₦airaland Forum

pato405:
If she wasn't. why threaten to throw the innocent kids from the other woman out? Why not bear them, tolerate, and prove to them that she's truly a tolerant woman? why start telling them that their father did not build the house? she obviously resents them, and truth be told, if those kids grow with that resentment, they'll hate her. It's her house today, who knows tomorrow? Those kids (if shown some luv) might be of help to her & her kids tomorrow. yes, she has her own kids too, who can help her in future, but my brother, the world is a complex place! the vicissitudes of life might just turn the tides. "Help and reward" sometimes comes from where it is least expected - there are countless cases where kids who were victims of maltreatment ESPECIALLY by their step-mums turn out to be last resort for assistance in times of despair. Make una take thins easy o! Lyf na "time & chance"

pato405:
All I can say is...it appears your mum is truly rude. She made the money but it must have taken over her sense of submission at some point. No man wants to lose his regard simply because he's not making enough cash. The two should be one and whatever your mum has achieved, must not necessarily be publicized as her singular effort.

This has always been the problem...whenever a Nigerian man is the sole bread-winner, it's NEVER news! but when the woman is the bread-winner, there's always rancor, pandemonium & chaos. But why?

You have also taken sides with your mum and painted your dad as a monster. Please don't get married with this bias against men...it will only breed more trouble - often it's the reason why it appears as if divorce runs in some families like a genetic disease. It might not be surprising if your dad's side of the story contradicts yours. To every story, there are two sides. No judgement until a balanced case is presented!

FortifiedCity:

She sounds so innocent when saying these things but I don't know what is deep down in her heart

newdawn2017:
I curse ur loins, may u suffer 4rm epilepsy & leprosy. Wicked man!

banmee:
The way some people think is just amazing. Smh.

bukynkwuenu:
this maybe a faceless platform...but it is not an excuse to be unnecessarily insulting...if this is how u talk to your male friends or father...believe me it is wrong,,,

banmee:
In this phucking day and age people are actually talking about things like this. Smh. What's the point of going to school if you all will continue thinking like cavemen? Why is it in only poverty stricken countries this kind of thing supposedly happens. Why are you people like this? So many questions. What a people.

bukynkwuenu:
stop saying things u don't know.....last month at Kano street in main market onitsha...an Hausa guy shook his fellow Hausa man n his penis completely disappeared...he wasn't lynched but was compelled to send it back...which he did..under our very eyes.....he was taken by the market security.

stop ranting over things you know nothing about....i would not have believed if I didn't see it myself

CastingToVilla:
You are an idiot and a LovePeddler. That your husband decided to perform an act of charity by marrying a spent, overused old cargo like you doesnt give you the right to come online and call your betters dummy.

Congenital fool!


NB: It is superior logic not super logic.

banmee:
Holy crap!!! Where've you been?

Rokia2:
The side chick is finer then zari though and sexier body also.


I guess beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

CastingToVilla:
Who is this mad man? You must be a fool to challenge my superior logic. Go and ask your grandfather why he married from within his tribe, that's if he had the decency to marry before engaging in coitus. Quote me unnecessarily again and get the insult of your life. Alakori lasanlasan.

CaptainG00D:
She is not respecting jude.. its her isntigation that made just quit being psquare manage.
Becoz her husband peter was asking for too much and dont respect his brother anymore anymore...until jude left them.

And dont tell me its not the work of the wife.
Most women misuse their bedroom powers.
Thats when they use it to cause problems

intruxive:
Family is family, business is business.
The guy realized the terms of business has not been fair all these while and he wants it renegotiated.
If jude is the manager, he has to earn a salary, that's the norm in music industry, not take a third of every income despite the fact that all he does is direct "some music videos" and nothing else!
If peter is no longer comfortable with the term of business is he not man enough to take charge of his life,must they malign and slander his family just to black mail him into submission, little girl everything about their issue is open, but u wont see it as long as u keep looking through your ethnic sentimental glasses
You should pray for a man like peter in your life, who will protect you from even his family if they seek to hurt you

banmee:
Are you normal at all? What has tribe go to do with this? So are you saying couples and/sibblings/inlaws from the same tribe don't have issues? Why are you people like this na? You people cannot survive in a normal society. Smh.

Rokia2:
lol am a diamond fan abi don't insult him.

Also not be handsomeness we will eat lol........looks is secondary to most ladies nowdays.

What's looks without the important stuff?


That been said I am utterly disappointed in his actions. I am shocked zari took him back and so quickly at that.

Cheating is a No No.

Rokia2:
he cheated on her and she took him back so yes they are still married.

This one is the baby mama.

rbernaldo2:
thank god she is Igbo

Kill them all

billyG:
d way d love of money is sending hordes of my eastern neighbours 2 d grave calls 4 concern,we need 2 call a tribal conference.

Franky826:


For the husband to be on the run it's fishy and same time probable he might be the culprit behind her death.

Dem Yahoo boys in Accra are eye red.

Lady, the young man didn't disclose what he does and you table him to your parents as an international business man, no depths, no confirmation as to what he actually does.

I don't know why automatic hypnosis happens to some ladies whenever they hear someone has managed to cross over 9ja boarders, and they all think it's all Rosy on the other side?

9ja hard but how man think say na beans on the other side?

Now you are gone and the man must have extended his international business to Burkina Faso or Abidjan or God know where?

Ladies y'all should be warned. Get diligent with your hands and stop washing your brains with hypo. Think! Think! Think!

R.I.P

Donald7610:
Am not commending culture
I meant LAW

PrecisionFx:
U just didn't get me. Listen now.

In igboland u can't lay any form of claim to a child u fathered outta wedlock.


Now if u know anything about customary laws n customary court, will will get me correctly.

Shalomdee:
Thanks for all your comments so far but the reason why the girl in question is scared is because the ex is really dangerous and she does not want the daughter growing up in his custody

Donald7610:
The child completely belongs to the mother
Because no legal marriage recorded
But if he go to court, he might be lucky to get access to visit or share with custody of the child
The mother will be lucky if living in Lagos
Lagos State protects mother
Not baba lo ni omo
Especially with brib..

danwilliams4u:
If it is in igbo land the guy has no right over the costudy of the child, becaus no bride price was paid. The father of the girl in question is the owner of the child, and only him can decide weather the child sgould go with his biological father or not

PrecisionFx:
In my tradition, u have no business with any child born out of wedlock. The father of the girl claims the child.

It's a Non-issue.