Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 23 by cooooooks(m): 11:58pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by cooooooks(m): 3:31pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
As the resident serious man, let me let you know:
Serious men already have a very good idea of what you bring to the table if they know you.
If you meet by chance and they ask the question, they are trying to speed up the process of evaluation.
Personally, I've never asked that question to somebody i was not already dating.
My babe and I have had these conversations a few times, usually when she brings it up. We could see a news article where one woman or man disgraced themselves, and the discussion leads to this question.
Everyone MUST bring something to the table. Everyone MUST be able to grow the table and the thing they bring. Everyone MUST be able to change what they bring to the table.
Men too are involved. If your wife earns more, you need to change or modify what you bring to the table. If your wife earns 5 times what you earn, don't kill yourself, work less, take care of kids more, etc. Of course, you have to be married to someone with sense for this to work. |
Romance › Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by cooooooks(m): 3:24pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
He didnt call you dumb, he asked if people must let the world know that theyre dumb. A general statement. saphiere: Lalasticlala nlfpmod rule 2. Insulting someone. |
Romance › Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by cooooooks(m): 3:23pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Your husband and family are blessed to have you. MadamExcellency: Mumu@ assumption. Who likes liability?
Time has gone when women rely on men to take care of them and their children. We go to the same school, graduate at the same time and got employed in the same offices and fields. Most of us are better placed than our husbands hence why must there be this dichotomy on who takes care of the family?
Is like most people especially women intend to go to the grave with their money. Spend the money on the family including on your husband and make sure the children are better placed than the parents.
Family first. |
Romance › Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by cooooooks(m): 3:23pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
1 stout and maltina for you. GanagiBitrus: But a man can easily make that judgment without needing to ask. |
Romance › Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by cooooooks(m): 11:51pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
I prefer "No Sex Before Commitment" |
Politics › Re: FG Urges Nigerians To Consider Bicycles For Transportation by cooooooks(m): 1:10pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
One of the earlier ministers did this, even riding a bicycle to work.
He was hit in his first week. |
Education › Grants For Schools by cooooooks(op): 1:58pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
Hi guys,
Are there school teachers, headteachers/principals and administrators who know of grants in Nigeria? |
Travel › Re: How Much Is Yam In Canada Compared To Nigeria by cooooooks(op): 12:43pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
Lol. How? seanwilliam: as funny as this is, you know it can make someone feel bad and depressed?? |
Travel › Re: How Much Is Yam In Canada Compared To Nigeria by cooooooks(op): 12:43pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
Most likely that those yams are exported from Jamaica, definitely not Nigeria. ednut1: Nigerians go to turkey or china buy things that cost less than 1 dols and sell it for 5k or more. But its fine. But person wey export yam should not make profits Do you know how many of those yam go spoil before reaching Canada ni 😅 |
Travel › Re: How Much Is Yam In Canada Compared To Nigeria by cooooooks(op): 12:41pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
How hand suppose fresh? Lungdick: Your hand no fresh like pesin wey de canada. You no see ednut1 hand? |
Travel › Re: How Much Is Yam In Canada Compared To Nigeria by cooooooks(op): 12:39pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
Not in that business anymore lol. Better writing gig pay is impossible. Thereis too much competition. Wodu89: That's why you should give us more writing projects And pay good rates |
Travel › Re: How Much Is Yam In Canada Compared To Nigeria by cooooooks(op): 12:38pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
Greenhousing. KidFromForeign: Yam is a tropical plant..
There's no way it is going to do well in a cold and frozen environment,like Canada.. |
Travel › Re: How Much Is Yam In Canada Compared To Nigeria by cooooooks(op): 7:19am On Jul 23, 2023 |
And this is before correcting for income. If the prices are compared in PPP (Purchasing Power Parity) and not straight currency conversion, then we'll really see that country has finish. ednut1: this car is about 1.5m naira in Canada and a cleaner can buy it here with a month salary. But in Nigeria it’s about 4m now. Is that not rip off . The person wey export the yam no go incur shipping, logistics , clearing and taxes |
Travel › Re: How Much Is Yam In Canada Compared To Nigeria by cooooooks(op): 1:20am On Jul 23, 2023 |
This is my new year project actually.  HacheNoire: Buy the yam and plant it. 🤣🤣🤣
If you convert prices in hard currency to Naira, you will never buy anything or even eat. |
Travel › Re: How Much Is Yam In Canada Compared To Nigeria by cooooooks(op): 1:19am On Jul 23, 2023 |
Yup, the UK is cheaper than Canada and much easier of an adaptation for a Nigerian. oyatz: This Yam is about £4 in London which is roughly #5000 in Nigeria |
Travel › How Much Is Yam In Canada Compared To Nigeria by cooooooks(op): 11:09pm On Jul 22, 2023 |
How much is yam in Canada?
