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See analysis!!!

Well you're almost correct.

28? Not yet.
Keep guessing. almost there.

darkenedrebel:
Exactly!.
I can see the picture more clearly now. I should have known. At age 39, most marriages would have become a bit banal - I doubt many women that fall in that age-grade would put up anything about their hubbies on social media(I'm not spoilt, my hubby just loves me)

You are obviously newly wed & still fresh out of the oven....probably did family planning for 2 years and somewhere around 28 years old judging from the looks of your hands in the photo where you were holding the glock..... sorry, not glock.... whatever gun it was sha

darkenedrebel:
It's the family section stereotype. It's the unofficial old people's home of Nairaland. How can you not know?

that's why you thought I was 39 yrs old?

byvan03:
Cococandy how is the omugwo going?

Fine o. My baby is gentle and doesn't disturb YET..:

It's the plenty exams I have this period that's weighing me down. Sort of bad timing but God dey. I'll make it.

Noted.

Thanks guys

Onegai:
It will fall off (shedding) due to several reasons (cradle cap being one of them, certain compounds in the hair shaft being another). Cutting it doesn't add or detract or send any message to the hair follicles. That was what I was made to understand by 2 consultant pediatricians and a clinical dermatologists. But that's just what I was told, it's a choice you have to make.

byvan03:
Cococandy the best thing is to leave the hair and see how it goes. Nothing anyone says would have made me shave him completely if it didn't start falling.

Siena:
[color=Blue]Don't shave it unless you really want to.
My middle daughter and son both had thick hair from birth, especially my daughter's. They kind of grew unevenly after about 3 months, but I didn't cut their hair. By the time they were a year old, the growth evened out.[/color]

byvan03:
My dear that's what happened to me, his hair was so cool that I started plaiting it into puffs to reduce frequent combing. I trimmed it into punk at nine months, continued trimming only for the thing to start uprooting itself from age 2+. Never believed the cutting thing but I learnt from experience.

darkenedrebel:
This is your first experience at child-bearing ? ..chai.. and I thought you were a pro.

It starts falling off when the infant is 3 or 4 months old, but it's not compulsory you shave it off. Hair grows from the follicle, whatever shaving is done on the surface makes absolutely no difference. The baby's hair would naturally become thicker over the course of time.

why did you think that?

Funny you.

My baby's hair is soooo cute.
I don't ever want to shave it.

So it really begins to fall of if you don't shave it first?

byvan03:
I had to cut up to 4 times more for it to start growing normally. Those portions that fell of naturally refuse to grow with others until he cuts a few times more. Though before the hair started falling off, I trimmed the back and sides with scissors. I think it needed to be scraped to grow normally, which is what I did eventually.


Others never had this experience because I cut the entire thing after 1st birthday, so it won't start falling naturally.

Nimi22:
Big congrats cococandy.

Mrs0J:
Congrats cococandy, may God bless your home and baby.

waxdude:
Congrats cococandy...May the good lord bless n provide all u need to raise ur baby..amen

Thank you very much

tearoses:
How are you and our princess doing
Hope you are resting o coco
My only advise is to please do whatever you feel comfortable with . . . . . .advise here, there and everywhere from well meaning people can surely confuse one

Hugs and kisses

Aww thank you.

We are fine. Doing great.

PresVA:
Eeeyyaa , congrats coco .. had to dig to know why they were congratulating you. . God bless your lil one dear. ..

thank you dear

Onegai:
Happy birthday! What does it feel like for the leap year birthday thingie

Cococandy,congrats!

thank you

Thanks dear

bestestgirl:
Congrats Mummy Cococandy, (or is it MummyCandy/CocoMummy) she will be a source of joy to you both.

Thanks you dear

bukatyne:
Woaw!

God bless her and guide her to be that He destined her to be

I am sure she will be a cutie like her mom. She's even same month with you

More of God's blessings to your family!

Sweetlemon:
My sister I taya. Nigerians have issues walahi!

No be small thing

opella:
Congratulations dear. She will surely bring blessings to your household.

She is pretty and chubby

thanks.
Amen

thorpido:
But what's the craze for baby bump pictures?

I think they are cute.
Baby bump photos is an awesome concept IMO sha.

She's obviously wearing a mesh.
Maybe to cover up a bit.
People can be so icky.
Everything na matter to complain about.

The last time buhari was in government, same thing happened. I didn't experience it but those who did say he was the single reason for the way Nigerians now Celebrate American and European visas.
Things were so hard people left the country in droves just to find sustainability elsewhere.

Those who forget easily are bound to experience history over and over again.

Why can't people just let others be happy?
If they didn't claim to be divorced, stop trying to force it on them. Even if you think they are pretending. It's none of your business.

byvan03:
Wow!! Congratulations dear. Thank God for his mercies, welcome back to normal. I will wait for the birth story when you are well rested, I love birth stories.


Kisses to my princess and may God protect her.

Not particularly interesting.
It was a smooth ride though.

Got epidural and was gisting with DH until it was time to push.
Then out she came.
A whooping 8pounds 12ounces. Phew.

What would I have done otherwise?
I for just pass out.

Thank god for whoever made that drug.

tearoses:
This is the bunch of lovely roses my collegues got me yesterday
Its my birthday very soon

They are so lovely.

Flowers get me every time

Do you know what these yellow flowers in my picture are?
They look like orchids. Feels rubbery to the touch. almost like artificial flowers.
I'm sure they'll last for long before wilting.

They are so cute. My friend brought them to the hospital for me.

Thanks you so much

zaynie:
Congrats Anak123, may your child always bring you joy and pride. Amin.


Congrats Cococandy, may your child always bring you joy and pride. Amin.


