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anonimi:
Please remind us what is her DAY job again?
How much do you think she EARNS from this day job?
I hope that you know that only her Personal Income TAX returns can prove how much she has earned, right
Thanks.

jaybee3:
$1k is still a lot of money though

#Just saying

anonimi:
Yes.
That is how I know that how much I paid her cannot afford an original N2 million bag hence her bag is fake.
Next
If she really sweated for the money she no go dey pose around with her fake, penkelemess bag, don't you agree?



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anonimi:
How would one know that despite the olosho runs wey she don do she still remain a propoer broke ass poverty-ridden illiterate bush girl if she did not do such]

Chubhie:
You are not vibrating.

Chubhie:
Perhaps,sukkot might indulge and simplify it more?

NevetsIbot:
delishpot. I get it.. They want me to tell. And I don't think I can... I don't think I'll even be able to tell a mother that her daughter does things as extreme like this. As in, can't you get it?....

tearoses:
The truth is that he is the adult and she is the child
Even if a kid tries to manipulate an adult, the adult has more brain power to overcome it
If the poster cannot deal with a 4 year old then how can he be mature enough to deal with other challenges in his life
Coco we are talking about a 4 year old here
I am sure that the poster is over 22

Chubhie:
To solve this mystery, you will have to understand that the female energy of that child and the adult are sexually attracted on the soul level.perhaps one funny demon experimenting and playing psychic mind games with their energy fields?

On the soul level, it's quite understandable and healthy when two souls unite in pure love. love on this plane is beyond the sexual connotations we give on this earth plane.

Now, the brother having sleepless nights cos of the earthly 5 year old is neither grounded spiritually nor morally disciplined.

The 5 year old neither has the right home trainings and guidance necessary to lead her.

One thing I can guarantee you is that the moment the kid and the adult are mistakenly left unsupervised,the energies will overwhelm them and the news would be all over the internet and the brother would never understand what hit him.

He should continue playing hanky panky with forces leading to his ultimate doom.

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#00cccc]you make all this?
Gosh.Teach me so I can get a husband [/color]

NevetsIbot:
True... I have never been helpless even at the hands of someone older. I'm dealing with this decisively by coming here to get the best advice! Its a 4yr's old life here and any little mismanagement can pose serious damage to her physically or psycologically. The way in which I report might make her mother go ramming at the little girl like a bull. What would the girl feel like, have you even thought of how it might affect the girl's sexual life when she grows up thinking sex is only for procreation?..Get it before you start jumping around like a baboon. And hey, In my mention, I was talking to your friend when I stated the word a''accusation''...and yeah, you're cynical. Glad you know that.

I'm trying to make the best decision here and I don't think I can tolerate you anymore.

keepingmum:
Mr Greg clap for yaself oo.

You didn't want to marry a lady who you can't subdue yet you followed the money trail .....but it's your wife's fault. She pretended. She bribed your family, it's all her fault.

You resigned your job because U were underperofming but it's your wife's fault.

Wife gave u capital to set up a business which was ur responsibility to run. U ran the business down and out.....but it's all wife's fault.

U stopped sleeping with wifey but it's wife's fault

U were caught masturbating bmwhilst denying ur wife sex but it's wife's fault.

U then started an affair whilst in Nigeria, but it's wifey fault for u committing adultery.

U left 9ja for the abroad and within 5 months have found ya soul mate, the Ying to ur yang, the beautiful goddess that leaks ur left nyaaannsh and sleeps on the floor of ur feet: the one u can subdue and control. You now need validation and support from nairalanders to go ahead and divorce ur evil wife......abi? Continue committing adultery u hear. It's not even upto 6months u left the country and u r already cheating on ur wife. But it's OK, it's ur wife's fault.
She made u commit adultery. She made u listen to a dodgy pastor who prophesied the marriage and is now also prophesying divorce. I hope ur dodgy pastor has also prophesied marriage to ur new lady? I hope he will also officiate at ur new wedding o?

It is everybody's fault but urs. U my friend, are a lazy, gold digging, child hustler

Mr Husband of the year, where is your sense of responsibility? Have u kept ur vows?

