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jnrbayano:


Kedu ije?

Lamb roast with spicy blended pepper stew

Sholaco:
Good for her

Yale9:
if ur mom has manners, no soul can hit her. No human on earth has the heart to slap a woman who is well mannered.

peteruuu:
Some ladies mouth too no dey stay for one place!.

Go and check yourselves into mental institutions. Sniveling Cowards.

You people seem to be cursed with the spirit of woman hate. You all are disgusting to be honest.
It’s like no minute goes by on this forum that someone is not excusing violence and assault against women.

Na curse?

oyetunder:
Though not good to 'slap' her... but the new found level of freedom to talk anyhow shall surely continue to make many to become victims of beatings. Our ladies too are finding it so easy to be rude by evil slogans such as 'I no fear anybody' 'are you God' and ' I will show you I am a woman' ...

Yale9:
so for that soldier to slap that babe, we all know the truth. We know women. She must have deserved more than that single slap.

Yale9:
My issue is when a woman has really done something to provoke a slap from a dude, and people are talking one nonsense about it not being right to hit women? How is a woman’s justice different? When many of these run their gutter mouths anyhow what do they expect?

bongolistik:
Madam what did you mean by saying Abuse is abuse,. Just ordinary hot slap you are calling abuse. Did the soldier just turned and slapped her for no reason. I bet she was not the only female in that bus and why didn't the slap extended to others?

mymadam:
You are likely right here.

The general rule for ladies is; "NEVER PUT YOURSELF IN A CLOSE-QUARTERS SITUATION WITH A MAN WHO YOU DO NOT WANT SOMETHING WITH"

QED

Earthbound:
Her mom's probably right, knowing her daughter well enough more than the recipients of this tweet.

AryEmber:
I wonder what goes on in a lady's mind, visiting a guy alone and you're sure you don't want sex

So any time a woman finds herself alone with a man, she should expect to be raped?

Doff my hat to you people’s mentality

You manage your feelings and I’ll manage mine.

Why do I have to take care of your sexual feelings? Do I owe it to you?

oshaosha2014:
Very selfish set of specie!!! It has to be about their feelings alone, and never yours. Selfish bastard.

Like I said in a previous post. Her reason for saying no might have come up after they got to his home. We don’t know. In that case he should respect it. Usually there are grey areas when it comes to sexual issues. But the standard that should be black and white is that no is no, regardless of what led up to it. You don’t have to pity or sympathize with her nor do you have to advice anyone to. I doubt any woman needs that. What they need is for people to recognize their rights to say yes or no as they wish to.

If we start blurring the lines around what type of no is valid and what type is legit, we will all lose this battle against rape. Because it’s subjective and anyone with the intent to harm someone can always interpret her now the way he or she wants to.

Herrmes:
Okay, please let's move in the direction of some clarity?
Why follow a guy you have driven crazy with lust, I mean with all the stuff y'all did at the club to his home to say no?
I am against every form of rape but in this case she is the architect of her own problems, if the guy is a gentleman then she is lucky, if not then I cannot say I will sympathize with her and I wouldn't advice anybody to.

Okay. I may not understand what it means to be a man. But I understand my body is mine and I owe it to no one.

Let’s all respect each other’s bodily autonomy

Randy100:
Like I said, you are not a man so you won't understand what it means to be in that position. @ bold it is not a rape rather a pre-intimacy. I am not a rapist.

HungerMustGo:
Go and become a lady before I begin to reason with you. I don't reason with hoes. Rape campaign is for real ladies. Hoes like you are the reason why rape exists in the first place because of how they treat men.

Keep deceiving yourself. Anumanu!!

Emotional rants of a rapist..

You know them by how they exonerate the culprits and try to blame it on the victim. Yes hoes like me are the reason why men rape women. Not because they are rapists who feel entitled to other people’s bodies. Dumbass with his brain located in his peniis.

Your rapist cup go full one day. You won’t even go to jail. Na for backyard they go handle you and your uncontrollable John Thomas.

Take advantage of you how?

HungerMustGo:
No, I mean those rogue hoes that will willfully take advantage of men and set them up and claim rape where no rape happened.

Yes you are their commander in chief. Anuofia!!

Yes she can go home with you with the intentions of having sex. It’s very normal for a girl to want to have sex.

But when she gets there and changes her mind for whatever reason (like stinky boxers or private part, miniature peniis, appearance of rashes or warts around the genitals, dirty beddings etc) and you insist, it’s still rape.

Because someone had the intention of having sex with you doesn’t mean that it must happen. If something turns them off at any point, you can’t force it or it’s rape.

