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FortifiedCity:
Ah Ah now. This is too much for crying out loud.

What that guy did was very wrong. But on a second thought, those women are also guilty for letting it happen.

That's what cococandy was trying to say. There is no point you being this aggressive. She is also a woman like you. Haba

newdawn2017:
u must surely share in d curse I placed on him since u see no harm in his wickedness.

abike12:
lol you're cute. i don't wear Gucci but I buy myself Chanel. since all the women around you people are runs girls/beggars, you don't know that some of us work and take care of ourselves.

and before you claim i'm single, i'm not. I have a man that I love and respect and he loves me too. Enjoy your day.

augustkings:
d stepfather is obviously heartless and d girl cluelessly stupid.

Greatmind23:
its not easy for a man to be working hard to pay bills he ease frustration on any hole available the woman for don keep her daughter hole far from him atleast he can manage her bore hole


moreso the uncle is a bastard na case them like when girl dey hungry no get school fee did you help may your daughter hole be blocked with the mighty rod

nkwuocha1:
NNE,I hope you realize she is my wife to start with. Calling her crazy just pissed me off. But you're forgiven. That issue was seriously dealt with, and it wasn't funny even for her.I can't take another wife no matter the provocation, I'm not a woman chaser. Those are mere threats to make her fall in line.

One good thing about the marriage is communication and quick reconciliation.

Mindfulness:
Coco, abeg!

Did she treat her drug head husband like the head?

Oh, PULEASE.

This coming from her? LOL

nkwuocha1:
Ijapa888,

Go and bring your wife home. Do all you can to bring her home,sit her down and try to do a heart to heart talk with her.Your wife is not as foul mouthed as mine believe me.This is very natural of the kind of wife I have.

Me:Nkem are you sleeping?
Her: please can you look through the window?
Me(opening the window blinds)
Her;Now look on the roof of Mr Ade's house,you will see me there squatting, Rubbish question!!!

This are very annoying. She doesn't answer all questions tendered to her.There are times I end up asking her questions and then answering them myself. My wife have had me locked in the toilet, she went to market prepared my food then opened the door for me to come and eat all because she was suspecting I was cheating (I've never cheated)!
The last she did was so annoying that I had to break some few plates of food in anger.She used my clothe to wipe off my son's poo,all because I was too busy to clean him up.This same woman starved me for almost three months,I had to swallow my pride travel down to the East and told her parents of my intention to take another wife as it is.Women are foul mouthed,but then beating up your wife to me is cowardly. That's where you messed up,go and apologize. If she continue with her behavior, keep her as a wife but not as a lover,that way you won't care about those flaws anymore.

Differential:
I don't think she's saying it's okay. She acknowledges that inequality exists in the workforce (which it does) but that's not the same as A-okay-ing it (which I don't think she's doing). She's saying it's a real problem out there, albeit smart women don't let that deter them from reaching their goals but keep going even if it means working harder. I'm sure women like Mo Abudu and Oprah who're successful in their fields met power struggles along the way but instead of fighting it and complaining they exerted their energy into getting to where there wanted to be.

ifyalways:
I don't know if its just me but i see love-making as a best method of chillin and de stressing after a long,hard day.

@OP,Love making is not all about the actual S3x,sometimes cuddling,soft kisses here and there is all we need.

Your wife too ain't helping issues.She ought to set the mood and get the groove going.No matter how tired and looong my mans day is/was,If I need kpekus,I'd always get it with him doing it willinhly all it takes is a soft seduction from me.If she meets you at the door with a kiss,swinging her hips in her sexy lingerie,run your bath water,remove your clothes and tuck you in the bath,gist with you as you eat your warm meal,make the bedroom condusive(dim light,crisp comfortable sheets and pillows etc),initiate action and do "things" to your body you would be the one running home daily for more.

Talking sex on phone(sms,bb,email) helps (assuming you dont consider that a sin)

Hmmn,abeg my eye dey the driveway,can't wait for mine to cruise in so the party would begin.Oyi na atu m

LesbianBoy:
Tiwa savage

Let cococandy catch you first

ijapa888:
So people want an update on the matter?
I'll provide more than that.
I want to let you in on some of my mistakes so you'd be better equipped when choosing a life partner.

Courtship
I entered into this relationship with wide open eyes despite the fact that i never met her mother.
She never showed up during the wedding and six years on I'm yet to set eyes on her or even engaged her in a phone conversation.
Reason is, she left her four kids (including Wifey) and their Dad at their tender ages and has since not returned.
She is alive and well, remarried and started another family with another man in same Lagos state.
News has it that she now has cancer or had a stroke or both.
Shouldn't i have bailed?
She was replaced with two other women who she grew up to know as step mothers.
Naturally, a mother will focus her energy on the upbringing/welfare of her own child not her step child.
Probably where she lost it.

Physical Abuse
Domestic violence here was initiated by yours faithfully.
No pride derived from doing that but i assure you some situations require a bit of letting out, some release, although they yield no good results.
No sane man in black Africa can pride himself of not having at least fantasized about hitting a foul tongued woman.

