Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:42pm On May 23, 2020 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:52pm On May 23, 2020 |
ibkayee: Whew! there’s a plate for you  |
Family › Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by cococandy(f): 4:51pm On May 23, 2020 |
What were you doing to her back in Nigeria? We need the full story. Some of guys your eyes no pure  LinLinGentle: You are right bro, I had plenty gra gra back in Naija and I think she has psychologically programmed herself before arrival to come take her pound of flesh here. There is complete breakdown of communication with her family as they are on her side, always encouraging her to call the police on me. All they say is ''No gree for am o, he think say na Naija he dey. Show am well well, you have rights there and the govt. would support you'' |
Family › Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by cococandy(f): 4:48pm On May 23, 2020 |
 etrange: For all it's worth, I live in Canada. I don't argue that some women don't cause problems for their husbands. I am saying a lot of women still live well with their husbands after coming abroad so saying 'I hate Nigerian women' is sexist and over reaching. We men have our faults too. Some of us live in the Western world where women have equal rights with men and yet we try to subdue our women with the fear that they will be difficult to manage if allowed to explore. At the end, this makes them turn against us. A lot of homes are broken here cause some Nigerian men can't bear the slightest hint of equality. My point is, if the OP's wife is terrible (neglecting the dangers of one sided stories), then she should be criticized and not 'Nigerian women'. You don't bash all women cause of the action of some. If we treat men-related issues like this, nobody will like Nigerian men as well. |
Family › Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by cococandy(f): 4:47pm On May 23, 2020 |
she messed up again and hit me daring me to do my worst. I called the police and made a proper case and she was arrested. She has been banned from the house for a month. The police advised me to talk to my lawyer and extend indefinitely if I want to. I hope to get this done ASAP. The law here does not only protect women but also protects innocent men Finally some truth right? The law does not favor women only. Only ignorant folks talk nonsense about that. I was reading and wondering when he was going to call the police on her. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:41pm On May 23, 2020 |
Jullima: My first attempt baking bread you did well |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:39pm On May 23, 2020 |
Lunch is a serve-yourself affair. Mama is tired. Going for a nap.
Petyprincess you’re invited.
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Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by cococandy(f): 4:37pm On May 23, 2020 |
McWordsworth: Wow! I can't believe the silverbullet guy was banned for this? McWordsworth: Even this!  Rule 4. Discussions of the art of love-making should be restricted to the hidden sexuality section. |
Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by cococandy(f): 4:35pm On May 23, 2020 |
Lizzyangel: Good afternoon madam,..I've known you to be a kind person through your posts and comments here onNl and I believe you'd be a close friend of cococandy....I just need you to go through my thread...Save a dying soul today.....I'm not happy begging this way but I get more scared as my delivery date is approaching..ma coco had helped me on this note coupled with 2women nd a man who made me promise not to disclose his identity or thank him online as he keeps a low profile,I really appreciate their kind gestures and will live to remember them....i was able to get somethings on my list with the help I've gotten from them, but I still have some pressing and important things on the list.,. I promise not to ever do this again as soon as my list are complete...if schools don't resume before August ,I'll surely get my hands on something to take care of myself and kids after delivery....I'm sorry to chat you up here,I'm using free basics and I can't access email.....come to my aid ma'am, you can also refer my case to people you know can be of help and I'll live to remember your kind gestures ma. Ms ishilove you can read through my post too and help.
THANKS IN ADVANCE Nah babe. Don’t do that. Don’t use me as access to someone. I want to believe that’s not your intention but it comes off that way. Just let her do her own thing. |
Family › Re: Is Nairaland Anti-women ? by cococandy(f): 1:31pm On May 23, 2020 |
@bold Thank you. However I want to say I’m not that nice. Maybe poco is. I don’t doubt she is better than I am  me? I go through post history. Both male and female. I don’t finance misogyny, tribalism, homophobia etc (basically any kind of oppression). If I see the poster is like that, I ignore their DMs. Even if it’s a lady (and I’m usually a softie towards other ladies) however some things just don’t sit well with me. That’s why new accounts, accounts with insufficient post history or too many deleted posts also a no no for me. Trying to hide their evil deeds when they need help. It’s 2020. Information is cheap and everywhere. Folks need to learn to do away with bigotry. I won’t broke shame someone specifically because maybe that’s my own way of being nice, but I’ll state a fact. A FACT!!!! That men hardly provide like the NL know-it-alls like to claim. I know folks get MAD when I say that  . But a fact is a fact. No man can provide for you like you would provide for yourself as a woman If you have your own money. Although they won’t stop nagging on the internet about how all women are leeches. Even the ones their moms paid their school fees they put mouth for the women bashing discussion. fieryy: I actually love how he's being called out. There's nothing bad about being broke, it's not a constant state. There's also nothing bad in seeking for help. However, you saw how quick he was to forget the act. I won't be surprised if he still goes ahead to say things like 'Nigerian women are lazy, they can't do this, they can't do that etc.'
