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oponifa28:
the fact is she always say she's saving for our future,tho I work too nd i earn a gud pay too.am using my brain sha.
I av knw all her family members cos she introduce me as her fiance am always welcome wenever I visited her
am jst confused here.

"she always say she's saving for our future"....This really got me "very" confused....Who is the man?...You or your bae?...why would she collect everything from you and not encourage you to "save for the future" while she saves her own money??....This kinda sounds fishy sha...She has something up her sleeve....Bros, you and your babe really need to talk some serious "talk" oooo

Maximus85:
I'm sorry. I didn't mean to insult you in anyway. I'm sorry. It was in the hit of the moment. I'm really sorry.

.....Now, this is what I call MATURITY

Jblaiseboy:
The truth is guys that grew up with their sisters end up picking the mentality that girls are meant to do the chores,do u blame them?No.its common in most Naija homes .

Bros, abeg where you sef get this mentality from wey you just post....

kay29000:
Hmm! But in a one-on-one fight, this dude will truly furk Yung6 up o! I will love to watch that fight. I don't know why, I really love watching fights.

Bros no be by size oo...Like I'll always say...Na David kill goliath oo and not the other way round...

Rexhenrex:
she doesn't trust me at all although I haven't given her a reason not she says am too good to be true when ever I excuse ma self to make a call problem, of she sees a female staring at me she will nag if she sees me with a female course mate problem...I can't apologise am tired but I still love her.

Wait!..You said you excuse yourself to make a call when you guys are together??...why would you do that??...

Rexhenrex:
like I have said I will only get angry if I don't trust her.

I see....You trying to say if she trusts you, she shouldn't get or act angry abi??....well, maybe she knows the kind of friends she has and what her friends are capable of doing.....Bros, trust or no trust...My partner sleeping at my friend's place, I wasn't aware of it and my partner hid it from me.....O boy!!! It's like cheating on me ooo....

Rexhenrex:
Please i will need your utmost sincere answer to the question!

There is this pretty lady i have been dating for close to 2years now(amanda),she av been caring and very understanding but it doensn't mean that we don't have misunderstanding at times tho,but we always know how to resolve our issues without it escalating..

An incident happened some days back that got her pissed.I slept at her best friend's place who happens to be her course mate also without telling her not as if it was on purpose. what happened was that i was at my place on saturday last week all bored up so i decided to take a stroll in the evening,and as the devil may have it i was at the area which my bae's best friend(sophia) lives in.so i just said i should stop by and say hi! As i got in lo and behold she was playing scrabble (which happens to be my best board game) with a friend of her's(sylvia) who happens to be her next door neigbour.

So she invited me to join them in playing which i obliged to whole heartedly. you know how games are na, after 3straight round wins her friend sylvia said she will be taking her leave while my g.f's bestie sophia refuse to coincide defeat and dared me for another round which i won then for another round again i still accepted so as to show her i can still beat her. in the middle of the game something told me to check the time,as i checked i was shocked. it was already some munites to 10pm and i hate walking on the road at nights due to dangers of the night and for secuirity precussions(ranging from thefts,cultists oppression e.t.c)so i slept at her place and left sunday morning! I didn't see it necessary to tell bae i don't know how she got to know but yesterday she brought up the issue and was very disappointed in me she has refused to reply my msgs both on whatsapp and f.b nor pick or replied any of ma calls and i fear she might wanna break-up with me.

Does she have any reason to be angry??

that leaves me with this question, what will you do if your partner male passes the night in your friends place who is a female or if your partner female passes the night at your friends place a male without your consent??.

#Matured answers only please and no insults just say your thoughts.(pardon any typo and grammatical errors)

Cc:lalasticlala.

Be sincere ooo bros......1. How would you feel if she slept at your friend's place 2. She hid it from you and didn't tell you about it........Bros I take God beg you....No lie oo

The kain shock wey go first hit me ehn..hmm....I'll jejely hold my babe hand and walk out of the eatery..I/we will later pay the so called "supervisor" a visit. I/we will show him the reason why hitting any lady is very bad and why it makes a man like him a COWARD..i/we will then ensure that he apologises to my babe....If he still wants her to work for him, then fine by me/us...If not, the supervisor and the so called "eatery" can go to hell for all I care...

