₦airaland Forum

Acidosis:
The biology of a woman already made her the receiver. For men, we are the giver. Whilst the man and woman want satisfaction, the mode of satisfaction differs. One aiming to receive would rarely go after the sexually-poor. That's why women blush over these things rather than show disdain.

Acidosis:
But we have seen a lot of women come here to say they don't want a virgin man. We have also seen a lot of men say it's team virgin or nothing - something a lot of women have never confessed. Virginity isn't even in a woman's top 10 list of what she wants in a man.

I think the difference is crystal clear when it comes to sexuality. When men brag about lasting 1 hour in bed and having a huge manhood (something that comes probably from experience with multiple women), a woman listen in anticipation not disdain. On the other hand, men don't want to hear such from a woman.

Klass99:
This (the bolded in particular) just goes to show that you men cannot handle half the shit you do or dish out. But, we already knew that (some of us though)

Xj2020:
I said a friend and not me. You're right, her mum has an history of mental and emotional imbalance. Though he would have love filed for divorce, he wouldn't want to do that now given her present condition and concern for his kids

eazzzy1:
Women aren’t as bothered about a man’s sexual past as a man is bothered about a woman’s

Many of these men have procured countless abortions for people,raped women, raped little girls,slept with people's wives and grandmothers,some have slept with their fellow men, paid and slept with prostitutes,done yahoo, were cultists on campus, stolen and done all manner of evil in their past, they don't tell those stories to every girl they meet.

They ask God to forgive and turn a new leaf and move on.
But females will let their emotions take over and be answering questions no one asked them.

Ficeo:
Jesus Christ should just come and end this mess in this world.

okeyumez:
They are just ignorant of spiritual implications of their actions.

Auxtin85:
If God does not deal with this generation accordingly he will have to apologise to Sodom and Gomorrah

EndBuhariNow:
Wretch poor dirty ugly looking twin brothers marry ugly looking mgbeke woman... because of people like this God won destroy this beautiful earth with fire

Lamasta:
Na 7 women to drag one man bible talk o but now 2 men dey Share one woman, hope Rwanda people no wan change bible so

aswani:
A lot of fluffy words in this thread.

To me, a happy home is solely down to the wife (or female for those that are in not married)

The smart ones know how to get their way without it looking like they are doing so.

The not to smart ones somehow believe they can forcefully get their way through angry outbursts.

Even when it seemingly works, it builds resentment and slowly pushes the husband away. Most times into the arms of another female.

It is well with all our souls.

CountVersailles:
This is the most ridiculous response I've seen all year. She shouldn't abort it to not have blood on her hands? What do you have for a brain? A toddler's? God! These Nigerians!

josielewa:
this is what happens when a lady is lonely as Bleep, not loved genuinely, just for sex and used as a sexual object ...na you go dey carry people mata for head...even the said toyin wet get the matter never talk anything...i so much dislike this witch....crying more than the bereaved...

Ikwerelastborn:
Anything we remove from the body is a medical waste not a biohazard . Biohazard is already a non cause of body injury which a medical waste is not

udomma1005:
Some good Nigerian who stays close to this internet drama-Queens, should just help us all and kill dis Tonto Dick and then be planning to kill Annie Idibia, this bitches are just giving us wahala everywhere over pri*k, not allowing us concentrate on how to kill the robot/zombie in Aso villa

NaijirianKing:
You missed the wisdom in what was clearly laid out for you. I understand that as a single mother this may be hard for you or even painful to accept. I do apologize for the harsh realities laid out, but we must speak truth.

If you're selling an item worth N1,000 inside the market for N25, that makes you a mugu. But you will be a well "patronized" mugu all the same.

You can't blame the customers who patronize you and capitalize off of your foolishness.

If you give what belongs to your husband, who should be a serious man, to any unserious guy who asks you for it, then you know what that makes you my dear....

Hopefully you can comprehend this, but if you can't good luck to you and your children by various men. I hope and wish you the best.

Take care, and please don't reply me again.

NaijirianKing:
Men control commitment, which is his time, resources and attention. A woman can't be in a relationship with a man unless he agrees to give her one.

Women control who they allow to access their bodies, in short women control sex. Sex can only happen when and if a woman agrees.

Therefore, a woman is supremely responsible for who she opens her body up to and the manner in which she does it. Accountability for who she sleeps with is on her totally.

If a woman simply waited until a man showed her he was serious by meeting her parents, buying a ring, and engaging her, she is being responsible. But a woman who gives herself away to any man who asks has cheapened herself by allowing unserious men to chop and go. Such a woman is responsible for allowing herself to stoop that low. The men are simply taking advantage of an easy marketplace. The lesson is, don't be an easy marketplace for unserious men.

Be a woman if value.

NaijirianKing:
Don't blame shift.

She gave herself away, cheaply, to irresponsible men who didn't see the need to marry her first.

These are merely the consequences of her poor decisions in life. Every action has consequences, try as we may, we can't escape them.

She is to blame for her poor behavior and choices.

begoniaa:
There is NOTHING in this world, absolutely nothing that can be compared to men's hypocrisy and double standards. Especially the ones on NL. So if I actually left my boyfriend of 3 years, for his friend, or a guy I met through him, to be getting married to the new guy -- will y'all be here celebrating me and telling him I found something in the new guy that he (my bf) doesn't have?? Will you be calling him a brhoe that cannot be husbanded??

And when the Dregstan or whatever he calls himself said girlfriends are masquerading hoes, about 2,500 of you liked it with over 300 shares and one DrayZee was dragging me oh. Because a girl was feeling conflicted over two guys: her bobo and a new guy and there was no sort of words you didn't call her. Now you're actually here justifying this again? Nah. I refused to be shocked, but I truly marvel at who do una this kain thing. It's not ordinary eyes.

Girl leave boy...women are hoes and aren't loyal.
Boy leaves girl...well, that is life. He probably doesn't see what he wants in you. Men are the prize.
Girl in a relationship is having feelings for another guy...women? They are the most confused beings in the world.
I am a lady that doesn't put all my eggs in one basket...and the men dating you thinks they've found a valuable thing in you? Spits. Your toto must be wide.
Woman divorces a cheat...these vaginarians are gold diggers.
Shameless man comes to drag a fellow doctor in the lowest manner possible...what women will cause ehn. Fear them.
Randy lecturer fired for soliciting for sex...another man destroyed by a pussy. But if those girls were intelligent, why are they going to meet lecturers?
Man slept with maid...can you see? Can you see what happens when you raise your daughters to be slay chicks that can't cook?
Man cheats on career woman...well, something must have pushed him out. When she's too busy going all over the world.
NOI becomes WTO-DG...can you women see your lives outside? How many of you are this impactful? It's to be posting bumbum on IG you know...but if you have a political career sha, I don't care, my meals must be fresh, cooked and served.

Ndi ala.

Akposy:
Continuation

GboyegaD:
Walahitalai, we are a wicked people. How do you pay someone N15k in this era and yet, abuse the government?

HenryDion:
But his workers earn 15k monthly

He's part of the problem of Nigeria!!!

I have two domestic staff on my payroll: a gateman and a lady who helps my wife, and they earn ₦25k and ₦15k respectively.