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upendo 98:
@ cuddlemii

Serioulsy you dont know me at all. Now you label me a name i really hate.I dont know your def of a feminist but if you get to know me well, lol ul laugh till morning.I like jokes a lot. And can be just as crazy if i choose to.
Do I really sound like one? You made me laugh at myself cz lol you are the first one on earth to ever and I mean it evr call me that
Its more funnier cz I really hate tht kind of people'
I didnt post it cz it was a man tht strted it No. I wld have done it if it was a lady too.I just noticed the word 'cheetah and thgt 190 was at his games again.
I love being open and frank and sincere. No pretence no hypocrisy and am not always right.
Do me a favour now.I really dislike that word so dnt label me tht way.

Ok I will rephrase, you bring fun to the threads and I just like looking for trouble.
I was just amused at ur discovery, lolz

low cut is perfect and safe. Skin cut cld be several things abeg

satani22:
probably most people still dont understand the topic. To you to fall in love will be dependent of are sseexual skills/ability? U must be joking. Except u are referring to a slut. See or knowing someone a female, what can make u fall in love with her is the question.

@poster if you are gonna maintain this kind of holly holly tone, then change ur name abeg. It gives me the creeps. How do u sleep at night, dont u have nightmares

Dude I wont wanna give you away here but its either a being is a woman or a man. You don't mistake a babe for guy cos he had dreads. What happened to the man u and arsenal, he had that too right

Ok let me cover you up, what u look out for in a girl is her hair before other things
Gay Alert!!!

Nope I can't date a guy with braids. Hair on a guy whether its on the chest irritates me. Even all those jerry curls or spotting waves etc in men is nasty. I love Gorimapa

upendo 98:
Am just wondering what a cheetah has go to do with cheats.
Whats' the connection? or is it speed? one is animal while the other is human!

Babes you are one hell of a feminist, u dont make it easy for men at all. You know the great men that fall out and now cheetahs, didnt even see dt coming.

What do u have against men? I used to think I was a feminist but you is a man hater and a feminist

Duh, feeling important is already bringing people down so there was no need for the alliteration.

Solution: Ignore them and go on on with ur life is the best option, feel free to laugh while u r at it.

Oh Lord!

Your friends say his generousity has a motive. Your own receiving and collection doesnt have a motive abi. Why didnt your friends stop you from collecting when he started giving. Now that he has given enough, he has a motive.

What have you ever given him as a friend too? R u just a taker, what have you conributed to his life. I would say you are an ungreatful friend and your friends are enemies of progress.

Shebi you said he is your friend, don't you know his character that u are having doubts. When you were supposed to pay attention to getting to know him, you were busy collecting. If he had a questionable xter, whym didnt u return his gifts.

You are even lucky your friend flew u to other province once in a month without drugging u and putting you in a compromising way. His intentions are noble as far as I am concerned and whats wrong in ur benefactor fancing you, he might be taking his time cos he is the serz type.

He likes whites, so you know ur skin is dark yet you doubt him and listen to friends.

Awuf dey run belle, one day is for the owner. Didnt your parents not warn to not to collect gifts from strangers ni, lolz

Lacrissa:
What mouth thing? I stated that to emphasize a something to him so what are you talking about? Go take a hike somewhere please.

Whats wrong with you? Im just advicing u stop publicizing ur biz plans in public. You have goals and plans would have been more appropriate. Whats our own with cosmetic shop from US, thats even a biz that is everywhere in naija.

Anyways best of luck with your choices and if the yankee guy makes u happy then stick with him cos happiness is what matters. If he treats you well then good for u cos a poor guy that treats u like a jewel is better than a king that treates u like a slave.

I won't react anyhow cos men are cheats anywayz so why develop high bp cos of that. Do u know what ur man is doing behind ur back ni, shebi its becos u caught him.

I will just be upset dt I found out or caught him and not becos of the act. But if he chases the babe away for me or comes after me begging then I will wear a smile on my face thats enuf humilation for d other babe.

