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Nigerians are sadists. Especially the men

Lmao



But the married ones risk hell for outside vaginas, risk hell for material stuff that doesn’t belong to them, risk hell doing all sorts of bad things but a divorced woman is the one they won’t risk hell for.

Excuse me while I laugh.

lastmessenger:
will she even find someone? No man wants to commit formication with a divorced woman. No man wants to risk hell abeg.

So fresh. Mmm

Bomgirl:
Who go make garri?

Sigh. Don’t I wish the men in real life were handing out free money like Nairaland guys are so sure they do. At least we agree there’s abuse of power and privilege. Maybe you don’t need so much redemption.


Also you’re screaming. Need Ativan?

CAPSLOCKED:
IT'S OBVIOUS THIS ONE IS CONFUSED. MY REACTION WAS MEANT FOR THE POST I QUOTED. ASKING ME THIS NONSENSE DUE TO THE ANGER YOU FEEL SHOWS HOW MOST OF YOU THINK. YOU JUST JUMP OUT OF THE BLUE TO ATTACK ANYBODY AND THEN CLAIM VICTIMS WHEN YOU START SEEING THE REACTIONS.
I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST THIS THREAD. IN THE FIRST PAGE I OFFERED WHAT I HAD, AND MY NEXT POST WAS DIRECTED TO ANOTHER PARTICULAR POST. THERE'S NO POINT GOING FURTHER ON THIS INTERNET GENDER WARS YOU WOMEN ENJOY SO MUCH.
IF ONLY SOME OF YOU HAD GUTS TO ATTEND TO SOME OF THIS ISSUE IN THE FACE AND CONFRONT YOUR OPPRESSORS IN REAL LIFE LIKE SOME OF US ARE DOING, THE SOCIETY AND CHURCH MIGHT JUST BEGIN TO SEE THE ABUSE OF POWER AND PRIVILEGE BY MEN.
INSTEAD, AFTER VENTING YOUR BITTERNESS ONLINE YOU GO BACK TO REALITY TO ANSWER YES SIR AND COOK, CLEAN AND WORSHIP MEN IN THE PURSUIT OF MARRIAGE AND MOST TIMES FREE MONEY.

You decided to continue a different thread on this topic. Because you people didn’t get enough attention on that one?

Now focus on the topic. Why does the church breed Christian unsaved men? Read the OP carefully and see if you have anything intelligent to add. Not a tirade of untruths

CAPSLOCKED:
PLEASE QUOTE YOURSELF THE NEXT TIME YOU HAVE SUCH NONSENSE TO SAY.

Let the Bible try and stop her when she finds someone else

lastmessenger:
Bible said you can't marry again. So you are doomed to be a loner.

I agree

ElsonMorali:
Most "Christians" don't know that the word Christian means "of Christ" or "Christ like" and that the early followers of Jesus were first called Christians in Antioch because they exhibited and reflected the personality of Jesus the Christ.

Being the head of the family doesn't mean lording it over the other family members.

A reference point is Jesus, the head of the Church who washed his disciples' feet and even laid down his life for us.

That is the role of the head. To serve and not to be served.

The woman on the other hand is not to take advantage of this. But in today's world that we live in, most women will. A man has to be prudent in his dealings with his family members.

Not too bossy and definitely not a wimp.

Now focus on the topic.

Why does the church breed unsaved men. Encouraging behaviors that aren’t Christian?

I guess if you stayed on topic you would also be guilty of gender based opinions since the thread is clearly about men.

Thickness and comprehension issues.

Elder0001:
Wait ... if I want attention from someone on nairaland ,it’ll be you ? That’s funny .

Don’t turn this thread into a gender war with your warped and biased opinions.

Mtcheew

The topic is CLEARLY about the behavior of men who call themselves Christians but act otherwise. Ergo the topic was already based on a gender. My response is in order.

If you have issues, you need not display them

Off topic much?

Like the OP said “of course it’s women’s fault that you guys act the way you do”.

CAPSLOCKED:
MANY WOMEN DON'T WANT PATRIARCHY TO END. I HAVE TOLD YOU THIS BEFORE.
SOME HOW THEY DISLIKE THE STRESS OF DOING ALL THE CHORES ALONE, AND BEING TREATED LIKE SECOND HAND HUMANS, BUT THEN AGAIN THEY DON'T WANT TO LET GO OF THE NUMEROUS PLEASURES AND ADVANTAGES PATRIARCHY AFFORDS A LOT OF WOMEN.

