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They are fvcking themselves.
Not old men like you.

Disgusting

1StopRudeness:
13-14year olds are actually dating and fvcking themselves abroad....who are we actually deceiving... These people believe marrying off younger girls help to curtail unnecessary out of wedlock marriage and abortion most tenagers engage in....they've been doing long time ago....and they are not ready to stop....it works for them....wateva rocks their boat

So jerk off to children? Spits on you

themosthigh:
There is nothing wrong with being attracted to very young girls. The bad thing is actually trying to sleep with or exploit them. As long as you limit your attraction to only imagination and Vaseline, you are fine.

All these people calling her mumu right now, would have called anyone who told her to leave an evil feminist.

You people should shut your dirty hypocritical mouths.
You only care about the safety of women when they are dead. As long they are still alive, if they take steps to protect themselves against abuse, then they are bad women who have been corrupted by the evil feminism

She’s also promoting her nice figure. No big deal. She’s beautiful. Let her flaunt it

Keep deceiving yourself

Icekeeng:
Are you surprised? It's a man's world my dear, the societal condemnation on men infidelity is child's play compared to women.
I didn't make the rules.

Is any of you by chance her side dude?

shakmati:
Could it be that she is dancing to the beat of another drummer? If you're sure she's not then rush and seek medical psychological and/or spiritual attention for her because something is killing her slowly inside that you know not of!

apelike1:
Mr Man!

Your wife is receiving another's man dicck!

if you can't do a DNA test on your children I advised you divorce your wife! I repeat divorce your so called wife.

ashawopikin:
oga your wife is having an affair period

revolt:
She's fvcking outside, don't gock it.

Look at how casually you’re suggesting infidelity to a married man. When it’s your turn to get cheated on, you’ll start foaming at the mouth like someone with chronic epilepsy.

Icekeeng:
Sex twice a week isn't too much to ask for. @op get a side chick but do not fail in your responsibilities to your family.

Do you know this family and what their routine is?

apelike1:
Help in the house when he got work to do, comes back from work to feed his family, pays for the house bill, child's welfare and even the wife's welfare. And you expect him to do some house work

With this kind of mentality you and your type deserve a madman who will take care of your body by panel beating it to stupor

Useless women!

5 kids will ensure that she’s always tired. Especially when the last one is still a baby. Lord have mercy.

P.S forcing your way will make sure that she feels revolted some more by the act of sex and maybe even disgusted by you. I wouldn’t ever enjoy anyone who forced himself on me. EVER AGAIN


1) Start by apologizing to her. You have committed a crime against her spirit and body by raping her. Let’s hope she forgives you.
2) consider permanent birth control. If you can afford vasectomy, very good. If you can’t, use condoms. Birth control shouldn’t always be a woman’s problem to deal with. However if she wants to take on the responsibility of birth control for your family, very good as well. Thank her.
3) find out if there are additional issues related to her decreased appetite for sex. Too much work at home or outside the home?, fear of pregnancy, resentment for you for any reasons including your offense of raping her? Etc. resolve those issues.
4) start over. Build the romance up again. Show more interest in her besides sexual interest. That works to make sex more appealing after you’ve been with someone for a while.
5) decrease your expectations.
6) when you do start having sex again, ensure that she enjoys it. Many men see their women as masturbatory aides instead of physical beings who should achieve orgasm same as them. I would get tired too if the sex is always about your orgasm. If it’s over when you cum. Then No thanks.

Nigeria seems to be the worst country right now

Who says he has better friends?

How a person dresses doesn’t necessarily define their personality

bukatyne:
Can Oga Churchill come pick up his son till his wife can choose better friends?

I wish them many more happy years together

She did start the trouble no doubt.

He could have clapped back without body shaming or slut shaming her. There are so many intelligent and sharp witted things he could have said to her in return.

Only guys who have nothing intelligible to say resort to the typical slut and body shaming tactics that mor0ns on this nairaland use. Wouldn’t be surprised that he’s a secret Nairaland member.

Jealous people all over this thread

What a pain

But you guys burn each other alive in the streets. You take the cake for the shittiest things anyone ever did to others.

Niyi9002:
Very true. If u go to joroolumofin's page on Instagram ,u will see the various shitty things they do to their fellow women e.g sleeping with friend's bf, snatching married men from their wives e.t.c. They will now be sending mail, seeking for silly advice after doing terrible things!

Why are you people obsessed with stripping others unclad?

I’ve been craving ponmo and tripe stew.
This was very yummy.

Some chocolate glazed strawberries for desert.

My first try was a disaster. This batch came out better. Very delicious

Stop typing. You sound like a few screws are loose

skales67:
Come and lock me up.





You can do all the name-calling you want but it won't make me change my stance.

There are numerous scenarios like this where the man stepped in to carry out his responsibilities and the woman decides to turn it into to a money spinning venture to her advantage. It is very possible that she is the type who isn't disciplined when it comes to prudent spending.