Sunnycliff:
Cheap Consolation. Why do you have to run a PGDE before Masters program unlike a University Graduate in the same field??


Mediocrity is not celebrated pls

And that Masters program guarantees a good job placement abi....University oo, Polytechnic oo na still labour market everybody go enter...You wey get luck and God's favour go see better work....So let's stop all these "University is better than polytechnic" or "polytechnic is better than university" jor.....

viickerz:
some polytechnics are good.. but dont you ever compare polytechnics to universities.. if you have entered oau, UI. ABU,etc.. you will hate poly.

why do you think most polytechnics are filled with cultits..? especially kwara poly

someone close to me graduated from poly 5 years ago. belive me,she is still searching for a job till now..

the day i first entered unilorin, i promised myself never to go to a polytechnic in my life..

have you seen those law chicks in oau? the sight of their smart and beautiful faces will make you forget about all those mgbeke girls wey full our polytechnics

Like I will always say - make all your instances correct...Why would you say most polytechnics are filled with cultists....Is AAU, Ekpoma a polytechnic?, is Uniben (Unibest) a Polytechnic??, is EKSU a polytechnic?...Don't let me mention ABSU, IMSU, UNIPORT and the rest.. Cultism in the Universities is 100percent greater than that In the polytechnics.

Secondly, you said someone close to you graduated from the poly, 5 years ago and still looking for job...lol...Make I come tell you say I know person wey graduate from University about 8 years ago and still hasn't got a job..That one nko....He had to start up a small business and he's doing well...

Bros, I take God beg you...Get your facts and instances right before posting them...Abeg

omoharry:
so you too is involve in this act abi? for you to support it, means that u are either involve in it or you are benefiting from some that is involve in this rubbish..na una they spoil our name outside this country..I have said it times without number that any one that is involve in yahoo /defrauding other people will never have a happy life but a miserable and sad life as long as they live, becos of the pain/death they have casue to other people..keep supporting them.

Abegii...Make I hear word...The one una Politicians dey do pass wetin yahoo boys dey do...Dey there dey form "good boy" make boys dey make money dey live happy life. Let me tell you something you don't know...I know of like 3 guys that are yahoo boys but you'll never know because they got businesses (Real estate, Oil and Gas, Transportation etc).You wey no know go dey admire them when you see them because they are always in corporate wears. Like I always say, most of the billionaires, Millionaires and CEOs you wish to be like have underground shady deals they do that cause other individuals pain too..Make una free boys jare....Not in support of yahoo "plus" though...

He refused when you asked him to start a business of his own??...Then he isn't wise at all.....If he has investments, then I see nothing wrong. Everyone wanna marry a billionaire but not everyone knows that the "billionaire" has something illegal he/she does or has done in the past that paved way for that wealth.. My opinion though

omoharry:
never...i see their money as blood money..only God knows the numbers of thier victims that must have commited suitcide as a result of thier action ...they are mean and heartless people .Anybody that is brought up well should not have any relatioship with such a person.

Una politicians nko?

Siena:
If I was a girl, I would NOT date / marry a Yahoo! MAN.

As a guy, I will NOT have a Yahoo! guy even as a friend.

Story for the gods.....

beautylaurel:
Every lady wants tall and handsome guys for a date,what becomes of d short and ugly ones

Not "every" lady madam.. Don't Generalise it abeg..My Cute babe is 5'6 and I am 5'7 (I know I am short)..The funniest thing is most ladies that always want tall and handsome guys, always end up getting married to short (or average height) and average looking guys e.g 2 of my blood sisters...I still make jest of them (infront of them alone oo) till today...

SeverusSnape:
A virgin, any day, any time.

All ladies were once virgins....Being a virgin won't stop her from cheating on you or breaking your heart into pieces later on.....I'll forever go for an Understanding Sweetheart (just like my Boo)....

sluvy4tune:
Hey Young Lady walk away from that Nigga...he can keep his money!



