₦airaland Forum

okoroemeka:
I went to a burial last weekend in okigwe and a woman that is obviously married from her dressing approached me outside and bravely decleared her love for me,HMmmm,so she collected my number and called me at the spot and wanted me to save the number,I have no option but to save it with OTU OKIGWE,which means okigwe pussy,she has been calling since then but as an elder the days of fucking married women are behind me,let me focus on my small babes let my sin be smaller.

seriously, I like her gut but haven't seen or heard of a woman that will profess love directly like this before before, I know they mostly say it indirectly.

nice

when you hear some stories, you appreciate your family.
I remember my uncle rejected his late brother's car not to talk of fighting for it. They wont even consider the children and the widow. The painful thing is this thing happen in almost all part of the country.

Nursepepeye:
investigator should check the new husband for the murder

most people will agree with you because for a lady, the wedding is pretty fast.

frozen70:
Yes there are lots of men who loves marrying widows
They are not stressful to handle like the younger ones
At a stage in a man's life he wants a woman that will give him peace of mind
The matured women fell into that category

God bless you

sharone21:
Men started it now, carrying woman one week after wifey's death....Even when wifey is in labor...

So, don't blame women

if something is wrong is wrong, we should stop justifying what's wrong no matter the gender.

I noticed that most of the good topics that made FP today had responses full of sarcasm, jokes or plain rubbish. I noticed one or two of such threads that on the first page from beginning to the end, have at most 2 reasonable comments, others were nonsense (probably because of the way the comments were coming, People refused to give useful comments ).

Some people have stopped commenting or coming here entirely because of how toxic this place has become (with the level of depression and things that people are going through in real life) and types of comments they will be seeing.

Before now, its men vs women issues, Spreading bitterness and tribal war everywhere, now its sarcasm and distortion of all important thread.

some of us are addicted to this forum and get most major happenings around from here but if its trend is allowed to continue, it will be unfortunate as a lot of sane people will be avoiding here or refusing to pass important information/Messages here.

Please those that know those that call the shots here should please beg the mods to regulate things abit or give posters some opportunity to delete rubbish from his/her thread.

I come in peace...

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OboOlora:
Eye service from the locust-legged actress.
Instead of her to concentrate on feeding her ‘wife’, she de put mouth for Wetin nor concern am.

Aunty una dey quarrel before, this one harsh oooo. Take it easy please

Gold359:
He is handsome loyal caring and does not where is he?

why not modify the question

Kobojunkie:
About 6 years ago,right here in America, a Nigerian pastor told me that Nigerians don't commit suicide , that only Americans do. I wanted to slap this old man right there and then because suicide I had been aware of since I was just myself a child. The way I see it, many such Nigerians exists oblivious of the true nature of the suffering of others around them, this while holding, and brandishing strong opinions regarding that which they are totally ignorant of.

the truth is it wasn't as rampart as now and the news of it then wants circulating like now so most people thought it wasn't happening.
Its unfortunate that it has increased, the rise in cases of prolong stress, depression, anxiety, uncertainty, hopelessness and all that have increased the rate of suicide here. it has never being this bad

Kobojunkie:
Used to be more resilient? I don't particularly believe that as even during my secondary school days, I was aware of at least 5 suicide cases close to me(in my community) that were written off as spiritual attack cases, and this was decades before awareness came to Nigeria. So, instead Nigerians didn't believe suicide could happen to even one of their own so they chucked many of the deaths that resulted from it on supernatural causes.

Recall we are speaking of the same people who accused sickle cell anaemia patients of being abikus.

you may be right, maybe we were not hearing about it then like we are now, all thanks to social media.

Hamachi:
There is something about NIGERIANS �� I need to get off my chest...







I have had the opportunity to be around Nigerians and here are somethings I have noticed about the people within this nationality ��

��Supportive: Nigerians in my opinion are one of the most supportive nationalities within the Black Race. Their support for one another is admirable, and we witness this in their support for their Musicians, Athletes, etc which has helped to push them on international stages. I see a mentality of if you do it for one person, it benefits us all!

