Romance › Re: Nurse Found Dead After Marathon Sex With Lover In Lagos by cococandy(f): 5:19am On Dec 07, 2020 |
You still found a way to blame his wife for something that had nothing to do with her. I salute you. khingTony: Wahala be like bicycle
Maybe his wife denied him sex, so to avoid getting angry and beating her up so that his name will not go viral like the other man that dealt with his wife for denying him, he decided to peacefully seek for puna somewhere else.
Little did he know that he will still go viral.
Konji na bastard
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Crime › Re: Army Reacts To Soldier Who Stripped A Woman Naked In Ogun Over Indecent Dressing by cococandy(f): 5:15am On Dec 07, 2020 |
You are trying to reason with someone who isn’t capable of reasoning ULOPVQ: Imagine, you "intelligently" saying that someone's dressing will corrupt a child's intellect. First of all, what do you understand as intellect? And, what is the relationship between someone's dressing and the intellectual capability of a child? |
Crime › Re: Army Reacts To Soldier Who Stripped A Woman Naked In Ogun Over Indecent Dressing by cococandy(f): 5:12am On Dec 07, 2020 |
blinking001: This is a commendable action. This is not Europe and America where you can behave anyhow. Here We choose moral over amoral behaviours. Zero tolerance for stupidity and moral decadence. Three gbosa for the military. blazing idiocy |
Crime › Re: Army Reacts To Soldier Who Stripped A Woman Naked In Ogun Over Indecent Dressing by cococandy(f): 5:11am On Dec 07, 2020 |
This is what unbridled patriarchy looks like. It grows and morphs into these disgusting shows of power. Where a man thinks he’s earned the right to control how a woman dresses and will violently enforce it if necessary. And people find a way to think it’s okay because of their own hypocritical moralizing . It has nothing to do with the army. It’s the culture you all endorse. |
Family › Re: Pius Angbo: Channels TV Reacts To News Of Their Staff Who Beat Up His Wife by cococandy(f): 4:57am On Dec 07, 2020 |
Lmao. Typical Gaslighting and trying to distract from the topic. You really intend to spam the whole forum with your stories aimed at discrediting the lady. Her mother yeh yen yen. I wonder what our business is with that. Face the topic sir clarocuzioo: The guy shouldn't have beaten her. I condemn domestic violence in it's entirety.
There's no justification whatsoever for this kind of beating.
But please i urge everybody to try and hear from the guy also before making comments. It will help us all.
Ifenyinwa just gave her own side of the story, how about the guy's side.
Six years ago when the wedding came up, we were so sure a day as this will come.
This girl shouldn't for any reason bring this to social.media. there's a family to report and families will handle this.
If we start saying things about her on social media, days will not be enough for her Chronicles.
Where do we even start? Do we start from her toxic mother getting pregnant for another man and pining it down on her father, later she will openly tell the whole Irette community that her husband is.impotent and that Ifenyinwa's father is different from her husband?
Do we start from her toxic mother terrorising the peaceful Irette community that earned her the popular name " TRANSFORMER," meaning when ever a transformer blows, everywhere will be calm. That name came about when her mother fought a mobile policeman and injured him seriously in the ear.
Do we start from her father grabbing the properties of her late elder sister till date claiming it's his ?
Do we talk about her mother travelling to Ijebu Ode for some stupid juju, only to have a terrible accident at St. Helen's Catholic Church Irette few minutes to her home?
Do we even talk about her mother confessing to terrible things she did , before her death?
Do we start talking about her early days in Bishop Lasbrey Girls Secondary School? Where when her father gives her school fees, she will put it in am envelope , and tell her classmates that her father from Abuja just sent her money, meanwhile her father is a driver in Owerri.
Do we talk about her promiscuity at early stage. In life? Let her kindly explain the circumstances that brought about " DADDY TAKE IT EASY IT IS PAINING ME". Her sexual escapades abound as a student in Bishop Lasbrey, her school mates can attest to this.
