Soulflai: I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.
I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.
Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.
On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!
I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.
This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.
Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.
If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.
Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.
My broda the ex is sweeter than u. Whether you cut communications, they will still find way of reaching out together. Make sure your cut off his number from your wife’s brain cos if it’s still there, they will knack Kalakuta for your very before eyes. Make hay while the sun shines. No forget DNA is also needed!!!!
LoveUdie: "I got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.
We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can I do?" It’s either your husband didn’t like you enough to marry you, or he’s Gay somehow. Go deeper in your thoughts and findings to unravel the truth.
What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?
Why will this video be private. Something that concerns all of us as citizens and we won’t have proof? Anyway everything na cruise for the country. I rest my case…
AudioMonkey: It has different names. Some people call it gbe body but where I come from, wise men call it the beans of vawulence.
That thing been dey make children of Adam dance Buga lo lo lo way back, long before Kiz Daniel was born. If e touch your body or your body touch am, either way, you must shake body.
Rub on your body, wait a moment and watch the magic that happens next. You should start dancing like prime Michael Jackson anytime after that. No previous dancing skill of any kind required.
Gottiii: I still can’t believe my elder brother is planning to send me a Es330 (2006) from the United States.
I have told him several times i can’t drive such car, I am already imagining the look of people when they see me. I mean people wey dey my area. People for area know say I be big boy.
I don tell am several times say I no need car wey dey less than yr 2017. The money dey but very stingy. I sure say na the wife dey give am wrong advice.
The car clean sha, full option but below my level. I go just sell am.
Abeg, make una advice me.
Obi! You want to drive a car you cannot afford to buy not to talk of maintain. Na somebody like u go drag property with wife someday. No go hustle your own.
Eriggs: Devil kill kanu in prison. Na inside dat prison this murderer go die put, he can never escape all the innocent lives he caused to die in the east. The idiots cursing and abusing soludo ever since cos he said no sit at home nonsense in Anambra are the same sets of idiots praising him here. Yeye fowls. What happened to those soldiers that were killed on the way to their wedding and to all numerous lives taken will happen to any idiot that will quote this my post.
The same hypocrites and brainwashed fools condemning the brutal killings of Deborah by those animals are the same idiots supporting the foolish cownu murderers that cut off the heads of husband and wife, and not only that, cutting off the innocent ladies private part. Na ogun go kill all of una hypocrites, condemning one murder and praising the other murder.
If you condemn both murders, God bless your soul. If you condemn one and leave one. U no go ever die better for dis life. Cannibals and murderers. Show your face here now
It’s an insane world, stay in your sanity. The bomb is ticking so fast that even where you stay with your sanity will soon be full of insanity. A word is enough…
Useless story. You enter car, you reach hotel when u suppose dey school, u come down, enter hotel, con still enter room and u call that rape. Ogun go kill the reporter and her family.
So, my 7 year old child recently had his British passport mailed to him in Nigeria. He now has a flight to UK coming up.
My question is, will he be allowed to board as he doesn't possess a Nigerian passport? Please, note that I paid the airline for chaperone service. I would really appreciate answers from immigration guys or frequent travellers.
Thanks all.
Why Nigerians too like wahala before anything? Oga you’re in Nigeria and you’re asking this kinda question? What stops you from getting a Nigerian passport to avoid all this future drama.
God1000: Poaching should be stopped, wildlife conservation is very important, we need to protect and preserve wildlife otherwise some of these animals will soon disappear completely in few decades to come.
People that engage in this illegal act should be punished.
I pity this poor elephant
Do you know what it means to have dominion over all things? Also do you know how many animals had gone into extinction before you were born? My brother leave matter for Mathias. If I was there I for don amputate him left back leg.
Tracka: Most of these beggars are informants for kidnappers, that money is too huge
Abeg stop am. Sometimes we need to put our brain to test. Have you been told before to give money to beggars before for spiritual breakthrough? If you think am well, you’ll see that beggars that don’t have acc numbers, make that amount in their savings. Nigerians have soft heart and are givers especially if told it will make them better than what they are now.
mariovito: In my dialect, there's a saying that goes thus; Onye meke ihan, ome onwe. Loosely translates to "in an attempt to get at someone, you may end up doing yourself in.