How many Nigerian families can depend solely on the man's salaries? I even remember one thread in which some guys stated 'Nigerian women watch Telemundo all day. ' In which world?
You and poco are just too nice. Lord knows how many times these guys have picked up on you, yet you still help them . It's really admirable, but I could never. I'd rather use my olosho feminist ass money to uplift other women by helping them.
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Family › Re: Is Someone That Averages At Least #6m Per Annum Good For Marriage? by cococandy(f): 11:25am On May 23, 2020 |
ismoney: Thinking if there are ways to make someone not to cheat on you because of your truthfulness in other to meet up with your destiny demands. mmm. Okay |
Family › Re: Is Someone That Averages At Least #6m Per Annum Good For Marriage? by cococandy(f): 11:19am On May 23, 2020 |
ismoney: I have seen a lot of homes around that survives with less than $100 monthly and needs little or no assistance from others. I understand what you are saying. Taking all responsibility on family and given stipends. Since you saw all that, that means you already know it’s doable. What is the purpose of your thread then? For us to answer questions you already know the answer to? |
Crime › Re: Court Stops Ondo 16-Year-Old Girl Forced Marriage To Islamic Cleric As 9th Wife by cococandy(f): 11:02am On May 23, 2020 |
jubangha: God have mercy on this islamic people Viktoro1: Child abuse,forced marriages and one religion like that are like 5&6  dairykidd: Oh u mean the pedophile prophet  bonnyhope: Is it not the same Islam? I enemyofprogress: Some muslims no get shame for body dairykidd: Thats all they are good at marrying little girls and when they're done slacking her pussie they take a new teenager for a wife... The painful part is that after they die they're still promised 700 teenage girls in their hell paradise. These people are mad aswear  wink2015: YORUBA MUSLIMS !
Do not be tempted to copy the bad acts of the northern Nigeria muslims.
With your western education, some of your people got courtesy of Chief Obafemi Awolowo free education programme in western Nigeria.
You should have a greater sense of thinking and also inculcate good moral norms. Kwamenaa: I regret ever being a Muslim.
SIGNED Mzrapper. Islam is not really the problem. Men are. Remove church restrictions from some Christian men and see them have no problems with things like these. |
Crime › Re: Court Stops Ondo 16-Year-Old Girl Forced Marriage To Islamic Cleric As 9th Wife by cococandy(f): 10:59am On May 23, 2020 |
When you allow certain men to have their way all the time, This are the kind of things that happen. 16 year old 9th wife. |
Family › Re: TRUE LIFE STORY: What A Man Went Through In Life for Doing This To His Wife by cococandy(f): 10:00am On May 23, 2020 |
Well you already know what to do. Chances are he will get there and go crazy over light skin girls like he’s never seen a woman in his life before. Treat people how they treat you.
He probably thought court marriage will give you a leg to stand on legally in case he wants to do you dirty. And he didn’t want to give you that. Turns out he did himself dirty. |
Family › Re: Your View(s) About Adopting An Unwanted Pregnancy Without Any Legal Process by cococandy(f): 9:57am On May 23, 2020 |
Fraught with risk. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by cococandy(f): 9:54am On May 23, 2020 |
Calabar1stSon: Back in those days, parents would always advised their female daughters that talking to boy who get them pregnant.
Infact religious organizations preach against it even more but you find many of their members involved in the act.
Do you know even at 18 I still thought that kissing a girl would get her pregnant?
What went wrong with the society of today? Why is Pre-marital sex a norm in the society today? Because it’s beyond unreasonable to think that you can encourage sex amongst boys and somehow have the girls be all virgins. Are the boys sleeping with themselves? |
Crime › Re: "My Aunt Watched While Men She Brought Slept With Me" - 20-Year-Old Girl by cococandy(f): 9:45am On May 23, 2020 |
toffyz: Her aunt said to her boss " you will get to know one day why men visits her"
From that statement, It's possible the victim is suffering from nymphomania.
A 20year old girl with a 2yr old child...speaks a lot about the victim.
I think the aunt has known who she is, that's why she's taking advantage of her and commercializing her unusual condition

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Family › Re: Is Nairaland Anti-women ? by cococandy(f): 8:34am On May 23, 2020 |
Is Nairaland anti-women . Yes. Obviously. To anyone with even a smidge of a brain. If someone says otherwise, they are biased. QED.
On the other hand, you people shouldn’t broke shame specific individuals by name. |
Family › Re: My Friend Threatens To Divorce Wife Over This Issue by cococandy(f): 7:12am On May 23, 2020 |
Lamanii22: True what she did's wrong... It's like the case of my neighbour whose wife lied that she was going to visit her parents in her state(south south). Not knowing that she went there to accept a job offer... At Exxon Mobil... Or so... The man was so furious, he didn't want to accept his wife back o, he was narrating his ordeal to me although he was drunk .. me I didn't see anything wrong there cause I felt she wanted to make their lives better.... This woman’s entire life has been limited by the man she married. Pitiable She worked there for like a year sha, she had to resign to save her marriage....
