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Why do Nigerians like being barbaric to fellow citizens?

Even if you weren't happy about it, ask them to move along. Don't create a scene and take pictures.

You don't know their backstory.

The EMPTY world-class Oshodi exchange.

He should be very clear that he is still reeling from a relationship and not ready for a serious one.

Getting a casual relationship and/or talking to more people should help him get over his ex.

safarigirl:
Don't get a new girl


Nobody deserves to be a rebound and it is not likely you will treat yhe new girl right, since you are obviously still hurting from the transgressions of your ex and sulking over her. You are not psychologically ready to move on and nobody deserves the baggage you are carrying around.

Take yourself out and reacquaint yourself with the single life. If you have guy friends, hang out with them more, give yourself treats and just have a good time.

You are going through a hangover from being in a committed relationship and moving on seems difficult, if you can, take a paid leave, so, you can escape the toxic space that has your ex in it. This is why it id advised you don't date your colleagues, but una no go gree hear word

I wish you luck in your quest to move forward.

Someone needs to slap you.

No amount of sweet talk will put proper sense in your head.

Your girlfriend was cheating on you with TWO guys and you're here writing rubbish.

Please, move on. Get busy. Don't date anyone seriously now but don't think of your ex.

Her posts are scary. Everybody is glossing over the fact that she threatened, very clearly, to KILL HER SON! IT is not her place to decide that and shows a very narcissistic streak.
I'm sure her marriage is not good and she should leave it but if she is a narcissist, she might call not agreeing with her exactly an insult.

I feel for the pain in her posts but she threatened to kill an innocent boy.

She should leave him alone.

It is all these aproko helicopter parents that cause problems.

He is SIX!!!! He saw his mom wear make-up and wants to be just like his mum. The mum wants to send him to Canada. How?? Will her sister adopt him? Will he apply as a refugee?

The dad is MAD!! So he wants to beat his son and make him feel oppressed. As they are beating and "praying", he will be hearing "gay" "gay" "gay". That is more likely to make him interested in the word.

Personal example: I first heard the word, pornography, on Christian TV. One week later, at the local cyber cafe, I typed "www.pornography.com". It had never entered my head before.

Don't give her head. Somebody else will.

If you can give your sidechick head but not your wife, you are scum.

Have you stopped to think of how "distateful" sex is?

All that sweat, body fluids, etc.

Ewwwwww

RoyalBlu:
Very distasteful biko!

Like couldn't he have stepped down from the truck. Just look at all the filth.

It feels so good to be in love yeah

This is what I've been saying.

I'm a young virile guy who is sexual and sensual. And honestly, women are A LOT hornier than guys.

Younger, older, same age. ALL. So, my brothers, run. Don't do what your body can't do. If it becomes too tasking, stop. Nobody will give you a reward.

This is also why I don't consider merely having a vagina to be an achievement. In sex, even with the most enthusiastic female partner, the guy will still put in at least 50% of the effort. Why should he now pay for exercise??

The most miserable death has to be dying on top of a prostitute.

"I'm" not Am. I'm is a contraction of I am.

Sylraph1:
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Am igbo,but this one i.....

Have you tried Cars45? I also have a car on sale and plan on trying them by end of the month.

That girl looks quite young yet seems so mature in her handling of the guy.

I think we have a sex epidemic in the country.

Don't lose your virginity to a hooker guys.

And if you plan to, use one who knows about your virginity and is willing to help you.

Kirchhoff01:
It was last year.
I was 24. I was having mad sexual urges I couldn't cope. One thing led to another I stumbled on a thread in sexuality section : Ashawo thread. I learnt about an app InMessage. I downloaded the app. Lo and behold I saw girls displaying their wares.
Bear in mind that I couldn't muster courage to enter olosho house. So I saw a girl on the app that tickled my fancy.

She charged me 7K for the night.

I regret that day with my life.

On the said day I withdrew 15K... Paid 4k for the hotel and when the girl came she said she was hungry I bought her food and suya.

We now started gisting. I delayed to initiate sex in order to free my self and get acquainted with her. She has this bossy attitude.
Now after sometime I felt it's time for show. She requested for her money. As I was counting it she quickly snapped the money from my hand. I was naïve, I didn't want to drag with her. I wanted to give her 4k before and then 3k after but she collected the whole money. I asked her to bathe she talk say she just finished bathing before coming.

Now I didn't know how to start doing the do.
She then said if I want to fvck I should remove her clothes. I was boiling in anger.

Well, I removed her clothes and she helped, I tried sucking her boobs but it was bitter. I guess she must have rubbed something there cos she was drinking some bitters when she came to the hotel room. Bro I stopped. I tried kissing her lips it was too tick. I just wonder the kind girl I carry. I wanted to ask her to leave but my money won't just waste.