Some laws are actually meant to protect us from ourselves.
TotoGame: If I no lite that fucking bastardic lecturer make I die Nothing you go do. Is your phone supposed to ring out during lecture? What a distraction. E suppose burn the phone self.
drizslim: A lady has reportedly absconded after her boyfriend sent her a sizeable sum of money higher than what she was expecting.
A tweep known as @Austeiin on Twitter shared the story on the microblogging platform. He revealed that the affected man was hesitant to date the girl but he gave in when she insisted on wanting them to be more than friends.
She had asked her man to assist her with N200,000, but he appeared to have mistakenly transferred N2 million to her.
After she received the money, the lady blocked her boyfriend and was no where to be found.
"Nigga told you he doesn't want any emotions attached to una friendship. But you claim you love him & want more than friendship. Son of man decided to give in. You asked of #200k for assistance, nigga sent you $42MiIlion Instead. Next thing is to block nigga for 2months & ghost!"
What are u still waiting for? Meet police and be sure you’ll get at least 50% of your money back, which is gonna be a win win for you cos she’ll sleep most of her time in cell this December. Olosho forming love.
DICO111: Yesterday I went to the bank to get money that my uncle who is staying in the United states sent to me for use in paying for a Hisense deep freezer which I already told him the market price. He sent the money through western union and it was $400 in total. I was robbed at gun point in a cab on my way to beurue de change to change it to naira.... I have been crying since yesterday, dont even know how to start explaining everything to him. I'm so confused. Even going to the police is not a viable option because I dont have any reasonable information to give. Please someone should advise me on what to do because my mind is blank at this moment.
They took only the money and left your phone? Same phone you’re using to write this message. You talk this one well sha. My broda I feel for you but I think there’s more to it. My opinion tho
Rozcol: Some boyfriend sef,why still put eyes on what she does with the money you freely gave her,not a good thing
My dear, you’re worse than Nigeria. Why him go put eye like say 300k easy like that. Anyway I know if given 1m to start your business, you’ll go and buy 78” smart TV to watch Big Brother.
ChizzyBuna: Please dont make me more angry, no try me today
You want advise and you still dey vex. You Dey whine us for here abi. Abeg carry your wahala and meet your family people. Explain to them and see what they will do. Someone you call your bestie, you Dey fear to start life with her? Mischeww
Aboki go and drink kunu. So because you’ve joined yahoo yahoo church you think you’re born again. Let me just advise you now, the devil is fucking up your thinking. When you were a catholic you enjoyed his views towards God. You’ve joined the one that will make u single till you turn sugar mummy. Talk to your pastor to give you one of his assistant pastors. Either you manage the one you have or remain single.
mugnmuffin: Dear Nairalanders, I have an issue that has been on my mind for weeks now. My fiancé and I have been dating for over three years. I love him and he loves me too. We are physically attracted to each other. We’re both catholic but since I graduated, during my service year I gave my life to Christ, got saved and left the Catholic Church. So I’ve been a Pentecostal Christian since then. He on the other hand is still catholic. I subtly try to nudge him to consider getting saved, i.e acknowledging Christ as lord and savior and becoming born again but he is content with his laidback Christian life.
Earlier this year, he asked to meet my parents and I let him. My parents like him especially because my younger sis is married and they have been waiting for me too. They’re glad I’ve someone. However, after the introduction,I regret it. I’m now certain that he’s not the one. I think about my spiritual life and how lukewarm he is about the things of God, I think about kids and how we’ll raise the, with such differing views about God and I’m discouraged. I feel like I’m settling because he checks all the boxes on the checklist of physical attributes. Another mistake I made is, I didn’t pray about this decision and that worries me because anything that involves him,I just act with pausing to ask God, but I always ask God about other aspects of my life. So it’s like my associating with him is a minus for my spiritual life and that’s a huge cause for concern.
At this point, I want to tell my parents I am not convinced it’s him but I’m afraid of the disappointment this will cause. *sigh* I’ll appreciate your thoughts, comments, criticisms...
fergie001: Senior Special Assistant on Social Media to President Buhari, Lauretta Onochie has replied critics of the President's foreign medical trip that the President will repeat the medical trip to the UK in 2022 and 2023, if need be.
