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Yea.

What state are you from?

Well since they want to get married there’s nothing to be worried about; I mean even if the get married, won’t they have children?

If they didn’t want children out of wedlock; why did they have un protected sex in the first place?

My advice is that they extend the date of their wedding; and begin to plan toward their unborn child

What makes you think am an twin?

Nice name;

Guess you already know mine right?

And what if she isn’t in an abusive relationship?

Would she quit it just because the starter of the thread said he likes her?

Would she break another guys heart just to favour this guy?

Na lie

Not really; check my profile you would find my real name there.

Biblically it’s not good to have sex before marriage.

But due to the high rate of immorality in girls these days; we guys have no choice than to engage in sex before marriage; you can’t tell me you would meet a girl today and tell her no sex before marriage. You would live to regret that action because she would leave you and look for some fun loving guy who is ready to make her feel like a woman.

Am begining to look into the way you composed this joke because you sound like one of those twins only that you've grown up

Put your picture so we can know how you look.

We should call you names I thought your name was tj_tj

Drink panadol; it's just N20 at least you can afford it; stop manifesting here; this is a public forum

Just pick up your phone on the “D” day and tell her “honey happy birthday I love you so much even more than life itself” I think she would appreciate that reassurance more than anything else.

That's ok but like I said earlier, don't go to the extreme; just make it a hello hello and nothing more; that's the best way to handle such kinds of friendship.

Goodluck!

If love is a crime! What would you do?

What do you expect me to do? Nothing of course.

What do I explain? I told my husband, I would like to exchange e-mails with my boss and become friends in order to help my chances of changing my department easily and if it gets to my boss asking for more than been friends like sex, I would quit and my husband understood. My boss doesn't work in the same building, infact not even in the same country. I don't think it will really lead to much,

If both of you aren't in the same country then it's ok to be friends; but do go to the exreme I.e calling him during weekends or sending him friendship mails. That would take that friendship to another level no doubt.

Explaining the whole situation to your husband would only make him jealous; just keep everything to yourself and try as much as possible to break up that friendship between you and your boss; it's for your own good and for the good of your marriage.

My dear you're playing with fire; what makes you think that boss of yours wants to be just friends.

You're a married woman so respect your marital vows and be faithful to your husband bringing a male companion into your life at a time like isn't advisable; it would only wreck you and your marriage.

They should ban them; maybe that would make them sit up.

What a lady could to frustrate me?

1. Lies: A lie is one of the romantic disasters that could make an individual live the rest of his or her life unable to trust the member of the opposite sex.

Relationships are bent on trust right from day one. Let’s say you meet a girl today, you both talk and exchange numbers; you know within you that something’s moving and really something did move. But as time went on, you later found out that he or she had been lying to you all this while; you would feel devastated, you would feel frustrated, you would find it hard trusting someone else even if the person is genuine; that’s one thing that frustrates me in a relationship.

2. Ex-lover: You can be in a relationship with a girl who just broke up with a guy say two weeks ago; and as that relationships lingers on, you begin to notice that the guy won’t just let go. He keeps on calling and texting begging like someone who never had the opportunity to express himself before a woman. That also frustrates me and can lead to me quitting that relationship; because I wouldn’t want to be in a position whereby a girl would have to choose between me and someone else.

3. Unnecessary Responsibility: you see, you can meet a girl today and she would begin to tell you all sorts of stories; my mum had a accident and she’s hospitalized and the doctor said we should bring so so and so amount, my younger sister has malaria and the price for her medicine is so so and so, my younger brother fell from the stairway, I want to enroll for a course and the price is so so and so.

A relationship between a guy and a girl has nothing to do with attached responsibilities; such things would only frustrate the guy and that may lead to the end of that relationship.

I’ve received that invitation almost 20 times this week but too bad I won’t be able to make it.

@ topic,
If Ehindero as an Inspector General of Police could heartlessly conive with a hooded criminal to tell lies, and decieve the entire nation about the murder of a serving Attorney General and an elder statesman. Then I wonder what an average police man will do.

I agree with you; the Nigeria police force has become a shadow of itself.

A force that is meant to protect the lives and properties of the masses has turned out to be a life terminator on the masses what a shame.

You’re seeing the hand writing on the wall and you’re refusing to read it.

My dear, the girl is tired of you; she doesn’t need you any more; just move on with your life and forget about her.

There are hundreds of pretty good looking ladies out there who need you more than she does. Just pick one of them to settle down with ok?

Good luck!

all the think about is about their rich boy friend, how to collect money from there mumu guys and more especially sex, they love it like bread and butter.

I second that.

What does she mean by the term the world is harsh?

You’re with a guy for four years then one nigh you foolishly get drunk and make a fool of yourself sexually; and when he finally finds out, you come crying and telling him the whole incident was a mistake.

Such mistakes are referred to as foolish mistake and whoever makes such mistakes should be treated like a fool.

If I were the guy I would never take such a woman home a wife.

I can forgive her, but she should not expect anything from that relationship because I would never be able to trust her any more.

I think I would become Mr. Nairaland.

Check out my profile and rate my lovely picture(s)

Well Nairaland is already a success; so I won’t be expecting much from it next year.

Provided I have two hands and two legs to go out to work and earn a living, I can never consider myself poor.