₦airaland Forum

mzhorlah:
no

Or is it because you are fine...**winks**

IRserveMyComent:
It works very well my dear. There are alot of girls and even guys out there who are actually virgins and hav resolved to remain so till after marriage. The issue is that the fear of being termed archaic and old fashioned makes them to find it difficult to have the boldness to tell friends they are virgins if such issue arises. Back then in school i had a friend who does that alot. She would tell stories and even help some runs girls on advice on how to hook up with guys, but i knew she was a virgin (pls dont ask me how). She would always tell me "Mimi if they get to know i dont live this type of life i would becom under pressure to join them". For me it wasnt an issue because i never pretended to be wat i wasnt. If i could smell the four walls of a nigerian university and came out the way i entered, it is 100% possible for any one who wants to.

I hear u...You said back then In skool...We are in 2016.....I didn't say it 100percent impossible, I only said It very hard to find....Its rare....There are lots of girls out there who claim to be virgin but they are lying about it...Like I said - Try to conduct a virginity test on these girls and you'll be very very shocked at the result...

alizma:
the agreement is not as bad as you are painting it bro.

Bros it is "badder" than how I am painting it...It has happened to me...I know of other guys and "my guys" that this same thing has happened to...They'll tell you that "I don't want sex till my wedding night" or "I don't really like sex so I don't want sex" but they'll end up cheating on you or have some other guy disflower them....You'll be forming Mr nice guy saying "let me give her time" or "Relationship is not all about sex" and they'll be giving it free of charge to some other dude....Bros wisen up oooo.....I ain't a sexmaniac or someone that thinks about sex all the time but these babes forming holy holy can break a guy's heart into pieces...I tell you....

ClintonDal:
This has absolutely got nothing to do with sugar, remember he always has an erection until time of penetration. The first time is probably stress induced and the subsequent times are all psychological. You're scared it will happen again and that automatically puts you in panic or anxiety mode, ur heart pumps more adrenaline which always happens when you're afraid. Haven't you ever noticed that ur joystick becomes way smaller when you're scared or in a traumatic situation. You just need to build back ur confidence with someone you're comfortable with and who is also patient. That's all, don't go taking drugs and shit those will just mess u up and get you dependent on them thereby worsening ur psychological problem. Thank me later

Bros your head is there....what causes this could be too much stress or what is called "sexual performance anxiety"....This thing happens to most guys that's why they resort to using sex enhancement drink/drugs...That bros can read more about it here (www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/guide/sexual-performance-anxiety-causes-treatments#2)

IRserveMyComent:
Hahahahah! 'wana be' indeed.

Check my comments on related topics u would see am a core advocate of no sex before marriage so i dont know where u think i 'wana be'.

My comment to the Honourable broke Op And any one of his ilk is based on the fact that since he has decided to eat the forbidden fruit which the creator has reserved for and within the confines of marriage, he should also be willing to bear the inherent responsibilities associated there in.

Boy girl relationship in the first place should not be about sex. But the fact that both guys and ladies alike have become so empty that the only thing they have and can offer is only sex has made it look like no boy girl relationship can exist without sex.

##I know you guys would come for my head but am ready for you##

Mind you my earlier post on the op being broke was never becos am in support of girls that go into relationships hoping to offer ONLY SEX.

You are a core advocate of no sex before marriage..who are you "advocating" that for..Lol...Are you for real??...Are you a nigerian??...Let me tell you, that "no sex before marriage" talk, works for only Girls below the age of 17 (dem don too old sef at 17)....If you really have girls/ladies you talk to about not having sex before marriage, try to conduct a virginity test on them and you'll be very very very very very shock at the result....Ma'am please stop wasting you time or rather should I say stop deceiving yourself.....This "no sex before marriage" shit don't work anymore....I'm damn serious