Do.we even talk about the illicit affair she was having with a certain prominent man from Irette who was also spraying her money during their wedding that people who knew what's up were laughing at the husband?
Do we talk about her wayward way of dressing even after her wedding?
There's a reason why Igbos around did not marry her, because when they ask questions and make enquires, they know she's just a girlfriend and not a wife.
It's unfortunate this guy used a girlfriend for a wife.
For anybody that cares to know more about this girl, please visit Onwu's compound in Irette, Owerri , Imo state and ask about her, you will understand better the kind of toxic personality she is.
NB : I am not holding brief for the husband. I am just seeing his picture for the first time now. |
Family › Re: Lady Calls Out Her Husband, Pius Angbo, A Staff Of Channels TV, For Beating Her by cococandy(f): 4:49am On Dec 07, 2020 |
See them. Why don’t you go and find out the things she did in primary school. even better see if you can find out the bad things she did while in her mother’s womb, to try and justify the domestic violence. We are familiar with your type.  clarocuzioo: The guy shouldn't have beaten her. I condemn domestic violence in it's entirety.
There's no justification whatsoever for this kind of beating.
But please i urge everybody to try and hear from the guy also before making comments. It will help us all.
Ifenyinwa just gave her own side of the story, how about the guy's side.
Six years ago when the wedding came up, we were so sure a day as this will come.
This girl shouldn't for any reason bring this to social.media. there's a family to report and families will handle this.
If we start saying things about her on social media, days will not be enough for her Chronicles.
Where do we even start? Do we start from her toxic mother getting pregnant for another man and pining it down on her father, later she will openly tell the whole Irette community that her husband is.impotent and that Ifenyinwa's father is different from her husband?
Do we start from her toxic mother terrorising the peaceful Irette community that earned her the popular name " TRANSFORMER," meaning when ever a transformer blows, everywhere will be calm. That name came about when her mother fought a mobile policeman and injured him seriously in the ear.
Do we start from her father grabbing the properties of her late elder sister till date claiming it's his ?
Do we talk about her mother travelling to Ijebu Ode for some stupid juju, only to have a terrible accident at St. Helen's Catholic Church Irette few minutes to her home?
Do we even talk about her mother confessing to terrible things she did , before her death?
Do we start talking about her early days in Bishop Lasbrey Girls Secondary School? Where when her father gives her school fees, she will put it in am envelope , and tell her classmates that her father from Abuja just sent her money, meanwhile her father is a driver in Owerri.
Do we talk about her promiscuity at early stage. In life? Let her kindly explain the circumstances that brought about " DADDY TAKE IT EASY IT IS PAINING ME". Her sexual escapades abound as a student in Bishop Lasbrey, her school mates can attest to this.
Do.we even talk about the illicit affair she was having with a certain prominent man from Irette who was also spraying her money during their wedding that people who knew what's up were laughing at the husband?
Do we talk about her wayward way of dressing even after her wedding?
There's a reason why Igbos around did not marry her, because when they ask questions and make enquires, they know she's just a girlfriend and not a wife.
It's unfortunate this guy used a girlfriend for a wife.
For anybody that cares to know more about this girl, please visit Onwu's compound in Irette, Owerri , Imo state and ask about her, you will understand better the kind of toxic personality she is.
