Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by cococandy(f): 10:06am On May 22, 2020 |
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Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by cococandy(f): 1:12am On May 22, 2020 |
ericsmith: You gat me laughing so loud, infact if your spouse does not fart careless around d house & you guys make a joke about it, there is no love. I saw the part of the post you deleted  . Just FYI |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 1:04am On May 22, 2020 |
aeion: I've never heard that word before; I'm wondering how it's pronounced. I thought corn = agbado in Yoruba, but I learned something new today.
The things I like to eat . I see myself making an apple-avocado-mango smoothie, with a large chunk of ginger inside.  I’m gonna make a bunch of fruit salad |
Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by cococandy(f): 12:37am On May 22, 2020 |
KanwuliaExtra: There are brilliant gals on this NL sha! I looooooove this.❤️ ibkayee is sharp |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 12:19am On May 22, 2020 |
Mariangeles: I wouldn't mind those as a gift I swear best type of gift. Shows the giver wants you to be healthy |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 11:45pm On May 21, 2020 |
I have special happiness when my fruit and veggie baskets are full. Different recipes start popping up in my mind 
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:33pm On May 21, 2020 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:14pm On May 21, 2020 |
Hathor5: Ever tried rice pudding? There is special rice that is cooked in sweetened milk. I think you would like it.  I have. And I like it. This one is very similar to that. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:52pm On May 21, 2020 |
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Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by cococandy(f): 3:49pm On May 21, 2020 |
KanwuliaExtra: Reaaaally! You always approach topics and conflict with a superior level of maturity, consideration and balance. Very refreshing on and offline. You are always welcome.❤️
Let’s take it a little further.
How will you handle this? Thanks  This extraordinary snapshot is the most startling illustration yet of the brazen manner in which Schwarzenegger betrayed his wife, Maria Shriver, who had no idea that the former governor had fathered the child during an affair that saw him and the housekeeper regularly making love in the marital bed.
After sleeping with her boss, Patty would even dress in Maria’s high-priced designer gowns, decorating the outfits with pieces from her employer’s cherished jewellery collection.
The revelation that Patty, a trusted housekeeper and friend to whom Maria confided her distress at Arnold’s philandering, not only made love to Schwarzenegger almost on a daily basis, but also gave birth to their son Joseph, now 13, has made headlines around the world. But as the former muscleman’s biographer, I am not in the least bit surprised. As for this bit, I’m offended for her. Gosh. Let me say first of all I never knew Arnold did this. Now that’s out of the way. It wasn’t a one time thing. He did it in their home. He fathered a child with the lady. He helped the lady disrespect his wife in addition to his own disrespect. Actually it was more like a mockery of her (if he’s letting her dress in the wife’s clothes). I don’t blame her. With all these put together, I think I’d leave too. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:42pm On May 21, 2020 |
nanakgh: Rice porridge( don’t know if it has a Nigerian equivalent) with bread and egg. It’s mostly eaten with sugar and milk and is a common and much eaten breakfast in Ghana. Quick and easy to make. You’re invited.  Your post revived a craving in me. I made this today. Added raisins, cinnamon and macadamia nuts. I should make this more often
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:37pm On May 21, 2020 |
Impressive pippimp: Wetin i go do na. Since dem wan self quarantine me i ain't go a choice but to find creative ways to pass the time. For real though, the things i've learn't this past month is insane. I made pizza from scratch. Yup. I did. |
Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by cococandy(f): 3:34pm On May 21, 2020 |
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Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by cococandy(f): 3:30pm On May 21, 2020 |
Means we are not weaker then  ericsmith: Other facts as "women are weaker vessels" or "emotional being" how doez it discredit the main fact that women handle pain better than men. we are talking of creatures that bleed for seven days n still stay up,weaker vessel indeed ...how many men can stand menstra cramp not to talk of pains that comes with child birth. The most powerful man can defend himself physically buh when love n emotion strikes he falls yakata, vice versa when it comes to women. Therefore, a man needs protection from emotional strikes just as much as a woman need more protection from physical strikes,my opinion |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:20pm On May 21, 2020 |
pippimp: Had a mini kebab dinner last night. Yummy as P#%K. You can do a lot with an oven. Who knew. Hardly touch my grill these days. Look at all this creativity  |
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Endure Abuses In Marriage? by cococandy(f): 3:17pm On May 21, 2020 |
This ibkayee: Lots of different reasons, here are some common ones
- Guilted/shamed into doing suffer head under the guise of tradition, religion etc - Conflicting emotions (e.g. stockholm syndrome) etc - Financial dependency on their husbands/financial insecurity - Threatened by their partner - Would rather tolerate someone familiar/a toxic environment than start afresh, especially in a marriage obsessed society and a justice system that has a history of failing them |
Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by cococandy(f): 2:56pm On May 21, 2020 |
KanwuliaExtra: The pain lingers on. . . .THE WOMEN ALWAYS EXPRESS THEIR HURT more than the MEN.  That’s what I think about when considering leaving or staying. I dislike living in rancor and bitterness so if I say I’m going to stay, there’s has to be acceptance and it has to be from the depths of my heart. How does that work out? Invite the kid for thanksgiving and Christmas? Big happy family? Make conversation with the other woman? “So tell me Lisa, how did you meet my husband?”  Surreal |
Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by cococandy(f): 1:47pm On May 21, 2020 |
Ishilove: What is with the cheating triangle? Is it that they just wanted to taste one another's privates because me I don't understand.