The fact that he cheated doesnt mean he doesnt love you. He just needs to know what makes u the one and its good to have helpers the demand wont be too much or even be in existence. Monkey(d other babe) go dey work, baboon (moi) go dey chop.

If its my friend, I will dump him that day, delete his nos and forget abt him that day but remain friends with my friend stylishly.

If the babe fine pass me, this is what would kill me cos thats a message. I will never forgive him ever even if his parents comes or God intervenes cos it means his eyes go everly be chuking. I go hate am for life.

God forbid sha, see no evil, hear no evil. I just dey hear as gist, e never happen for my face

I think the op is the one with issues. If I was married to you, I will stay out too.

What kind of sick story is this. You were the one that said he took his toothbrush and toothpaste out in the morning when people were working so that means he was cheating.

Everyone said toothbrush and toothpaste is not enough reason to cheat. Then you brought in another dimension that he came back drunk and you are ignoring him so peoples assumptions was that he would probably have the tendency to beat you.

Then now you are on your hubby's side claiming he doesn't cheat and bla bla bla.

Why disturb our peace with this nonsense. Any man that goes out for fun in the morning means his wife is horror itself and not the nag that people are even using to appease you.

Comport yourself as a married woman and get useful rather than all these. Maybe you are a wealthy bored housewife, start knitting, playing the piano or writting.

You are unstable like someone who snif stuffs.

Lacrissa:
I understand what you both are trying to say but why would you think my relationship is the center of my life? And yes I am young but I am also a UNI graduate. Graduated even last year and how old must a girl be, before she starts having people in her life to know better, date, court and eventually marry? When she's 30 or what?


It's not even my parents, it's my elder brother. Everytime, class, where they are from etc and it's bothering me, but yes I agree with you.


P.S @ Jaybee, I got other plans of my own, not just the relationship aspect. I am even trying to set up a mini store here in Naija (Cosmetics from abroad)

Too much details madam. I can see the mouth thing runs in the family. Why not keep it in the family and marry the top shot brother.

@poster
I always discuss the undiscussed. I dont even care about money, your brother's tantrums and your age. I care about the long distance thingy where you date via skype etc. Babes please its better you get a church rat here in naija that you can see and date.

Forget all those yankee based fiancee or relationships oh, its a 70/30 chance and you might end up wasting your time to the age that your "wealthy and classy" brother might be your only resort. What steps has yankee lover taken towards your marrying you, have you met his people?

Was mentioning you being pretty necessary at all. Anyways, thats the more reason you should quickly get a stable guy here now that u still got it.

There is no solution.

This started from the first days of man so it wont end till the last day.

Infact I always wonder one thing: If sex before marriage was a sin does that mean the whole world would go to hell cos this is one sin that almost everyone has done, is doing, about to do and will still do. French kiss and touching bobbee too is a sin so all those we kiss but when its going further we stop so as not to sin is bullshit.

So thats where the problem lies: Sex outside marriage being a sin, how do you want to enforce or eradicate that. As long as this can't be stopped then there would be enough falling.

The great man thwanging a chick and a babe making love to her bf are all sinners in the sight of God and have one thing in common organs colliding

So ye without sin shld cast the first stone. All ya shut up cos u r offenders too for colliding organs whether tongue or looking at thy neighbours wife wrongly

Kai what is the purnishment for pokers!

It's Electric!

You can't see it
It's electric!
You gotta feel it
It's electric!
Ooh, it's shakin'
It's electric!

