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She’s a human being. Not food. Not an object. Get a brain overhaul. The one you have isn’t serving you properly Onechancearmy: |
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It’s better to let a guilty person walk free than punish an innocent person for a crime they didn’t commit. I know if the person is guilty of rape, that’s so much harder than if they are guilty of any other crime. Still an innocent person punished is much worse. gypsey: |
Jungle justice is evil. Left to me, anyone who supports it or even stands by while it happens without making an effort to see justice done the right way deserves to be thrown in jail and have the keys tossed in the river Blakjewelry: |
Are you okay at all? Did I accuse you? What kind of silly comment is this this early morning? hammerFC:Anyway the bigger issue here is not the false accusation (that’s very very wrong obviously) but the fact that you men will beat each other to death in the streets without following properly legal channels to judge an accused person guilty or innocent. You’re your own major problems. I’ve always been a staunch advocate against jungle justice no matter what they are accused of. Let the law handle it. |
Women should be respected because they are human. Not because they are related to men HabaHaba: |
That’s why they always end up in jail whenever the y find themselves abroad. Stupid senseless boys. |
babythug:Thank you. In my opinion the person who is not there physically raising the child should pay more of (if not all) the child support. I understand that in his case they are both not making huge money. so,she did was what she thought fair. However, she wasn’t even fair to herself. Because in addition to paying half what the child needs, she’s there to give 100 percent hands on care. Essentially she’s doing 75% of everything on her own. I don’t understand how anyone with conscience will ask her to accept whatever he brings. That’s how low the bar has been set for fathers ? Ridiculous Although I agree that they can adjust their budget to suit their income. He should still bring more of whatever the final amount turns out to be. |
He’s probably a Nairalander |
It depends on his mindset. If he’s one of those disgusting arrogant prigs who thinks that he can cheat without being cheated on, please don’t touch him with a foot long pole. I kid you not, those are the worst kind of men to commit your life to. A man who won’t consider you a human same as him. His feelings and pride will be more important than your wellbeing. However if he’s the disciplined type of man who doesn’t cheat and won’t tolerate cheating, then you’re lucky in that aspect because the measure you give is the measure you will receive from him. Also note that people will tell you what they want you to believe about themselves and their ‘bad’ exes. It the Ex that is usually at fault. If something about him tells you that he has a hard heart, trust your instinct. |
True 1Sharon: |
Built2last:Of course. someone had to bring feminism into it. Make use of your brain |
Omololupromise: Chap54: ijabiken1:Ridiculous. Absolute lack of reasoning capacity |
It’s not surprising that many Nigerians have no clue what mental illness is all about. Seeing as they need mental help themselves |
OP you have spoken beautifully. It works in situations where the good examples are the majority. But the thread you’re talking about and its likes come up only because Nigerians have REFUSED to consider women as equals with men both in the general society and in marriage. Hence the abnormal type of marriage is the norm. And in the abnormal type of marriage where one party is considered lesser and treated as such, that party had no choice but to look out for itself. Should couples buy properties as one. Absolutely. What happens then (as in the majority) when one party can/does contribute and buys together with the spouse but stands a good chance of losing it all because the foundational beliefs of her society deems it fit for her to be ‘thrown out’ at the whims of the other party? Can’t address a problem without starting from the foundation. If women feel like they can be equally regarded in the marriage decisions and properties, the need for this discussion won’t come up. I also have a feeling that you wouldn’t be so disturbed to the point of creating a counter thread if it was men talking about how they buy properties without their wives names. (And that happens all the time.) People seem to get more upset when women start having a say and taking their own lives into their hands: I wonder why. |
You’re the one who sounds evil DukeofNZ: |
If you’re a woman now we would have called you olosho. |
Daeylar:@bold, you got that right. He will never take any advice from here that encourages him to tell her exactly how he feels. He’s looking for a trick to help him ensure she does all those things for him while he doesn’t commit to her. |
The point jumped over your head Galaticos444: |
Stupid |
Next thing he will get her pregnant and then he will come here to cry to us about entrapment. as if he’s a two year old baby that has no control or contribution over his own life. Olatara: |
Instead of her to allow him? Pray tell is she holding a gun to his head to prevent him from making his intentions clear? No instead he’s being dubious by making her feel her actions are in line with his goals for the relationship. Can’t even be adult enough to say his mind and goals for the relationship. Poor him. She’s throwing herself at him and forcing him to get intimate with her Hotfreezer: |
You don’t joke with your space but you joke with your peniis. ![]() One month and you’re already having sex. What did you tell her that got her so relaxed to have sex with you in less than a month. To the point of doing your other chores for you. Some of you guys think you’re smart. You want a wife without the responsibilities and also want the freedom to sleep around. I’ll bet my shoes that’s why you don’t want her having the keys. So she won’t walk in on you with someone else. Why not be a responsible human being and tell her the truth about how you feel concerning the relationship. And keep your peniis in your pant if you’re so concerned about not getting serious. Hypocrite. Whitewolf8: |
Don’t care for the insolent parts of this post but there are many truths in it. OP get your shit together. Don’t accept a wife and refuse to treat her as such zed7: |
If you don’t want her to have access to your apartment like a wife, don’t expect and accept wifely duties from her. If she offers, tell her No. You can’t lead her on by acting like her wifely behavior towards you is appropriate and then turn around to deny her the privileges that come with the role she is already playing. I bet you’re probably already having sex with her. I don’t know what’s more intimate. Sex or apartment keys. |
The woman gives up her authority over her own lifeThe whole post was phrased to sound like it was meaningful but then you read this part and it’s obviously just another misogynistic concept disguised as something good. Why don’t you give up authority over your own life and let your wife love you instead. Oh I forget. That’s not how ‘god’ wants it. |
So then focus on the ones that made sense to you. Myth121: |
I’m not rude. for starters Myth121: |
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? Ridiculous