotional, thoughtless and violent men astound me
Celebrities › Re: Da Brat Marries Her Fiancée Jesseca Dupart by cococandy(f): 4:20pm On Feb 24, 2022
pocohantas:
Congrats to them. grin



E be like say them never give Berèmx better head before. Wetin concern orgasmic sex with penîs? A woman is more likely to achieve orgasm on her own than by the penîs gender.

lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
grin
Family › Re: Mexican Lady Faces 100 Lashes And Seven Years In Jail For Being Raped by cococandy(f): 10:57pm On Feb 23, 2022
MufasaLion:
Dude, stop arguing blindly!

"The alleged attacker had told police that he and Schietekat were in a relationship, so officers asked to look at her phone to find evidence of intimacy, which she denied.

Police then asked her to undergo a virginity test, accusing Schietekat of extramarital relations, before recommending the case to the public prosecutor's office to bring charges against her."
So you support a virginity test as proof of/against rape?
Does this make sense to you?
Romance › Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by cococandy(f): 10:21pm On Feb 23, 2022
CHoccolaTE:
What do they even mean when they say they offer "protection"?
Protection from what exactly?
Deluded lot.
Obviously, they offer us protection from their fellow men.

They are so close. So close to realizing that they are the problem . But they run face-first smack into the point and still somehow miss it entirely.
I’ve never seen such a phenomenon in my life grin

Like Why would we need protection if y’all behaved yourselves?

And even though they say that, it’s not even true. How many of them call out abusive men? How many prioritize building a society where women don’t have to hide pepper spray in their purses? How many speak up against violence towards women instead of justifying it? I could go on and on. Many may not actively participate in creating unsafe spaces for women but they tolerate the ones who do. And attack the women who confront the dangerous ones. So they are protecting no one.

Protection indeed.

They deliberately created a world that’s unsafe for women and in return we have to submit to them so that they can protect us from the problems they cause.
Romance › Re: Mary Magdalene: Woman With 'world's Fattest Vagina' Identifies As Male by cococandy(f):
If I were a plastic surgeon, I would decline to operate on individuals who are clearly addicted to it
Romance › Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by cococandy(f): 10:04pm On Feb 23, 2022
CHoccolaTE:
But you didn't add the part where the man carried his kids in his womb and raised his kids by himself while the woman stood by saying she has nothing left to give.
Oya complete the conversation.
No he offered her a name.
like she was nameless before he met her.
Don’t forget the ‘protection’ too grin
Romance › Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by cococandy(f): 9:28pm On Feb 23, 2022
Okay
perambulator:
is that a lie? is every woman an asset? Are you an asset simply by virtue of being a woman? what nonsense are you talking here? Are all women asets? i if not then am i not correct?
I suspect you read again or brush up on your English better still read my 1st 2 posts in this thread.

There is no perspective here, you seem to have a chip on your shoulder!!!!!! Not everybody adds value both men and women, and even those who may add value to one person may not add value to another. Therefore "many dont!" or "overestimate their value" is a factual statement!!! that doesnt mean there arent men who are just Arseholes but arseholes are not limited to one sex only!!!!!
Romance › Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by cococandy(f): 9:21pm On Feb 23, 2022
Your first response to me is that many women do not have much to offer. That they over estimate their value to men. That wasn’t very respectful. And I used it as an example to buttress your point. I didn’t add anything to what you said. See how it looks from a different perspective? For you, saying that is no big deal. Just another post but for the women you’re referring to, it’s disrespectful.

You know it’s funny how saying disrespectful stuff about women comes naturally but when a woman points it out, she’s confrontational.

Just say you didn’t mean it to sound the way it did instead of trying to make me out to be the bad guy


perambulator:
Firstly i cant remember my 1st response to you. i honestly did not even know when i started a conversation with you. I answered as objectively and mature as possible without bias. I stated from the beginning that bringing something to the table for a woman has nothing to do with money or at least it shouldnt.


Many Men have a bad attitude .....so also a lot of women. Nobody deserves automatic respect this applies to both men and women. If you behave badly, have and attitude problem or a chip on your shoulder , you will be treated badly whether you are male of female. You seem to be on a war path. There are many men who dont think much of women just as there are many women who dont think much of men...what is your point?

Like I said you seem very confrontational...I'm out!!!

i have since checked this 1st post where you quoted me. Value in a relationship in a subjective thing. the fact that one person (male or female) feels that they add value does not mean the other party sees them as adding value to them. You made a fundamental error in your post by assuming you are the one to determine if you are adding value!!!! You value in a relationship is not what you think you bring but what the other party thinks you bring!!!

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