Maureensylvia.....
If you born tomorrow na once in 4 years your LO go dey do birthday o .
#MouthishMaureen

tchidi:
Cococandy!!!! Congrats!! Allah ya rayah! Amin.

Thank you dear.
This one you're speaking Hausa for me I hope it won't stop you from making Igbo peppersoup for the omugwo

Thank you dear. May he bless you too.

CheeryChy:
Congrats Anak123 and cococandy, may God bless your LO.

@rofemiguwa, I will do the scan tomorrow which is exactly two weeks from the bleeding that led to the miscarriage. Just hoping for the best.

@pocahuntaz, so so sorry for your loss. It must be very painful. I pray that God will comfort you and give you double for your loss.

@bee2bee, Congrats, thank God for you. May your LO bring you joy

@maureensylvia, where are you dear? Hope you're doing fine. Or are you going to give us leap year baby as per captain things?

Happy Sunday Mamas.

Thank you ladies.

Amen to all the good wishes and prayers.
In fact I pray for double dose of blessings for all of you.

Chilli yes it's 27th.
And don't mind edwife your cake is cute

Tearoses almost your birthday mate. DH was making a joke that she would come on 29th so that we can tease her about her birthday. Happy birthday to you BTW. All the best wishes in the world to you.

damiso:
Congrats Cococandy God bless and keep her for you and hubby, may she be a blessing to her generation by His Grace.

Well done its not easy.

Get loads of rest dear.

EfemenaXY:
Yayyyy!!!
Finally she arriveth!
Congratulations mami, and welcome to the world our little darling princess Coco!!
May our little darling be an everlasting source of joy to mum and dad. Well done Coco...
And Happy Birthday in arrears (sorry I missed that but better late than never, eh?)
Be sure to get plenty of rest dear- and congrats once again.

Chillisauce:
Congrats dear. Almost same date with my last. Is the date 27th?
They can share same cake.
Peppa pig cake I made

edwife:
congratulations cococandy!
She is welcomed to this world with love and prayers.May she be a source of joy,comfort and accomplishments to her parents.
Take care.

tearoses:
wow!
congrats girl
was just asking after you yesterday
Kai you didn't want your daughter to share a birth date with me
I don't blame you o! This 4, 4 year thing dey tire me too sometimes
May your daughter always be a source of joy and pride to you and your hubby, and may God provide you with all that you need in every area to bring her up.
congratulations

byvan03:
Wow!! Congratulations dear. Thank God for his mercies, welcome back to normal. I will wait for the birth story when you are well rested, I love birth stories.
Kisses to my princess and may God protect her.

ifyalways:
Wow. Thank God !!! Congratulations girl. Welldone.
Omugwo loading.

Dyt:
Awww
Strong woman
Bless you
Bless her
Bless your home
Now I want another

Thanks for all your support

Gotta go rest now.

Ttyl.

babygirlfl:
Congrats darling. Thank God for a safe delivery. She will shine like a star wherever she goes in life. She will be a source of happiness to you and your family. She will never lack. Mummy coco try and get as much rest as you can and enjoy your bundle of joy. I will be celebrating here with you.

Efemenaxy
Chillisauce
Bukatyne
Babygirlfl
Edwife
Tearoses
Ifyalways
Byvan03
Onegai

Lil princess is here.
Thanks for all the support ladies.

Phboy1:
@ OP Nairaland is a not a place you can get an objective answer on your problems as most of the commentators here are kids. with over 90% of post in nairaland these days talking about how to make love to a woman, virginity etc, it tells u a lot about the ages of the commentators here.. You really have a big challenge as regards to the second wife issue since u hv interest in coming home.. If you can manage it without your white woman getting hurt, i think you should go ahead and do it..

see adult advice

Your diplomacy is legendary.
God give me grace to have half of that diplomacy.
Smh.
The OP deserves lashing. Not diplomatic appeal to reason. Reasoning that he obviously lacks.

tearoses:
This is what I dont understand
He married an oyibo who from the sounds of it is not interested in his Nigerian business and investments, so why invest in Nigeria and not elsewhere where they can both live snd enjoy the fruit of their labour.
What is the point in building proerties that you wont enjoy?

As for him wanting to marry another woman....Its his choice.
Before I used to feel sorry when I see some old people sufering especially men living lonely and broke and no children to look after them.
Now I know that many of them are just reaping what they sowed.
14 years and 2 wonderful children, this man wants to marry another woman and she will reap where she has not sown.
When this man was running away from border force and eating hand to mouth before this woman came along, where was this "caretaker" wife

My question is what has he invested abroad for his wife and children? bearing in mind that if anything happens God forbid, the oyibo wife and children will have no claim to the property and investments in Nigeria.

Hope I was diplomatic enough

Huge joke

I must commend you for this topic first.

Now to the question.
It's obvious your niece's reaction to the bat was what she learned from her parents.
What's the inference? Yes we Africans sometimes use religion more than we use common sense.

Teaching one's kids about the existence of God and how to live upright godly lives does not have to involve imbibing them with paranoia.
We do that way too often.

One can see how our societies are quite different because of it. We leave things to god rather than use our senses to solve problems.

Get a paid manager.
It will be cheaper and less messy for you.
You want to marry a second wife to manage the wealth that another woman helped you create?
You guys should fear God o.

So your second wife will become the overseer of what does not actually belong to her.
Of course kids will come from her too which will complicate your life and also deplete the wealth you're trying to protect.
The wealth you're trying to manage may still end up lost to you as you don't know who'll be benefiting from it while you're not around.
God have mercy on you your white wife doesn't find out and divorce you.

In the end what have you gained?

I don't know why we humans in seeking fleshy pleasure don't think of what we could lose in the process.

After y'all will start hating on bleached ladies and gentlemen. Forgetting that you're sowing the seeds on inferiority complex in them from birth.