humility101: I met this lovely lady (30 yo) online 2 months ago. She is in Nigeria and I’m in the Uk. We have been actively chatting, phoning and having lots of facetime. She’s got all they qualities I need in a wife. She has also gone to see my peeps once and they said nice things about her.
I’m planning on wedding her this Christmas and she can join me immediately (UK can be very lonely without a partner) on a dependent visa.
But sometimes I pause and ask myself, I hope I’m not rushing this whole thing? I hope she is not pretending to be nice? I hope she truly loves me? I hope she is not seeing me as a means to japa? A lot of questions going through my mind. This is marriage and I don’t wanna make mistakes.
Advice me please.
You are surely going to regret ever doing this bro.
She knows what she want from you, but all you see is love.
She's going to change within a year of joining you.
captaininiobong: Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.
I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.
When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.
We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.
Brother, God wouldn't show you what will kill or destroy you. You better start thanking your stars for letting you know what you are going to face in the marriage with her.
Stop messaging or calling her.
Kindly send her a message that you are calling it quits.
ScamHunter: It has useless all the ransom naira they stashed in the forests. I see Fulani kidnappers all over the country start demanding ransom in dollars. I see Gumi boys push the demand for USD higher. I see $1 spike to #1300 by December 2022.
Dear Wife, Enjoy your own reality that you created for yourself and stay blessed...!
You've tolerating her sh*ts for long and that's why she think she can treat you anyhow. This one of what happens when you take a wife or husband from home where love and respect for one another is dead.
I'm sorry, though I'm a gentle type, but I can't take all these.
StagethemTVee: Members of the Lagos State Park and Garage Management ( formerly part of NURTW) are seen at the unveiling of their new uniform, singing and showering praises on their leader MC Oluomo.
The lyrics of the song says, "they have succeeded easily and without stress".
Sonofgoodness: My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few weeks now. Her ex has been begging and sometimes forcing her to come back but she refused. She fears the guy because he is an angry and sometimes do beat her while they were dating. Her ex has called severally in my presence and he usually shout and sound rude when trying to tell her to come back. My girlfriend is a girl that is easily afraid. Since we started dating,he has been luring to come. At first,he said the girl should come and collect her sim card, another time shoes and now clothes. She wants to go and collect those things but she ask for my permission to go and take her things. I gave her three conditions Which is 1. She must record all their conversation when she gets there 2. She must collect all her things that very day because I will never allow her go there again 3. She must go with someone. But you know these can't work. What should I do? No insult ...
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Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .
My relationship has not been a rossy one at all, I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness, but believe me, the girl I'm dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues, disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her, she always overrides me. I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting (countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel.
Should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6 years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni, I respect her even in her absence, but she has mingled with different guys that has cost out relationship, in all these she claims she has done nothing wrong.
The main issue of all right now is that her boss, she once worked for who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around, always, hotel, even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together, knowing that he is a married man, called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back, even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her, during and after NYSC he kept calling her for him to have a bite, same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him, though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self, but I won't like to share here how I got to know.
The same man she has been avoiding for years, that she doesn't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer, then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it, was shocked and trying to reason why she did that, she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision, she began to yell at me on phone, as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now?
Please help me push it to the front page. She is a Nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does. Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision.
If you are reasonable, relationship isn't a "DO OR DIE AFFAIR"
Vix805: mine was a refurbished, rebranded cool pad turned tecno camon.yes, you know the one.
Things were terrible for us and I needed a phone that could WhatsApp cause I was returning back to school.
When I went to buy it,i saw smaller vivo phones but then this big screen thing entered my eye and after checking the settings I saw 4gb ram ,64gb ROM. Wowza!! and it was cheap too just 10k. In my mumu mind i thought I had made a steal ,ah! I don suffer.
On getting home with my new device I did the needful and charged it , if you see slow charging ,chei! and then the 2500 mah removable battery dies like reverse flash. zoom! playstore wasn't working. I had to collect the little apps I could from my younger sister. and some didn't even install.
4gb ,64gb oshi.became 1gb 11gb .
Then the charging ic spoilt after 2 weeks.i had to buy desktop which ended with the battery being spoilt. imagine charging something With desktop for 12hrs only to get 5 percent..
Before the charging ic spoilt ,the battery kept depleting itself,driving me nuts.
In the end,after the battery spoilt i was reduced to using Nokia battery with paper wedged in the back and eventually I went to church one morning,returned to see that there phone had given up on me. system crash.
Dozzywest: World Snake Day, held every year on July 16, aims to increase awareness regarding the over 3,500 snake species that exist across the world. Yes, that’s a lot of snakes! And, guess what? Not all of them are as scary or poisonous as we believe them to be. The fascinating reptiles are often not given the recognition they deserve just because of the bad reputation they have earned over the years. For instance, a friend who is a traitor is known as a ‘snake.’ The day aims to change the negative perception surrounding snakes and promote the love for all living beings — even the ones we fear.
Romance › Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by daddio(m): 10:09am On Nov 13, 2022
