Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 7:03am On Nov 21, 2020 |
Breakfast
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Family › Re: Is It Right? by cococandy(f): 7:21pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
He is not acting like someone who loves his wife. If he did, His first step would be to alleviate her burden by increasing his earning power (considering that he even had the opportunity to do so). It shows he doesn’t care if she stresses to death. We know what we call women who behave that way.
Now he wants to bring in another entire family for his wife to cater for. Only an idiot won’t see anything wrong with arrangement. Can she ask him what his plan is for them while they are living with them?
Let him say in his own words who he expects to bear the responsibility. Instead of keeping quiet , she should bring it up in form of a financial plan. Ask him what he thinks will happen while this family is there. Hopefully that will get him thinking. He’s obviously too comfortable to worry or think about anything. His work-horse seems capable. |
Crime › Re: Gunmen Kidnap & Kill ETK Amah In Port Harcourt, Dump Body On Bridge by cococandy(f): 1:46pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
Save this talk for the next time you see your fellow guys shitting on a dead helpless woman. Someone of you only bring your reasoning ability forward when your logic is used on you: then you see how ridiculous it is. But rather than adjust, you want to blame the timing of the message. You conveniently skipped at least twenty posts on the last thread calling an unknown dead girl a whorre deserving of her fate. Now you’re telling me what? Save it. Thanks. JustforMen: Kai...this your feminist matter done dey go too far. Haba! We know folks talk out of turn but you don't have to follow them na. It will negate your otherwise, useful message. Timing is also part of an effective delivery.
I can tell you authoritatively that men looove the hell out of women. We don't hate them as a gender just that bad eggs exist on all sides of the devide.
Calm Dan small oo |
Family › Re: Is It Wise To Marry A Girl Who Have Be Delivered From Marine Spirit by cococandy(f): 1:56am On Nov 20, 2020 |
I wish she has the insight to walk away from you. Because any human mistake she makes you will attribute it the so called marine spirit. Or any misfortune you have in future, you will blame her for it.
And now you’ve come on NL to have your head filled with superstitious mumbo jumbo in order to support the misgivings you already have in your mind.
Best thing for her would be away from you. Unfortunately she’s not here to hear that. |
Crime › Re: Gunmen Kidnap & Kill ETK Amah In Port Harcourt, Dump Body On Bridge by cococandy(f): 1:50am On Nov 20, 2020 |
He’s not a young woman so we won’t say he brought it on himself . Even though we clearly know it can happen to anyone. |
Celebrities › Re: Paul Okoye Blasts Lola Omotayo For Being A 'Manipulative Pretender' by cococandy(f): 10:50pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
First of all I didn’t say all Anambra families are like that. Common sense tells me it can’t be all of them. Well it seems you have more insider knowledge of what’s going on, so what did Lola do wrong? Of course her crime is that they don’t like her. I doubt there’s anything they can actually pinpoint that she did to earn it. Usually such dislike stems from an influential member of the family (like the matriarch or patriarch) disliking the person first and others fall in line in other not to be on the bad side of the family matriarch or patriarch. And henceforth every little human fault the disliked in-law exhibits is magnified in justification of the dislike they already feel. Humanity 101. . djon78: So wetin Anambara do una again this time around?
Is Paul's wife an Igbo? He is from Rivers
It's someone that never knew the origin of psquare problem that will be talking like this.
The okoyes never supported Peter's relationship Then afterwards it's the same Peter that called for a break-up of the group
Peter was the weakest link in the group His contribution was negligible compared to Paul and Jude
So the family feels that the warning they gave has come to pass.
Now they broke up How has Peter's music been?
