Family › Re: Should I Build With Her Or Do It All Alone? by cococandy(f): 12:37pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
factormatt6: . Oh I am so sorry. I need a solution to my trouble Open your commitment mind. You’ll notice a change of attitude in her as soon as she can decode that you’re in it for the long haul. |
Family › Re: Should I Build With Her Or Do It All Alone? by cococandy(f): 12:36pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
factormatt6: . She doesn't say she wants her space, but her actions. Her mum is also engaging her on house chores since yesterday. She accepted waiting for me but she is the type that need result in anything she is doing. I want to take a decision I won't be regretting. I don't want love or relationship to mess me up. Sounds like she’s too good for you. She knows what she wants but you’re afraid of being responsible and committed. |
Family › Re: Should I Build With Her Or Do It All Alone? by cococandy(f): 12:34pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
All the irrelevant details Been from a royal root, I strongly believe that a prince should not sleep alone at night, so I always have girls around me but never get to love them, we have fun and it ends there.my Anty taught me how to use a condom (she is a nurse) so I never for once sleep with a girl without condom because I don't want a commoner to exchange blood with me unless I am to marry her. |
Politics › Re: (Breaking) Covid-19: People With Over N5, 000 In Bank Won’t Get Palliatives ― FG by cococandy(f): 12:30pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
Hathor5: The government they voted in. The same people who will scream on NL how leftist policies are to be condemned because they care more about homosexuality (people's private lives) than a (welfare/social security) system that ensures that people in need survive when times get hard and at the same time retain some dignity. I agree with you but a lot of it is a result of mental slavery due to religion and archaic traditions. It’s hard to shake . They are victims. |
Politics › Re: (Breaking) Covid-19: People With Over N5, 000 In Bank Won’t Get Palliatives ― FG by cococandy(f): 12:22pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
|
Politics › Re: (Breaking) Covid-19: People With Over N5, 000 In Bank Won’t Get Palliatives ― FG by cococandy(f): 12:21pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
Well there’s been talk about it for too long and folks weren’t seeing the money drop so they kinda lost hope it will go through . And no sensible person has faith in Trump so I bet they will doubt it until that money is in their hands. sassysure: Thank u 
Where is my friend 
U guys can lie for Africa  |
Politics › Re: (Breaking) Covid-19: People With Over N5, 000 In Bank Won’t Get Palliatives ― FG by cococandy(f): 12:11pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
|
Politics › Re: (Breaking) Covid-19: People With Over N5, 000 In Bank Won’t Get Palliatives ― FG by cococandy(f): 12:10pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
So anyone who has 5000 Naira is exempted? What’s kind of evil government is this? What does 5k purchase in today’s market in Nigeria? Can someone tell me please? Is it enough to cook for a whole family ? Maybe I’m wrong |
Politics › Re: (Breaking) Covid-19: People With Over N5, 000 In Bank Won’t Get Palliatives ― FG by cococandy(f): 12:08pm On Apr 15, 2020*. Modified: 12:26pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
sassysure: Let's use people here, if they agree with u, I will apologise, ok?
Cococandy, come and settle quarrel here pls before somebody will bite off my head 
Did Trump give una free money? Starting today, Each individual gets $1,200, Each couple gets $2,400 And there is added $500 for each child in the family. So a family of two parents and two kids receives $3,400. Exceptions are the families where combined income of the parents is over $198,000 for joint tax filers. Individuals that make over $99,000 are also exempted. Head of households who are the only breadwinners (I.e with a dependent spouse) making over $136,000 are exempted. There are a few more conditions but it benefits a good number of the population. This is only a one time payment from what I understand so people aren’t that excited about it anyway especially those who are out of jobs because their companies are closed or their services aren’t considered essential at this time. It might help them out for two weeks but that’s it. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 11:45am On Apr 15, 2020 |
AkeNathan: Abeg next time you come Nigeria and you want to cook oyibo style, not local dish
Do well to invite me I will trek from ebonyi to any state  Sure  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:47am On Apr 15, 2020 |
Farmdog: Lockdown has been good from tour end, I can see  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:29am On Apr 15, 2020 |
AkeNathan: I swear people wey dey eat garri every time of the day no suppose dey come this thread  Garri is luxury to me. Different perspectives |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:45am On Apr 15, 2020 |
|
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:32am On Apr 15, 2020 |
|
Crime › Re: Nigerian Student Rapes Hungarian Prostitute, Arrested (Video, Photos) by cococandy(f): 9:08am On Apr 15, 2020 |
He thinks he’s in a place where prostitutes aren’t humans |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:06am On Apr 15, 2020 |
Food 
|
Romance › Re: She Dumped Me For Her Ex, Shattered Me Into Irredeemable Pieces by cococandy(f): 8:51pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
Mtchew |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 8:10pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
I haven’t bought anything there yet. I’m just seeing it for the first time. Never thought to check there  That dried fish looks interesting armyofone: They have always had African food...started some years back. I think the current climate has push more sellers in. Pricey but okay. Some sellers are great with putting good groceries online. Takes long or never to get replies to your questions though. I like asking questions  Have you bought any dried fish ? If so share your experience. I'm dreaming of dried fish stew. I bought palm oil...my current ones are in quarantine  |
Family › Re: Can A Woman Return Her Bride Price, And Should The Man Accept? by cococandy(f): 5:17pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
They don’t want you to stay they don’t want you to leave  linearity: Not true in all cases.
