Romance › Re: Dear Women, Men Don't Like You. by cococandy(f): 5:56am On Feb 26, 2022 |
Youngpo413: If not for kids,most sane men won't get close to your gender. so she’s right? |
Family › Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by cococandy(f): 5:50am On Feb 26, 2022 |
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Family › Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by cococandy(f): 5:35am On Feb 26, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: When I say men don't like women but only like their biological makeup ,they start foaming in the mouth.
Women just can't seem to catch a break from misogyny. They actually say it themselves. They just don’t like when you say it to them |
Family › Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by cococandy(f): 11:39pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Acidosis: That was simply a friendly advice. I believe you understand my point.
About my reaction to misogyny, well I try to address the issues I can in my little way. You don’t need to advice me on how not to become a man hater. I’m 30+ years old. Not an impressionable child. I can’t be influenced inappropriately. I can however say the truth as I see it. And the truth is that most people are so desensitized to misogyny that it’s just “one of those things” to them. I know I risk sounding like a broken record whenever I talk about it but I’m fine with that consequence as long as I keep people conscious and alert about it. Even if it’s one person at a time. “Witchcraft” negativity and witch hunting is rooted in misogyny. Otherwise men would be equally accused like women. |
Family › Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by cococandy(f): 10:02pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Needadvice200: There's no smoke without fire. I don't think those 5 thread are all normal. What do you think Whatever their problems were, the wives weren’t witches. That’s it |
Family › Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by cococandy(f): 10:01pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Acidosis: What happens to supporting humanity? I don't want you turning to a man-hater yunno. You don’t want me turning into a man-hater? Why don’t you achieve that by calling out misogyny when you see it? What happened to supporting humanity? I believe women are part of the human race. You can’t support humanity by ignoring or even supporting anti woman beliefs. The issue of witch hunting is anti woman by origin. Read up more on it if you did not previously know this. |
Family › Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by cococandy(f): 8:11pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Acidosis: Anything to support women and LGBT  Wetin concern LGBT for this thread now? And yes anything to support women from unjust accusations. It’s always the women that are witches
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Family › Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by cococandy(f): 8:10pm On Feb 25, 2022*. Modified: 8:31pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Esthered: Why do prayer houses label women as the cause of their spouses problems? It’s always women There’s this underlying theme that women are evil in nature. It gets exploited by these conmen to create distrust in already shaky situation. I don’t often see women being told that their husbands are spiritually responsible for whatever problem they’re facing. Instead it might be the mom or mom-in-law that gets accused. |
Family › Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by cococandy(f): 8:04pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Some long suffering good women who stay with and support broke men get accused of being behind the poverty. This might be the 5th thread on this forum I’ve seen where the man says someone saw a vision about his wife being responsible for his misfortunes. It’s sad. |
Crime › Re: Pregnant Housewife Fakes Kidnap, Buys House With Ransom From Facebook Lover by cococandy(f): 7:43pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
 iamyemiakins: There are three different sets of people that you can't advise:
1. A woman in love 2. A man with money 3. An African woman that loves her pastor lol at number 3 |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia Vs Ukraine: President Putin Ready To Negotiate by cococandy(f): 7:06pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
A lot of things can be true at once so it doesn’t have to be either or. Putin doesn’t need to invade Ukraine in order to maintain his own country’s sovereignty. He’s a power hungry war mongering dictator. The innocent people of Ukraine don’t need to be killed because he’s afraid of what America will do when in close proximity to them. He might think he’s preemptively stopping a western “takeover” before it starts but that’s based on “what could happen”. Meanwhile he’s going to kill thousands of people just to achieve that. If he even does. It’s reckless, egocentric and maniacal. Tell those people whose infants and children will die because of this to “remove emotions”. It’s easy to be emotionless when it’s not affecting us directly. smallsmall: I am a practical person and on this issue, l am with Russia (not necessarily against USA). With that out of the way, can you please tell us WHAT this your "common sense" says, about this issue and WHY