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Family › Re: What's Making You Depressed? by cococandy(f): 10:57am On May 21, 2020 |
I wouldn’t call it depressed but there are a lot of things going on around the world that makes me sad. The sadness comes from a feeling of helplessness. Like “oh if only I had the power to stop this bad thing or that bad thing from happening to this or that person/s or group of people.” I don’t want to go into details. Thanks for asking OP |
Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by cococandy(f): 9:21am On May 21, 2020 |
KanwuliaExtra: The divorce is now final. You know it takes 2 to finalize a divorce. I don’t think they were ready to let the marriage go. Too painful for both of them I think.
30 years na JOKE?  This is an article from April, 30 years is truly not a joke. Something like this will shock you. Would I leave after 30 years of marriage? Hmm. Serious question. Honestly I don’t know either. I’m guessing it depends on the general state of the marriage at that time. Like... how is everything else? Do I still like my spouse? Is he or she actually sorry about it? What would I loose or gain from a divorce at that point? What will it cost me? (I don’t play with my money.) Am I ready for an open marriage? If you’re having kids with other people, don’t except faithfulness. In fact after 30 yrs of marriage, am I still sexually active with him or her? That would influence other decisions too. I can’t know until that time comes. |
Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by cococandy(f): 9:07am On May 21, 2020 |
Hathor5: How anyone can reconcile the thought that the supposed "weaker vessel" and "more emotional gender" should be better at handling emotional pain and justify the exposure of the "weaker one" to hurt in the name of culture should be subject of scientific research. You can't say women are weaker and "more emotional" and then put all your effort to protect the stronger. It just does not make sense for the representatives of the "logical gender" to say so.  isn’t it amazing?  |
Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by cococandy(f): 8:21am On May 21, 2020 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 8:19am On May 21, 2020 |
britiko: Amen! Ohh, ow I missed Herzumpter. Joined NL in 2007 during NYSC... one crazy lady I miss so much and wish to meet is IDOWUOGBO.  Thank God Cococandy is still here, love ur culinary skills girl. thanks girl.  |
Family › Re: Nigerian Ladies Should Learn From This Lady, Such A Good Wife. by cococandy(f): 11:24pm On May 20, 2020 |
The man is a good man. He could have asked her to carry him too but he’s walking with his legs. What a responsible man. Y’all know equality means leaving everything for the woman. Logical  |
Family › Re: How Do You Call Relate With Your Wife's Elder Sister. by cococandy(f): 11:22pm On May 20, 2020 |
Rogosa: I misinterpreted your message. I tot you were referring to meeting "sister" and asking what she be called.
My apologies! You can actually ask her too. It’s not disrespectful. That’s the surest way to make sure you’re addressing her how she wants to be addressed. |
NYSC › Re: My NYSC Hookup Experience... by cococandy(f): 11:19pm On May 20, 2020 |
I really don't know about the generalization that ladies who go for NYSC are cheaters Says the person who was sleeping around. Your concern is ladies who are cheaters. Not you who has been with all and sundry |
Family › Re: How Do You Call Relate With Your Wife's Elder Sister. by cococandy(f): 11:15pm On May 20, 2020 |
Rogosa: And you think it is not disrespectful?
Common! to ask wifey what the sister-in-law would like to be called is disrespectful? Explain |
Family › Re: How Do You Call Relate With Your Wife's Elder Sister. by cococandy(f): 11:13pm On May 20, 2020 |
In the time that you’ve been here, you could have asked her or your wife. You would have your answer by now. |
Family › Re: Growth Spurt In Children:Barron Trump! by cococandy(f): 11:10pm On May 20, 2020 |
He looks very different. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 11:08pm On May 20, 2020 |
pocohantas: It tastes nice, yea the texture isn’t the best. I used to be a fan of fuku, all of a sudden it started tasting like blood in my mouth. I don’t buy it anymore in my amala. So, I understand your sentiments. okay. So it’s a no then. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:27pm On May 20, 2020 |
Obaolami: Abula is black/white amala, ewedu, gbegiri and stew. Ogunfe...goat meat Shaki...stripe, thick and thin ones Ponmo...cow skin Agemawo...meat that is cut with cow skin Edo...liver Heart Roundabout...large intestine Abodi... I don't know the English name Heart Tongue Fuku...lungs Ah. Okay. Now my next question is how to fit all that into one plate and one belly . Jesu  I don’t know if I could eat the lungs though. Maybe give it a bite just to see. I like to think I’m open minded but lungs? Doesn’t seem like it will have a nice texture |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:07pm On May 20, 2020 |
Obaolami: Please try it ..it must be abula oo, gbegiri, ewedu with stew that has ogunfe, agemawo, ponmo pelu tinu eran...shaki onigbin, shaki onigbawe, roundabout, edo, abodi, fuku heart, tongue abbl. Best enjoy with amala to bele I don’t know what half of those things are  |