₦airaland Forum

Muzanga:
Nairaland small boys will come and call her a hoe in 5 4 3 2...

UrbanExotica:
Neither can it bring back your sense

Humblega:
Nairaland monitor this woman from when she was pregnant (if not from the d day her kpetus was knack self). she has given birth already yet they refuse to stop.


another episode is stepping out

next can be going to party.....


hope we wont continue till the pikin self can drive .............

Mindfulness:
You have perfectly summarized the nonsense advice here. Had I listened to such nonsense, I would have ended with a man I would by now be very tired of, to say the least. Thank God I was stubborn enough to wait for my own time and on my terms.

Immaculatesnow:
So na women dey carry this molestation for head baa, carry on women you all have succeeded in bringing this old man down

Abegee I want to buy a verified Nigerian AdSense account

Mindfulness:
I will always say it. If it is not a "HELL,YES!" it is a "HELL, NO!".

Marriage is supposed to be a long term commitment so you should be eager to embark on this journey with someone you love and who loves you too. If you are simply looking for some sort of security then it is enough for him to love you and treat you nice.

You may learn to love him in time but you may also grow increasingly intolerant of him because, no, love is not a decision. It is a feeling. It is deep, intense and it is strong. When you love a man, only looking at him gives you pleasure and even years into the marriage, he can easily take your breath away. You smile when you think of him and being together is fun and easy. You feel at home with him and at your best.

Isn't it what we ALL are looking for? This supreme feeling of love? We only settle for less because we give up on the belief that it is possible or for some reason feel unworthy of this kind of love. You have given up on this dream rather early.

Mindfulness:
I think you were and I think I did. And this is the kind of nonsense that makes people settle for less.

tintingz:
Rushing into marriage hoping things will change is not certain and not a good advice.

adioolayi:
Instead of Mod to open a thread for strike update.... you pushed a unverified claims to front page...continue

SaintLucia:
Wait and see wetin? Today is environmental in all markets. Most self-employed people will never participate in this their useless strike.

The market men/women will soon open their shops after the environmental. Many states are yet to implement the 18k and NLU have not be taking action in states where governors are owning salaries.

Labour Union are so selfish and only fight for their interests, there are many casual workers without letter of employment in Nigeria and labour isn't doing anything about it. There is this issue of age barrier and discrimination where public and private sector will not give you job because of your age even though you are qualified.

These are also part of what labour union should be fighting for. Minimum wage is a constitution if signed into law, at it stand today, not all state can implement what they are fighting for.

Crossbow:
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torqque7:
Ha women are very complicated. If a guy talks, you will say he talks too much, now he listened to what you wanted to say and it has now become an issue?Choi smh

Jozzy4:
Daeylar I can understand you.

True, its wrong to abuse a female and leave the male alone even though both committed the offence together.

But in this hypocrite society we live in. the females are abused far more than the Men.

A man sleep with many girls and he is praised . while a lady does same and got tagged different demeaning names . true its silly.

But knowing this fact that the society isn't fair to women should help a woman think twice before venturing into such acts .

this does not mean am praising a man who engage in promiscuity, such a man as far as am concerned lacks sense. If you know how much some men spent just to get sex of few mins, one will know they are really useless

Brightgem:
what you have said I have addressed countless times all over NL even under this thread, I can't begin repeating myself. I am sure u also address things as they arise and give a particular angle in that moment. So I may not talk about men here but I always do,

in the end they are the real problems but fact is they get away with these acts,

While Ladies Get Tagged Hoes,

or get pregnant or have to abort, so who carries the bigger burden?

Hope u get the point.

As for ur last question, I dnt understand what ur asking.

However personally I dnt want to end up with someone with a ridiculous body count, like has slept with all his female friends, neighbors, married friends etc. Abeg, I can't be trying to be upright and end up with that kind of male hoe! So it matters to me,

I dnt mean u have to begin telling how and where u did what but that kind of history of excess can't be hidden. If I know I will rather shift.

Shugavee:
My biggest turn off is a guy listening to me with out contributing, some guys think it’s cute, but its not, u wanna know a lot about me but u don’t wanna talk about you? As soon as I notice, I either lie abt myself or keep quiet n let our friendship die a natural death

ritylove:
smh

Brightgem:
NO. Very wrong. What is happening to our moral compass! Small thing a lady is called Hoe, yet some dumb ass ladies are saying yes. So how many guys will u sleep with in the name of cohabiting before u marry lass lass. I can't comman be preaching. Morally, wrong. Religiously, wrong.

chiommy123:
I also think it's wrong and it affects the girl more negatively. The guy can easily move on even in the same environment

PRESENTATION:
why I nor go mean something? People like me wella oh nor go dey do like that jare

Yambee:
I can be my father for you.

So feel free to sleep with me.

IamLEGEND1:
Thank you, kind lady.

You're welcome

it's weird seeing around these parts.

Is that so?

Parts that are not Game of Thrones-related, that is.

IamLEGEND1:
This, right here, is our problem. it's not like we lack the ability to empathize with others who are unlike us, we just choose not to.
To accept homosexuality as simply an alternative lifestyle means accepting your own lifestyle isn't the only right one, and isn't necessarily better than that of the other person. This opens up a whole can of worms for some people that they aren't ready to deal with, so all the bottled-up insecurities just come rushing out.

I'll give you an example. it's not the same thing, but I hope it gives you some insight into how this whole thing works.

See, back when I was younger, I went to a boarding school where we all went to the kitchen, got our foods and returned to the hostels to eat. Now, I'm left-handed, and to some people, that is taboo. I had a friend who had nothing to eat that day and I offered him my food. We got our spoons and settled down to eat, then he saw me trying to reach into the dish with my left hand. He quickly dragged the whole plate away and said we wouldn't eat if I didn't switch back to my right hand. this guy was twice my size and I clearly couldn't fight him if I tried, but I stood my ground and said no to his demands. Don't forget that this was my food but because he thinks he's the one using the 'right' hand, he has a right to dominate and tell me how to eat my food. Another guy, older, overhead us and stepped in, but can you guess whose side he was on? Of course you can , and you did. He took the other guy's side and his reason for that was because he too used his left hand once but with his parents 'guidance' (AKA beating) he learned to use his right, so why can't I?
I was born left-handed, but someone who was born right-handed finds it hard to believe that I just grew up to find myself the way I am, just like he was.

In the end I forfeited my food to this guy. That is what overwhelming opposition with a sense of right can do to you.
But as I got older, I made it a point to use my left hand as often and as publicly as I can. Make I see who go yarn me dust.

maybe that experience has shaped how I see things today, I don't know, but anybody's lifestyle that clearly has nothing to do with me and doesn't hurt me is fine by me.

You should try it sometimes, letting go of all that hate frees up a lot of emotional disk space, I promise.

sassysure:
A man that loves a wife like this lady is battling with very low self esteem. If she starts work or hustling, she will be richer than me, men will admire her more, I won't be able to monitor her movement etc. So many disguise on taking care of the children anthem to hide such insecurity.

And I must agree with you, most of the ladies want such life.
As long as the man is going out there and bringing in the mo money, they are good. Top it with a car, what else do they need?