My experience

I met her a Virgin, she told me no sex I agreed, we have been together for 5years now and she willingly gave in #NoTooMuchPressure #NoThreat

And I met her a virgin, she told me no sex till her wedding night, I agreed. We were together for about 3 years only for her to finally cheat on me (she told me it was rape at first but as a sharp guy, I no say na lie until she finally told me the truth weeping and pleading... While dating me, she met a guy that used to be her school father in secondary school..the bobo just got back from China. Bobo deceived her and she foolishly fell for him and bobo took her virginity and gave her the impression that they were dating...She wey be mumu was thinking she could date the 2 of us and at the end I broke up with her and the bobo later dumped her...The funniest thing be say I showed this babe soo much love and care. Guess she noticed this and took me for granted.. This babe's routine na from church to house to work...Madam SU)...Ladies are so Unpredictable and full of pretence ... When a lady tells me NOW "I won't have sex till my wedding night", to me its all bullshit and lies...In short after that experience, if we ain't gonna fvck while dating, I am sorry I WONT EVEN TRY DATING YOU...Once bitten, twice shy...

Why must ladies cheat and have school Boyfriends even when they have someone they love soo much at home...Once they get into school, the freedom makes them forget about everything and everyone...I always wonder if there is a "higher institution cheating spirit" that tends to possess them once they gain admission or maybe its just the "over excitement" that they are free at last..My opinion though....

Bollove:
You are a foolish dude , ignorant and dirty.

If you ain't careful with this mentality, you will ruin your life with it...... I hope she is like me and sense Ur plan, she will shatter and scattered you like never before even your dead dad will pity you.

MySon, if you don't need that girl, leave her now and stay with your life ..... If you hurt her later, she may kill you for it then you will be the ultimate loser.

Don try toy with woman's venom.

And what is this one saying now?.

ssoftappless:
this is what guys are looking 4 nd u ran away 4rm it

If you see babe wey no dey tire...We dey always want am even not minding whether you are sad, thinking of something else or not just in the mood, you go tear race...I am a living witness...

Play Ludo....Thank me later

Wait first.. Why is the topic/talk of masturbation being unGodly and a sin soo sooo overrated?...Fornication nko?...what about lusting for a lady you barely know (most guys are guilty of this)....

Cholls:
my sister look I don't know you from anywhere not until you came here with this story of your love life. so just accept my advice which ever way you like to see it good or bad............ back to the topic........one of the things I deduced from what you wrote is how proud and arrogant of a person you could be........thinking you're better than the lady cuz she couldn't speak English fluently.....and the one that annoyed me most was when the brother told you to move to Mowe with him you refused.......Damn! You are too proud for any man to marry.

The second instance shouldn't get you angry...The guy should also be considerate..You shouldn't think about yourself alone in a relationship...Something that could be of comfort for you might cause a great discomfort for your partner...There should be mutual agreement in a relationship....

myfantasies:
Bros today is Monday, stop turning around in circles

It still d same thing, u r taking sides nd i am doing d same

You started taking sides first so I had to join you....Ladies and Guys cheat...Ladies and guys have main guys/main chicks and side guys/side chicks...its something you (and everyone) knows....simple!!

myfantasies:
If cos i did

It still boils down to one thing...

Nd i blame the guys who love to cheat

And I blame the ladies who love to be side chicks.. They know you have a GF but are still willing and ready to date you....and I also know of ladies that have main guys and side guys too.....so stop taking sides abeg....Ladies cheat the same way guys cheat too

myfantasies:
Sorry i don't see any difference

Then I guess you didn't read my post...If you did, you'll see the difference....Blame the ladies who love to be side chicks...

cruzita:
do you always look sad?or is that the only way u look handsome?

Ahhhn ahhhhn...Babe! You get bad mouth oo...lol...But on a second thought - its the truth...its possible he looks good/handsome only when he is sad and frowns....

myfantasies:
U guys dat r busy saying sidechick nd main chick wat is d difference between both of them

U asked both of them out

U tell both of them dat u love dem

U have sex with both of dem

U give both of them money

U chat with both of them

U call both of them

Nd u r even cheating on them

So wats d difference?

I don't see any difference here between the two of them, d only thing here is dat u r greedy, nd u r a cheat

There is a difference....