Jiggle-a-mesa-cara
She's a pumpin' like a matic
She's a movin' like electric
She sure got the boogie

You gotta know it
It's electric
Boogie woogie, woogie!
Now you can't hold it
It's electric
Boogie woogie, woogie!
But you know it's there,
Yeah here there everywhere

Are you comin' with me?
Come let me take you on a party ride
And I'll teach you, teach you, teach you
I'll teach you the electric slide

Some say it's mystic
It's electric
Boogie woogie, woogie
You can't resist it
It's electric
Boogie woogie, woogie
You can't do without it
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I no dey SA oh. Everybody has their own opinion and approach to life. I no yarn about naija chicks, Im just yarning my own view. Im both male and female so my opinion might be unusual, some brain touch go dey once in a while.

fork adict:
First things first. You be guy abi you be girl? make i sabi as i go take lecture you on top runzing

I be both. No be runzing lecture matter be this. Me I just feel say any babe wey demand money in this manner, no dey worthy to be with let alone straff. And my own idea of hotness no be by beauty or pussy alone but the whole package. Dis kain babe fit meet the guy papa, friends and gate man begin dey tax dem.

Maybe the guy sef na otondo for babe to get dt kain mind to dey ask such, pple dey look face now & fear fear. The babe go don dey hear abt his philanthropist ways and want a share. No be today the guy dey sort bills for dem babes, he just wants to score some this time. I wont be surprised if this dude is a loner (cos ur friends suppose tell u reality, y come to nland). Cos if you work for ur money and ur are not her father, how would she ask u such which means u be armed robber or yahoo plus plus square ni?

For example, for you to rob a bank, you cant walk up to the security men and say I came to rob the bank for money. You have to strategize and map out a structure to know the bank is worth robbing and the best way to beat the security and the vulnerability of the bank so this dude is a weak bank simple!

the op suppose give her the ans of her lifetime that she would always remember. Rubbish!

What I expected the poster to have told us was that he located her center of gravity and he went home back 40k richer and not this crappy topic. This would have been more amusing as the hunter became the hunted.

wait4me:
Thank you bro.

U welcome sis.

@ op

This your name scares the shit out of me. Im afraid to comment sef

ragdollz:
Which kain yeye husband/marriage be that? Carry brush n toothpaste ke?! Anyway you should know your hubby more than we ever could, so figure it out urself. Can't imagine being in dat kind of situation sha, God forbid!

@chillbabe
I don't think the problem here is your husband is cheating. A man that is cheating doesnt need to take toothbrush and toothpaste out of the house. Thats strange and bizzare. How much is toothbrush and toothpaste that can be bought anywhere or gotten in the hotel room. If he was cheating, the babe would kick him out on the sight of bringing used toothbrush and paste from home, thats so unsexy & signifies he is a mincer.

If you said you saw lip stick stains thats better but no man would give himself away like that. Maybe he is suffering from mid life crises or depression or forgets stuffs. Watch him closely and observe, he might even be going through a medical treatment that he doesnt want u to know so it wont stress you. Please dont jump into conclusion.

Yeah true, the guy might be lacking in the mojo department but he should visit her still and they should iron out issues as adults that way he can observe her behaviour or get a clearer pix. Infact the way she receives him would be scrutinized and all. Im not really a fan of addressing issues over the phone cos you cant see the other parties actions.

Here we go again. The typical girl flick discussions on nairaland where its always about their friend or sister and they believe every bad event, screw up and mistakes would end with a fairytale or love. Evident in topics like

"inlove with 2 brothers" : A man would rather pick a lady that his brother and himself has shagged because women are that scarce
"could i pursue romance instead of a relationship" : like she has the liver
"i told his sister to tell him off for me" :instead his sis didnt tell u he is doing u a favour
"why are skinny lepa girls jealous of big butt" : advertisement or you are consoling yourself
"Now its an ex pregnant chick was proposed to by her former baby daddy" : is the world that crystal clear and always black and white?

It would be nice if the world was like this sha.
Same ol gist.

@op,
my advice is this, tell her your answer and yes you are rational

busygirl:
Well said twinnie. The men of today need Jesus! Odikwa very serious for the situation as the things in between their legs never rests

If only the devil didn't use women to tempt these men, they would still be enjoying their careers. Is it so hard for a lady to dress decently so men don't need to fall into temptation


I hate it when people decide to put the blame on a lady's outfit. Even though some people dress very extreme, but hey! we all have choices. A man chooses to sleep with a woman, he is not forced. One thing with men is that even if you are wearing a flowing gown once they like you, most of them will still want to sleep with you.

