₦airaland Forum

So the point of marriage is just to have sex

Are you high?

chenzen:
bros if all the girls in the world denies u sex... u go marry Las las

I hope nothing untoward has happened to Sadiya.

That's how one of my schoolmates was missing in sec school. She left school to go and stay with a guy for 1 good week.

There's absolutely no need to pay for sex. OP has hit the nail on the head.

The funny thing is that a relationship will give you sweeter, more intimate and even more risqué sex.

Freinds that have sex.

Blackivy27:
What does friends with benefit in relationship mean

How can she "cheat" and be a virign?

Blackivy27:
This is secondary school affair.
imma virgin and intend to remain.
the girl he cheated with is too.

I've never cheated and never will. I'd rather break up than cheat.

To my shock, the very few girls I've talked to about this all said that they won't break up. They don't mind if their guy cheats as long as he comes home to them. I found it fascinating and frankly, a little scary.

Men who cheat are scum. Women who cheat are scum. They continue to do so because Nigerians keep staying in relationships. Don't be scared to leave an infidelous marriage.

In my experience, honesty is the best policy. If you avoid saying something because you're scared of the reaction, you will regret it later. I don't mean insults, I mean things for their own good. It's not a girl or guy thing sef.

MariaLavina:
Very well scripted!

BTW the bolded can lead to lot of issues that can be avoided if the situation is handled tactfully. Believe me, questions like so you've been avoiding me because of that? Do you even love me? how deep? can you even accept my flaws? oh what other things have you seen in me miss perfection? etc will begin to flow if care isn't taken.

Sometimes it's better going that way.(my suggested way out)

We have unserious men and women in Nigeria. It's not specifically one gender's fault. Yet, people are still meeting and marrying young.

When you meet a guy/girl you actually love and who is enterprising, marry. There is no reason for too much talk.

As for me, all that aproko brideprice excess, I no dey for that one. I won't do it. I'm not buying a cow. Cow full slaughter market.

Don't joke with suicide.

AstroG:
Take and help yourself out

I would recognize that she has my best interests at heart and would tell me something that is necessary even if I may temporarily feel hurt.

I would be happy that we are open and honest with each other.

WE will try to fix the problem whether by diet, drinks, doctor, toothpaste, chewing stick, etc.

MariaLavina:
I see. Okay be truthful.

How will you feel as a Man if your girlfriend tells you bluntly the reason I don't want you to kiss me is because your mouth stinks and you have a tooth decay.

This is not hidden. Innoson in an interview years ago explained that they are producing under license. HE didn't mention the Chinese manufacturer that gave them the license.

They import some of the parts and fabricate some here and ALL assembly is done in Nigeria. This is how cars are made.

Be like me. Have no labels. Social or religious. No labels.

I was a tad too harsh. Next time just respond to what I said and don't insult me.


Have a great week.

victorian:
Thank you

I think it would be stupid to marry someone you have not been in an intimate relationship for some time

You can't be in an intimate relationship without being REALLY intimate

Your Englsh is so bad that you did not understand that you typed rubbish.

victorian:
Have u taken your meds today?


Are u OK upstairs?

The man is already married. He and his wife did enjoy their lives. He must have known that the bride's paternal family were not in the picture.

Your girlfriend has sense. You can't allay her fears by refusing na

DrObiHogan the woman whisperer

DrObiHogan:
you know nothing about women.

So you're even in my city PH. Good people full Port. I lost hope to be frank but over the last 12 months, I've met wonderful people in PH. Men and women.

Maybe the guy did not see you guys' relationship as his last relationship. Maybe he didn't want to be boned and mumu'd again.

N*ggaz are tired and sensitive.

Zinny25:
I get him things, Cook in my house and take to him. The cost of transportation from my house to his is #600, I see him often, I have never asked for transportation fare. I go to fast food get him things whenever I wanna visit. what I'm saying in essence is that guys can never be pleased,u ask them for money they call you golddigger,u don't but instead give them they say u r too desperate.

I don't go into relationship for monetary gains, I'm very ok,at least I'm contented with what I have, that's why I keep working hard,next time get your facts straight about me before coming to my comment to rant

Are you calling Zinny25 a prostitute? ?

Why are you equating money to sex? That sounds like the definition of prostitution.

victorian:
You even have patience to wait til 10 months before requesting for money and he refused can u imagine?

If u tell him to wait 10months before he have sex with you? Won't he run?

Las Las he still behaved like the scum, he is.

Anyways my own is I'm celibate, you can keep your money if u don't want to spend and don't expect me to spend either. Let's see where the selfishness and stinginess will lead us to.

Na there you Bleep up. Maturity is not by age.

There's a 29 year old friend I had who Always asked for money and mismanaged her own money too. The last time I told her that she creates her own money issues herself, she took offence.

On the other hand, her 19 year old friend that I talk to almost never asks for money. Will call you first, brought food for me when I was sick, etc. The only money issues she has had have been in relation to school.

Age is a number guys.

DrObiHogan:
Leave little girls alone. Normally if a girl is below 25 she's not for me. That's the stage in their life and you can't help but subscribe to her demands. She probably wants to buy this shoe or gown her friend has and by then every man that comes to say hi will get a yes for the money only. A 25-28 year old lady knows better at this age and most won't make such unreasonable demands at all.

Go and read the accounts from when there was an actual Biafra.

Not only was there discrimination of non-igbos, there was discrimination of non-Nnewi Igbos.

Ojukwu was not tribalistic but many of the elders he relied upon were.

The Biafran army routinely raided, raped and maimed communities, including Igbo communities that they deemed may be wavering.

The tribalism we have in Nigeria will exist in Biafra. It already exists in SE & SS states.

How many religious people are cheating and not loving??

Religion is unimportant. What is important is how the religion affects the relationship

The guy is a banker.

I'm almost certain he made his money through loans. Bankers and people with money make crazy interest on loans to politicians and oil business people.

We cannot continue to allow military people to throw their weight around. They can carry this man inside and her military boyfriend/husband will kill the man. Nobody will do anything.

That is why everybody was begging for him. They know that he is likely to die in the barracks.

The hypocrisy of Saudi men is disgusting.

They spend mulah on drugs, prostitutes and drinks whenever they go abroad. They are scum.

One of the reasons our politicians don't have a conscience is because there are no consequences. We won't vote them out and we won't beat them.

seunmsg:
FFK deserves serious beating. I won’t mind slapping his mouth for all the jargons he spews everywhere if I have the chance.

All well meaning Nigerians must condemn the nonsense that was done to Ekweremadu. It is Ekweremadu today, it may be anybody tomorrow. Such a barbaric and cowardly act should not be condoned. Those supporting Ipob can now see that it is a very violent organization.

Break up and cut off all contact with him.


Face school, work and career.

This is an over generalization.

People are having beautiful sex in this country, they're just not bragging about it.

What if the girl is concerned that any other guy will also cheat because of her low libido??

XhosaNostra:
"She's got everything you need in a woman" except the libido of a manic nymphomaniac, to go with you ravenous appetite for sex

Leave her alone. I wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole too if I were her. You deserve more than dirty looks, you deserve to be dumped, so you can be free to indulge in unrestrained sex with your kind of woman

Virgin boys think about sex THE MOST.

They will learn work with you and still be nymphomanic. If you then deprive them of sex, they will find it outside.

pocohantas:
You have said it all.

More reason a virgin male is better, because once these boys start-they do not stop till they self-destruct. Sex will now become the major thing in their heads.

If she didn't catch him, would he be telling us all this story?Abi na today im realize say she isn't at his sexual wavelength?

They want to have it all, like they have a factory that produces perfect women at their backyards.