We shouldn't just make decisions on our own... Let your SO give his/her opinion.... she what?!!! Oh lord. This woman had no one in her life who loves her enough to advice her appropriately? So does the drunk husband have a better job to provide for her like her Exxon mobile pay would have provided for her? |
Family › Re: My Friend Threatens To Divorce Wife Over This Issue by cococandy(f): 7:09am On May 23, 2020*. Modified: 9:40pm On May 23, 2020 |
But y’all claim women bring nothing to marriages. Why was your friend waiting on his wife’s money? He should buy the car himself.
The ones that have wives who contribute financially and in other ways. The ones have moms that did the same come to NL and froth rabidly at the mouth against women’s contributions to the homes.
I wish more of your wives and girlfriend would do their own thing since y’all will deny their contributions to score internet points anyway.
On a normal day, I’d say I don’t support what she did. But most of you don’t deserve it. |
Family › Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by cococandy(f): 7:02am On May 23, 2020 |
Men  Always acting like helpless children when someone requests sex from them. Like they have no power to say yes or no. Very funny. |
Family › Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by cococandy(f): 6:40am On May 23, 2020 |
pDudd: I agree as a man. A man without money is a monkey. In your own words, it means there are many monkeys on this thread  |
Family › Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by cococandy(f): 6:39am On May 23, 2020 |
Snaagg: Nobody's is forcing you into marriage in the first place.
Afterall it's your gender that cry yourselves to sleep every night, embarking on intense fasting and prayer for husbands + joining Facebook groups to encourage each other in your singleness/loneliness 
Then you start giving boyfriends ultimatum on when they must propose to you. Hahahhaha!
Na only for Nairaland una get liver. Desperados. You guys try too hard. If women are the only ones who desire marriage, why not leave them alone then. Have you heard of MGTOW? |
Family › Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by cococandy(f): 6:36am On May 23, 2020 |
Men complain of broke shaming yet they are the worse culprits. Even going as far as lying about what women do for them. Yet they won’t leave single women alone. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:34am On May 23, 2020 |
I definitely agree Hathor5: Here is a similar recipe but I didn't add any sugar to the cracker crumbs because mine were sweet enough and I put the cream mix on top before I baked it. I used less vanilla and I didn't add any salt. I also didn't put my strawberries inside the pot with the glaze but cut them in half and placed them on the cake first and then added the glaze on top. At the end I decorated the cake with sliced almonds.
I think my cake looks better than the one in the video . But the recipe is almost the same.
If you can buy glaze powder anywhere, do it. You only need to mix it with water and sugar, boil it and then it is ready or you do it like in the video. |
Family › Re: American Feminist: Pregnancy Should Be Banned. by cococandy(f): 3:52am On May 23, 2020 |
Like I said: “If anti-feminists don’t lie about what feminism stands for, they usually have nothing to argue against.” |
Family › Re: Is marriage worth it?I urgently need your advise. by cococandy(f): 1:59am On May 23, 2020 |
Donald3d: He is being who he is, as I said above. Its his mindset, his personality. If you don't find a way to change his mind physically and spiritually, hmmm...... how can one change someone else like this? |
Family › Re: Is marriage worth it?I urgently need your advise. by cococandy(f): 1:59am On May 23, 2020 |
.when we tried to talk and settle .He slapped me and used a belt on me telling me not to talk while he is talking. Yup. You need to find a way to leave this person. Be smart about it. |
Family › Re: Marital Problem by cococandy(f): 10:44pm On May 22, 2020*. Modified: 1:42pm On May 23, 2020 |
I don’t understand why your husband felt he needed to go outside for a baby. Was it confirmed that the problem was from you? If yes then maybe that’s understandable. Otherwise I don’t know why the blame should be all yours and why you had to suffer him sleeping with other women because both of you couldn’t have a child.
Those saying he endured with you for 10 years are also blaming you for the childlessness. I would have felt a type of way too. The typical and classic woman-blame for anything that goes wrong in the marriage. Since he felt the need to go outside, you could have tried your luck with another guy too. Let’s see who’s fault it is for real. Does he have a baby now?
Edited. Seen that he had a baby now. I’m still standing by my post. If he was the one with fertility problems, you won’t be given free pass to sleep with other men. You’re entitled to your feelings. Do what makes you happy. If the new man makes you happy, make sure you check all the boxes before committing to him. It also doesn’t have to be him. You’re young and you can be with anyone you want. Good luck. |
Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by cococandy(f): 10:38pm On May 22, 2020 |
pocohantas: Lmao. He will still say I am the one crying. Waiting for the weeping thread to come up. Since none of them can focus on the topic. |
Family › Re: How Will You Handle A ❤️-CHILD In Your Marriage? by cococandy(f): 10:36pm On May 22, 2020 |
liberalchick: Conveniently all the anti-bullying superheroes are missing from this thread.  Do they really think anyone believes or takes them and their anti-bullying gibberish seriously? We are children they must think |