You are the world standard benchmark for stupidity.

ume1000:
unfortunately my father would never choose a vagina over his own flesh and blood

Seeing your post alone makes my blood boils

It reminds me of what Joseph suffered in potiphars house

You are a disgrace to men worldwide

IN FACT

IF foolishness COULD BE MEASURED YOU WOULD BE USED AS it's SI UNIT

No mind am, let him be dragging kitchen in another woman's home

payloader:
He doesn't understand that his brother's wife is the madam of the house.

Tell that to your father

ume1000:
MUMU

Bros its her house as long as she is legally married.
As for me o, i respect myself & also respect people's space. I strongly advice d op to do the same

Mokason288:

You are very funny

Where are you from?

If your brothers wife could shoot you, I’m sorry to say this ....

Your brother is an A$$

There should be boundaries every where, I feel it’s wrong to go into her kitchen

But she doesn’t have any right to throw his things outside... that decision is for the brother

Unfortunately she does and can equally shoot you for trespassing

No be only you o. Anyways @ OP whatever d result, no matter what, love those kids cos they are yours

Caaz:

I have bn stalking this thread

Amebo

Caaz:

it's now 8:03.

I'm so sorry about ur plight. That monster isn't worth you taking ur life, pls don't do that.
It has happened & you only need to move on.
Pls report the animal to the police & get him arrested.
Reach out to someone who will listen to you & counsel you.
I have sent you a DM if you wish to talk, lets work together & get dat beast caged

Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.

He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.

I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.

I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?

Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked.

What if her dad is as fvcked up in the head like my father inlaw?

Did ur dad finger you?

saphiere:
I keep saying this, "Never allowed your girl child alone around a male be it [b]her dad. Men are terrible. Why can't a man control his urge?[/b]

Bros it happens everywhere; south, east, west and north so leave ur NCAN bull crap in the trash niggar

Oozz2:
Before I opened this thread, I knew this can only happen in Ogun state.

I'll advice u get everyone in d family involved, then give her d beating her life, then when she's done crying bring her close & talk sense into her.
Meanwhile i'll advice u find out who da fvck daniel is

As in he sniffs dirty smelly pants

You are welcome ma, God will always help us

Missnewhrt:
Sir, I appreciate your call and your advice. You really open my eyes to certain things I don't pay attention to.

It baffles me that we tag everything as scam, all i see is a sincere cry for help from a fellow member.
As for me, irrespective of how society has turned to be, i will always do my best to help where i can.
Lets always do good and if anyone decides to take advantage of your good nature pls leave d person to God & move on

I didn't get ur dm, call this number. Don't take any harsh decision

Missnewhrt:
It's not easy for me to put my personal life struggling story online. This is not frudelent. I detest begging as well but I have to do this, should someone might be okay to help.

I didn't get ur dm, call this number 08127185327. Don't take any harsh decisionquote author=Missnewhrt post=98415690]It's i not easy for me to put my personal life struggling story online. This is not frudelent. I detest begging as well but I have to do this, should someone might be okay to help. [/quote]

Send me a DM please, there is no problem that doesn't have solution

Missnewhrt:
I don't have feelings for the new guy and my husband don't know anything about him. If he do, he will be so disappointed and broken.

I understand ur dilema & want to help. Do u have feelings for this new guy & does ur husband know about dis? Be sincere in ur answer let me see how i can help out

Missnewhrt:
our rent expired in Oct last yr and we couldn't renew it due to the fact that my husband's contract job came to an end early last yr, and throughout the pandemic, no salary for me. We managed throughout.

My parent offered to help. We moved to my family house,(me and my 6rs old son) my husband left after some days because he was not comfortable. He presently stays with a friend and sleeps in his shop.

Since I came back here, everyone have been advising me to push him away and chose a better man who can take care of me and my child became I'm young and beautiful and I can correct my mistake of marrying my husband

Someone is coming already and everyone love his packages with all the gifts he brings. My aunty already told him I'm having problem with my husband and we're divorcing. Which is not true.

The pressure is much here. I can't even pick his calls in peace any more without them pokenosing in our discussion, i sneak out to see him. They make me feel like i'm wasting my time on a poor guy and suffering with our child. I don't want to push my husband away, i dont want to bear children with multiple men, he has been so good to us, just that things are not working well right now, but I believed, staying together with him, we can go through it together

I love my parents as well, I know they meant good for me, but this decision is too hard for me.

Pls, help us pay for an accommodation, so my family can stop humiliating him like they do now.
We have seen a self contain of 140k. Pls help.
Our location is Abuja.

I know before the yr runs, we will get back on our feet and we will be able to meet up with subsequent rent. Pls help.

