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Do I take it we get invites to the big do?

kingsots:
there was a time i had money problems and she offered to help but i hesitated and told her i don't borrow money anyhow especially not from a lady she persisted and i collected some money.

She gave you the money of her own free will, but then if she made it clear at the time that she was lending it to you, then it's payable when able!!! She cannot force you to steal now to pay her back, can she? just because she couldn't have what she wanted!

Turn a blind eye. It's your word against hers! And this is a serious matter, no woman would sit by and watch her world come crumbling at her feet. If you're not careful she might turn the table against you.

Jogging. You can do it yourself, no trainer needed. But both will be cool as swimming burns more calories.

[quote author=Paroh_frey link=topic=355561.msg4972983#msg4972983 date=1258840108]because there are married women cheaters all over the place.[/quote]Exactly!

No, not bad at all.

CrazyMan:
If I must ask, is it a crime to date a disabled?

No, not at all, nothing personal, but I wouldn't!

freecocoa:
plz every1 wat would u do if u find out your lover's interest in u is fading?would u let him/her go?

I always remember this quote: " if you love something very much let it go, if its yours it will always come back to you'.

Bim4u:
if u're scared about calling him,why don't u let a friend call him on your behalf first

That's not a bad idea, thanks.

lovelynk:
Why? u said u  love dem,so why wont u?

Because 'am not in love with any of them

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=355251.msg4973019#msg4973019 date=1258840427]Madam Judge Cool, is it your own response that is adequate "you love them" - how condescending - as if that is a favour they should kiss your feet for [/quote]I repeat I love them. I didn't know that loving your neighbour is condescending and considered a favour! But now that you have said it, maybe you can tell us what is so condescending about loving them.

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=355251.msg4973865#msg4973865 date=1258857269]I understand what you are trying to say, but true love does not discriminate, it shouldn't [/quote]But then where is the true love when you don't even have any feeling whatsoever for someone in the first place? This is all about feelings, not discrimination.

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=355251.msg4973019#msg4973019 date=1258840427]to bring you back to planet Earth with a bump, that IT COULD HAPPEN TO ANYONE, ANYTIME, INCLUDING YOU [/quote]Bull shit!

Only 17? Too young to think about marriage. And to think you haven't met him makes it worse.

You turn a deaf ear, finish your business with him and hang up!

kiwi992:
Hi,


If you now feel that the person you saw wasn't a ghost, then so be it.  Afterall, it was you who said you saw a ghost and that he was now haunting you.  I didn't - you said it.  I was merely advising you.  You can either take the advice or leave it.

I used the word 'ghost' as in, in quotes and 'haunting' as in I think of him all the time, I feel like calling him, it bothers me.

kiwi992:
That said, you'd be surprised as to the different forms that the departed can manifest themselves to the living.

Yes, a ghost can most definitely manifest itself in human form, sit next to you for hours and hours on end and be seen by others (oh yes!!), do all sorts of things with you - eat, chat, play chess with you (just like a human), whistle at you through your computer, whistle in your ears, ask you for a lift, sit next to you in your car whilst driving alone or with others in the car, send you cryptic messages, warn you about future events, tell you off, help you, indeed, befriend and look after you, and so on and so forth.  Oh yes! Strange but very true.

Now 'am sacred again! Maybe I should call him just to be sure. And if he is a real ghost will he answer my call?

Traditional marriage is important in some communities but note that it is not legal under the law, meaning either of the couple can still later get married to someone else in church or registry(and would not broken any law) and that second marriage will supersede the traditional one.

Church marriage is however legal and either partner needs to divorce in a court of law to annul it. But then one can choose to marry in the Registry which is also binding under the law, and then go to church for blessings.

Strange, I didn't know churches now request for money to contract marriages!

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=355251.msg4971619#msg4971619 date=1258827817]You can't choose your fate or destiny, and not everyone is born disabled at birth, and no one knows what is around the corner, one could step out of the house and get knocked over by a car and lose a body part,[/quote]You're putting sentiments into it!

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=355251.msg4971619#msg4971619 date=1258827817]so is this kinda tantamount to saying disabled people should go and commit suicide Just asking [/quote]Nobody has said that and you haven't answered the question , it is can you marry a disabled guy/lady? Simple.

hadexman:
Do you see your life? Shame on you!!!

Shame on him indeed!

Unbelievable! Are we not supposed to be our brother's keeper?

'Yeye' rolling! aka Fela

Africason:
Dude, it isn't funny but it happens everywhere. Even in Africa  

Africa? that is too far away. It happens right under our noses in Nigeria.

The evils that men do live after them!

If they wake up from their slumbers!

Awwwww!

Mix some Indian hemp in your hair cream, it works wonders,

Oluschenco:
ookokkokk k-k-kkaaay, eat hot yam early in the morning.

Haba! That's not a nice thing to say.

No.

clem2love:
which she had to open up to me that for the last nine month she had done close to 12abourtion,

12 abortions in 9 months? Impossible.

Conception can never take place without ovulation. Ovulation occurs every month. So tell us another story.

honeric01:
have u used one before and what's the probability that it actually works?

I don't have a penis.

[quote author=Kenny_G link=topic=355400.msg4970807#msg4970807 date=1258818200]so i take it u dont lie at all? [/quote]No, not even to save my life!

decapos2:
am not a story teller nor i dont read peoms thats y i dont know how to write a story. plz say something about this situation. i know u understand me.

We understand you quite all right, we got your message, your name and contact number is there for all to see.

decapos2:
AM BIDEX MY NUMBER 07032769098 25YEARS OF AGE.FROM AKURE. CINEMATOGRAHER,FILM&MUSIC EDITOR.

Find yourself a girlfriend.

Finito! I can never stand liars. And don't they say when one lies one steals!

ElRazur:
You want the truth? Here is the truth. . . There is no magical pills, herbs, medicine or device that will make your man hood bigger. If your woman is getting you stuff to enlarge your size, perhaps you should be looking elsewhere?

Don't mind him o jare! , there are penis enlargement supplements, methods and devices all over the world to increase a size from 2 inches to almost 8 inches when fully erect. I am not sure about the hausa herbs though.