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I think I'll produce some money, less than half. Then she'll deposit her phone and finally, we'll beef for her to work in the hotel for almost free for a particular number of months.

I might advise her to get the remainder money from any big man that is toasting her.

Don't rush into marriage my people. Don't may a woman that you haven't known for 2+ years and don't marry without at least 1 year of dating.

Please what does okokobioko mean? I've been saying it recently and I don't know what it means neither do I know how/why I started saying it.

Elvis295:
Okokobioko

It's like a young lady close to him has fallen in love and he can't bear it.

Thegamingorca:
Worthless boy...this selfordained pastor's job description now nah to wake up for early money dey talk of girls falling for broke guys.


I've seen it all

Good advertisement for IVM!!

Is bleeping bad?

Isn't bleeping natural?

AmericanDad:
Person wey Bleep tire for BB9ja. This world rewards the bad eggs than the good and timid

Stockholm's Syndrome

It could work if there is light at the end of the tunnel, if the possibility that you guys could meet up is high.

No matter what, do NOT end on a bad note because the spark could be rekindled if you guys do break up.

Also, don't be desperate. Be ready to move on if the relationship isn't working out or if she's cheating or trying to break up with you.

If this is true for even a strong minority not to talk of a majority, why are there multiple weddings every week in every city and town in Nigeria? Why is the wedding industry booming??

Mtchew

We must love each other and genuinely enjoy each other's company.
She must have a career/job/business because she will get tired of the house and me.
I can cook myself and we can hire people if/when we have kids or are unable to manage our home ourselves

There are gay people everywhere.

Forcing them to go underground will heighten their criminality.

Are you sure one made up "big man" isn't crossing the road?

Abi we talk am!!

I'm starting to feel that over sheltering your kids can cause oversized reactions.

If she had a boy her age that she was making out with na, that one for do her.

These reprisals seem to only happen in Lagos. How can we ensure that the case is pursued to its end?

People better disregard that so-called bible passage that says "spare the rod and spoil the child". Look well and this guy may have been abusing her.

LAUGHING OUT LOUD in Greek.

Good sex is not impossible to find guys. It is rare, no doubt but not impossible.

NEVER promise anybody anything during sex. The last person who tried that with me was sent out of the bed and to her house mid-sex.

If you like, follow this No Future Ambition guy.

Her mom might think that he's grooming her. He should tell his sister.

clumsydyna:
I think you should tell her mum about it but, I believe she might ignorantly laugh it off saying, "ha ha she is small girl". Meanwhile Op, do you eat your meals in the kitchen?

It's not fair to string her along.

As for her beauty it Jack thereof, she is beautiful, you're just blind to it.

I agree with her dad and weight want her to marry before she finishes school.

Given that you want to marry within a year, I suggest you break up. You never know tomorrow, if you stay with her, she might go to school and meet someone else. Someone closer to her age and it would be you who had wasted time.

If he's from an Arab country, they all have agreements with Nigerian Police. If he reports you, they will arrest you and deal with you.

Guys are not Hot at all. Women and girls are very sexual and, in my experience, hornier once they are comfortable with someone.

I think men going on sex strike will give them more self-respect.

Why must be be Nigerian? Do you extend to Canada?

Everybody feels they have a right to the behaviour of Nigerian women?? He should mind his own business and leave them alone.

There are bucket loads of women who do NOT do any of these things. He should marry those.

What is he doing at this girl's IG page by the way.

The main thing is to be interested in what she has to say and speak from your heart.

Send him a text saying: "I feel like I am no longer important to you. If I'm disturbing you, tell me".

Then if things don't improve, let him go. Don't call him, don't text him, don't think of him; just move on.

Cheers.

This brings temporary reprieve. If the reasons for the anger are not resolved, she'll get tired of his "comforting".

If you live in a Western country, why will you beat your child? Don't put yourself in hot soup with either the law or your child.

Give him some space to think and explore his mind, the world and his connection with it. Then, also give him avenues to express his mind. Through art, music, games, taekwondo etc.

Good luck dear.

Empty vessels make the most noise

CaptainMitch:
I don't love and can't love anyone, a lot of girls say they love me, but that's their business.

This is a ridiculous and misguided rant.

1. There have always and will always be people of non-conforming sexual identities.

2. There is no need to get your blood pressure high over people you don't know doing something that is none of your business.

3. You posted pictures of Obama, Rev Jackson, and Minister Farrakhan. All these people are straight and Minister Farrakhan has even been accused of the homophobia you delight in.

There are a LOT more pressing issues for us to bother ourselves with in we country.

These women need to be prosecuted and, frankly, jailed. That is the only deterrent. IF it is just money, their husbands will cough it up and the women may not feel it at all.

More importantly, all children need to be taught their rights and what steps they can take if they endure or witness such brutality.

You don't need to marry to have sex.

For your own sake, don't marry a woman just because you want to have sex with her. You are likely to regret it.

chenzen:
it's part of the attraction. if a guy has nothing to look forward to he is going to want to try something else no minding consequences.

#DATEWITHSENSE

When they commit crimes, they become Nigerian.

Mtcheww. Na UK citizen be dat. IF he was a *Nigerian* ex-footballer, what is he still doing in the UK??