Israel5:
I love my girlfriend so much that i could do almost anything for her. Our relationship is a unique one. We've known eachother since childhood and i didn't ask her out before our ship left the coast and she didn't ask me out either but i'm having some challenges with her. We're both introverts but i've almost become an ex due to my exposure so i need your opinion. I'm frustrated in these areas..
1. She introduced me as a son of my father. We've been family friends since childhood so her dad knws mine. We lost touch and when we came back as adults, we .. U knw na. Eh en. So i visited her at her father's house and she introduced me as my father's son. Not even her friend fa. And it has become a norm for her. I don't do same.
2. She's never hugged me. My gf has never hugged(real hug). She gives me the side when i make a move. She's not DLBC member o. We're both thesame denom. She's not even spiritual like me sef.
3. She's never kissed me. My gf has never pecked me not to talk of kiss. She never gives me the chance. We've agreed on No sex but a lil show of affection is not bad.
4. She's very shy. Sometimes i think it's the reason for 2 and 3. I can't even hold her hands in the day only at night and her palms get all sweaty in the cold night.
5. She never gets angry at me. No matter what i do(i don't cheat), she never gets angry at me. I've seen her angry but it wasn't at me. It makes me scared cos that personality is dangerous.
6. She never visits me alone. She visits me with her gigantic brother and when they come, the brother and i talk football forgetting her presence..lol. And she complains abt that.
6. She complains i'm not romantic. This is the worst part. It makes me go haywire because she frustrates my every effort.
7. She does not take my words seriously. She insists i tell her words like, 'you're beautiful, i love your butt, waist, dress, i love you' et al but when i do she goes like, 'o pls, stop joking jawe'. It leaves me empty.
8. I can't tell her all these. This is the killer part. My complains break her bones and leaves her heart broken like i dumped her and i end up cuddling her with sorries and i love youss.
P.s: candid opinions only pls. Shove up criticisms and insults up your fingers. Thanks.
Lalastica

Bros I saw this -"We've agreed on No sex but a lil show of affection is not bad" and I am wondering why you would agree to that kind of "AGREEMENT"....Never you accept to date a "Nigerian" Babe (In short any babe) without sex....The outcome of that agreement always leaves the guy heartbroken...I am telling you bros...To even make matters worse, she is complaining that you ain't ROMANTIC...Ehhhhhh bros, if you know you truly love this babe and you don't wanna lose her and you don't wanna get heartbroken, Quickly "disagree" that "agreement" oooo....They say a word is enough for the wise.......

Rukkydelta:
Today is my birthday....Romancelanders show me some love

Why did you inform us at this time na?...Anywayss - HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU CUTIE...Long Life and Prosperity and I wish you all good things of Life....Hope you had a wonderful birthday celebration sha.........

donblade855:
who cor laf at ur dry joke?

Who say make anybody laff before...

mzhorlah:
close ur eyes and pick on sumone else please

I wasn't picking on you....Why should I?...I guess its now a crime to compliment....

Any girl/lady that says "I want to keep my virginity until my wedding night" deserves a very very HOT SLAP.....Its all Liessssss and Deceittttt......My Ex that did the same to me and I broke up with is back after I gave her "HOPE" again...PAYBACK IS A BIATCH.

80percent of guys don't use Condoms with their main chicks.....I lie??....For your info Bros, Most prostitutes go skin to skin with their clients if requested for and the PRICE IS RIGHT.....So no go dey deceive yourself at all ooo.....

mzhorlah:
Sumfn still amazes me,,,,the importance pple draw to d**k

Wowwww...I can't just stop staring at your **Mehn they are out of this world**......

Ginaz:
Lie shall not depart from your lips, you can lie for Africa.

As in ehn...Not just Africa......Asia, Australia and Europe included

donblade855:
drop your honest opinion. how do I look in this picture?

OMG!!...You look like Davido.....
































In your f*cking dreamzzzzzz Oga

Josphine4good:
I hate men I don't think I will get married to one

STORY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

rose54321:
Everyone gets turned on, everyone has urges, just cause they go to a particular church doesn't mean it alters any of their senses. The one thing majorly different with them is their dress code, and modest way of live

Did I hear you say/see you type "modest way of life".....Are you kidding me

kestino:
hey NL, what can i do with 8 inches length of dick. It just just got me scared, cos i have not used it once. Helepp me ooooo

Get a mortar and use it to be pounding yam...

Very simple thing...Tell your GF you like her friend. Who knows she might allow a three.some with her friend...Mumu!!!...Must your d.i.c.k do the thinking all the time??

Jac007:
When am appearing the most!

Mode??...Calculator own abi which one or na "mood" you wan type

olac21:
A 20yr old girl your wife to be?she's your GF at this stage sir..a 200lv student at that!

Lol. Girl wey just start life and still dey enjoy campus life. She'll soon break is heart. Let's watch and see

onuwaje:
I also lived in uvwie and all dis places u av listed
Im nt saying crime is nt in warri but u cant tell me warri has a higher crime rate Than lagos...
Lets be frank with our sef.