NB : I am not holding brief for the husband. I am just seeing his picture for the first time now. |
Family › Re: I Am Ready For Marriage, But My Ideal Wife Must Possess This Characters by cococandy(f): 4:10am On Dec 06, 2020 |
You didn’t see any of the above in your “company’s hospital”?? |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 1:55am On Dec 06, 2020 |
loveymom: I use one eye dey look you for that cocktail oooh mocktail (my bad) and you know why  Well now you know it’s a mocktail  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:00pm On Dec 05, 2020 |
Salad and a mocktail
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Family › Re: Have Finally Decided To Move On After 15 Wasted Years by cococandy(f): 12:33pm On Dec 05, 2020 |
I finally stressed my eyes to read this. Dude you know you’re lying but carry on. Strongwoman444: I have bin married for 15 years and blessed with 3 children 2 girls 1 boy my husband is 50 and am 37 I have suffered a lot in this marriage, my husband doesn't take care of his responsibilities I have bin the only one providing for the family I take care of rent, bills and my children school fee the responsibility Is too much that sometime i feel very sick my blood pressure is always high because of too much thinking that is not enough the worst of all is my husband beat me, he insult me with bad words in front of my children my first daughter of 14 years told me the way my husband is treating me she don't think she will ever get married but I have to begged her not to repeat it again because her marriage will be better than mine, my husband is a alcoholic , womaniser, he smoke weed which has killed his sex drive for 9 years now he doesn't stand during sex no matter what I try to do he doesn't stand he will transfer the anger at me, he will beat me sometime when he stand he will only last 2 mins I have begged him to go to the hospital but he refused saying I am the problem not him because when he is out there with his side chickens he perform so well he call me bad luck and he hasn't touched me for 4 years last time he beat me because I couldn't make him stand he said the day he will touch me that day his late mother will resurecite and I havnt bother him again because when I think about the responsibility I have in my shoulder I don't even care about sex anymore even taught somwtime I cried when I missed it a lot, during lockdown I have lost my business and I have been very stressful with my blood pressure keep. Arise I didn't know where I was going to get the money for rent, feeding becomes hard we had nothing I had to send all 3 children to my parents and my husband wasn't saying anything when he have money he will rather drink, smoke and spent with side chicken I couldn't bear to live anymore and suicide was my only option left I told myself my children are with my parents let me kill myself so I can have peace but anytime I think about my children ky 14,12 and 9 years I said no I can't leave them to suffer and I have tried everything to get a job but they keep rejecting me and my landlord was fighting me for rent my husband will kip quiet as if he doesn't stay with us, I didn't want to go back to my parents because of younger ones they will humiliate me despite my children were there but they had also suffered in the hand of my younger ones they keep reporting to me what my younger ones has bin doing to them which made me to wept badly, one day I left the house and was walking on the street like a mad woman and I was ready to die but a man saved me he almost hit me with his car and he got out and started asking me what is the problem I am the type that I find it hard to tell my problem to people and now a stranger asking me i lied I was fine but he said I don't look fine that he is a counsellor he helped people with depression and various problems he sensed that I have a bigger problem and I can trust and talk to him, he ask if we can go to his car or office to talk but I was afraid incase people sees me and report to my husband I told him I can't because I am married to a angry man I don't want to cause problem so he gave me his office card and say if I need to talk to him I can call anytime and he gave me 5k I couldn't stop thanking him that money was like millions to me because I havnt touch the money in a long time i bought foodstuffs and my shameless husband ate until the food finished without being ashamed of not providing any money for me and he didn't even care to know where did I get the money from I just shook my head, after 3 days I contacted the man we spoke for long and I narrated my story to him he said he knew that I was having problems because the day he met him I was in distressed and if he was one of those drivers that drive carelessly he would have hits me with his car and maybe it would have bin another story but he is happy that I opened up he is willing to help me and he want to meet I went to meet him in his office around 6pm he said he will give me 500k to pay 200k for rent, 200k for my business and use the 100k to balance the children school fees I was in tears I couldn't stop crying he begged me to stop and he even taught I was in my early 50 years old but when I told