See it has nothing to do with tribe It's more to do with the person in question
Sometimes a guy may want to marry a lady And the family don't give consent It's better the person in question move on Because sometimes the feud may last for generations
I listened to a popular radio presenter in FCT Abuja early this week He is a northerner Married a northern woman But her family never accepted the guy Unfortunately for the guy The wife later died by sickness The guy said the ordeal he went through He never wished it on his enemy In conclusion He said that when you are going to marry someone Once the family no like you Na long thing for you That the family may never accept you That based on what he went through He won't advise anybody to go to family where they are not accepted for marriage Rather go to where you are accepted And I fully agree with him
In Africa Marriage involves extended family And if anyone don't put that fact into perspective
He or she will have themselves to blame |
Politics › Re: #EndSARS: Emmanuel Iloanya Testifies At Judicial Panel Of Inquiry by cococandy(f): 10:16pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
The way humen beings get drunk with power |
Celebrities › Re: Paul Okoye Blasts Lola Omotayo For Being A 'Manipulative Pretender' by cococandy(f): 8:32pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
I’m Igbo and I agree with you to an extent. Simply because I know not everyone or every part is like this. But Anambra tribalism is on steroids. They don’t even want to marry other igbo people. Had a friend divorced in his 40s after having teenage kids and the main issue is that he never listened to his mother on whom to marry. The sister of this person too ended up divorced. All due to family interference. Other igbos call them “Ndi mmanyi si “ meaning “our mother said”. Once their moms said something (especially regarding your choice of spouse), it’s final. Who wants that kind of daily frustration? naijadrivablog: What is happening between Paul and Rudy is just TRIBALISM. Just because one married a Yoruba wife, who seemingly stood by him when he had nothing. Even if she is older, does it matter Why do people get married, is it not to have children Lola has kids so why the fuss And they are happy.
Igbos, I dare say suffer from Ancient hatred from other tribes, which is reinforced by INTRA-ethnic hatred.
Listen to Nnewisuper, juliusmalema etc who are seemingly Igbo's always castigate non Anambrianians. The worst is Nnewi people. If you are dating an Nnewi lady but you are not from Nnewi and surrounding Nnobi et all, they won't marry you.
Not just Anambrianians, even other Igbo's castigate Ebonyians as "third class Wawa Igbo's".
Most Anambra families hardly allows their children to marry non-Anambrianians.
Before you bash me, I am talking from experience, not just hear say and I am from East of the Niger.
The non-unity of Ndigbo will make it hard for Igbo's to produce a President.
Take for example when Peter Obi was nominated the VP, not that they have won o, Ohaneze and SE Governors objected.
I tire for una abeg.
Igbo's rise beyond ethnic sentiments. |
Celebrities › Re: Paul Okoye Blasts Lola Omotayo For Being A 'Manipulative Pretender' by cococandy(f): 8:23pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
Exactly. If she was such a terrible person, how come she has managed to make their brother happy all these years? They’ll keep pushing until they break up the marriage. Then they’ll turn around to say “we said so”. Even if I don’t like an in-law , after these years have gone by, I can put my misgivings aside just so as not to ruin the happiness she is giving my sibling. I wonder if they want them to break up after years of marriage so their brother can marry someone from their tribe and the children will have to deal with a broken family. Maybe then they’ll be happy. NoToPile: @bolded exactly, this lady has been insulted back to back, The children are grown, they have been married for years she deserves his respect as the wife of the sibling. The children are old enough to use SM and they will be reading what their uncle is posting insulting their mother, don't these people think at all ni, can't you at least for the sake of your nephew and niece be reasonable.
It will be hard for the twins to be in good terms with the way his wife has been insulted sha. |
Celebrities › Re: Paul Okoye Blasts Lola Omotayo For Being A 'Manipulative Pretender' by cococandy(f): 8:07pm On Nov 19, 2020*. Modified: 2:09am On Nov 20, 2020 |
She’s manipulative. she’s manipulative. I wonder what she manipulated. They still haven’t said one thing she did to them.
People are divided along tribal lines in their support for either side. But I see it from a Nigerian perspective. Maybe she didn’t initially come across to them as the doormat type of woman coupled with her being from a different tribe, hence their mom didn’t like her before she died and they carried on that dislike.