Why you go dey compare warri and lagos together na....Lagos is a state and Warri isn't...You have to be specific about the areas in Lagos and not just say Lagos as a whole...I reside in lagos and in my area, I haven't experienced any form of robbery for close to a year now (if not more than)...so please be specific......

Bootycall26:
I seriously don't know how else to personally interpret her action in my thinking capacity.

My bae asked me to subscribe for her that she wants to download some files for her project proposal as per finalist in versity.

At that point in time, I honestly dont have the money to subscribe for her.

After few hours later she sent me a text on WhatsApp. I was like have you subscribed? She said yes...
But you said that you dont have money to sub and that's why you asked me to sub for you! How come u bounce back online?
She said that she asked a man in her whatsApp list to subscribe for her and he did.
My point is, not that a man sub for her that's bothering me. Not that am a broke guy but the fact that she has the audacity to tell me
that she asked a man in her whatsapp contact to sub for her.
some times to show respect one has to defect from saying the truth, not that its good but to make peace reign!
I think she should knw that it wont be acceptable or sounds well to any guys earing.

Fine, she asked me to sub for her, but at that point in time I dont have the money, and not that I haven't been subscribing for before.

She been begging me since that she's only trying to be honest with me.

Is what she did right or wrong?

Can u guys tolerate such thing from your girlfriend?

So you want her to lie to you?..Na wa oo..The best you should have done is ask her who the man is and whats their relationship like...Simple...Bros your Ego is ........."i dont even know what to say"....

I see nothing wrong ooo..I have bought pads several times for my sisters and my GF...Its not a biggie na....

missbronze:
Seriously, it happens like that.


You will like someone so much, yet, you don't love them. No matter how hard you try to convert the like to love, it wouldn't just come.


I am in that situation now.

You saying this too...Na wa oo...

Acidosis:
I know your type very well. I used to have one like that in my school days who call me all sort of names : "my sweetheart, my love", etc., meanwhile, she sleeps with random guys even in the same hostel.

I had to confront her one day, and told her frankly to stop the name callings. Girls always want it all. They want the tough & iron hand engagement with the bad guy, but love the emotional fantasy and romantic cover of the easy-going man whom they hardly love truly.

I blame that guy for allowing a flirt play with his head like CHESS. A f00l at 40 who cannot differentiate between friend zone and LOVE may never find REAL love till death.

If you don't love him, leave him. If we search deeply, your heart is definitely with another guy who probably does not give a HOOT about you.

You be correct guy Bros...All i see is a lady that wants to Flirt with him because of the things she get from him and He's the Director too...Its also called Clinching...Make everybody for office know say she and Oga dey very close...You dont love him but you like him very much??..For real??..I keep asking lades that say this trash this - "is it immediately you fall in love with a guy??"..Ladies are just soooo confused....

Iamlordgee:
Infact I am dump folded.. I don't have any word to alter

You have a PHD in english language from Harvard....Right....Its like I know u...we went to Harvard together....

Mediapace:
11.C.D.Q. : That guy wowo pass lilkesh and i even heard he was a banker,c.d.q. I swear rapping job no fit you but raping job may fit though

12.Boogey : i just use to hear his name never heard of his hitz.
My guy go and start hawking stop wasting your time

13.Seriki Omo Owo: I don't know why someone ought to be selling suya everynight is rapping,LIABILITY TO THE CORE!

Bros Abeg free CDQ...The Guy is good....Though he raps mostly in yoruba but his "word play" are dope abeg......

lemonade:
Guys please what does it mean when/if your heart beats faster while kissing or making out with a girl.

Most times when my new bf who is a mature enough guy who has had his fair share or relationships, kisses me his heart races. We haven't had sex yet although I know it's gonna come in the not-too-distant future.
But please is it possible to fake a racing heart? This guy is good looking, experienced and all so I'm scared he's gonna hurt me like my exes. Do you think he may really have feelings for me?

I guess he is just over excited...Thats all....

missmary:
No one has ever broken up with me...

Really.Good for you..BTW you are BEAUTIFUL!!!...I'm tripping....*winks*

donkizzydaboss:
Having a partner that masturbate alot and faithful or a partner dat is an epitome of cheating

Only God Knows.....

iceberylin:
Do you know people get busy

Please Tell her.....Please also tell her to stop acting CHILDISH......