For her to accept to be pregnant the second and third time by THE SAME MAN means that the man played his role without any inhibitions. I still maintain the lady is irresponsible and wants to bite more than she can chew! We all know how women can whip up sentiments when it comes to issues like this in the bid to blackmail the man and look like they (women) are saints.

Another day. More fresh tears from a pained Nairaland male.

Everyday fresh tears

Always crying about women. All over the internet. Jobless

Xmen149:
Nairaland needs to do serious upgrade,including: add dislike button and allowing people to see who clicked like and dislike to a comment.......

for instance : Nairalanders deserve to know the 3 monikers that clicked "like" to the comment of a guy in fp bragging about buying pandora piece every time for his baby/girlfriend when he is not telling us its for his wife.


finally: if anyone loves you for what they get from you,its no love its a sponsorship contract deal

Again the greatest gift a man can get from his woman is peace of mind no matter the condition

I clicked like for that comment. Come and beat me

In my opinion they pretty much sell them the same price as their Nigerian store. I’ve looked at the Nigerian store online to compare prices in case I want to gift it to someone and it’s the same.

The sales don’t make much of a difference

It also gets addictive. Once you start you can’t stop. Will she be bugging him to buy her charms all the time?
she should just buy it herself if she likes it so much.

rentAcock:
Lol exactly. I see you are in the US, should be easier to get them especially when they have sales.

It’s obviously an ad

pocohantas:
They have a store in The Palms, Lekki.
Their products are tiny and expensive.

You sure this isn't an advert?
Pandora done settle them

I think people should know what their friends/lovers fancy. So you don't end up buying gifts that go unappreciated/unused. Her actions isn't right, but I prefer it to those ones that will throw the gift somewhere or dash it out sef

I collect pandora and I know those things cost quite some money.
Depending on the type of bracelet and charm you want you will spend a nice sum building a basic bracelet. The price to fill just one basic bracelet with charms is well over 200-300k.

Not everyone can afford it. She should appreciate what he can afford.

rentAcock:
Hahahaha, I watched the video and she said "All I wanted was a Pandora, chain and ring" he bought her booty shorts instead. Now for those of you unromantic men who only buy heart shaped chocolate, plastic flowers and Valentine day card for your girl, Pandora make bracelets, rings, earrings and a whole host of jewelleries but what they are really known for is their silver charms which can be attached to a bracelet. They are very tiny but cute and can cost around 20k each. They are an American brand but you can order it and have it shipped to Nigeria. I surprised my baby with it 3 years ago and I have since then bought several other charms and gemstones to celebrate her birthday, Valentine's day and just as a gift. She loves them and always looks forward to having more stones to fill the bracelet. Try new things and spoil your girl otherwise another guy might do your job for you. Check them out at www.pandora.net.

Why are Nigerians obsessed with nudity?

Yes parents will prevent sexual assault by making sure their baby girls are always fully clothed

That’s the solution no one has thought of. Wow

XaintJoel20:
This a time piece of information that parents and guardians should follow step by step.

On a second thought, Ithink parents should stop "sexualizing" their little girls and exposing their pubic areas. You may not see anything wrong with it, but always have it mind that there are men who are very weak and feeble when it comes to having self control...

Prevention is better than cure...

Here we go again

Mosco100:
There is actually a limit girls dress should not go shorter than according to her age.

Obviously none of you read the post. You got defensive the moment abuse was mentioned. Do some serious soul searching to figure out why you are defensive. When the OP clearly included different genders in his post.

You’re not interested in reducing the rate of abuse. You’re interested in defending the abusers

ceeroh:
African mentality is totally fuvked up! Most times we usually relate sexual abuse to the girl child alone. Most young boys are exposed to sexual abuse but you hardly hear of it. An incident happened roughly 2 decades ago, a young boy was being molested regularly by an aunt. In the long run, the aunt's mom caught them in the act. Could you believe she never said anything about it till this day... Now imagine if it was an uncle that was molesting her daughter, I'm sure the guy would probably be behind bars till now or had his reputation damaged forever. Fuvked society!! BTW don't ask me who the young boy was

COOL10:
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Don't mind them. Always looking for more ways to demonize the male gender. Like say women no dey rape men.

Sheunma:
Women sexually abuse male kids too, dammit! We have contrived to make this whole mess about the men that a lot of "saintly in the eyes of the society "women child molesters get away with it.

On point thread

Ooooh

Estellie:
... Valentine breakfast....
Happy Love day to all food lovers...

Breakfast. Avocado and scrambled eggs. Then some grapes.

Really? You must be living under a rock.

The female victim would have been demonized with chants of olosho. How dare she sell her own body for financial benefits.

In fact if the boss killed her and mutilated , they will say she deserved it

chimaobinelson:
If say the victim is was a female, these Akpaamus above me will be demonizing and calling the boss names