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Chinny024:
You owe yourself the obligation to be happy..
Oya come join WhatsApp group..

Learn from other people's experience,feel the fun and vibe.

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We need responsible men and women pls.
You won't regret being there!

when I get phone, I will join you guys.

Bros be careful with her, she lives you and wants you for keep.
One tell me back then that if I ready to marry her, she will get a divorce.
Marriage no easy but if yours is not abusive, its better to stay and try make it work instead of trying to run into another because that one could be worse.
Make God help all of us sha.

Blessedmercy8:
Ok. Your opinion.

yes!

sex is sex, I don't see anything wrong with any style couples chose to use as far as both parties are cool with it. God permits sex but didn't say we should do it in a particular way. You know how Adam and eve dey take knack?
What I may not agree with based on principle of God is anal sex.

Single mothers are like everyone else.

Some single mothers are very hardworking and some are better partner. Its about the person not because she is a single mother

Chinny024:
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Go and sleep. ....Wetin keep you awake till now......Having ulcer before now?....That's by the way shaa!

i'm waiting for you, I will go after you!
yeah but for awhile I was OK. meanwhile you didn't address the other stuffs I talk about. so you no sabi bear pain abi, chai aunty nurse!

come ooo, while are you still up? I don dey suspect you!

Chinny024:
How will I dash someone my child na... Haaa,after labour pains and hot fire....The only pain that has moved my brain to default setting even as a nurse...
Omo,I can't... Anywhere am going, gummed to my body ooo...How could they intimidate her to such an extent?...
They only wants that child to forget her and once detachment sets in,forget it...She will be a stranger to her own child..Tufiakwa

lol...you're very funny! Shey as nurse you suppose know the techniques and secrets na (I have seen aunty nurse that cannot bear pain, hahaha).
As a guy, I can't even let my child stay 2 months away, even one self talk more of years. Maybe because she is not a Nigerian, I will fight that fight oooo.
You're right, that boy no go know her again, they need to start all over again.

#Aunty nurse I'm having stomach abi chest pain, what do I do?

LadyRosa:
A man that starves his wife of sex isn't supposed to be comfortable in present day Nigeria.

It's so normal here where I live, married women cheat a lot. Op is a good wife.

Its not only where you stay but everywhere in Nigeria unless if you're not in Nigeria. Another thing is some are not cheating because Oga is starving them, na most of them dey starve Oga. My friend was complaining same thing to me 2 days ago. Marriage truly is not for children, like someone said, mostly its loyal to vow and probably God that most people in marriage don't cheat not because of their partner

LadyRosa:
Talk to your husband.
That's what I will do if I'm in your shoes.

"...I saw this man in the shopping mall...I was just staring at him...it was weird because he noticed it too then smiled.I was embarrassed..."

Omo, the discussion go change either for good or bad but the message is already passed. You need to get 4cked!

true, true and true.

Chinny024:
Get a good lawyer pls....I hate nonsense... To push out pikin no easy ooo...I can't trade my kids for anything..

very true. I'm surprise she allow the child stay with them till now.

Your first problem is that orientation, change it. We all have our time as long as we are alive, your time will come but you have to remain positive and appreciate God for life.
Some are in hospital without remedy, be grateful.

CorrectBizWoman:
I'm 27, my husband is 39 and we have 3 kids together. My husband is a very good man and has made this marriage journey very easy for me. It's true what they say that no marriage is perfect. My only problem with him is low libido resulting from putting unnecessary pressure on himself. Every other thing about him is 100%.

He looks at his friends that has hotels, hostels and so on and start comparing them with him. This actually started 3 years ago when our last born was 1. We are doing great financially but he wants more.

Last night, I tried initiating sex again and he began about how he's not in the mood because of money matter again. I just tire. We live in our own house, have a house with tenants, investments here and there, still my husband is not taking things easy.

I doubt he's cheating. I have access to his phone whenever I want. He don't hide it and has no sneaky character. I might be wrong though but I highly doubt that.

Just ordinary gisting with him, I'll be soooo Hot and wet. Even as I'm typing this I'm so in the mood. I think about sex with him all day long. It's crazy.

He's not like this before. Though he's not the sex type but it has gotten so bad. I'm so frustrated with him. I don tire.

I need mature suggestions on how to go about this minus cheating. He's too good to be cheated on.

Try talk to him, life is more than all those especially as you guys are not doing bad. He should be grateful for what he have already and take things easy, tomorrow he may be better than those guys. (hope you guys are not putting much pressure on him).
Try talk him to get down with you, initiate things if necessary, na your husband, tell him you need him, reduce him etc.
This life truly no balance!

CorrectBizWoman:
Please who else is been sex starved at home. I can count how many times we've had sex since dis year. Always money money money all the time which is beginning to bother a lot more on greed. We're very comfortable. Solid investments, own the house we live in.

He don't cheat at least none that I know of and he's very free with his phone.

I'm tired of living this way... Any help guys? He's the last person you can seduce. It just don't work with him.

To think it's this same man loves sex like crazy even after our kids before this money talks, makes me wonder how people change so fast

That's marriage for you. E get when I reach, I vex that I won't ask again but don't be angry. keep asking and keep disturbing him, na your man, seduce him, get into his and talk things out with him.
Its much easier to talk a married man into sex and the woman. chaiii, marriage no be for children oooo

pure love...I miss you mama!!

