₦airaland Forum

wirinet:
Which country are you talking about? I hope you know this is Africa. Even in normal circumstances, it is difficult enough getting men to take care of their responsibilities to their children. In some places, men's only major contribution to the child is their spermatozoa, ie northern Nigeria, some Yorubas and some Niger Delta tribes.

In some cases ( and I say lots of cases), the man abandons the children once the mother leaves or he gets another wife, and you are talking about two men taking care of a child with disputed paternity.

Donjazzy12:
Remember you openely confessed that you practiced lesbianism in your Secondary School and that you still struggle with it even as a so called married woman.

Once a lesbian, always a lesbian. You are a solid example. Hope your husband sisters are safe from your fingers and tongue!

Axialcompressor:
I will achieve it. I love women but i can’t just be fucking same hole for the rest of my life. I must Bleep different holes in this my life

Axialcompressor:
Shut up. My wife throw me out in my own house? Are you normal ? Where will such happen? With who?

Axialcompressor:
Lol. Seems you don’t know me. The moment my wife gives birth, dna test will be done on the kid whether i suspect her or not

Axialcompressor:
Dey there make pant Dey wear you. So you’ve not been hearing much stories of husbands cheating on their wives. It will never end because it has been like that since

Axialcompressor:
Then my wife is ready to receive the beating of her life before sending her packing. It’s not that hard, is it?

Axialcompressor:
It’s not a wonder. The problem you have is that you think men and women are the same. My sister they are not. Men have been marrying many wives since 20,000BC. But just try and have side nigga first with your husband. If e no go design your face with blow before sending you out of his house. You’re not equal to your husband and so listen to what we are telling you now

Axialcompressor:
It’s not foolishness. So far we are Africans, we must follow our culture no matter what.

Axialcompressor:
It will surely work out. I’m gonna try it because i can’t be fucking one wife for the rest of my life. A side chick will be added and when I’m tired of her, I’ll get another side chick

Axialcompressor:
So many men in the Bible married many wives. And you must have a side chick first before making her your wife

stanliwise:
dullard praising dullard SMH

MissJoy29:
@Cococandy, see some of the people giving the stupid 95 likes

MissJoy29:
To think this up here got 95 likes! I saw it & cringed like Op's wife. And it was 88 likes when I checked first. By the time I finished the whole pages, it has increased to 95 & counting.

Who are these men liking this? They are people's brothers, boyfriends, nephews, uncles, fathers and even husbands o!
Hey!! Wahala o wa!!!

Donjazzy12:
My guy all the suggestions from guys just goes on to show how out of touch men of nowadays are about women.

Very important: Check to see if there is a particular woman your wife have gotten very close to within this period. If there is, then it is a hopeless case. The said close friend is her lesbian partner and that is why she cringes whenever you touch her boobs.

I can on my own count at least 12 homes broken by these scenarios. Suddenly, the wife hates sex with hubby but be very close to a female friends. In all cases, it turned out the wives were being brutally fingered and sucked until every sex interest for their husbands dies permanently.

Most if not all women fall easily for lesbians and the moment they are sucked and fingered furiously a few times they fall yakata. Even if you like let your dick be 50 inches, they won't be interested!

Honestly, I strongly believe your wife has fallen Victim.

Icon79:
That's where COMMUNICATION comes in. Communication is the key. If he ain't getting it done for you then let him know. Men are NOT mind readers. Don't fake it only to go back and complain. And if he ain't pumping hard/fast enough, then roll him over and get on top. You naija women need to learn how to charge during.

A tiny Asian gurl can bang your brains out, but an average naija woman ain't built that way.


O pari

Icon79:
Why do some women feel that it always up to the man to ensure that the woman enjoys sex

If the man ain't doing something right then take charge and teach him to rock your boat ... don't just lay there moaning that you're not enjoying it


O pari

PatrioticNaija:
abeg leave cococandy abi na cococandle alone; she is just a confused olosho looking for online justification for he profession

Grace001:
You're just saying rubbissh, that's the problem most of you girls of now a days have. You want to hold on to our African culture yet mixed it with western culture hence it brings about confusion.

So because there is DNA, the men should supply fatherly care to the child born by a sluut/dog of woman that has lost her dignity all in the name of westernization and brought shame and reproach to her family. God forbid a daughter like this.

Spit.

wirinet:
The problem with this is that men don't get pregnant. If a woman fvcks two or more men at the same time, the children she will born will become a bastard as no man will claim responsibly for the child.

PatrioticNaija:
stupid cococandy. which responsible African lady will bear that for a moniker? By their monikers we shall know them.
maybe when you get married (if you are lucky though), then you can be challenging your husband.

We have our cultures here, so also the westerners. That is what is meant there since you have traded your brain for 2mins cum


Oya receive some sense, oversabi. your mates are keeping their matrimonial homes, you are here keeping your mentalmonial home on Nairaland

PatrioticNaija:
Children of nowadays claim to know too much. especially the ones still praying and searching for husbands.
''he that blows the piper dictate the tune'' In this part of the world, what the guy said is valid.
Think about these.....
1. A man can decide whenever he wants to marry....... A woman cant do that, but will keep praying and waiting for a man to propose
2. A man can marry even more than two women and they will all live under his control..... A woman cant do that
3. A woman don't mind if a married man proposes....... but a man will
4. 5 women can live under one roof with a man......... a woman can marry two men under her roof etc

So in conclusion, until a woman can marry more than one man under her roof, then you can compare yourself with a man.
This is Africa, let's not be stupidly stupid . Though I know matured ladies that are married dont reason the way kinds here on Nairaland do

Axialcompressor:
God made the rule and we must follow God’s word. As a woman can you have side nigga? The answer is no. But a man can have side chick anytime because men can marry many wives, women can’t

Axialcompressor:
No women can’t have side nigga because a padlock that can be open with any type of key is a useless padlock but a key that can open many types of padlock is a master key

justbusy:
That's why I say: God created you women from the remains of dead animals!

kongolo:
@emboldened It is madam

kongolo:
There you go kink-shaming again.Many of these folks will never harm a child.I was pleasantly surprised a few years ago when I found out that they actually love children and it is this affection for children that leads into their misconstrued desire for them

kongolo:
In the nation of Japan,there are hundreds of magazines that have photos of pre-teen and teen girls which are strictly for an adult audience.Adult men who are into that kind of thing are not shamed by the society.Let's quit labelling and demonizing these folks and become more understanding of them

kongolo:
Many 13-14year olds may still be classified as children according to the laws in a state but biologically speaking,many aren't children anymore

kongolo:
Quit kink-shaming

1StopRudeness:
No... It just happens that at some occasions, the groom is a lot older, but that's not the case all the time...a 17year old northern guy with a few cows at his disposal marries these tennagers as well...my gateman when I was young was just 19 and he had two wives back in sokoto
We are just here screaming peadiohile on the northerners....while they don't see it as peadophilia...but a culture to help reduce sexual immorality.....the western culture which advocates free thinking laws that accomodate sexual liberation, derailment and abortion isn't helping to curb this olden days northern culture......call it the ateva u like..I'm only being bluntly objective...

1StopRudeness:
"They are fvcking themselves" isn't disgusting...your hypocrisy is high to the heavens......