��Boldness & Courage: You can’t take this away from them! When a Nigerian enters a space you will know they have entered! Their great confidence to possess what they believe is theirs is mind-blowing.

��Humility: Now, hear me out. There is a unique trait of humility that these folks possess that would be beneficial to many. When they aspire to attain or achieve something, they have a humble, teachable spirit to acquire all the knowledge and skills needed to have it. My DMs are flooded with mainly Nigerians always wanting to learn one thing or the other. They are humble enough to recognize that they don’t know it all and fearless to ask for help. That’s the spirit!

I could go on and on and on about my dire admiration for NIGERIANS!������

Coming from a Uganda ��, I must confess that I LOVE ALL THINGS NAIJA ��✊�

I wanted to use this opportunity to celebrate all the Nigerians in this space! Keep shining and setting positive examples.

thank you, most Nigerians are that good though we have some few bad eggs(though they are still good in their own ways).

I hope you will pick one to marry!

Kobojunkie:
Back when I was young. It was a thing of shame and so many who took their lives didn't inform anyone. But thanks to social media and enlightenment, many now know depression is real and not associated with demons, so more people at least say goodbye before leaving. What we need next is for society to become even more enlightened in detecting and also tackling the issue that is depression.

true. but then, people use to be more resilient and not giving in to it, what really changed

hi, birthday mate! bibianna

hi, birthday mate!

very true. I miss my momma, the best ever! Hmmmm.

Figger:
Marriage is the only solution

marriage is not a solution, a lot of married people are still doing it. If you can't stop it now, it will still continue in marriage.

Virginprincesss:
Yes I am scared into getting into a relationship because I don't want to lose my virginity
I am in my middle twenties
Is it normal or I am just overprotective
Can guys really go into a faithful relationship with me without sleeping with me
I need your advice

its risky but its possible. I dated a lady in the past that was a virgin. I asked her and she said she wants to keep it so I respected that. we did everything except sex and I'm happy I didn't. Though you have to be very careful, She was so vulnerable at some point, guy some guys would have done it but I thank God I didn't
So you can date but you have to be extremely careful and he should be God fearing guy that respects you.

what's all this suicide everyday, God please help us!
why blackmail your wife? innocent children, I pray they find her alive!

she is not your God, if your mind is clear, nothing will happen, keep praying and huzzle more.

If e too much, you can separate from her for awhile

forget, we no dey carry food play oooo, only this one self fit make person marry. Wife material!

me, I no dey send anybody. They will always be looking at you once you say condom but I don't care.

Congratulations! Do it better next year

PlayMaker14:
Nothing new here.... Manchester United have been through hell and they're still going through hell.... Ever wondered why they were nicknamed “The Red Devils”


Chelsea will bounce back.


YNWA!!!

don't deceive yourself, even with united issues, we were still praying in Europe but the way Chelsea is going, if care is not taken even conference una no go see next season

RichAbujaGuy:
true statement. BB moved on after thrashing that kpekus real good ..
as the saying goes find dem, feel dem, f*ck dem, forget dem

you're bad guy.

Badadvisor:
Always so petty and dumb. Burna even sang a song about her how he misses her and joked about everything all. She's just so bitter. All women are the same all over the world.Very Entitled shallow reasoning species

I dey tell you, very true.

I pray both of you will reach a compromise, that's all I can say for you.

Best of luck to you guys!

#But Oga you no try oooo, are you sure you yourself will not need a small separation to clear your head and seat up?

ahnie:
My pleasure culf.

Thank you.

Dtruthspeaker:
You rightly said that it is not by going to church yet in the end you still instructed the going to church. You don cancel am be dat.

I didn't instruct her going to church (she is an adult), I only asked a friendly question as to why she has not been going?

Some ladies sha! They always take breakup personal, she is always shading him whenever she has the opportunity but I have not seem burna talk any sh*t about her, he will probably talk in her favour than the negative but most of them wouldn't.

ahnie God bless you, the upholders of the widows and fatherless will uphold you and bless you real good for this kind gesture.

love you loads!