True

graciamore:
thank you sir, have a great day.

you're welcome ma and you too. Blessed day ahead

#so where is my bribe?

Preshieben:
I'm tireeeddd already

Is it just me or is there anyone who's experiencing this?

I'm actually a very forgiving person,
I mean, I forgive people who hurt me and move on with my life even without them apologizing,but I keep getting hurt over and over again.

One of my male friends and I had a misunderstanding five months ago which he claimed I insulted him and promised to deal with me...I sha took it jokingly till last week Sunday,he apologized and said we should get back to how we used to vibe before...I agreed.
Fast forward to Wednesday evening...we decided to hang out in his place(that was our normal meeting point before our fight tho)

He told me it was a trap after I entered the house and he locked the door,he said he was gonna deal with me for insulting him...long story cut short,he raped Me brutally without protection ( I've never had any sexual relationship with him before)
After the whole incident,I Left to the hospital and was examined,I was drugs and I got the doctor's report too and headed straight to SSS the next morning and made my complain with the prove,he was arrested and beaten,he admitted to raping me and was transferred to the police headquarters..
I was called this morning and the IPO asked if I really want him to go to prison or forgive him?


Omoh....remembering that rape is life imprisonment,I'm feeling guilty already and thinking of going to close the case.
WHY this Feeling
Why can't I just let people suffer the consequences of their actions?

that was bad, very bad. Its not your fault if he spend his life in jail, what he did was wrong and please don't feel bad but if you can forgive him them fine but what's the probability that he won't do that to another person?

zexy2030:
We live in a world of encryption and symbols. Some things u thing is harmless actually means a lot to the users. For instance rings on fingers: each finger represent something only for those who can decode. So u r innocent of u use none. No one can define you.

Leg chains is used by some sect of individuals as it looks like its generally accepted its a subtle way to push LGBT to be accepted by the society as normal. If you understand women subtlity, you will read their messages easily.

Agreed but like I said, some still use it for the love of it without attaching any meaning.

graciamore:
Lol please don't ohh..I no dey like to get issues with baba God, na only him be my source ohh..

I will unless you go bribe me! No fear, whether I report or not, he will still be your source, as he is for all of us.

Emilia154:
Which kind yama yama fashion b dat one?me wey be girl sef d thing day irritate me

people are different.

Emilia154:
Left leg na lesbian right leg na olosho.lol

not all, some rock it for fashion.

Calvary247

please go and modify your chats with messi. this is a very large community, before person go dey tell your Husband what's is not real just to spoil your marriage. thank you

Messi1:
Ok,

mm

DSTheGreat:
my mum left my dad some years ago due to infidelity, without divorcing him, she went ahead to have an affair with someone else, though my dad neglected his kids for some years, he is seeking to see those kids and my mum is hiding them from him, what do I do?, I'm sick and tired of it all

Let he not waste her time, she better allow him take responsibility of those children because if she suffer train them alone, they go still go find their father.

Tamilore11:
If at dis ur age, u can’t reason dat it was a typographical error, then I think u re cursed. A curse has been placed on u and will follow u to death. U shall be misunderstood by all and ppl will take u for a fool. The curse will bring pains, agony and anguish into ur life. U shall eat the sands of the earth in shame. U shall be mocked all ur days. I see u drinking the cup of bitterness and sorrow. I see u gnashing ur teeth in pains.

baba bros, this is unnecessary and childish! na waooo

Jubilancy:
mine ; lust

a lot of people are in that ship.

graciamore:
yes I did..thank you so much

You're welcome sweetheart but I will still need to report you to papa God sha....

NaijaMutant:
Fear women!
Men are scum!

To what end are we going to do this?

The amount of toxicity this has generated in the cyberspace these recent years will have a ripple effect on everyone without exception.

Let's state the fact here:

Men are capable of good and evil.

Ladies are capable of good and evil too.

The fact some men have done some terrible things to you doesn't mean all men are terrible.
The fact some ladies have shown you pepper doesn't mean that all ladies are part of the pepper Dem gang.

As we are becoming an educated generation, we should also avoid the error of wrong generalization as thought in philosophy and logic.

A man transferring his bad experience from a lady on another lady who doesn't deserve the ill treatment is barbaric and a savage act.

A lady manipulating and taking advantage of an innocent man due to what other men did to her is also a wicked act.

If we continue this cycle, we will end up creating monsters that will consume all of us.

If it doesn't affect you personally, then your children will also feel the brunt of your brutish act. What goes around, comes around.

If any gender betrays you or broke your heart, pls take it out with that individual. You're free to deal with the individual ruthlessly if you don't have a forgiving heart.

There's no justification for our toxicity.

I've met a lot of Good ladies who were heartbroken and shattered by some demons with a man's body

I've also met a lot of good men who were manipulated, emptied and dumped by some jezebels too.

For the sake of humanity, let's spread love and not hate.


NaijaMutant.

God bless you jare

This is terrible. I wish the guy quick recovery and a miracle.

Sanmel:
Hmmmmm..

say your mind ooo. A number of good guys are easily hooked with sex (I no say make person go do premarital sex oooo), the soji girls use that alot and you know it can only happen with good guys, you can't his hook a player even with pregnancy.