A lot of Nigerians are brainwashed by the MSM and ignorant of International Affairs because THEY DONT READ and even when they Read, Comprehension and the ability to make an INFORMED Opinion, is lacking in them. (My opinion_
If you can, l will be please to have a summary of how we got here and what you would have done, if you were the Russian President or what you expect him to do. Just a critical analysis of the events, devoid of sentiments and emotion. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia Vs Ukraine: President Putin Ready To Negotiate by cococandy(f): 6:28pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
peppermint7: May history never be kind to them Nonsense There are people whose whole identity revolves around being anti USA. Regardless of whatever the conversation is. So any thing that’s seemingly against US will have them euphoric. US isn’t the heaven on earth it claims to be though . Far from it. But sometimes common sense should come before anything else |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia Vs Ukraine: President Putin Ready To Negotiate by cococandy(f): 6:23pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Because they are xtupid fascists who admire dictators and grand standing. peppermint7: Btw What do Nigerians gain exactly from supporting this movement by Putin Killing innocents people |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia Threatens Finland After They Declares Plan To Join NATO by cococandy(f): 6:20pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
We know the kind of people who align the Putin |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 1:45pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
amorprincesa: It's been a long time since I made efo. That's what I want. Make I bring my pounded yam There still some left for you  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:55pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
AdorableSat: Pass me the Egusi please Take one scoop only |
Foreign Affairs › Re: 150 Russian Officials Condemn Putin's Invasion Of Ukraine In Open Letter by cococandy(f): 7:39pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
Russia is not at war with Ukraine. Putin is at war. Dumb megalomaniac |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:40pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
AdorableSat: Eat it like this and step it down with water or juice or any fluid of your choice It’s called kanya or garri mix very interesting |
Celebrities › Re: Adesua Etomi Celebrates Her 36th Birthday (Photo) by cococandy(f): 6:30pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:16pm On Feb 24, 2022*. Modified: 6:41pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
AdorableSat: Snacks Garri, sugar and groundnuts all pounded together I’ve never seen this before Do you eat it as is? Or with something else? |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:15pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
Okra stew Red stew Egusi and Spinach efo
Bring your carb of choice
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia-ukraine Crisis: Putin Ready To Negotiate Directly With Ukraine's Leaders by cococandy(f): 6:00pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia-ukraine Crisis: Putin Ready To Negotiate Directly With Ukraine's Leaders by cococandy(f): 5:54pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
Hanibbal: It will continue to astound you baby girl cause you cannot understand what is going on.  Enlighten us oh wise one |
Romance › Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by cococandy(f): 4:51pm On Feb 24, 2022*. Modified: 7:56pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
pocohantas: In addition to that, they want us to join army and die at battlefronts for the problem they caused. We should also feel bad that they make up the higher percentage in prisons.
See the one Putin wants to put the whole world inside. By next week they would be asking us why women didn’t join NATO to help fight Russia. Heheheheehe
Someday this would make sense. Until then, cheers to male logic. My sister And then they’ll have the nerve to say women are emotional and make bad leaders. Is it logic pulling Putin into this big Hemotional tantrum that’s going to cause thousands of lives now? How logical is it? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia-ukraine Crisis: Putin Ready To Negotiate Directly With Ukraine's Leaders by cococandy(f): 4:48pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
Hanibbal: This Putin knows the game. He is a GOAT..If you know you know.  The way you people worship Hemotional, thoughtless and violent men astound me |
Celebrities › Re: Da Brat Marries Her Fiancée Jesseca Dupart by cococandy(f): 4:20pm On Feb 24, 2022 |
pocohantas: Congrats to them. 
E be like say them never give Berèmx better head before. Wetin concern orgasmic sex with penîs? A woman is more likely to achieve orgasm on her own than by the penîs gender.
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Family › Re: Mexican Lady Faces 100 Lashes And Seven Years In Jail For Being Raped by cococandy(f): 10:57pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
MufasaLion: Dude, stop arguing blindly!