Anita will be the good wife because she’s from their side. Things she will get away with, Lola will be vilified for. I hope she ignores them henceforth. Sending someone happy birthday on Instagram can also be a way of reaching out. If he had replied “thank you “ to the post, maybe they would have been talking by now.
But he probably wants a kindred meeting with cows and goats killed before he talks to her again. The typical egotistic igbo man. |
Family › Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by cococandy(f): 3:41pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
The coolaid is strong with this one Dapcity007: Bloody Simp 
Dont be fooled by Leftist media CNN who seek to promote radicalized feminism , homosexuality, gay marriage, LGBTQ, abortion under the disguise of supporting End SARS look at their DJ Switch media talk and compare to their news of female celeb Adele divorce from her spouse, who after the divorce she will be feeding as their culture support female hypergamy creating broke emasculated men , my fellow youths let's not be deceived , the ends protest has been hijacked
Obviously its expected she married an emasculated Simp(a potential gay**t), because their society is so progressive and allows for female hypergamy hence the rise of weak nonvirile men , homosexual men, non binary men, She Male,Bisexual men,and other aborminations we see openly in these society,I commend her success as an individual , attaining these height in her music career based on her own merit but I'm against their society killing natural masculinity in their men via queerness,sexless,and genderless notion
The African Man is a natural redpiller , our conservative culture alone produces Alpha male,and also strong independent women who don't see men,babies,marriage,family as threats to achieving their personal set out objectives eg Mrs Folorusho Alakija(richest woman in Africa),Mrs Awoseka of first bank , Arch bishop Mrs Idahosa , Mrs Tara of house of Tara, Former senator Mrs Florence It's Giwa, Rev Mrs Adejumo, Aisha Yesufu of Endsars protest, Mrs Stella okoli the founder and current CEO of Emzor pharmaceutical,and a host of others
These compared to what the leftist american media who want to promote single motherhood,divorce,queerness and other progressive ideologies and we see in some of our female celebrities Toke Makiwa (divorce),Vanetta of big brother(divorce),Genevieve Nnaji (single mother),Waje(single mother ),INI Edo(divorce),Tiwa savage(divorce and single mother) and a host of others
Note I'm not against single women or men Apostle Paul was single,Jesus was single,Mother Theresa was single, you can be single and still fufil destiny, have peace of mind, attain happiness without needing the institution of marriage or family,what I'm against and I now see in some women is that they now see that marriage, family, .men, babies all as threats to attaining women right,and women independence hence the wave of radical feminism, toxic feminity ,progressivism,LGBTQ, genderless and queerness notion
An example is an NGO called feminist coalition that was headed by modern feminist kiki mordi and a host of other ladies who where one of the major sponsors and organizers of the End SARS protest specifically in Lekki toll gate protest under the guise of fighting for police reform,end to police brutality ,end to extra Judicial killing, were actual fighting for radical leftist ideologies like LGBTQ,abortion,gay marriage, etc which are against God and Nature, they were verified by progressive twitter owner Jack Dorsey to gain popularity and donation for these so called purpose
We are all complaining about Buhari today , his bad economic policies as we are seeing rise in fuel,food,transportion costs etc. poor govt educational policies keeping youths from school because of ASUU strike, dictatorial tendency by trying to ban social media,corruption by holding covid 19 pallatives ,etc. We see former pres Jonathan as a weak, incompetent , corrupt politician who could not handle the Boko Haram terrorist insurgency ,people don't see the reason for these was his refusal to accept progressive Obama Gay marriage policy,Jonathan not only refused these satanic leftist feminist ideology but also penalized homosexuals with new legislative bill of 13 yrs imprisonment of homosexuals,Obama punished Nigeria by refusing us the money and arms to fight these terrorist hence leading to countless loss of lives and properties,human displacement into IDP camps,violation of women body and right in the case of Chibok girls , and now these tribalist bigot incompetent president Buhari. |
