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@Topic. Ok, thanks for telling us.

Nna, your name has answered your question cheta chuku which means "wait for God" and if you do that, he would give you your dream girl. So cheer up and continue waiting. e nu go?

@aramajy. In Nigeria, people see it as a taboo for women to smoke. Unlike other parts of the world where you have an equal ratio between male and female smokers, in Nigeria, men dominates, and no matter how terrible a man smokes, any woman he sees smoking would be regarded as a prosititute. That's one of the disadvantages of living in a culture based country

But sincerly speaking if I must ask, why are you afraid? Is there something you're not telling us, or you just fell like starting a topic.

If you're aware of the corruptions associated with puberty, then sit your brother down and advice him. You must ensure that you keep him on track so he won't derail.

I don't smoke, so why should I approach someone that smokes. To be honest, I don't really fancy girls that smoke.

Its wrong because the guy might see her as a desperate girl and may not take her too seriously.

I strongly believe that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. And it also said that we're fearfully and wonderfutty made by God. So I don't think any one should be considered as ugly.

My dear, I've seen thousands of people try this, and they failed. One doesn't just wake up from sleep an host a party. Go and do your home work properly, then start another topic and make your invitation.

Wonders they say shall never end. I just hope the poor baby girl doesn't end up being like her parents.

Wait a minute. . . You said your mum and dad would be in South Africa, suppose they cancle their trip and return home. All the beautiful girls and guys who probably would be having a good time would be chased away like criminals, and the party would be brought to halt. My dear come up with something better.

There are many reasons one can suspect for her present attitude. But I would advice you not to jump into any premature conclusions until you solve the puzzle. First you can start by talking to her. Communication is very essential in every relationship. It brings both parties closer. Tell her how you feel about her and your plans for her. You said something like you're getting married in May. Talk about your unborn kids, your future and watch her reaction. If she changes, then you know you're making progress. If she doesn't, then you can seek advice from a professional; (like a marriage counsellor). It is also advisable to keep close tabs on her because she might be seeing someone else.

I think that woman is looking for a slave husband. Someone she would be able to order around. If am that guy, I would retire honourably from that company and flee for my dear life, because such union would end up in nothing but disaster. And finally who or what is Ngbo

Since virgins no longer exist, we don't have any choice than to manage what we have.

She has shown you clearly that she's interested in material things and not love. So don't waste any time with her, just let go.

Is it that there are no more decent girls suitable for marriage in lekki and its environs, or are you just looking for someone who would warm your bed

Yes its possible.

@Poster. I understand your situation. I myself, I don't dating girls within my neighbourhood. But like the old saying "true love drives away all doubts". If you're sure she feels the same way you feel about her, then give it a shot and you might not regret it.

First I must blame you for engaging in an unprotected sex with someone you aren't confident with. You were aware of his lukewarm attitude towards you, and yet you continued the relationship. Now you're infected whom do you blame? They say most girls prefer to learn from their mistakes; I hope you've learnt from yours.

@Topic. Yes its ok for her to re-marry and have sex or get fuc-ked

Hmmm

Clem where you de today na sunday. abi you no de come office on sunday

Ah gabw welcome back . Thank God you didn't freeze to death. some guys here on Nairaland would have committied suicide.

Frank Lampard, your jokes make sense. But try a little editing before posting it here. Because as it is, most people would know that you've joined the Nairaland booming club of copy and pasters.

Don't worry they were all taken when I was unergoing rehabilitation, the doctor says am ok now.

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