Condemnation has greeted the President's foreign medical vacation, contrary to his administration's promise to stop same, amid an indefinite and nationwide strike embarked upon by the National Association of Resident Doctors.
It would be recalled that President Buhari had in 2015 promised to stop medical tourism and save the nation's scarce foreign exchange if elected president. In fact, he promised to ban elected Government officials from foreign medical trips after he rued the millions of dollars expended on medical tourism.
Checks show that the President has spent about 170 days on medical vacation prior to his recent trip.
QuotaSystem: Dangote's refinery will definitely be a game changer for the Nigerian economy.
What a genius strategy. Imagine a scenario where other African countries would be looking for Nigerian Naira in order to purchase Nigerian Petroleum Products. It would increase the organic demand for our currency thereby boosting its value significantly.
This does not make sense. There is no way Dangotes petrol would be more expensive because not only has the issue of landing cost been eliminated since we're no longer importing, but the market has also been deregulated (which is why we suffer price hikes whenever price of crude or USD rises).
You're right about elimination of subsidy which will save us significant amounts of money, but even greater benefits would come from saving millions of USD daily that would have been wasted to import refined petrol (a whopping 41% of our forex saved) : further boosting our foreign reserves and the value of the Naira. The multiplier benefits from job creation and development of allied industries to support the refinery and petrochemical plant are better imagined.
Finally, the disgraceful economic anomaly wherein the 6th largest oil producer in the world is one of the biggest importers of petrol from less endowed countries, and continuously suffers whenever crude prices rise instead of enjoying the largesse like fellow oil producers, will finally come to an end thanks to Dangote's refinery. I wish him the best and I'm excited for Nigeria.
Nigeria has 5 not working refinaries and nobody is saying anything. We all are waiting for that one 1 man. Open your eyes and see that this country will soon be on motgage to Dangote. Also no forget say the 5 not working eats a whopping N10b monthly for maintenance. Na Dangote go soon buy all the 5 of them for N100. E no go better for our leaders
LMS1: We Members Of The Name Cheakers Accociation Of Nigeria.[ N.C.A.N] Are All Very Disappointed At You 'Emmanuel Clement'.
B.T.W Professor Emmanuel Why Your Student Come Sidon Like Say Dem Be Aljimari Children For Kano Market? Ntoooor! Las Las His Exellency My Yansh Don Burst Your Hustle
You guys believe this crap? Training sch for yahoo yahoo and Na only 1 laptop them recover. How them take dey train them. Pls this news is just a way to divert our attention to what this country is becoming.
Or11: It's probably because today is a weekend and maybe Monday is a public holiday in Nigeria.
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I was right. Feb 7 is a holiday but being a Sunday it's will carry over to the following day Feb 8 which makes Feb 9 the next official day. Politicians do not make mistakes.
where u from get this your holiday list. Be careful before you lead your family to hell.
OEPHIUS: Enugu Head of Service, others, inspect newly constructed State Secretariat Annex in Ede-Oballa, Nsukka
Preparatory to its commencement of administrative engagements, the Head of Service, Enugu State, Mr. Ken Chukwuegbo, accompanied by the Committee Chairman on Reallocation of Zonal Offices to the New State Secretariat Annex, Nsukka, Robison Odo, mni, and the Committee Secretary, Mr. Kelvin Ezeugwu, on Saturday, inspected the befitting State Secretariat Annex, in Ede-Oballa, Nsukka Local Government Area of the state, newly constructed by Governor Ifeanyi Ugwuanyi’s administration, to enhance efficient service delivery and proper coordination of civil service activities, in a conducive environment, for optimal results.
Enugu State is in the hands of God! #amokelouis
This our country too hard self. Maybe because some of our leaders came from nothing to become something. who builds such a structure without an elevator. �����
So Fulani want make FG give them money to by land for ranching, what a shame!!! If they do them must give me money to buy house for lekki. This people just think Nigeria money is their birth right. Anyway make I go hustle, chop better abacha and fish.
Family › Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by cugardmalino: 11:04am On Aug 17, 2022
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