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wisdomiskey:
I get your point and I respect your patience and tolerance whilst being there for your friend. She was and is blessed to have a friend like you who didn't allow her relapse into a terrible state as we can see in Mstick's case.

But let's be honest, Mstick needs a real life outside of this platform in order to heal. Nairaland is not the place to throw her toxicity at others. What she needs is a friend! and with the amount of time and energy she spends here, I doubt she has one.

And you in your infinite wisdom knows how best it is for people to grief? You are more concerned about her 'man-bashing' than her wellbeing, so shut it with your asinine advice.

TiyTrip:
I wonder, is it right to call your child names? Names like mumu, fool, dundy, otondo alike. Even worst this starts when the child was just a little kid. This is what i passed through. I remember feeling so depressed anytime i'm called such names to the slightest mistake like droping a glass cup. I feel this can cause a dent in a childs life, most espesially when such comes from his parents. The thing is, it never stops. I'm scared for my life because now i feel like i don't no longer belong. Alot of times i feel so depressed.

You are not a mumu, fool or dundy. Many parents/adults do this, thinking it is normal but it not and they are very wrong. It was done to them too so they feel it is normal, harmless, but are so wrong. Some try to stop but are already used to the habit. Our generation of parents/adults need to break the cycle.

frankoben:
Thanks for your reply, the account actually belongs to lady whose case I brought on here and I'm sure you can check to verify that the holder is actually female, and yes this is not the first time i've tried to raise funds for her on this platform..... Regards

You are a shameless, lazy youth.

Theconglomerate:
Uplifting them to where exactly?
Don't you think that matters?
I know the word uplift can be very generic but shouldn't stop us from making basic analogies.
I know moving a homeless man into a one room,dark,porous apartment in Ajegunle can be considered as "uplift" but is also not something to gloat about.
There are basic standards everyone understands.

Who puts out a yardstick and decides what does not count as upliftment? Whether 100k for a work tool to help a man earn a living or millions, upliftment is upliftment. Narrow-minded much.

Theconglomerate:
No mind them.
I don't build men upandan,like they can even afford to do it even if they wanted to.
I'm guessing with that 500k lifeline that they have in their account is what they want to use to build a man?

It is not about the size of the income, though. Women making 2,500 a day and less from hairdressing etc are uplifting men. And vice versa.

bukatyne:
Ceecie, you have opened three threads on relationship within a day.

First of all, you sound desperate

Secondly, a lady waits for her gentleman.

If all the qualities you say you have are true, position yourself to be met by your gentleman.

Putting yourself cash and carry is absurd.

Don't tell people what to do. You do not know it all. She is a courageous young woman, going head-on to get what she wants and if you or anyone thinks that makes her cheap, you are shallow-minded.

kodix:
Sorry my dear but honestly you have to over look some many things to make your marriage work,there is no perfect person you don't even know whom you will get next, don't attach so much important in so many small thing(e.g just know she is not a birthday person,not carrying grudges that she don't use to rem it),always forgive, don't act quarellsomely for e.g not accepting her gift BC ur birthday escape her mind,why will you even reject her gift expecting her to beg u b4 collecting it,Are you God! You're even the cause of some of your problems with her,learn how to appreciate and complain less,ignore so many things no body is perfect.all the best.

I tire o. The OP seems to me like a nagging man even from his one-sided account. Whining on and on about birthday.

emmaodet:
You see?
I had the intention of helping but i have my reservation.
I guess it's better to help offline.
I'm really sorry for genuine people who really needs help on nairaland because eyan buruku ti ba eniyan rere je.
Humans have a way of abusing good things or intentions

Cc Ariza

Ishilove has clarified they are not scammers and that she knows the husband. Maybe they are genuine, but fact is the husband needs to get something doing to sustain the family... that is where they really need help.

Dooj:
That's my husband Nairaland username.
Am just tired of defending all the names am been called here.
Anybody who is touched by Spirit to help me, I will appreciate.
The bank account details I drop here are from a male too?
My Facebook username name, my bank account details and all my Identity cards bear same name.
My only crime here is that my account is new.
What else should I say?

Youu and your husband have turned scam begging to business? He claimed in Feb that you just had a baby via CS which you lost, now you're claiming you are pregnant.

Liars like you make me it hard for people who truly need help to be believed. Disgusting.

Dooj:
No. 12 low cost area.
Lesell, Benue state.
08085396794

Don't conclude am fake.
A human been may not understand, but only God who knows what me and my family is passing through.
Thank you

Hmm... same number you put up here was used to beg for recharge car last year by a male moniker. I believe you're a scammer.

Mavrick2012:
I heard my neighbor asking another neighbor if he can pay tithe from the 20k alert he got from government.

This got me thinking.

Are members expected to pay a tenth of whatever they get at this difficult period?

Give it to a needy person though, and not to any pastor.

Efechy:
broda dia my kids i said ani proof you need ill gv u or u need 2 see d kids mothers burial video? or d kids demselves . My fb name is Emma Efe go 2 my timeline july 2 september last year den u'll kw if am a criminal or not.