Some communities found out that, men have been using this to hold women down by making themselves perpetually unavailable to collect the bride price.
So in many communities, the woman only need to return the bride price to the traditional ruler of their community e.g. the King, the King’s mess angers now contact the man to come to the palace to pickup his bride price...irrespective of if he picks it or not, the marriage is dissolved according to native laws & customs. |
Family › Re: Can A Woman Return Her Bride Price, And Should The Man Accept? by cococandy(f): 5:16pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
You as the man, do you not want to move on? |
Food › Re: What Food Items Are Taboo In Your Traditional Nigerian Culture? by cococandy(f): 5:08pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
Plead: Nothing will happen. Nigerians just like being superstitious.
Same way a lot of them say if you kill a duck that doesn’t belong to you,you must pay for it or bury it in a human way or else you’ll die or live a miserable life. 
Africa is filled with useless,primitive,senseless and illogical traditions/customs. Don’t worry I know all about our many superstitions but I’m asking ishi because she’s from there. |
Food › Re: What Food Items Are Taboo In Your Traditional Nigerian Culture? by cococandy(f): 4:51pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
seunlayi: Yoruba don't eat vulture I don’t think anybody eats vultures |
Food › Re: What Food Items Are Taboo In Your Traditional Nigerian Culture? by cococandy(f): 4:49pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
Ishilove: Snails. Ukwuani land.
I've never eaten snails, will never knowingly eat them. If one unknowingly eats them, you're supposed to induce vomiting. If you can't, you're to go for ceremonial cleansing. If you don’t do any of those things, will anything happen? Purely curious |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:39pm On Apr 14, 2020*. Modified: 3:56pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
Prestonn: Thanks  You’re welcome fieryy:

Not in Germany I guess. I was hopeful for a sec. Oh bummer GboyegaD: You are based in Chicago right? If yes, I am signing in ooo.  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 1:57pm On Apr 14, 2020*. Modified: 3:42pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
Guys african food is now on Amazon. I don’t know if they’ve always had it but I’m just finding out now. In case anyone is social distancing and can’t go to the african store or Asian store.
|
Health › Re: 56-Year-Old Man Dies Of Coronavirus In Lagos After Returning From US by cococandy(f): 12:16pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
I thought traveling has been restricted? |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 12:04pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
MariamAlheri: Wow. Benjamin4388: Don't forget to invite me Akposy: Pass me the IV. Keep turkey for me...it has been ages since i ate one.
Halcyon....do they even sell turkey in Jos? You are all invited.  Akposy wishing you good health. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 11:16am On Apr 14, 2020*. Modified: 12:18pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
I miss cooking for a lot of people to come and eat. If we are alive after this whole corona bullshit, the first thing I’m doing is a house food fest. We can call it corona survival party 
|
Romance › Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by cococandy(f): 10:47am On Apr 14, 2020*. Modified: 11:35am On Apr 14, 2020 |
MadeBoy: I'm a guy that likes my privacy reasons of my quality time to think and pray for hours. Because I face a lot of spiritual challenges. And my midnight prayers have been helping me. Most especially when I had a nightmare or anytime I woke up.
I will seal up my windows and doors while my AC is blasting high. And even when I raise up my voice it doesn't come out.
The government just extended the lockdown which is tiring. She came to my house and doesn't want to leave. I have so many debts on my head now and my yearly house rent is expiring soon. This is the period I need to be alone in prayers. The little I have now I am using it to take care of her which I would have uses for myself to prolong the suffering during this lockdown. Branch and carbon are sending me SMS to pay my loans.
My apartment is so cussing, chilling and so comfortable more than her house by far. Maybe reason she doesn't want to go. She will be disturbing me and dragging remot control with me. When I am watching TV she will just change it to nollywood drama.
I do want her to be coming and going. Not just to come and stay like she is doing now. I'm not use to this type of life unlike some of my friends.
Outside of all this, I do not see future with her just normal control things..
I have not been able to leave the house or do other personal private stuff.
I need her to go maybe coming on some weekends or when invited. @bold, if you tell her this, she will stop coming. Most of you want to eat your cake and have it. You want her coming and going and performing wifely duties while you know deep down that you have no intentions of having a future with her. You’re afraid if you tell her the truth, she won’t be readily available to you anymore. So you’d rather string her along. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:43am On Apr 14, 2020 |
Petyprincess: Hope I'm not too late to bring my plate? Petyprincess: Hope I'm not too late to bring my plate? Please come in  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:05am On Apr 14, 2020 |
...
|
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:00am On Apr 14, 2020 |
Are you feeling better now? Akposy: Hot Cross Buns
My failed attempt at making hot cross buns. It tasted cool but didn't look like hot cross buns
I've been down since yesterday night o...all the symptoms are that of coro... I just tire...this Easter should do and go sef |