him I am only 37 he couldn't believe me but I don't blame him because I look so much older than my age because of bad marriage and I don't even know the last time I took a photo of myself because I hated myself so much but he reassure me that he will take care of me and my children and I will get back to the way I was before, that day I don't know what come up because I was crying a lot and he hugged me which lead to sex my God I couldn't believe that I was begging him to enter me and the way I screamed made me realised that I was sexual starved and needed a good dick after 3 rounds I fell all the stress has gone and started laughing like I won a huge amount of money and I left his office very happily and I couldn't stop missing him and can you imagine that same night after having fun with my destiny helper my husband also wanted to sleep with me but I rejected him I told him to go to his side chickens he insulted me as usual almost hit me but I kept calm and slept like a baby all I was dreaming of my destiny helper the man who came to wipe away my tears and ended my sorrow the next morning in September I got an alert 500k following by another 200k in the afternoon 700k I had tears of joy and he said he gave me the 200k bonus because the sex was so good I couldn't believe it that I can also make a man happy because my own husband sees me as a trash woman, I have paid my landlord, starred my food and provision business, my children has come back and they are going to school and I still dating my destiny helper I love everything about him the sex is just so good and in 3 months I now look my age even younger than 37 he is taking good care of me and my children even taught he is also married with a child who is 19 years old he lives in America and he is also in a sexeless marriage so we were both two Hot married people who were desperatly needed each other and glory to God we have met and we are enjoying life, I have find so much happiness through him and I want to get rid of the useless man who is living with me and eating my food for free I don't want a useless man anymore I have suffered a lot but not anymore I am ready to leave him and move on with my destiny helper he is planning to move me and my kids to one of his house far away from my husband in January and he will have me all alone and I won't regret leaving my husband because I deserve better. Please don't mind my bad grammars I wasn't opportunate to finish school like others and sorry about the long post thanks to anyone who will read till the end and advice |
Family › Re: Have Finally Decided To Move On After 15 Wasted Years by cococandy(f): 12:27pm On Dec 05, 2020 |
I couldn’t either Op edit with paragraphs please Richy4: For those that read this, How did you manage to read this without paragraphs? U guys were really brave.... I don't want to have a headache... it's like all the letters were raining from the sky.. |
Romance › Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by cococandy(f): 10:40pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
surebona: Sincerely speaking I caused it all... Please don't criticize me, I am human, I cheated on her, and could not hold myself but to tell her... Give it time. Time surely heals all wounds. The fact that you felt sorry for what you did and confessed to her should have meant something. But I guess it’s a deal breaker for her and there’s nothing you can do about that. Please don’t hurt yourself or do anything detrimental to your future. You have many years of an amazing life ahead of you. It’s just difficult to see through the fog at the moment to recognize that. Learn from this and use it to better your next relationship. Good luck |
Crime › Re: Lagos Trader Stabs Wife To Death, Cuts Both Hands Over Money by cococandy(f): 9:55pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Another day another gruesome domestic violence case |
Politics › Re: Amitolu Shittu: Amotekun Won’t Tolerate Indecent Dressing, Yoruba Language Abuse by cococandy(f): 8:57pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Hypocritical and selective morality continues to be a big problem in this country. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Devout Muslims Only by cococandy(op): 8:54pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
hashtagged: There is a Muslim only section go there pls don't bring this to section for other religions why are you intolerant? What has this thread taken from you? Muslim section is for Muslims only. therefore......... I can’t post there. This section is for all religions which includes Islam. And this thread is for a specific purpose. If your post doesn’t meet the purpose of my thread, it’s a derailment. Desist please. Thanks. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 8:50pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Nuttella: Hello cococandy and co, if I want to bake a cake, do I really need to put a baking paper under the baking pan or does putting aluminion foil do the same thing? baking paper is better. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Devout Muslims Only by cococandy(op): 7:03pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