Your facebook name is hard to find. Post the link to your profile.

Diiiamoond:
Nurses should be prepared to put their patients first....

Before their own lives?
Before their own children?

I love my job very, very much - but my priority and loyalty will always be to my own family.

If that makes me a bad nurse then I guess I am.

Please quit if the risk is too much for you to control. Put your kids first. That guy would do the same if he were in your shoes.

safemywife:
If you need any proof, WhatsApp i will provide for you. The name of the hospital is there check.

Provide all your evidence here.

Looks like a scam, smells like a scam.

Not even a single attempt at providing proof... not even pic, hospital receipt etc.

Katier00:
Parenting is very difficult, sometimes you use those harsh words out of anger. Everyday you talk about same thing, it is really frustrating. God when I utter words about my kids, you know I don't mean them but I just want them to understand the extent of the hurt. Raising teenagers is strength draining but we will get there

Anger is not an excuse. Control your anger! The effects are quite damaging.

RisenPhoenix:
Lol. They should just make visa applications from Africa easier to process and grant citizenship to willing migrants. Their working population will double in one week... guaranteed.

And their country will be taken over by Africans in less than a century...

This one too calls herself a manager. Wonder shall never end.

ginaolo:
You don’t understand
I love her very much

I just don’t know if we are compatible socially. That is the only fault with her. But I didn’t know if this fault will be so huge to the extent that it will affect our marriage . She has social anxiety to the extreme. Very extreme.

Oga, please leave her for someone who is okay with her nature. This is the 2nd time you are complaining about this on here. You will just end up making her life very difficult if you both get married.

Madam goldensoul55, sha don't run into the hands of fraudsters with this your running around. I can already see some people inviting you to talk.

CanadianNaija:
Lol...this woman you’re funny sha.

Your husband is busy sleeping with everything but you, yet na you Dey run up and down looking for solution.

I really feel for women like you sha, maybe one day you’ll have sense.
Nobody jazzed him anything, he just doesn’t get hard for you anymore.

Leave her. She would rather give herself HBP running from her shadow than face the simple bitter truth. We love to believe in fairy tales in this country instead of facing the truth right in the face.

Your husband is simply no longer attracted to you one bit, that is why he goes soft on you but is fine with other women.

The dream is your subconscious playing back to you the fears you have stored in it.

Op, drop your acct number for those who might want to drop their widow's mite.

Hi, OP. You have no right morally and legally (except your aunt actually willed those properties to you) to sell anything without the girl's consent. And you have to get the consent with the involvement of other family members (from her mom's and father's side, so it isn't under duress).

I know you have deadened your conscience already and told yourself what you are doing and planning to do is right... that is what Greed does to people. But for sure, that that same Greed will destroy you, yes it will kill you eventually but it will destroy you first. No one escapes paying for the wrong they do to children.

Better do what is right.

Hmm, I really feel bad for those poor children. That is why a will is good.

Ginaz:
Na wa . If he doesn’t do anything and the kids suffers they will tag him an irresponsible uncle that couldn’t take care of the kids under his care despite having full excess to their late mother’s property.

Y’all all concerned about properties like the kids are gonna go to school with the properties or eat the buildings one after the other as food.

Y’all lacked insights . y’all can’t see he is a struggling man that have burdens he never planned for suddenly placed under his care. He is fully responsible for them, so y’all want him to kill himself training two kids to the university on his own? How many parents these days could afford it without struggle?

The mother left properties, he’s just asking to sell one so things would be better for them. After all, won’t the kids benefit from it?

O.p I suggest you do sell a property to make the load lighter for you. While at it, make sure the kids know the properties their mother left and please set up a plan for the senior child , maybe a business for her cos nobody knows tomorrow.

Sell a property goddamnit!!! With all the properties you late aunt suffered to acquired she couldn’t take one to the grave. Let the living feed first .

You actually are the one lacking insight and discernment. Didn't you see his topic says '...and start a business?' Does that not tell you he is not planning on using that money for the kids only? His intentions are bad.

The 20 year old is old enough to make decisions, why is he not making her privy to all he knows and plans? Why is he not involving other relatives if his hands and thoughts are pure?

I pity those poor kids. Life sucks and human beings are terrible.

Take note, I don't respond to yes-boys.

calculusx:
What deceit precisely? State it or bury your head in Shame

Oga you have severally proven yourself to be a deceitful car dealer; examples are legalwealth's case, the case Cosplay called you out on and even this.

Don't think you and the men fighting your battle for you (maybe because they feed off you and your dubiosity) are fooling anyone.

Estrella366:
Your toxicity will eventually eat you up as and slowly as you continue to give in to it.
Continue to spread negativity

You call this negativity and toxicity? Pained fraud.

Oluwaseyi00:
I'm secured in and by his blood. Its nice knowing you

Like play, like play, dem go scam you.

kunleweb:
I was even going to offer him a 40k a month job and an accommodation till he stands his feet. But since you all see the worst in people, I've decided to njot have anything to do with him at all

You're just a scammer trying to prey on his desperation.