About the facebook account, it was not deleted but deactivated.
You can deactivate your facebook account one minute and be invisible to all your facebook friends.
Once you log on with your username and password you're back online with all your contacts,messages and pictures intact.
I found her account with the controversial picture on it and commented thus:
Looking so available.
Voila!
Facebook account gets deactivated.
Wonder what other comments must have followed or what prompted that quick action.

When you say career woman, I'd prefer a highflying woman who has a job with future prospects.
One with certifications to secure her area of speciality in her chosen career not first degree equivalent.
A seven digit salary if you like.
Official car to cap it all.
Why risk family for a job that hasn't given you a raise or a promotion in 5 years?

I'll have to sign out from this thread after this time out.
I'm feeling naked on here.

LastMumu:
Cococandy is one of the most beautiful & most intelligent woman Nairaland has ever had (deactivated or active).

RaggedyAnn:
Would i do it? One good thing is: You're making me ask myself that question. The other should be that I get to answer it without being judged for saying yes (or no). That's the way it should be. The evil thing about pro-lifers is that they take away the right to choose. Asking myself that question means I'm pro-choice on the issue of abortion: I acknowledge that there is a personal question to be asked, and a personal decision to be made.

To commandeer another person's body, exposing it to deformation and health dangers, for a period if nine months without that person's unreserved express consent, must violate a number of fundamental human rights. A woman must want to go through with the pregnancy for it to be deemed viable. People who want to bestow personhood on a zygote take personhood away from an adult female when they deny her the right to her own body. If a zygote is a living person with the right to life and liberty and all, incarcerating a pregnant woman should naturally translate to wrongful imprisonment of a minor. You can't pick and choose when to decide to call it a human being.

That said, abortion is never an easy decision for any woman, but it is ultimately her place to decide whether or not to,do it. And choosing abortion doesn't make her a monster. I can see myself aborting a pregnancy if an AFT showed chromosomal anomalies that would greatly compromise the quality of life of my soon-to-be-born child. That may not be the only scenario that would register with me, but that's just off the top of my head now.

helovesme:
Yes, you do.

The coco Chanel mademoiselle velvet oil is proof.
black women do not buy such.

Perfume and body lotion from the same luxury label - yes. But body oil ? Mba.

helovesme:
Cococandy

You are a real product junkie

After becoming a mum, I just had to simplify my beauty routine.

Pre-motherhood, I would shave my legs literally every week and also shave my arms. I will then use a body scrub with an exfoliating glove sponge to scrub my entire body. I will then run the bath and soak myself in. Chai. I miss those days

Now, ain't got time for any drama. It's a quick shower using Dove exfoliating soap with exfoliating glove sponge and I apply neutrogena skin lotion. When I get bored with neutrogena, I use either a product from body shop (I love their honeymania or coconut with almond milk body butter) or Nivea.

Facial scrub and cleanser (when I remember) is from the clearasil range.

Face primer and brow pencil - marykay
Liquid foundation and powder - MAC
Lipstick - MAC (diva and rebel are my favourites)
mascara - covergirl
Concealer (when I feel like it) - nars

Babythug - thanks for the mention

jashar:
But she was a fine geh na. What was doing her? It's like Plastic Surgery is cheap in the abroad ooo....almost everyone seems to have had work done on their body...

abescom:
Alternate account ko, alternate moniker ni.

I don't even know the OP but I hate stupid women who ought not to get into marriage getting into marriage and ruining a man.

And re the picture - the husband doesn't like it, it doesn't matter what you or others think. He doesn't like it and that's the most important thing. If the wife has any iota of respect for the husband she would not have gone on facebook to post the same.

No matter how you try to justify it, it is disrespect. And deleting the facebook counts for nothing, it was after all not until the husband saw the picture she posted on there and commented on it.

I pity your husband seriously. A sensible woman knows her body belongs to the husband. Only irresponsible women think otherwise.

abescom:
which woman who respects her husband does that? She was told the picture she had on whatsapp should not have been. She removes it and then posted it on facebook because her husband isn't a friend on facebook. Who does that? A senseless, irresponsible woman who should not be married does.

are you for real? It is not her body the day she got married. No one forced her. If anything, it should be a mutually agreed thing. Some of you women of these days are just plainly sick and outright irresponsible.

pato405:
Must you resort to insult? You have no brain matter at all.
You are a disgrace to all FOOLS! You've not only publicized how manner-less you are, you've shown your parents invested no effort towards instilling courtesy in you. Woe betide you. I don't blame you. Once nitwits like you run into a few MB data, you come online to spill garbage. If you meet me face-to-face you cannot muster any iota of courage to utter gibberish. silly scumbag. Quote me again at your own peril

Partnerbiz3:
People just like unnecessary show off.
Na so tooz take get miscarriage.

Must u post all parts of ur life on Internet.

Nawao.


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