Can’t be any simpler but you guys refuse to get it.

lilmax:
lol tbh this is an exception

imagine, you press breast and yansh finish,baba said let's go home....what will a girl's mind tell her at that point? let's go and sleep

a wise girl that do not want to involve herself will never go home with you

so let's stop this crap, rape fire

Which is why girls of these days are learning from comments that men make about themselves.

As majority of you have gathered here to confirm among yourselves that you all have the potential to rape someone who doesn’t agree to have sex with you, girls are learning not trust you. So even those who can’t afford cars know to take extra money with them in case they have to leave at odd hours as a result of them saying no.

Those who haven’t learned yet, will learn with time.

You keep doing yourselves disfavors but what do I know

HungerMustGo:
You speak for ladies that can afford a car. What of the millions of ladies that can't even afford transport money let alone car. Who represents them.

An its very easy to boast online, "I have a car"

marvin906:
wow a confirmed fool..
how's that working out for you hun

It’s working out great. Can sniff out potential rapists and stay away from them.

YOU don’t understand sarcasm

Tamarapetty:
I'm sure you understand sarcasm??

You mean those who recognize that you don’t have a right over their body and will say no whenever they feel like it? Yes I am.

HungerMustGo:
You simply want to argue cos you're evidently one of those I'm talking about.

Get lost.

Nobody puts anyone in sexual tension.
That’s between you and your body. It’s no one’s responsibility to take care of how your peniis makes you feel. Go jerk off or something. That’s your PERSONAL business.

@ bold So you will rape her if she says no

Randy100:
untill you grow prick you don't have the right to judge me. You don't put a man in sexual tension and pretend that you don't want to do anymore. I go struggle your pant with you . What nonsense is that. Infact I dey vex.

marvin906:
are you a fool or an upcoming fool

I would ask you how many people you’ve raped but you’ve probably lost count

You mean rogue women who say no to sex?

HungerMustGo:
Now someone is talking. I support women campaign against rape but when they twist it in such a way that every well intended man must offend, then they're just creating avenue for rogue women to exploit men and claim rape where no rape happened.

I’m sure they don’t rob the men at gunpoint

Tamarapetty:
Lol, they should also ask for the consent of men before collecting money, or else that's financial rape.

So anyone who follows you home should expect to be raped?

baralatie:
no means not following that man to his house,room for whatever reason

Yea that’s not also bad. I’m sure she can find her way home. you can’t blackmail your way into sex.

Why do you think she owes you sex? Such a stinking mindset.

You would really have sex with a woman who feels like she doesn’t have a choice except to sleep with you because it’s late and and she doesn’t want to risk going out that late. You think if she agrees to have sex with you because of that, you haven’t raped her?


When people call y’all rapists, you get offended but that’s actually what many of you are. Just on different spectrums of it. Disgusting .

Randy100:
Sending her away in the middle of Night is also not bad.

Egusi with goat meat and stew. Bring your favorite fufu

Well there’s chicken so it’s balanced like that. But I feel ya.

Rice and beans rock

jnrbayano:
Some sort of beans you need to balance it up and not fried plantain....

Did I communicate?

Breakfast

One plate on the way via mail

BlueRayDick:

I don’t like plantain at all. Please serve me like that I have juice here already

Who has fried plantains? Bring it let’s share this rice and chicken stew

Side of the story?

emeijeh:
Hear the man's side of the story first, bro.

She. If they go about it the right way

m6tem:
She should choose what is more important to her

Family or a Career because she cannot have both

Your family moves with you if possible. It’s not that hard a concept.

As for your question; If it’s profitable to the family, yes I’ll move. If they can’t move with me immediately, they’ll join me later. But we will work on it. That’s what families do.

My friend moved here by herself when she got admission to study here. Now her family have joined her. Two kids and her husband.

If she had listened to people who discouraged her, her family won’t her the opportunity they have now.

Her kids get to study in America and her husband has started a business now.

Men who don’t let their pride get in the way of the family success often win.

Valerie47:
You move and leave your family for who? especially the kids, women are the home keepers, you guys should be realistic.


I'm very sure you won't leave your marriage or move if you get a scholarship in another country, let's say UK.

Women move too.

Valerie47:
When you marry someone, you become a part and parcel of them, in marriages, its men that move not women, a woman got a job offer in abuja, she declined it cause she is in the East with her hubby.

AreaFada2:
Not knowing when to stop doing shakara nor good.
She could have been his wife now.

Maybe the guy she was hoping on has dumped her.

If the man is truly worry her and she's not interested why not just block him?

Seems like she's on a revenge mission because the guy moved on.

really? She could have been his wife? Are you people really hard of comprehension or are you just being willfully ignorant?