PATRIARCHY IS THE REASON FOR "LADIES FIRST"
IT IS THE REASON MEN ARE EXPECTED TO BE LEADERS AND PROVIDERS... WHILE WOMEN'S BEST POSITION SHOULD BE THE COMPANION, "HELPER".
IT IS THE REASON MALE SOLDIERS ARE SENT TO DIE AT WARFRONT WHILE FEMALE SOLDIERS ARE LEFT AT HOME TO DO THIER NAILS AND HAIR, MOLEST MALE CIVILIANS BECAUSE THEY ENJOY IT, DANCE AND SHARE VIDEOS ON FACEBOOK, AND SERVE TEA TO GENERALS IN THE OFFICE.
BECAUSE OF PATRIARCHY, MAN IS EXPECTED TO SAVE ENOUGH MONEY TO PAY HIS GIRL'S BRIDEPRICE, AND CONDUCT THE WEDDING. WHILE THE WOMAN ONLY FOLLOWS HIM HOME WITHOUT CONTRIBUTING A KOBO UNLESS SHE WANTS TO, AND EVERYONE IS COMFORTABLE WITH THE ARRANGEMENT.

MAN IS EXPECTED TO PAY RENT AND FEES, AND DROP MONEY FOR HOME KEEPING WHILE WOMAN STAYS AT HOME AND EVERYBODY IS HAPPY WITH THAT.
IF THE ARRANGEMENT IS REVERSED SO THAT THE MAN CAN STAY AT HOME WHILE WOMAN WORKS HER LIFE AWAY TO PROVIDE FOR THE FAMILY, THE WORLD PREPARES FOR ANOTHER WAR... BECAUSE OF PATRIARCHY.

AND YOU THINK WOMEN WANT THESE PRIVILEGES TO END, BY ENDING PATRIARCHY? THINK AGAIN.

This Golden rule is even more important between husbands and wives.


Just imagine that each spouse treats their better half exactly the same way they want to be treated...just imagine the bliss in that home.

Good. A Christian husband should respect his wife in the same way that he wants to be respected, stay faithful to her for the rest of his life like he expects.
Give the same respect to his in-laws that he wants her to give to his family. To mention but a few.

Yes I agree that it sounds like bliss. Imagine a world where men give what they expect. Bliss.
Sounds to me like the golden Christian rule is feminist. Seeking fair treatment of everyone involved.

My Christian brothers do not like the golden rule.
They prefer the parts of the Bible that mentions submission of women (submission to male vices BTW) ,while ignoring the parts that charges men to do same.

I bet what I typed above would sound like torture to some very ‘devout’ Christians.
Not when they can say “after all he’s the head of the family” in response to very bad behavior. As if headship is a free ticket to abuse.

I could go on although there’s really no need to. I don’t see how anyone can argue with this except of course they willfully choose to see the truth. In which case it’s not worth the time. The running around in circle discussing an issue that’s clear as day.

So you agree that a saved Christian woman should not stay with a man who behaves in unchristian ways

Acidosis:
A saved Christian woman should not be found with an unsaved Christian husband.


When the foundation is destroyed, what can the righteous do?



If you're truly saved, you will choose wisely.

fykes:
The concept of marriage is warped in our world today.
For most women.. Is a class act... Social status.. Or meal ticket. Not to talk of sex.
Two people meet, have sex, then it's like "let's do this always" and they are getting married by weekend.
The girl is thinking.. He lives in his house, he drives a Prado.
D guy is she's so pretty and sexy and nobody knows that all can be gone in a week.

Give any small boy 5million and d Next Week he is getting married bcoz he believes all he needs is the money to provide for a woman. Many marry outta fear of losing their lovers to other men.
Nobody cares about virtues... Nobody cares about values.. So after the glitz they are forced to bend down and learn.
Chances are men are stubborn, women are mostly malleable and they r d ones who care to learn..

fykes:
"To lose something, u have to first own something."
I also believe that u never really lose if u loved genuinely, cos true love is a seed.
The thing is, this days women want to marry ready made men, with cars and houses and fat bank accounts.. Nobody want to get made with the man or make d man.
It's all about my husband is this, my husband did that... And what exactly are u doing??
Success is who u are... If u are successful, it doesn't matter what u lose, u can replace all over again

Despite the topic of the thread, you’re still bent on twisting it to the ‘blame the women’ narrative. The same narrative that’s the cause of this issue in the first place. God have mercy on you.

Lol I don’t know. They’ll probably seize the food part if it’s alive or liquid. . You know the rules na.

I haven’t tried smuggling contraband into the country except when I first came here .

But if it’s between state lines, I don’t think you have anything to worry about.

jagugu88li:
naughty sef. Tell me, Is the TSA still cool.....we need to enter with unwanted food and hair stuff come Friday......keep us alert na...

You’re almost running crazy imagining a world that doesn’t revolve around your desires.


I almost feel sorry for you. I would feel sorry for you except that the only thing that can satisfy you is seeing women and minorities oppressed. So your pain is exciting to me

EVILFOREST:
Where in the US do you reside...??
I will come down and VISIT you.
Let me educate you privately.

