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graciamore:
thank you sir, have a great day.

you're welcome ma and you too. Blessed day ahead

#so where is my bribe?

Preshieben:
I'm tireeeddd already

Is it just me or is there anyone who's experiencing this?

I'm actually a very forgiving person,
I mean, I forgive people who hurt me and move on with my life even without them apologizing,but I keep getting hurt over and over again.

One of my male friends and I had a misunderstanding five months ago which he claimed I insulted him and promised to deal with me...I sha took it jokingly till last week Sunday,he apologized and said we should get back to how we used to vibe before...I agreed.
Fast forward to Wednesday evening...we decided to hang out in his place(that was our normal meeting point before our fight tho)

He told me it was a trap after I entered the house and he locked the door,he said he was gonna deal with me for insulting him...long story cut short,he raped Me brutally without protection ( I've never had any sexual relationship with him before)
After the whole incident,I Left to the hospital and was examined,I was drugs and I got the doctor's report too and headed straight to SSS the next morning and made my complain with the prove,he was arrested and beaten,he admitted to raping me and was transferred to the police headquarters..
I was called this morning and the IPO asked if I really want him to go to prison or forgive him?


Omoh....remembering that rape is life imprisonment,I'm feeling guilty already and thinking of going to close the case.
WHY this Feeling
Why can't I just let people suffer the consequences of their actions?

that was bad, very bad. Its not your fault if he spend his life in jail, what he did was wrong and please don't feel bad but if you can forgive him them fine but what's the probability that he won't do that to another person?

zexy2030:
We live in a world of encryption and symbols. Some things u thing is harmless actually means a lot to the users. For instance rings on fingers: each finger represent something only for those who can decode. So u r innocent of u use none. No one can define you.

Leg chains is used by some sect of individuals as it looks like its generally accepted its a subtle way to push LGBT to be accepted by the society as normal. If you understand women subtlity, you will read their messages easily.

Agreed but like I said, some still use it for the love of it without attaching any meaning.

graciamore:
Lol please don't ohh..I no dey like to get issues with baba God, na only him be my source ohh..

I will unless you go bribe me! No fear, whether I report or not, he will still be your source, as he is for all of us.

Emilia154:
Which kind yama yama fashion b dat one?me wey be girl sef d thing day irritate me

people are different.

Emilia154:
Left leg na lesbian right leg na olosho.lol

not all, some rock it for fashion.

Calvary247

please go and modify your chats with messi. this is a very large community, before person go dey tell your Husband what's is not real just to spoil your marriage. thank you

Messi1:
Ok,

mm

DSTheGreat:
my mum left my dad some years ago due to infidelity, without divorcing him, she went ahead to have an affair with someone else, though my dad neglected his kids for some years, he is seeking to see those kids and my mum is hiding them from him, what do I do?, I'm sick and tired of it all

Let he not waste her time, she better allow him take responsibility of those children because if she suffer train them alone, they go still go find their father.

Tamilore11:
If at dis ur age, u can’t reason dat it was a typographical error, then I think u re cursed. A curse has been placed on u and will follow u to death. U shall be misunderstood by all and ppl will take u for a fool. The curse will bring pains, agony and anguish into ur life. U shall eat the sands of the earth in shame. U shall be mocked all ur days. I see u drinking the cup of bitterness and sorrow. I see u gnashing ur teeth in pains.

baba bros, this is unnecessary and childish! na waooo

Jubilancy:
mine ; lust

a lot of people are in that ship.

graciamore:
yes I did..thank you so much

You're welcome sweetheart but I will still need to report you to papa God sha....

NaijaMutant:
Fear women!
Men are scum!

To what end are we going to do this?

The amount of toxicity this has generated in the cyberspace these recent years will have a ripple effect on everyone without exception.

Let's state the fact here:

Men are capable of good and evil.

Ladies are capable of good and evil too.

The fact some men have done some terrible things to you doesn't mean all men are terrible.
The fact some ladies have shown you pepper doesn't mean that all ladies are part of the pepper Dem gang.

As we are becoming an educated generation, we should also avoid the error of wrong generalization as thought in philosophy and logic.

A man transferring his bad experience from a lady on another lady who doesn't deserve the ill treatment is barbaric and a savage act.

A lady manipulating and taking advantage of an innocent man due to what other men did to her is also a wicked act.

If we continue this cycle, we will end up creating monsters that will consume all of us.

If it doesn't affect you personally, then your children will also feel the brunt of your brutish act. What goes around, comes around.

If any gender betrays you or broke your heart, pls take it out with that individual. You're free to deal with the individual ruthlessly if you don't have a forgiving heart.

There's no justification for our toxicity.

I've met a lot of Good ladies who were heartbroken and shattered by some demons with a man's body

I've also met a lot of good men who were manipulated, emptied and dumped by some jezebels too.

For the sake of humanity, let's spread love and not hate.


NaijaMutant.

God bless you jare

This is terrible. I wish the guy quick recovery and a miracle.

Sanmel:
Hmmmmm..

say your mind ooo. A number of good guys are easily hooked with sex (I no say make person go do premarital sex oooo), the soji girls use that alot and you know it can only happen with good guys, you can't his hook a player even with pregnancy.

Mumchloe:
It is well o� happy weekend too

Thank you

Coronavirus84:
Come to ikwo village in ebonyi state, you will definitely believe it... Its a normal thing here in ikwo Village cos the villagers here are too dumb to know that the existence of vehicles is alive at this century

wao

Mumchloe:
Oya no vex,I won't laf again

I no gree, not accepted.
Happy weekend.

Mumchloe:
Wahala no too much like this? �Be calming down o

truly wahala too much ooo but I no wan dey calm down again. You just laugh me back to back...I dey vex jare

whoever did this painting is good!!

I don't believe this

Wittyglam:
he was very aware and is doctor friend too.

That is deception, the marriage can be dissolved on such basis. Na waoooo.

Divoc19:
So one can even get lift in this Lagos, unlike Abuja you get free ride everyday no matter your gender. Lagos seem more like an OYO kinda place for me. Maybe because am new...

Back to the matter... OP, you did well. That lady seem rude and saucy.

not true. Only few people. Most people for abuja no dey give free ride and few wey dey carry dey collect money though not all(except few). Maybe na because you be babe sha, una own dey different...

Mumchloe:
��.... sorry jare,it's quite funny!!!

This time, I'm not accepting the apology.

its unfortunate. May God bless mother and the child.

God bless him

Mumchloe:
Wahala �

you wan start again ba? now you've made me change my mind, I won't ask them again.

Couragejay:
i will try talkin to her but
eh nawa

please do. you cant blame her, its the love.