Family › Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by cococandy(f): 12:10pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
Are you sure violence is the word you are looking for? You could end up dead. |
Family › Re: Achieving Your Dreams/carrier Before Marriage, Best Way Or Not by cococandy(f): 11:15pm On Nov 18, 2020*. Modified: 11:58pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
@OP I’m going to assume that “dreams” in your post means the basic Nigerian understanding of completing your education and settling into a somewhat profitable career. In that case, yes it is advisable to complete that before marriage (all things being equal). The truth is that once married and you start reproducing, it gets more difficult to balance everything. That’s the real unblemished truth. Sometimes, some things have to wait and in some cases, it might be that dream of the specific career or whatever it is you want to do with your life. Unfortunately, women are often on the receiving end of this stall/delay. People don’t often expect men to sacrifice their dreams to build the family. Which is another reason why you as a woman would benefit more from planning and discussing the life you want before you commit to any man. Would I rather be pursuing a dream degree as a single 20 year old whose major task in life at that point is to make sure I pass my classes? Or would I rather be doing it as a 30 year old with a spouse and 3 toddlers/school age children who I have to factor into every single plan I make? As someone who’s been on each side of this, I can tell you doing it before marriage is easier. Will marriage stop you from achieving it? Maybe or maybe not. Depends on who you marry + other factors. More than likely, marriage will throw a wrench that can cause delays to those dreams of yours. On the other hand, marriage can also open doors of opportunities for you to achieve even more than you initially planned to. Again depends on who you marry. What matters is that you enjoy the journey whichever route it takes you If you have the choice and have nothing to lose, do it before marriage. |
Crime › Re: Update: Chinasa Sofia Nkwegu Murdered In Anambra by cococandy(f): 7:00pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Hathor5: They have no regard for human life. That's why they live in the kind of environment they do whereas other nations have created an environment where even animals have it better than them. No matter what leader Nigerians elect, nothing is going to be better until the collective mindset changes . just the plain truth |
Crime › Re: Update: Chinasa Sofia Nkwegu Murdered In Anambra by cococandy(f): 6:12pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
nick50: Story.. This is a story of olosho business gone wrong DonBenny77: Who is they? Why did you follow them? Make una try to dey stay one place and follow you sabi if you must follow.... So many of you fvcktards do not deserve the air you breathe. Callous insensitive assholles |
Crime › Re: Update: Chinasa Sofia Nkwegu Murdered In Anambra by cococandy(f): 6:10pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
AFONJACOW: Stop going out with Ediots they won't listen she was on her way to work. Probably kidnapped via one chance. Who’s raising you wicked boys that are prowling this forum? My God! |
Crime › Re: Update: Chinasa Sofia Nkwegu Murdered In Anambra by cococandy(f): 6:08pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Ifork4money: give full real story please. she looks like someone that might have stepped on people toes or eaten guy man money, all these zzor and poco kinda girls. no rip to give her till i know what happened. she might eve be all these girls wey guy go sponsor from secondary school, to univerisity to nysc then she go dumb the guy say no be her class. no rip for those type abeg.  What a disgusting callous being you are |
Crime › Re: Update: Chinasa Sofia Nkwegu Murdered In Anambra by cococandy(f): 6:07pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Millimann: Investigations should commence immediately. Where did she go to? Who did she visit? Where was she seen last? she was on her way to work. Read first |
Crime › Re: Update: Chinasa Sofia Nkwegu Murdered In Anambra by cococandy(f): 6:06pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Akfrenzy: but are u sure she's not a Cultist ,or have been taken things from cult guys and refuse to pay in kind , bcuz these Obosi girls are something else Another low life pleb |
Crime › Re: Update: Chinasa Sofia Nkwegu Murdered In Anambra by cococandy(f): 6:06pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
You’re an imbecille driand:

How come she just started following unknown persons, just like that...?