I then brought the kiss condom I bought earlier. I tried inserting but I didn't get my way. I asked her to help me. She inserted it. I was afraid the thing no enter well but she said it has entered. The tip of the condom didn't align. I later found out its like that.

I come put prick na... The sensation was sweet. She was just lying like a typical log of wood. I mean no moaning. Barely 2 minutes I poured. She started laughing out loud. I was ashamed of my self. I went to dispose the condom. After washing up. I came to do second round but babe refused. Babe say she wan sleep. I was furious.

Before we met she said she will give me BJ, I then ask her to give me the BJ since she doesn't want me to do again. She talk say make I suck her pussy first. I weak at this point. I left her and started pressing my phone. She dozed off. I locked the door and hid the key. I didn't sleep well that night.
When day broke she said I should come and kiss her goodbye.

Omo see vex.
She left and I slept off.

Since then till now I've never had sex again .
It was a bad experience

You are the real G.

For the other boys on this forum. Sex during her cycle usually helps ease pain, physically and mentally.

Some women feel dirty or/and disgusting during their menses, having sex with them assures them that this is not the case.

chidemavian:
Is this doc for real? This month I bleeped my babe daily during her cycle and it was awesome for her.

Not a bad compilation.

It depends.

If you guys have a good relationship then carry on. It is not her cross to bear.

If you guys are together ONLY because of her dislike for you, break up immediately.


Above all, don't demean yourself because of her. No need to be pre-emptively rude but stand up for yourself and your bf. Leave him if he doesn't stand up for you.

It won't be wise to hide your feelings and play games with someone you are building something with.

Although, don't degrade yourself in the name of keeping a man.

Phenomenal16:
..God bless u.....thank u.....u just passed a msg to me

There's nothing weird about sex during a period. Unless she has a HEAVY flow, there's no problem.

There are 17 year old people who are super mature and 30 year old people who are super childish.

I know how you feel. Last year, a 28 year old lady was too childish for me and now I find myself talking with a 19 year old lady who I can see spending my life with. Believe me, I tried to get away from this. I tried to set her up with my younger brother. I lost contact with her after she lost her phone and DID NOT try to get her new number even though I wanted to. She later got my number from her cousin and called me and we've been talking since.

BE smart and don't treat her like a baby. Let her reactions and actions guide you and life is too short to let go of potential real love.

It is "ulterior"

And OP needs to answer these questions

nappy760:
...if she has alterior motive or not.
Does she have a boyfriend?
Do you have a girlfriend?
These are some of the questions that you need to answer.

She could just innocently want to help with nothing attached

It is "ulterior".

Don't be a leech, take the help but plan to move out soon. Also, help out in the house and contribute to its upkeep & her food, e.g: buy rice or garri.

edulifehack:
...could she have an interior motive cause I know girls don't just invite guys to their house l...

I ain't rich yet but my dad is.

Key #1: Don't spend unnecessarily. #quickmaths

There is a very easy solution.

LEt the date be you taking her to buy ingredients for a serious, preferably foreign, meal.

Then take her home and both of you cook together.

Thank me later when you both have your "nightsnacks".

Continue the post, let me read the entire post before commenting.

Note that some guys are tired of endless fruitless chases and will no longer put in the effort, especially if they have some money.

Bottomline is this: do NOT play games. If you like him, shoot your shot. If you like her, shoot your shot. Chikina.

As a young woman, suitors are rarely far. So why let things slide when you meet a guy you actually want?

Education is free in Germany, especially tuition.

How are you "paying" for it?

truthsayer009:
LMAO should i even start about how you posted your a fake passport of your on Nairaland.

You think you can deceive everyone. You are VERY DARK in complexion, Yet your pictures of you with your passport is fair and light skinned.

Your fvcking self always make it seem like our earn a decent living.

Ladies who earn a decent living to cry about a guys money every now and then, you broke idiot. You have nothing to offer, that is why you keep shouting upandan on Nairaland looking for someone who can foot your bills.

Your dirty old rag of yours had to look for a guy in Qatar you couldn't find anyone to date you in the UK. The guy left you because he already knew you were an empty vessel.

For your info, I studied in UK and even got a offer before i left school. Ask those who know me and they will tell you.

If i wanted to be in Canada, i will. I'm already leaving for an MSC in Germany which i fully paid for my myself. Tuition and accomodation fully paid in full by myself without anyone.

I won't be replying to an idiot like you, because that is what you are.

She is most likely an ashawo.

Date all these people at 24? Does she move every 3 months? Mtchew

Davash222:
You’ve dated men from Qatar, US, UK, Nigeria and others just at 24
That’s exactly what we are talking about. Don’t you think the problem is from you?

Why are those men dumping you?? I think it’s time you ask yourself some questions.

Sex is a beautiful thing.