U think everything the WHITE MAN took down to AFRICA is Good..??
Some are meant just to control Population and diseases.
Some are meant to make our ladies DISRESPECTFUL.
Why do you think most AFRICAN MARRIAGES don’t nowadays....?? Because our ladies have decided to copy the white man’s approach to MARRIAGE.

A CHILEAN LADY in South West College, LA. Once asked me how AFRICANS get married and stay in marriage...?? That it baffles her, how we grow old together in marriage, despite having 3 wives.
I wept that very day.

I would have uploaded her PICTURES here but I wouldn’t do that.
This TEACHER is almost 52 years old, still waxing strong in BOYFRIEND and Girlfriend matter.
Openly told me how she hated kids and doesn’t want to give birth.
She rather purchased 4 Dogs which she is currently nursing...

PLEASE is this LIFE....?
Everywhere na GAYs and LESBIANS.
People walk about NAKKKED.
Most White Ladies are single, just putting up with a Boyfriend for fear of divorce and losing properties.
Everywhere na BABY MAMAs...
Is that LIFE..??

You’re confused and desperate.

Lmao

EVILFOREST:
U made it a CRIME abiiiii
Don’t Worry when your HUSBAND is due for a SECOND WIFE, please STOP him yourself.
U think u can rush down to the social media and type faster than your BRAIN.

Go And ASK your COMMUNITIES.
Most LADIES will even come against you in AFRICA if you ask men to stick only to their WIVES.
Other UNMARRIED LADIES deserve to be MARRIED as well.
How many Young Guys got Jobs out there...??
Can these Young Guys Mop up these teaming unmarried ladies that deserve marriage..??

LADIES are protesting shortage of MEN in ERITREA and other nations even in ICELAND.

You should appreciate me for supporting you ladies. This will enable you people Traditional inheritance in your man’s home.
So many Good Ladies are in their 35, with fake prophets and pastors/ Imams deceiving them with the promises of husbands.

STOP all these rubbish....

Don’t admire low self esteem and desperation

Ayoswit:
So many women out there go through alot just to keep their marriage. Annie is indeed a strong woman, I really admire her.

So you know?

Please tell those mor0ns who idolize you

It’s actually a crime.

But your desperation won’t let you see that

EVILFOREST:
Which LEGAL MARRIAGE.... ??
Is POLYGAMY a crime in Nigeria ...??
U can wed your first wife in the Church and Court, but We’d other subsequent Ones TRADITIONALLY which is the standard AFRICA PRACTICE.

Let’s stop all these IMPORTED CULTURES.
Our ladies need to get MARRIED

Oh shut up please.

You sound desperate

EVILFOREST:
NOTHING ABOUT being unfair.
The MAN can make it official.
The YOUNG LADY is stupid.
This is a MAN that takes care of you.
That’s why matured LADIES are better in this regard because they know their jobs

He’s a hoe

From hating him and talking about him, you guys propelled him to popularity. he now mingles with celebrities and y’all still on the sidelines watching and trying to keep up with news about him

Lol. Small sharp shooter

jagugu88li:
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So he told me to remind him to tell me something before he goes home. I did and he whispers in my ear that he wants a girlfriend like me. Then ran home. His parents had asked me to take him to his Jiu Jitsu lesson....little man did not pitch.

eyinjuege:
I love amala, but i don't make it always even though it's easy to make
Nice to know you like it too. Pls, just get someone to make you gbegiri and ewedu , and some buka stew on top to have with the amala. It's delicious

That’s sounds so good. If I find someone who can make it like that, I’d probably have to marry him or her

Awesome. he or she is a natural

jagugu88li:
The chef is 13years

I can’t believe I’ve never tried amala in my life before.
My friend (who’s not even Nigerian btw) got me to try it for the first time. And all I can say is “I’m a fan”. You never know what you have until a stranger appreciates it.
This is my second round btw.
The first round was with goat stew and slimy okra. I love it both ways. Yum

Meanwhile, concerted efforts to get reaction from the Benue Police Command failed as its Public Relations Officer, ASP Moses Yamu, was not forthcoming with remarks.

No surprise there

Thanks

22brains:
God bless your knowledge

And so?

Skmoda360:
Talking from US

There are different types of mental illnesses and they affect people differently.

However I’m not discounting your theory. It’s very possible the man had something to do with it

22brains:
i have heard several mad people put to bed. Agressive ones for that matter. This is Nigeria...

That’s very possible

But there’s also mention of mental ill health. Maybe that started somewhat recently and might have contributed to what happened. We may never know.

22brains:
i think the husband knows what happened to her. How can someone rip herself open due to labour pains? She is a mother of seven, she has been through several labour and she did not rip herself open. Or perharp her ex-huband should be questioned. He must have killed her out of jealousy. Even a totally mad person still run while crossing the road!!!

Yes but women are especially affected by lack of reproductive healthcare more than men. It’s literally a life or death matter for women.

Lack of Mental healthcare does affect everyone

Rolly22:
Not only women, every poor person in Nigeria is Doomed