From my understanding, ur girl is more loyal to her family that she will be with you once u guys marry. Apart from love, loyalty to ur partner is key for any marriage to work out and ur girl's loyalty lies with her parents.
Pls my brother, if u want to live long & don't want constant fights with her, don't marry her! I repeat, DON'T MARRY HER! Except she comes back to her senses then u point out to her the issues of loyalty & respect cos once u guys are married, u become one & she has to submit to u as the head of the home & run every thought or idea by u before a decision is made and not wait for her patents' approvals

Chai...u need to meet chioma.
Ask how "how are you" and she'll reply u with "i never chop since yesterday, my mother is sick, my father is poor"

WackyJ1:




Begging from day one.

That makes me rock hard....always fantasized banging a witch in & out of coma

Sirfrederick:
I am a witch.

Chai...see stupidity o

TheStakeHolder:
Endsars don make this one turn activist overnight.

Failed DJ

They borrow only to loot it all and then borrow again to repay the looted borrowed funds...the cycle continues maniacally

at first i was speechless cos i never thought it possible.
yes, i should have whipped her but what if people around asked what was wrong and they try to cover up by turning the situation around, no one would even be interested to find out the truth cos dats how society is.
i did what i thought was best for everyone's safety sha

CalliDora1:



You should have held her hand and whipped it.

I know some kids are already spoilt from home due to what they see around them or what some uncle's have been teaching them to do with their "mamba". So, it's good to correct such a child immediately or interrogate them to know who taught them such rubbish.

I won't forget sometime in 2013, a 7 year old girl had the audacity to actually squeeze my mamba when i went to visit her aunt who was my friend and she kept on insisting on sitting on my lap.
My dear i had to form that i received a call & left dat instant...never visited them again, some of these kids are devils

CalliDora1:


Stop saying this, please...

How can a baby who's yet to attain puberty and is still more like a boy give you erection?

How old are you? SMH.

You need deliverance.

Thunder go fire all those people who slice up people's kpekus in d name of a dead tradition

So because its not them they should sit tight on their incompetence & failures just because its not "them"

postiva:
ok if na them are they going to do the same thing

this is new year lets think straight

Sole of course...thanks for reminding me.
I had so much hatred for my maths teacher dat i always skipped maths class

bizme:
You have o idea how glad I am reading about your experience, especially about your conclusion from the experience.

The palm of the leg is the sole of the foot.

O boy dis ass go make person break new year resolution a swear

BeeBeeOoh:
You want us to get rid of unguided passions and you put up that kinda ass that will even guide us to a lot of passions??






Do you really wanna help us?

I agree with you especially @ the bolded. You just described my maths teacher in jss 1 & my dad. my maths teacher used to flog me on the palm of my legs *not really sure its the correct name*, my dad used to beat me like a thirf if i didn't get any question correctly.
This made me develop natural fear for mathematics & low self esteem, most times i'll know d answer to d questions but too scared to write dem cos i was always scared dat i will be beaten.
It was my mum who had d patience to bring out d genius in me. Today I'm very sure i know mathematics more than both of them.
Lets always study our kids closely, be their friends and you will see them do everything to please us.
My 2 wonderful kids are living examples

bizme:
Many times the fact that your children comply with your expectations after flogging doesn't mean you have achieved the goal of parenting. Many times it means we have bullied them into submission. Just like many kids would obey a bully in school, not out of reference or understanding, but out of primal fear.

Have you wondered why many children from strict upbringing mess up big time the first time they get to higher institution where no parents are to police them with flogging?

Children are children. They have an independent mind, and it is okay to cultivate communicating with them and even seek other options for exerting discipline like denying them of something they so much desire. Being children, there are many forms this could take.

If we are being objective, most of the flogging of children taking place around involve a scary dose of undisciplined temper on the part of the parent/teacher. Together with so much verbal abuses from them. The same with teachers in school: you explain something to your pupils which they don't understand. Rather than seek ways to communicate effectively, you start caning them blue black as though the process of caning would magically impart understanding.

I am not sure many people had the kind of flogging I had growing up, both at home and in school. It was almost literally a daily phenomenon. All of them out of anger. Yes, I have turned out marvelously well, but that's more in spite of those floggings rather than because of them. I plainly became immune to the beating, and very adept at hiding my terrible deeds. Last year when I told my mum some of those things I had been involved with as a teenager and living away from home, she almost held her head out of fear thanking God that I had survived them. Unfortunately, both of them have destroyed any semblance of friendship that should have existed between us as parents and children.

Our parents should learn to communicate with mouth rather than sticks.

Guys pls me too need friends to hang out with this festive season o....haba no be only babes dey find hangout abeg...pls i want someone to take me out especially a babe