The bible is a book of prehistoric, inconsistent and unverifiable fables, why should I do what some people believe it says?

How could you have out a girl you barely knew on 50k salary within a week of meeting her?

Nna I don't understand tbh.

Logobenz3:
Now this is the story.
So I discovered this girl worked for the dad's crashing contracting firm according to her.
They are having liquidity issues and I as a businessman myself understood what was going on..
Noticed she was cashstrapped and all and we talked about it and I decided to put her on 50k salary monthly.
Because we had already started discussing future plans since the both of us have had our fair share of the world.
There is no day I meet this girl that I won't spend 15k or more.
It's always one fancy restaurant or the other,one this or that even though I never gave her cash.
I began to wonder and ask myself,how is someone who is penniless not know the value of money?is it that I'm her maga or what?
We went to NOVOTEL for lunch one day and after blowing up to 12k on food in her presence,she still demanded for takeaway for her bony sister?
I sha pay,no shaking.
She even wears leg chains.wtf!I told her to take it off to no avail.i ignored.
She knows all the big women in GRA and will always tell me to come with the bigger car so we go see people I have no business with.why?I still don't know till date!
Perhaps to go show off her new maga or catch.Bleep!!
I was such a fool.i should have noticed!
I was thinking about all these and wondering whether to continue or not when she called one morning very early and told me ehn,she had been working on whatever and told me to go to Beijing chops and get her Chinese bla bla bla...for breakfast on my way that she is very hungry.
I couldn't help but talked to her rudely on the phone and hung up!
That was the deal breaker.
How would a person that doesn't even have ordinary 100k feel so comfortable in blowing a man's money like that?
Mtcheew.
Stay off poor girls!bunch of lunatics.spits!

Abeg tell me where the winery is in Elakahia I was born into that estate and never heard of any winery. Is it at that popular bar in the estate? Or at that chic bar?

Logobenz1:
So when we were wrapping up with the diner,my best friend called me that he was stranded at one place like that around agip phc which was close by to olu obasanjo.
THAT he couldn't find a cab to go home that of I could I should come help pick him up and I said ok.
Now this is a friend I dare not say no to because he was there for me when it seemed the whole world wanted a piece of nwanneni.
So when I ended the call,I told bae that we have to go rescue a friend in need that is stranded somewhere and from there we would proceed to the winery.
She said ok that it's not a problem since she didn't fix any other plans.
So we packed the food in those boxes properly.and put them in the car and off we went.
We got there,saw my friend and one other guy and picked the both of them up,seated at the back of course.
So we dropped off the other guy and we were just 3 in the car so I told my friend rather than go all the way to Mgbuoba and still come back to town,why don't we all go to the winery and we'll leave together for home.
He said ok but he doesn't take alcohol.
So we went to elekahia estate,met my friend that owns the winery,we hailed each other and I,my girl and friend headed in for the table section.
So my friend went to sit while my girl and I went in search for Thomas Barton.
Unfortunately we didn't find it,I asked the supermarket owner and he said its out of his stock for now,that there is a wide range of products to chose from and I a wine freak,should pick something that would blow the lady's mind.
So I looked for other burgundians to no avail,and I did not want to pop champagne in that boring environment so I opted for a south African.
So we got served but in some really improper glasses for the drink we bought and madam don already complain!
Well I did not wanna make a big deal out of it so I popped it and poured in our cups while my guy had his hollandia as usual
Men I was right!it was good stuff tbh and she liked it too.
And that lady sure do know how to drink wine
Then she bonded with my friend,asked some random questions about me from him,and all...
So we finished our wine,sat for a little more and we opted to move.
So I was a little tipsy and I knew me behind the wheels in that state could scare her to shit since I am usually rough when tipsy.
So I asked my guy to drive while I and madam stayed at the back.
Men that feeling was heavenly.i have never been in the back seat of any of my cars before.
So I put my arms around her,lied on her laps while looking at her eyes and they were glowing.
Then I made a bold move to kiss her bit she refused
Tried again and again but she told me to stop insisting that it will piss her off.i said ok and stopped but I did not take my head off her laps sha while my guy drove.
Men that girl body soft like bread and she clean die.
I just use style dey lick her laps small small
So I gave my guy directions to her place and he got there in like 20mins or so I don't remember.
We got there,stayed out a little more and asked her to call her sister to come say hi to us.
But she didn't o and was even annoyed I was making her sister stay out late.
So she hugged me and told me goodnight and my guy and I took off for home
Men I was fulfilled that day ehn!better woman good o
On getting home she sent a message asking if I got home safe and thanked me for everything and showed some apprexiation
Wow!this one is really different!for what?over nothing was my answer anyway and we exchanged some romantic compliments and made a date for Sunday.
Destination;port harcourt pleasure park
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