hashtagged: There won't be islamophobia if people weren't getting killed by Muslims on a daily basis, and give her the complete info
cococandy these are important things they won't tell you until you join 1) Joining Islam is celebrated but leaving Islam is punishable by death 2) The Quran and Hadith justifies killing of non-belivers(Christian's, budhists, Jews, hi dus) 3) female children can be forced into marriage from at age 6 and can be forced to have sexual intercourse with their husbands at 8yrs of age 4) your husband is allowed to have 3 more wives 5) in heaven your husband gets 72 virgins while you only get your husband 6) hijab is a nice dressing 7) if you get raped and report you would be asked to provide four male witnesses if you can't you would be guilty of adultery and stoned to death 8 ) They pray a lot which is a nice thing. 9) There is a high level of Muslim in terrorism cause they believe Mohammed ordered them to kill non believers My thread is for devout Muslim only. To get their insight into the questions asked above. For my own benefit. Please it’s not a “what’s wrong with this or that religion” type of thread. Thanks for your concern but pls don’t derail. Thanks |
Family › Re: I Am Worried About My Mom, Please Don't Ignore. by cococandy(f): 12:31pm On Dec 04, 2020*. Modified: 9:30pm On Dec 04, 2020 |
Heavyheart: He pays his family bills. Not ours. My parents single handedly sponsored my education (and that of our other siblings). I am a medical doctor searching for a place to do my house jobs. My parents are comfortable, when they become 80 they won't still need us to give them money because they already built things that'll keep bringing money for them. I don't understand you cococandy o, did you read the post? So far she has been claiming this man is cheating, still there's no evidence. There was one time she started a rumor that her husband has children outside, she even called her mother in law and was cursing her. At the end of the day, it turned out its wrong information from one of her husband's apprentice. Till this hour, her MIL had not step into that house again. When she had her last child, the mother-in-law, did not show. It was mom that traveled to Abeokuta last year to beg her. And still, she's a bad mom abi? I'm the last child of the family. I don't want to call her and start telling her she's senseless at 34.
Your husband is not educated, whatever money he makes, he saves it in your bank account. And you will be telling him the bank manager called you and said #100,000 is missing. Whereas, you're the one stealing his money.
When I visited them during this pandemic, he told me how he's sad about the whole banking system. How money get missing and nothing is done about. I told him my bank doesn't steal money, helped him to open another account. And my sister stopped talking to me. Now to your additional information you provided. She steals from him and curses her MIL? Of course no excuse for that. Just like no excuse for the stuff you said earlier in your OP. But you must learn to not have everyone agree with you. Since everyone has agreed her behavior is bad. Why do you feel attacked because I pointed out you making light of his alleged cheating? the guy might have cheated o, but most of the accusations are not true. this was from your post. So what don’t you understand about me saying your blame is one sided? If you believe she maybe right about it but the only person you HATE SO MUCH is your sister, then my post still stands. I didn’t misunderstand the bills part. Your family finance is not necessary here. I understood what you mean by he pays the bills. Which is often what constitutes a ‘wonderful’ husband. Your mom’s advice to focus on her kids and herself is the classic suffer head advice. Ignore it and focus on your kids. Look If you believe it’s an outright lie against the man, then that’s a different case. And I’d see your reason for thinking he has done nothing wrong. Otherwise what I see here is classic case of Nigerian marriage where it falls on only the woman to make it work. Even though both of them have areas they could improve on to make the marriage work. She could start cooking better meals and stop being nosey about his outside activities. And he could maybe stop cheating? Oh she could stop stealing his money too and cursing her MIL. Plus other things you’re yet to mention that she does. Remind me what your thread was about again. Do you want advice on how to stop hating your sister? How to make your mom feel better? Or you’re just venting (it’s allowed). I don’t know what kind of responses you’re expecting. I guess any post that’s not glossing over the man’s fault and heavily emphasizing your sister’s is not welcome? Just tell me what to type and I will  Also good luck with your house job |
Family › Re: I Am Worried About My Mom, Please Don't Ignore. by cococandy(f): 9:02am On Dec 04, 2020 |
You, your mom, your sis and her husband are all wrong. I honestly feel like you guys on your part are even more wrong to make her feel like she has no one she can depend on to be on her side when her husband treats her badly. Maybe because he pays the bills you guys are willing to throw her under the bus and tell her “it’s just cheating”.
