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If at 28 her attitude is nothing to write home about, then both of you have to go back to the drawing table. Sit her down and tell her how her attitude makes you feel. This is a problem that can be solved.

There are still decent ones among them so stop crucifying them.

Look for someone else.

:-x

@j-girl. Lets forget about the widows issue. I know of a girl who got pregnant and said it was a mistake. If you ask me, I think the word MISTAKE doesn't exis in relationships. In relationships, there are things you do and there are things you don't do; no mistakes. If a girl foolishly gets herself pregnant, then she has to bear the consequences. I can't take responsibility for another man's actions.

@j-girl. Dating is like a pool of water. Its easy to get in but very difficult to get out. What makes you think that dating such women can't lead to marriage? The woman already knows she has a child so she would do all she can to make it work. And the man would already have feelings for her; so it would be difficult for him too pull out.

@j-girl. You should know that most families won't accept a woman with a child, even if the man loves her.

Any of both would be preferable by me provided she is faithful.

Is the father of the baby still alive? If yes, do they still see each other? Does she still have feelings for him? These are things you must know before going into a relationship with her.

@fxmike. What's your problem

I don't believe goddes or mammy water exists. So I have little or nothing to contribute.

Has she told you the circumstances that led to her rape? No girl gets raped just like that. Was it a robbery? Was she in a night party? Is she the type of girl that keeps late nights? You have to ask her questions before taking your next line of action.

Could couldn't qutie get the synopsis of your story. _{Am out}

Too much liquor _{*shakes head*}

The joke wouldn,t would have been good if your vocabulary was much better.

@poster. I feel you're trespassing on perilous grounds.

Relationships comes with great responsibility. If you know you don't have enough resources to manage more than one girl, why not stick to the one you already have?

Is she the only girl in your area? Look for some else who is single and share your love with her.

My point is that the poster shouldn't crucify the girls because both genders are guilty of the same crime.

I don't support the idea of a girl having backup guys in a relationship because it can lead to many things; it can even make your boyfriend get jealous and decide to call it quits. Not every guy can tolerate seeing their girl with someone else. If you claim to love your boyfriend or fiance, what do you need a backup for?

@poster. And why is it that most guys are into armed robbery, 419, drugs, blood money and other illegal means of making money. I guess the guys too have to support themselves right?

If am ready for marriage, she has too be ready also or I might just change my mind.