I just bought this yam for $10. Aka N6,000.
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Travel › Re: My Flight Has A Stopover At Dublin, Do I Need A Transit Visa? by cooooooks(m): 5:48pm On Jul 21, 2023 |
5 years ago, you didnt need a visa ti transit through Dublin. Things may have changed. |
Christianity Etc › Does Any Church Ban Lip Gloss by cooooooks(op): 4:22pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Do any nigerian churches ban lip gloss, makeup, etc?
Not heavy makeup o. |
Celebrities › Re: Chef Dammy Bags ₦1M Endorsement Deal With Fekomi Herbal (Photos) by cooooooks(m): 10:48pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Congrats to her. |
Crime › Re: IG Influencer, Austa XXO, Killed By Her Millionaire Boyfriend, Killaboigram by cooooooks(m): 9:27pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
May this never happen to me or a family member. |
Travel › Re: Canada Spouse Family Sponsorship Visa/appeal Process by cooooooks(m): 9:21pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
I think my time here has served its useful purpose. sageb: Why? Your Port Harcourt guys are looking up to you |
Travel › Re: Canada Spouse Family Sponsorship Visa/appeal Process by cooooooks(m): 5:21pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
How do i delete my nairaland account? |
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Romance › Re: Why Black Women Are Prettier Than White Women: My Honest Observation As A Man by cooooooks(m): 4:02am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Beauty is everywhere. Draslo: Na lie. Everywhere you go on the planet, you will find beautiful women and ugly women. Africa is not exempted. You may say African women are more voluptuous and sexy. |
Romance › Re: Why Black Women Are Prettier Than White Women: My Honest Observation As A Man by cooooooks(m): 4:00am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Only people with experience should talk. Chee59: White men are definitely better lovers than black men. |
Romance › Re: Wives, Why Did You stop having sex with your man? by cooooooks(m): 1:57am On Jul 13, 2023 |
. Chee59: You're lying through your teeth and you know it From all the advices men give men or women give men, these two are universal. 1. Help out with the chores. 2. Help out with the kids.
I've never ever heard anyone tell a man that he must take his wife on a vacation before he can get sex. Never! |
Romance › Re: Wives, Why Did You stop having sex with your man? by cooooooks(m): 1:54am On Jul 13, 2023 |
If a wife persists with sex starvation, and does nothing, or even rebuffs attempts, to resolve the issue, please move on.
File for divorce.
I am speaking from the perspective of a healthy relationship of mutual respect and genuine love. |
Politics › Re: Germany And Nigeria Population In 1980 Compared To Now by cooooooks(m): 2:00pm On Jul 12, 2023 |
Dont mind these people. Nigeria is barely more than 120 million. The telcos and food companies know this. Jogs1900: Do you think Nigeria population is up to 200m? |
Business › Re: If You Earn 2.5m Everymonth How Do You Invest? by cooooooks(m): 3:15pm On Jul 09, 2023 |
How much after living expenses? Probably comes down to N1.5m after living expenses. Tell your friend to: - get rid of any debt that is above 7% per year - invest in the country he is in, some kind of guaranteed rate of 4%+ TFSA in Canada, Roth IRA in USA. - for Nigeria, is he interested in a business rhat needs humans to run it or not? KingintheNorth: Guys I'm asking for a friend , if you are based abroad and earn 2.5 million naira after tax, what would you invest in Nigeria?? |
Travel › Re: All TEF Candidates For Canada Immigration, Let's Meet Here! by cooooooks(m): 12:40am On Jul 08, 2023 |
Are you starting from beginning? Send an email for pdfs of B1 level. Nedu2144: I just sent a request. Having the same issue . Pls help me |