Everyone is thinking it, me I'm just saying...
wahala for who get olosho sister... |
Family › Re: Alarming Rates Of Unmarried Ladies And Men Is Worrisome, Way Out Please? by cococandy(f): 1:30pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Wisefellow: Most people are born to work out self achievement, while some people are born to be self made...
Many are born to be selfish but few are born to be selfless
We all belong somewhere as the world revolves around us to make it better out of love or otherwise. okay  |
Celebrities › Re: Brunella Oscar: I Sent Williams Uchemba A DM On Facebook In 2016 by cococandy(f): 11:55am On Nov 18, 2020 |
pocohantas: It is just the way life works, no hard feelings. Nobody will send a hoodlum message. For NL sef, before people send you PM, them done run scan for your profile. Before you sef reply, you go run your own. She wasn’t the first girl holy spirit ministered to, Williams saw what he liked, na why e reply.
At least we won’t hear how he trained her and she absconded from duty.  |
Celebrities › Re: Brunella Oscar: I Sent Williams Uchemba A DM On Facebook In 2016 by cococandy(f): 11:54am On Nov 18, 2020 |
omooba969: Where's my apron abeg, Coco needs breakfast in bed.  I’m waiting. Tenks. |
Celebrities › Re: Brunella Oscar: I Sent Williams Uchemba A DM On Facebook In 2016 by cococandy(f): 11:52am On Nov 18, 2020 |
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Family › Re: Alarming Rates Of Unmarried Ladies And Men Is Worrisome, Way Out Please? by cococandy(f): 11:51am On Nov 18, 2020 |
Who is alarmed? You or them?
Might I suggest you focus your alarm on stuff that can actually affect you personally. Say.... global warming, this vicious virus, the ever increasing poverty that’s breaking our backs. |
Crime › Re: Man Kidnaps, Kills Neighbor' 8-year-old Niece In Kano After Taking N500K Ransom by cococandy(f): 11:39am On Nov 18, 2020 |
Of course HE did. |
Celebrities › Re: Brunella Oscar: I Sent Williams Uchemba A DM On Facebook In 2016 by cococandy(f): 11:33am On Nov 18, 2020 |
Adefemi504: But how many 9ja trained ladies can muster the courage to be the first to message a guy and ask about friendship? So that you people will call them olosho? And use the screenshots to go brag on your ashawo thread? |
Family › Re: .... by cococandy(f): 1:15am On Nov 18, 2020 |
Church weddings use the license issued from the courts to proceed . No need for both court and church wedding. Get a license from the court and use it for your church wedding. Unless it’s one of those mushroom churches that don’t follow laid down guidelines. Most major churches follow this protocol.
That being said, if you’re both Christian and he’s saying no to the church wedding as well, something is more than fishy. Please be careful.
Don’t waste 5-10 years of your life only to find out your “marriage” has been a sham all along and he has another family somewhere else. People will shock you. Protect your peace. Thanks. |
Crime › Re: Lady Caged For 3 Years By Her Husband In Delta Over Witchcraft Accusation by cococandy(f): 2:55pm On Nov 17, 2020 |
This is utterly despicable. All the people who contribute to and foster this superstition about women being witches because of one nonsense reason or another deserve whatever comes their way. Brainless Animals |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Embassy Staff In Berlin Sleeping With Women For Passport Renewal Caught by cococandy(f): 2:49pm On Nov 17, 2020 |
Carrying his “Nigerian” characteristics to Berlin. |
Food › Re: Food Section Derailer’s Paradise: All Food Lovers Are Welcome by cococandy(op): 3:07pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
loveymom: Thanks for this
Been contemplating changing my cookware but I am so confused as which to buy because there are so many brands. Will check out the brands you listed here.
Dálu I swear by le crueset . Try them first.  |
Science/Technology › Re: Four Astronauts Make History With Spacex Launch by cococandy(f): 1:44pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
Thank God for presidents who can complete sentences. A new day has come.  |