Now you’ve listed all her faults, where’s the accountability for him in all of this? I’d disown y’all if I was her. She merely called your mom a bad mom. That’s mild for someone who encourages her daughter to sit down and collect STD after STD year after year. Una well done. try to make sure that your judgment and recommendations are not one sided. Where’s his family in all of this? Are they supporting his years of “just cheating?”. Has anyone even told him he’s wrong for that? Or you guys are just focusing on the one she’s doing wrong?
All of you need to change. Her attitude, the husband, you and your mom need a do over. Thanks |
Crime › Re: Youtuber Kills Pregnant Lover On Live-stream As Viewers Pay Him To Abuse Her(Pix by cococandy(f): 11:32pm On Dec 03, 2020 |
. He faces up to two years in prison if forensic experts prove she died of hypothermia, say reports citing law enforcement. Up to two years? Why won’t other he goats like him abuse and kill women when they can practically walk away after that? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Devout Muslims Only by cococandy(op): 11:26pm On Dec 03, 2020 |
mj31: As a MUSLIM we believe in the seen and un seen, the earth was created by ALLAH(SWT), and every thing in between the earth and heavens, but what is visible like( rock, sea, humans, animals e.t.c) and what is not visible eg jins and many other creation.... I will send a QURAN verse for better understanding Thanks for your responses |
Romance › Re: What A Prophet Told Me About My Girlfriend. by cococandy(f): 4:54pm On Dec 03, 2020 |
I wish the girl will leave you so that you stop wasting her time. |
Romance › Re: What A Prophet Told Me About My Girlfriend. by cococandy(f): 4:53pm On Dec 03, 2020 |
Bluezy13: Take a look at this man, his mind as been tampered with and will never remain the same until he lets go of the lady assumed to be the source of his misfortune. I can not advise him to remain with the supposed lady, not because I lend credence to the prophecy but because his adulterated subconscious mind will never be happy with the lady although his consciousness may try to trick him to overlook the prophecy but that will be to his detriment. And you know, we attract what we think, at such, he will keep on attracting negativity because his mind has been programmed to think and suspect a source of negativity lurking around him.
My observation. This part. Absolutely true |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 11:45am On Dec 03, 2020 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Big Cobra Found In My Friend's Bathroom by cococandy(f): 7:35pm On Dec 02, 2020 |
gaius01: Arrrrrrrh
God is wonderful!!
God just use that rat to wage what the enemy has plan.
Just imagine what would have happened, if he was bitten by that snake. The hungry snake followed the rat in there. Normal natural phenomenon: Leave God and imaginary enemies out of it please. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 7:19pm On Dec 02, 2020 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:18pm On Dec 02, 2020 |
Turmeric rice, shrimp and spicy lamb stew.
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Foreign Affairs › Re: William Barr: No Evidence Of Widespread Voter Fraud Yet by cococandy(f): 4:00pm On Dec 02, 2020 |
It’s too late for you Bill Barr. Not after you’ve used the office of the attorney general to serve Trump as his minion and personal lawyer. Fvck you and your little but late effort to curb his excesses. I hope the new AG prosecutes the shyte out of you all. Peace |
Celebrities › Re: 'My Body Is Dedicated To Wizkid' - Curvy Lady Offers Sex To Wizkid (Video, Pix) by cococandy(f): 11:05pm On Dec 01, 2020 |
DkJay: Women with successful husbands are trying.
If you have a man, he has a lot of money and he doesn't sleep around, thank God every day.
Some ladies' full time job is to seduce men. Yea let’s clap for them doing the bare minimum  |
Crime › Re: Kinsman Kicked To Death Over Bride Price Controversy In Imo by cococandy(f): 8:25pm On Dec 01, 2020 |
igbo Men and their bride price greed
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