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incredible. children don spoil finish

Romanoff:
And her pointed breast overrides all the qualities of a good wife.

See aunty.

I tire o

finally, 9mobile have review their data price. I was able to buy 3gig for 1500.
who else noticed this?

Bettymax:
I Got complains of black men especially Nigerian (men) who hate giving their wives or girlfriends a head and they expect the (women) to give them a (BJ) . Guys defend yourselves (Do you give your babe a head ) Ladies (Do you love getting a head)

who says we don't, we do. its the ladies that hardly returns the favour

this is good

when I was in school, an online lady once told me that she have a gay friend in abuja that she want to connect me with the guy, that the guy will take good care of me, bla bla bla.

eterisan:
In the end, we all pay for sex bro. Whether she is your fiance, side chick, wife or whatever. You have to give her something which most of the time involves money. So?

not everybody give something. secondly, even if one is giving something, it should not be money

Eulalia:
She has resigned to fate.

When a small girl will start carrying what is too much for them very early in life, why won't it become an ocean?
Continue consoling yourself until reality hits you when hubby returns you back to your parents and ask for a refund. Then you'll understand the importance of a tight hooha.

what is hoola?

may his soul rest in peace.


We all need to get closer to God, what will it profit someone if the person get everything but loses the soul

missimelda01:
So you will dash someone 5k for something that's free on the internet

How do you men think sometimes?

some men, don't generalize it please. some guys can never do pay sex or whatever

please go and marry.

Rukkydelta:
It's not by the calls and messages my dear
How many actually want something real?
Out of 10 guys that will approach a Nigerian Lady only 1 will be for real

you ladies actually prefer giving attention to the guys with 'unreal' intention.

Mindlog:
1. Did the man value or show care about his home by having a child outside marriage and keeping it a secret from his wife while being boastful about it with his friend?

2. What will the woman loose should they divorce?

like I said earlier, I'm not condemning the woman neither is the guy without blame.

if you're a home builders and keeper, before you compete, you think of your home first; she didn't do that.

mistakes happen, sh*t happens, its not always easy to tel partners that you have a child outside, even those that say it, plan it and it takes time, why is because they don't want their mistake to break their home. A man who keep a woman at home even after having a child outside knows her worth but being stupid doesn't make it right as 2 wrongs doesn't make a right

I don't want to sound discriminatory, this is Africa, men tend to have upper hands on almost everything about family/marriage.

my mother INLAW acted blindly, she was the first and today the only one standing in her husband's house, that is wisdom, that is a home builder, her 'stupidity' has paid off and she is staying put for her kids. A virtuous woman put her home first

wisdom is profitable to direct.

Mindlog:
You are not justifying the guy's action but only condemning the woman's.

Even if the home ends, the husband cannot send the woman packing rather he will be the one to leave the house with his things, he can go be a tenant somewhere else, marry his side chick and live with their daughter.

Deceit is equal, there is none better. So they both cancel out each other but the man losses more because in terms of custody of children the marriage may have produced, the woman is likely getting the bigger percentage.

I'm not condemning her, I'm only saying she is not wise, thank God for God, I can't marry such wife because she don't really value her home (marry). I put more emphasis on the woman because I believe in 'marriage is for ever' and also i'm a family (home) person and women are more home builders though not all but her action doesn't show that she care about her home.

I don't want to go into divorce, children custody, side chick, etc but do you really believe the man will loose more if they divorce?

here:
Both threads are wrong although have valid points. In all the real intentions are destroyed when you read the comments that follow. The generalizations on all single women and “Nigerian men” on both is just clear show of bitterness. However I advice ladies migrating even interstate in Nigeria to consider their love live as every aspect is important more so abroad. For the part that clearly seem to attack both gender in the threads or imply superiority/dumbness to a gender is completely unnecessary. Every article is meant to discuss both views and offer a way forward, I find that lacking in both and completely suggest the mods to delete both threads as they encourage hate.
My opinion

you go school!!!

Nice write up

promiscuity does not depend on where someone is from, it only depend on individual personal.

in same awka, there are also good and decent ladies

very safe, only let her be comfortable.

thank God for my wife, Can't wait to make good money so I can spoil her.

Its sweet to marry while hustling...

she is not a virtuous woman, she need to take a lesson from my mother-in-law. Its not smartness...

I'm not justifying the guy's action but if not prayer she won't enjoy her marriage and home till the end.

I pray it gains further

Interesting....don't know what to believe.
Thank God for God

They those involved are married, why not?

most people are hungry, very hungry

they try

great and insightful.

I know majority of ladies on nairaland will disagree with her.

getting her high to take advantage of her is very wrong. Thank God she is smart!!

what a story. Thanks for sharing your story with us, its inspiring and encouraging.




Rip in peace to Shola.


Thank you Lord

if he truly said this, then its highly unfortunate

we have spoilt our world.


we really need to change our orientation and mindset, everything should not be sex, sex sex.

Every relationship between a male and a female mustn't end in sex and opposite sex visiting you don't necessarily mean sex must be involved.


I really pity most guy. Guys are sooo cheat, must you sleep with anything on skirt, how many will you sleep it?


we seriously need personal discipline when it comes to sex and relationship/friendship will opposite sex