Carry on oh, by the time ur obodo oyinbo princess finished dealing with u, ur story will be worse than Stella oduah's and her ex husband.

gregvash:
Thank you so much. I stopped talking to my In-laws when I first reported her calling me Gold Digger Issue to them, and they laughed at me saying they were watching me to know the real motives behind me marrying their sister and daughter. According to the mum "If the purpose you marry my daughter is because of our wealth, then you have failed".. Sorry to say, all my wedding gifts, I never saw any of it as her family seized it saying it was their tradition and I never fought over it. I am not perfect but at least I have always known the value of Empathy and so I am careful with anyone's feelings

NevetsIbot:
delishpot and cococandy. Before you start your cynical converstations. Note... I've never handled a situation like this before. And this proug 4yr old is soo arrogant that if you beat her now, she'll be back to torment you everytime and the only correction she heeds to are those from her parents. Even her brothers can't wrap their hands round her. Ive never seen a Kid as spoilt as her. So, stop defaming me. I came here for help and advice to tackle this situation.

I know how africans think and I know things can turn around against me if I take some actions. My security first. Although I love the girl and want to rid her of the bad habit, I can't sleep in a police cell cos of that. It's not easy to tell a mom that ''I think her daughter has been introduced to sex''.... You guys keep thinking I'm freezing cos its a sexual advancement. Wrong! If curvy ladies couldnt get their hands on me, one tiny 4yr old can't!

And I've beaten this girl with my drumsticks cos of her habit times without numbers thinking she'd change. Talked to her, it all bounced off her head. You don't know the girl like I do! So! Stop the bloody defamation.

And Delishpot.... You don't seem cool when you throw slight accusations at me just cos I want advice on this issue. I won't rush into things cos of you.

delishpot:
Abeg OP, you are sounding strange to me now O. As if you are helpless with the girl and you are acting like a victim sef. A child of four is what is giving you all this headache? You can not tell her mom, you can not tell a pastor or elder, you can not shake the little kid off either, you are having sleepless nights, worrying as if the child is saying sleep with me or lose your job. I don't get it anymore O. What exactly do you want? As in what do you want us to say or do on this matter? Maybe it's me not understanding it anymore. Why is it hard to tell her to leave your side when she cones around? Or ask her mom to hold her as she is disturbing you and you need to focus? If you can't tell mom, why not tell dad? Hian

freecocoa:
That is if he even said any of those things sef. Seriously this OP needs to change her ways and someone has to tell her but since all of you are looking at her face, I am ever ready to play bad cop.

freecocoa:
Just imagine, your hubby's friend wanting to beat a 24 years old man shows how you people think of them, them say them say, people were complaining all that and more, yet he wasn't sent home till you got there, madam biko juo onwe gi ajaju, anyi ma way ndi Oga na madam, na today? Abegi.

Kaira333:
I didn't say I went 2ru his fone. What am I doing with it kwanu? Pls read what I typed well b4 blaming me. Those ones are living with us, we are accountable for anything dat happens to them 4 d moment they will stay with us until they are settled. We are they ones dat invited them here ok? People dat are paid monthly we don't have anything doing with d way they behave after work hour.

ifyalways:
A 5 years old does all that @ OP

stop playing with the girl.
Tell her mother directly not the pastor or another third party. The less people involved, the better and safer for you.
You however need to pick your words wisely and carefully when telling the mom. Don't act like you're so sure the girl is sexually active/they failed in their duties etc on her, apply wisdom.

Mothers !!! Parents !!!! wake up.

lukasmuyiwa:
Ha, am doing what I think I'm suppose to be doing but yet he keep on complaining of my arrant attitude

AlphaHandMaiden:
Rich people always seem to die of cancer because the have better access to good healthcare and doctors who can actually diagnose their illnesses.....

....... as opposed to some "other" people that always seem to die from witchcraft related issues...

5minsmadness:
Like i said before, everything about men is sex. This is thier basest instinct. Even those forming 'sapiosexual' (silliest word ever) It is the beginning and ending of every man's misunderstanding. The sooner ladies get to realise this, the better.

Cc bukatyne. As per that your thread.

macarena:
There was never any fornication.He's 6'2 and I am 5'2 with a petite frame. He sat on me, held my hand between his legs, pulled his boxers, poured cream on his male organ and made me stroke it.
He made attempts to put it in my mouth when I refused doing it.

Mandynews:
I will never believe anything about rape...even if the girl is 35years news HEADLINE will always say different age! Men don suffer the reason I no dey let any pikin come close to me.