"The alleged attacker had told police that he and Schietekat were in a relationship, so officers asked to look at her phone to find evidence of intimacy, which she denied.
Police then asked her to undergo a virginity test, accusing Schietekat of extramarital relations, before recommending the case to the public prosecutor's office to bring charges against her." So you support a virginity test as proof of/against rape? Does this make sense to you? |
Romance › Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by cococandy(f): 10:21pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
CHoccolaTE: What do they even mean when they say they offer "protection"? Protection from what exactly? Deluded lot. Obviously, they offer us protection from their fellow men. They are so close. So close to realizing that they are the problem . But they run face-first smack into the point and still somehow miss it entirely. I’ve never seen such a phenomenon in my life  Like Why would we need protection if y’all behaved yourselves? And even though they say that, it’s not even true. How many of them call out abusive men? How many prioritize building a society where women don’t have to hide pepper spray in their purses? How many speak up against violence towards women instead of justifying it? I could go on and on. Many may not actively participate in creating unsafe spaces for women but they tolerate the ones who do. And attack the women who confront the dangerous ones. So they are protecting no one. Protection indeed. They deliberately created a world that’s unsafe for women and in return we have to submit to them so that they can protect us from the problems they cause. |
Romance › Re: Mary Magdalene: Woman With 'world's Fattest Vagina' Identifies As Male by cococandy(f): 10:06pm On Feb 23, 2022*. Modified: 10:24pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
If I were a plastic surgeon, I would decline to operate on individuals who are clearly addicted to it |
Romance › Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by cococandy(f): 10:04pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
CHoccolaTE: But you didn't add the part where the man carried his kids in his womb and raised his kids by himself while the woman stood by saying she has nothing left to give. Oya complete the conversation. No he offered her a name. like she was nameless before he met her. Don’t forget the ‘protection’ too  |
Romance › Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by cococandy(f): 9:28pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Okay perambulator: is that a lie? is every woman an asset? Are you an asset simply by virtue of being a woman? what nonsense are you talking here? Are all women asets? i if not then am i not correct? I suspect you read again or brush up on your English better still read my 1st 2 posts in this thread.
There is no perspective here, you seem to have a chip on your shoulder!!!!!! Not everybody adds value both men and women, and even those who may add value to one person may not add value to another. Therefore "many dont!" or "overestimate their value" is a factual statement!!! that doesnt mean there arent men who are just Arseholes but arseholes are not limited to one sex only!!!!! |
Romance › Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by cococandy(f): 9:21pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Your first response to me is that many women do not have much to offer. That they over estimate their value to men. That wasn’t very respectful. And I used it as an example to buttress your point. I didn’t add anything to what you said. See how it looks from a different perspective? For you, saying that is no big deal. Just another post but for the women you’re referring to, it’s disrespectful. You know it’s funny how saying disrespectful stuff about women comes naturally but when a woman points it out, she’s confrontational. Just say you didn’t mean it to sound the way it did instead of trying to make me out to be the bad guy perambulator: Firstly i cant remember my 1st response to you. i honestly did not even know when i started a conversation with you. I answered as objectively and mature as possible without bias. I stated from the beginning that bringing something to the table for a woman has nothing to do with money or at least it shouldnt.
Many Men have a bad attitude .....so also a lot of women. Nobody deserves automatic respect this applies to both men and women. If you behave badly, have and attitude problem or a chip on your shoulder , you will be treated badly whether you are male of female. You seem to be on a war path. There are many men who dont think much of women just as there are many women who dont think much of men...what is your point?
Like I said you seem very confrontational...I'm out!!!
i have since checked this 1st post where you quoted me. Value in a relationship in a subjective thing. the fact that one person (male or female) feels that they add value does not mean the other party sees them as adding value to them. You made a fundamental error in your post by assuming you are the one to determine if you are adding value!!!! You value in a relationship is not what you think you bring but what the other party thinks you bring!!! |