You don't tell a side chick you love her...If she says it, ur reply should be "me too", "really?", "that's sweet"..Being a side chick is not about love but about s*x...

You don't ask a side chick out....lai lai....she either forces herself on you or you put her on a "friends with benefit package" (My sharp dudes know what I am talking about). Some ladies know you have a GF or you are in a serious relationship and are still ready to "date" you (dem plenty sef)...They automatically become side chicks that way..

So you can see there really is a difference....My opinion though

Ojestas:
I m a 10 year old boy, she's 6 years. .That's why i m here to ask Old people wey get beards like you. Ish !

I thought as much..small children wey no get beards like you ish!...Tell me you don't know the right thing to tell her to do. So why bring it up on nairaland and ask us "please what should she do??"....abegii

Ojestas:
Pls, i didn't form this story at all and its not a fiction. . Advise if u can. Thanks!

Hi, i have a female friend(she ain't my gf, so don't assume) who just recently finished her ND and moved to her blood sister's place in Lagos for her IT.

I got her call last week Friday, and she was crying on phone. I asked what happened

She said She went out with her sister's husband that Friday night, just to have fun(TGIF things) u get?. . But her sis couldnt go with them cos she has a little baby she's nursing.

Said when they got there; the man(her sister's husband) told her "I would have loved to date you or that your friend(referring to a friend who she claimed visits her usually @ home) if not that she's married to Iya ***( her sister)" She said She laughed it off thinking he was just joking and that she felt secured being with him, as the sister's husband, thinking nothing would happen.


The man(her sister's husband) ordered for pepper soup and drinks(alcoholic) for both of them. Since they went with their car, she felt relaxed and drank to stupor(i blamed her for doing this). .

Like 15 minutes later,.she went to ease herself ; unknowingly, the man(her sister's husband) went after her. She zipped up n wore her legging, as she turned back. . she saw the man... he( her sister's husband hugged her and kissed her) she was too high, hence powerless, but she screamed and the man stopped kissing her, so she asked they leave for home.

On their way home; inside the car, the man asked her out claiming he loves her so much. Imagine!. .she claimed she ignored him and thought, this kind of night will never happen again.. . They got home

As if that was not enough, they got home, he parked at d gate, reached her again and kissed her longer, caressed her and all that.

Then she called me to ask what she should do... I dunno what to tell her but m trusting Nairalanders to give help her out.

i asked if he had shown signs, prior to that day. She said yes, that he did scold her whenever she tied wrapper, he would ask her to wear bum shorts insteads. He would monitor her movements, would call to know where she is often and often. Doesn't want her to have friends n whenever she receives call, he would use corner corner eye to look her. . and all that.


What should she do?? Nairalanders, help a friend. . Thanks.




Lalasticlala

And you are asking us what she should do abi...For real??..How old are you and how old is she?..Okay...she doesn't know what to do abi...Tell her to always wear "bum short" instead...Tell her to always kiss her sister's husband passionately and allow him caress her well well. Tell her to even have sex with him sef that they'll both enjoy it...Tell her to permanently relocate to lagos (who knows her sister's husband might make her the second wife)..I pray and hope she heeds to these...Make sure you tell her ooo.....RUBBBISSSHHHHH!!!!

killerman47:
Please I really do not understand the meaning of this trash, u agreed to enter into a sexual relationship with someone, without any emotions or what so ever, our agreement was just sex, sex, sex, and I give you money..... friends with benefits se fini.....


Why will she start forming love and bringing emotions into our thing now? , sending me val. messages, I feel so annoyed and at same time irritated...... in fact I just dey vex as I dey type this thing.....


What kind of nonsense is this......... I'll warn this silly girl any year I see her again..... cus I'm not even in the mood of seeing her at all....

Nonsense... rubbish....

Lol.. Same happened to me ooo....O boobs!!!! Na to run oooo.....if not, she go turn your GF by force o...I dunno know why they act dat way...They agree at the first instance and before you know, they'll start forming love....Even the one wey you know say na confirm runz girl...go dey ask you "what's your plan for the future"...she wan force herself into "your" future....hahahahahaahahaha..Crazy biatchs..