Babes

Thats not the basis here, I believe you can read. My premise is this when men mess up or sleep with a woman, it takes 2 to tango as he is obviously not sleeping-with a table or air. Why should the ladies drill other people's husbands great or no great. If these women said no or closed their laps then the men wont need to fall out or run. But no they had to do Bill Clinton, Tiger woods and the likes abi.

I am a lady and not taking sides but unfortunately im too realistic and straight forward.

Babes,

Arent you the same one that was talking about having a small bump and ur sis being a beyonce look alike dt got lepas beefing her at a club bla bla blab, lolz. Why did u run away from there. So you are 19, that explains a lot.

If you had just said you needed a man, Im sure 190 would have obliged. He seems like a nice dude & babes always comment abt him and reply him. Im starting the match making asap.

You can trust him cos we are all available on Nland to whoop his behind if he messes up. OMG Ive always wanted to plan a wedding .

I will be back to give advice

upendo 98:
To whom much is given,much is required.
When you are in a high position of authority the society demands a lot in terms of character and Intergrity.
Your fall is gonna be a big one cz of your status.Its not like that of the lowly fellow in the village.
So if you know we demand a lot why not RUN be4 the fall? surely, its not that hard!

What have the followers done to boycott or check these fall out machineries in the form of women so that their leaders dont fall into their trap. These followers and society at large too are busy falling out with these women.

Women have 6 fall out tools at the least and Men have just 3 their lips, hands and manhood. Uproot the female tools and ur great men remain intact and in high position of authority.

Why do you keep calling when you know its shocks her.

Why not pay her a visit in school when you are less busy maybe over the weekend or something. Who knows your sight might make her jerk or convulse, don't read any meaning when this happens it means u still have d mojo.

upendo 98:
@cuddlle
Abrahams story is soo diffrent.His case was was to do with child.Besides it was predestined by God I believe. A good eg wld have bn samson and delilah
so if women stopped provocative dressing men wouldnt fall? ok
When it leads them to their deaths then its serious

when the women too make the men go to their graves, its serz. The assasin and the dead would all be judged.

The foreign woman that poisoned Abacha is serious and Abacha dying is serious too

Monica Lewinsky seducing an older president and forcing his duties to the nation to be stopped is serz and Bill Clinton sleeping-with an intern is serz

A lady sleeping-with a married athlete Tiger woods is serz and Tiger woods doing another woman outside his marriage is serz.

Bankole embezzling money for saraki and ini edo is serz and ini edo and saraki sleeping-with a man to steal the masses funds is serious too

Im female but it takes two to tango!!! So both the great men and their sexy women are all fall outs cos people know the names of the great men and the women that shagged these great men and people insult and regard them all as fall outs.

These great men would always be vindicated & still have the cheddars and the women remains whores even lil kim cldnt change these with her rap.

As long as a man or woman can't live without the opposite sex then tempations and enuf falling would occur. When women stop dressing provocatively, then men won't fall out.

If men were born with no eyes or blind, they will still have their hands to locate good things. They are pros and can never run. If these men run, its you women who will mock them abeg let them fall jare afterall Abraham got a second wife too, even the holy book had chronic fall outs let alone this sinful world.

You guyz should take it easy with all these your email this, auto reply that, 30 days or 40 days stuff. I have decided to distract myself with fitness and work. Get yourselves busy, all these anxiety and worrying wont get you anywhere.

What of people in the past that their application stayed for 4 or 5months nko? Take it easy abeg and stop disturbing these people. I am sure you dont want a rash decision because you guys hasten them up. Dont let them skip proceedures and loose interest.

I understand the zeal but hey, let them do their job while you hope and pray. One love , I would be back when I hear something .